Toks2008: I watched a program on YouTube where the issue of pornography was discussed and i find it interesting to build on what was discussed as i strongly believe it will be of great benefit to everyone.
Below are seven reasons you should disconnect yourself from Pornography
1. IT DECREASES SELF ESTEEM IN MEN In Porn videos, the average size of the actor's vital part is between 8 to 12 inches long but in real life, the average size is between 5 to 7 inches long. The actors are recruited because they have a larger than normal size and this must never be seen as the norm because only less than 5% of men world wide have a size longer than 7inches whilst the remaining 95% are between 5 to 7inches size when erect.
So this is a takeaway I want you to have that pornography consumption decreases self-esteem in men because they tend to compare themselves with the porn actors when it comes to penis size and even men with perfect size will always see themselves as inadequate because they just can't help comparing their size with that of the freaks in the porn video. The simple truth is that a lady in the real life does not need an extra big penis size to enjoy real sex and several researches have proved that an average size is preferred by most ladies.
2. Most Women are not interested in the extreme acts you see in porn videos like aggressive, rough, Anal, gang s*x and several other types of sexual acts that are not realistic . The act of real sex in real life is that of connection, understanding , comfort ,pleasure without body twisting , true feelings happiness, fulfilment and lots more so you do not bring the act you see in porn to real sex in real life.
3. UNREALISTIC LIBIDO The instant turn on and readiness for sex and the longevity of the intimacy is totally unrealistic. The reality is that these actors are mostly on sex inducing products that give them the instant kick but in the real world it does not work that way all the time in fact most times people in the real world need a lot of time to get in the mood because in most cases, most people would have had a busy day and will need time to rest and get into the mood and sometimes many people are weighed down by so many factors that mitigate against having sexual urge hence the need to have a longer time to get into the mood. It is not also realistic for a sexual intimacy to go on and on as seen in porn but as i wrote earlier, these porn actors are induced in such a way that they can have instant attention and also go on for several minutes but in the real world, any intimacy that lasts between 3 to 6minutes is perfectly ok. This false representation as seen in the porn world is the reason why many ladies erroneously believe that their partners have sexual problems but this is not the case.
4. Pornography is basically performance oriented which means this actors have one primary goal which is to perform for the viewers whether they are in the mood or not and to impress the viewers because that is what they are paid to do. In real life, intimacy is never about performing to impress anyone but it is about connection , getting ready, being in the mood, enjoying the company of the person and it is about feelings which is subject to several factors hence intimacy must not be satisfying all the time and the two people involved must have an understanding in that regards.
5. Pornography create anxiety, Shame and sometimes depression as a result of an isolated life created by porn addition. Viewers tend to fantasize about an unrealistic act thereby drifting away from the reality of what intimacy stands for. The more you watch porn the more you get isolated from the world. Real sex is supposed to bring you to connect with a real person in a real-world that will most likely literally lead to real sexual relationship. Porn Sex in most cases lead to sexual dysfunction in men as a result of addiction to fantasy sex and for the ladies, it usually lead to lack of interest in any man that does not fit into the image of the actors in the porn scenes. Men in the real world ae not porn stars and you should not expect them to be.
6. Most Ladies in the porn videos are not what they seem: many men are usually carried away by the curves, boobs and booties they see in porn and they always expect to see same in the real world but this is not so. Most of the ladies in the porn videos have altered bodies just to make them more acceptable for the job. In the real world, guys must learn to accept ladies the way they are without having too much expectation or body shaming them.
Most ladies you see in the porn videos also use enhancing products to increase their libido and also reduce the pains they go through which is why they can indulge in sex with multiple men, appear to enjoy the extra large organs and take several positions effortlessly... But please that is not the way it is in real life so no man should expect a normal lady to do same acts as this may lead to unpleasant consequences.
7. Porn is fake and none of it is real .Most of the actress don't want to be there and they hate what they do . Many of them when interviewed have expressed how disgusted and depressed thy feel after they put up a performance. So why use a fake life as a comparison to the real world.
Hope this helps.
your head no correct so you mean Johnny sins, queen Mary 9ja , Krissyjoh , kira noir don't enjoy porn
Hello Nairalanders. I have found my stolen car, alongside the thief. The guy was caught around General Paint (Just after Ajah and Abraham Adesanya) where I believe he had intended to sell it off to those that butcher cars. I really want to thank and appreciate everyone and this forum for helping me put out word and for the kind gesture I've received from a lot of you.
JayCynic: Now that he's scored the hype will be everywhere, notice how nobody is praising Pogba despite his brilliant performance, notice how they are saying that he plays better than teenagers at 37 but once he just stops scoring, the blame suddenly will be on Rashford, Rangnick, Bruno Fernandez, Fred, English FA, Sepp Blatter, Putin, Nnamdi Kanu, and the Pfizer vaccine, that's when they'll somehow remember that age has caught up with him.
My guess is many of her family members are illiterates that why they are behaving like this !
with all this misappropriation they would just make the case become shit. They have a lot of evidence with them but if the family are still playing it this way then I guess the table might turn!!
Chimaobison: come to think of it , it appears that this celebration usually take another step in the correctional centers(prison) yearly but it didn't receive public attention till CHIDIMMA OJUKWU came in. In this life no matter where one finds him/herself destiny will always has it's way of showing up[/s]
which Kain yeye destiny she murdered someone in cold blood stabbed him severally and left him to die.....
