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He is still acting movie at the house of assembly...what do they do there anyways

db10dtruth:
Fellows I need help.

During my early uni days I got carried away by extra activities which pretty much cost me academically and even if I am among the best in my dept my result suffered, as a result my CGPA was embarrassing to say the least.

Upon resuming 300 Level, a good friend of mine did not resume, after a few weeks I was worried as you would expect so I traveled down to his family's house to inquire since his number was not going through and was told about his sad demise. He had an accident which cost him his life. I was saddened by what had happened because he was really good and was most probably the 4 best student in the dept, strong CGPA, a 2.1, he was really good not just academically but he had pure natural talent and the way I see it was the hope of his family.

On my way back so many thoughts were running through my mind....my result is poor and there's absolutely no way I can improve on that and still graduate with a 2.1 or even a 2.2 so I made a resolution.

On getting to the hostel I reflected on the whole thing and decided not to tell anyone but our course adviser. My friend was not the type that socialize, some persons in the dept don't even know him that well. He does all his things low-key, he's a very private person so I made an arrangement with our course adviser where I managed to convince him that it will be a shame if he's hard work is allowed to go to waste and amount to nothing, as usual with financial persuasion he allowed me to write his exams, I wrote both our exams until graduation where I graduated with a 3rd class and him a 2.1.

To cut a long story short, I did a change of name and began using his result; all this without anybody's knowledge but me and our course adviser.

It was very complicated but somehow I managed to use his result and even studied abroad with it, got my masters and other professional certificate before I got a 6 figure job in Lagos and came back home.
Ever since I got back I have been doing really well for myself and I have gone as far as taking good care of his family financially as well as training his siblings in school and presently sponsoring 2 in the university. I rented an apartment and bought his dad a car, I know it will never suffice for what their son may have done but I'm only trying the little I can to compensate for their loss as well as for pretending to be their son without their knowledge.

About 8 months ago I met a girl and we fell in love, we've been dating and 2 months ago I pooped the question and she accepted. We've been making our wedding arrangements but ever since I feel I have been hiding my real self from her and decided to tell her what I did many years ago. Initially there was no reaction but then this week she came to me and said she cannot get married to a fraud and gave me back the ring.
I'm scared and confuse she may ruin everything, she may reveal my secret which obviously will get me fired and most definitely a jail time. I don't know what to do, I have tried to reason with her and have done way too many explanations but she's not bulging. I don't want to go to jail and I don't want to lose my job. I'm really confuse. What can I do to change her mind or make her not to tell on me or get me fired or even worse go to jail?

Please I need help, real help please....you guys should share your wise words. I can't tell any of my friends, I can't tell anyone about my secret, this is the only place I can pour our my heart and seek advice.

I am dying inside. I have gone through a lot living this life of lie and its so hard but I cannot come clean, not now maybe not ever.


Cc: Lalasticlala

Assuming your story is true..

Pray to God to forgive you..

Do NOT TELL YOUR Friends family..
Their believe would be that you might know sth his death..

Try reason with your girl... If she no gree..leave her and move on..jf she tells anyone, deny the story as false..

Lesson learned.... There are stories that are never to be told...

Ma broda, am not a moral judge, who am i to judge you Again, if this your story is true, your friend must have forgiven you atleast for taken care of his family they ways you said you did..

Again don't forget, Abraham did deny his wife at a time...
So again, do not tell your friends family ( it will cause more harm than good) and deny the story if your girl tell anyone else and keep your hand clean.. Keep your head up...

Some bobos don dey paranoi already

The one kneeling down, second from left is what i want for Christmas

Who do you think is the prettiest?

idokojerry:
Use ucbrowser

What'sm uc browser? Is it like Google chrome or firefox?

eme1n:
Rename and add the .Jpg at the end...

My phone doesn't give me option to rename any pics...

I don't have this issue when i download pics from my pc.. Just when i try downloading from my phone... This only happens when i try downloading pics from nairaland.