Cringelife: It's mid night and heavy rains and I hear the sound of glass breaking and my car horn....
Picked up my phone touch and a stick, ran straight to my dad's room to get the main door key, opened his room door; and boom.....I saw @$@$$#@$$2@#$_@.
The really annoying thing is that I froze for like 3 seconds with touchlight in hands (wasn't with my glasses so really didn't see well) until my mum screamed at me to get out.......I feel so embarrassed and how do I get that image off my head......
It's my bad habit of not knocking before entering that put me in this situation but you can't blame me......am in my 20s and have never seen my Nigerian parents intimate with each other plus I was raised in a semi Deeper Life family so am sure you understand how shocked and embarrassed am currently feeling.
Just had to share this anonymously on Nairaland probably to get it off my chest......
does your dad has a big VITAMIN D so he can hit your mum center of gravity?
As a freethinker I do go to church solo sometimes.
After a service our Pastors wife invited me to come to their house that I should help install a ceiling fan for them which I decided to do after service for them.
Though it was the pastors wife that was around. She is a policewoman while helping them Install the fan in their room so I needed something to stand on so I can fix the fan. So she moved one of the tables in their room so I could stand on it. When she moved the table underneath the table where it was positioned before I saw a seaman schnapps bottle mixed with some substance in the bottle.
So am wondering is could this pastor believe in local stuffs upon all his shouting on the altar ?
Segzydaniels: A video which showed moment an angry man got calm after hearing that the man he wants to fight went to jail and became President of his cell, has gone viral online.
The man who was threatening to violently attack his opponent over an undisclosed issue, backed out after being told that the young man he was threatening went to jail in 2017 and became President of his cell.
The young man went on to ask him if he could achieve same, threatened to stab him and go back to jail
I stumbled upon this post and I laughed my ass out.... But on a serious note loan agents have caused more harms than good I don't blame the people for these actually .
Help2020: No,I've never been there. But I need stable electricity when I comeback to Nigeria. I was thinking of going to Abuja,but still like the security is also bad.
losak9111: Don't kill yourself because of high standard of life without high level of cash. This my wedding cost me less than twenty-five thousand naira (#25,000). Simple dress, the one I have on my hanger, The best thing is that am happy with my wife. In fact, no food, no even pure water and no cameraman I used my phone. Na only thank you for coming
kayperry: you are right no doubt for, but you are forgetting even as a resident in osun you need employment(earnings) to enjoy most of those facilities, the question you need to answer is what are the job opportunities likes in osun and why is OP in lagos.
LightDreamer: Hello. I guess you want to know why you or someone else had dream of food consumption.
CAUSES: My dear reader. I want you to know that anytime you have a dream of eating food - cooked food or fruits, it is a terrible sign that demonic spirit of death and destruction are after you.
You may not understand that this is a big and serious sign of a coming trouble. You may even laugh as you read this article. But the fact remains that there's nothing you can do against the truth.
Eating in dream is a death sentence. Not only that. It kills your life's resources and health. After much fighting the wind, you lose hope and so, begins to curse. You become foolish and often fall prey to enticements and sins. People press charges against you for your sins. And so soil your spiritual garment.
RESULTS: As a result, you will be deceived and disillusioned, believing you did nothing wrong against God or mankind. In turn, others will rebel against you and you'll find yourself risking your life all the time, with feeling of insecurity. Not only that, afflictions which defies medical treatments may encroach into your body due to your ignorance.
SOLUTIONS: God is the only solution this problem. On your own part, you will need to have faith in order to receive the benefits of healing. If you combine certain herbal materials and drink, it will altar your deoxyribonucleic acid called DNA in your body. Your DNA will be empowered to speak as God to the healing angels which will inturn bring about perfect body, soul and spiritual restoration. Let me know through my email if you need a Denetic Doctor who will produce a wine to cure your dream eating disorder. Read Psalm 54 over the ready wine mixed from fruits. Here I have posted it. Psalm 54 God, give me help because of your name. Use your power to make me safe.
God, hear my prayer and listen to what I am saying.
Because my enemies are fighting against me and cruel people are trying to kill me. They do not think about God.
But God, listen and give me help! Lord, it is you that keeps me alive!
Send back this evil to my enemies. Because you (love what) is true, destroy them.
I want to sacrifice to you because I am free to do it. I want to praise your name, LORD, because it is good.
Your name saved me from all my trouble. When I looked at my enemies I saw that I had won the battle.
Contact me if you have questions or need help through my email. You will conquer and conquer in Jesus Christ name. Amen.
Thank you. The Light Dreamer
I dreamt of eating money what is the meaning sir ?
Skyview01: I was in Oshogbo about 17years. Omo, i fell in love with the place. Constant electricity, clean tarred road no noise and Lagos pollution. I will rather live in my village and farm than live in Lagos. I despise the place.
am telling you bro no dirty looking agbero shouting up and down you can walk late sometimes without fear of cultist or area boys Oshogbo is very peaceful.
Romance › Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by badboyTee(m): 10:36am On Mar 13, 2022
so you mean Johnny sins, queen Mary 9ja , Krissyjoh , kira noir don't enjoy porn 