Thank you for your anticipated assistance

Sai Baba

But na wa for miss Mali ooo

Miss Ivory coast make sense...

That evil spirit will soon drag him to kirikiri

Buhahahahahah

She got owned..

Awwww poor baby

Mofo is high on akure weed

Adjusts my tie.... Name Checkers Association Abuja branch reporting for duty..

Yep... I knew it was them

No comment

Signed,

Abuja Branch

President Joachim is a " ceremonial" leader.. Per German law, the chancellor calls the shot.

Yes, Angela Merkel is more powerful.

Jagagban be like.. E don tey wey ñyash dey back

Saraki be like, jez why are you doing this to me

Oruebube was like, na so i take end my political career Where is GEJ All the peeps wey follow me share the money

mascot87:
Buhari Ministers don die be that. If i see any minister anywhere eating food wey pass #1,000, i go snap the pix send am to Bruce

Yes, this is the change we voted for

One origin for you ma broda

Also ministers shouldn't have more than one bottle of origin

There is no likely question or unlikely question.... If you are honest they will issue you your visa....

You could read the thread on travel section .... Non immigrant visa ..... By AbujaNIV.

Don't forget, be honest in your interview!!!

Good luck

Swiftboy:
asking for secession is a crime against the federal republic of Nigeria. I wonder why you guys dont get it yet.

Ebi like say them just buy phone give you abi

Ahmedhussain3463:
imagine hw shallow minded u r|we talking abt deductive reasoning here is talking abt stool|any way i dnt engage in arguement wit people who av small mind like u|bt obidience is beter dan sacrifice dt all i knw

Let me know when you reach the milestone below...

GentleToks:
Not by obstructing major highways in the country. If these guys try this rubbish in US or UK.......

Where are you getting your info from Where in this article did it state they would block highways

By the way what part of the world do you live Maybe Otuoke but have you heard of the black lives matter protests in the US

oluwafemi113:
you call that a peaceful protest by blocking a federal Road that lead to other state of the country....

Ebi like say them just buy phone give you abi

Can't you read a post before quoting someone

I said, "if" it was a peaceful protest... And by the way it is allowed by the constitution of the federal Republic of Nigeria.. Recall, Freedom of expression

Ahmedhussain3463:
u call a protest dt threatened our national integration as a country a peaceful protest abi?d gods u mention nw r watching u o|

E bi like say them just buy phone give you abi
Anyways, na you get your mouth, you fit use am chop shìt

charlesucheh:
you're the biggest fool that has ever lived on the surface of this planet, but before you react like one, which school you even go? COW!!!

Ogbeni na you get your mouth, you fit use am chop shìt

They don talk am say every day is for the thief, one day is for the owner

MTN been dey fûck us up before, but at this great atyma.. Our turn don reach. May them do quick pay up jor

Just not happy the way SA business disregard our Nigerian societies.. Check shoprite, DSTV .. They chose which court judgement to adhere to... And now MTN
The next on the line would be DSTV..

Serves them right

Why do SA company always disregard Nigerian laws even court orders MTN , DSTV

DSTVs own is worse .they pick and chose what court injunctions and judgements to adhere to

All other network complied except MTN They should pay up jor Nonsense.... That fine will increase next week monday let me them now incase they don't already know.... Rubbìsh...

Here in France, we don't tolerate this kind of bullshìt

If the protest was peaceful or scheduled to be a peaceful protest, I see no reason why IGP would be making such statement. In that case the statement from IGP sounds more like a "threat" to democracy, if it was a peaceful protest..

Also be mindful, IPBO all have the right to free speech and should be allowed to express themselves as long as the protests were "peaceful".

Finally, I rest my case to the gods because the gods are wise...

Stamford bridge is falling down if the players continue playing like this

Of course if 9ja win.. He would deny that statement as false..

And a so called "pastor" mrs got the nerve to sign that letter.. Bunch of hypocrites

Let them move the media center to Sambisa Forest