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babyosisi: It is you that is a thief!!

Please you folks should stop using the word steal
I am getting upset
A wife can never never steal from her husband
The word steal does not even come near inside matrimony
No labels please

Wu says so, u ar jst trying 2 justify ur deeds, wat does not belong to you is not yours, if u take it den it is stealing.

What if ur child takes(steals) ur money, ar u not his/her parent, so do we say a child does not steal 4rm his parents! Hell no! Its lyk saying our leaders ar not stealing cos its dia country or sm1 stealing church's momey nd u say its his church, its not stealing.

I disagree wif u on dis, taking sm1elses property, item, money.... Is stealing, no oda 2 words 4 it, u can ask d peson dats d solution!

Anoda tin is dat she said her conscience pricks her, ur conscience does not prick u if wat u doin is ryt, it pricks u if it wrong, nd u ar trying 2 cast it out, dats wrong, ama lady 2 aldo not yet married!

I think she needs 2 get a job, being a stay at home mum is outdadted nd not a gud decison, apologise 2 ur husband nd stop d act, dats d only way u can av a free conscience, don't b lazy earn ur own money, nofin feels gud more dan dat, trust me, no mata au much!

Nice post but i must say dia is no formula or recipe for successful marriage, it only takes Gods grace, courting 4 a long period of time does not neccessarily guarantee dat u know d peson weell, cos pple can pretend it's afta u don enta am den u begin 2 see dia real character, most pple ar wolves I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ sheeps clothing..

No, it's not very good for a husband and a wife to operate a joint account, even though it depends on the parties involved.

I would have this to say: "The husband is the head of the family and should truly be head to everything, including finanancial spending" so why must he be interested in the wife's money.

The woman should be allowed to use her money as it pleases her and the husband's own must be for the family's upkeep.

Death is inevitable and so what might happen after one partner dies should be considered, so that accounts should be operated separately.

I know of a family lyk dat nd dey cope very well, d responsibility of d woman should not change, she should still L♥√ع him, respect him, not bossy, humble nd treat him well, see it as no biggo, mayb dat d way its meant 2b 4 sum. Don't turn im to a messanger, no abusive words, nd most importantly defend im amidst frends, nd encourage im 2.

What is wrong is wrong, dia is no oda word 4 it.

Ask ur sef would you lyk if sm1 else did such 2 u, mayb ar own children sef, infact its a sin, cos it is stealing, if u must do such, ask him, nd if u do such because he is stingy or wateva, inform him latern imagine dis man as bin nuturing d feelings dat it is his sister, don't betray ur spouse trust because of money, wu knows he myt av given you freely, nd if not, be contended wit wat u av.

Contentment wit godliness is gain

Firstly I want you to know dat dia is noting wrong wit you, you are still 21, dia ar lot of virgin guys at 30 nd above, jst change ur mentality.

Chatting up a lady is not difficult, jst approach and make a good first impression, don't cram lines, den u ar bound 2 fail. Confidence is d key.

Take a deep breath, relax, walk up 2 d lady and stat a conversation lyk hello, dnt b afraid jst say it, she responds nd u feel relieved, dnt 4get 2 put on a good smile nd dress well, so u won't b a turn off at first syt! Lemme give u a scenairo of how ma boyfrend started, as in our first conversation, mind u I do not know him b4.


I was in ma 2nd year, a brillant student, an introvert, dnt rilly mix wit d opposite sex, nd am beautiful, classy nd hawt!
Den dia was dis day I was startling down d hall, dis guy walked up 2 me, den d ffg conversation, (mind u I don't rilly give men face, infact ma fwends do say ma own is 2 much) 4 a guy 2 walk up 2 me he must av xtra confidence, cos I'll reject dat peson outrightly

Him: excuse me

I: au may I help u?

Him: seems lyk I know u smwia

I: 4real, started 2 walk away

Shunned im off completely... Nxt time I was reading in class den he came nd sat bside me, staryted wirt his epistles, of wich I did not reply

Den dia was dis day, dis same guy, came after me on ma way 2 d hostel, mind u I was wit ma fwends

Him: hello

I: no rply
Den he said smtin, dat got me laffin, nd anytime I rmemba dat till 2dae I still smile

Him: u know what, ma moda did worse dan wat u doin 2 ma fada, bt he neva gave up, so y shuld I

I did not rply I'm, but dat sentence striked me, nd I kindaa ad a soft spot 4 im

Den he continued, wooing me, wat made me fell 4 im was what he eventually did, I do av a particular class I do read, at a specific time, nd seat, because d seat as a fan. So dis guy, unknowingly 2 me as monitored ma movements, nd b4 I arrive he's always on dat ma seat, initially I was pissed off, but gradually we bcame reading colleagues, fwends, we started chatting, nd b4 u know it we bcame lovers

Said a lot of tins but d point is dis ma guy was rejected, but neva gave up, I admired his confidence, nd I neva joke wit him, infact I love im more dan he does, even dough I may hide ma feelings at times, nd he is an amazing BF.

D point is op start smwia, love is sweet nd bitter 2, u won't die a virgin, u may b rejected but don't give up, try sm1 else

Sanboy25: You really do like lists...
Anyway thanks, I have the perfect age to start all of these.

Yodel! Me tink dats ar style

What a great piece. Infact dis is d perfect timing for me.

Tnx op, God bless ya!

***singing westlife's song*** "goodbye 2 u my trusted friend we've known each oda since we 9 or 10 тσgєтнєя we'll climb hills and tree" ........ (I miss ma best fwend ma bff, all d times we spent was fun) au i wish u are not yet married and we are not far apart.love ya!

Lovely write-up, front-page material

alosiby92: Hum......what if he's her BROTHER??

Lool, dnt tink dats d case

Beauty queen turned rapper Munachi Abii is romantically involved with Pop group, L.O.S band member Olade Brisbe better known as Briss.



The couple, we are told, have been in a hot romance for the past few months and they've managed to keep it under the wraps with only very close friends in the know.

We are also told Muna has confided in her close friends, telling them she's in love with the 18-year-old rapper. Briss, an upcoming rapper started gaining buzz when the Urban-Pop music group L.O.S (the group consists of three other members - Yung, Tomi and Bridge) signed with Storm Records and released their popular single 'Bad guy P'.

Briss who is currently an undergraduate in a Dubai university spends time shuttling Lagos and the U.A.E but his schooling hasn't stopped the 'lovers' from hooking up - sources tell us Briss, (who is from quite a wealthy family) has on several occasions flown Muna over just to be with her.

Briss last April posted a photo of himself and Muna cooling off in a Dubai beach. 'At the beach.. Ofcourse Muna being a mess lol #dubai', Briss wrote as he posted the photo on his Instagram. Muna in turn has been quite supportive of Briss and his group's music. If she's not tweeting about their new songs, she's chatting up with the other band members.

Some dated tweets between Muna and Briss also suggest there's something holding on between them:

@muna01: '@BrisB_LOS duuuude wen r u back?

@BrisB_LOS: very very soon muna! booked a flight already tho. How you now?

@muna01: @BrisB_LOS: chillin boo.

@BrisB_LOS: hope your good sha.

But speaking with NET over the telephone Muna denies being romantically involved with Briss. 'That sounds ridiculous, I'm in a relationship with someone else', Muna told NET.

Muna turns 26 this November. In 2007, she won the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria beauty pageant.

Nollywood Actress, Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha Loses Mum

Nollywood actress and producer, Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha is currently in a state of grief over the loss of her mother, Mrs. Grace Egoyibo Chukwuka. She lost her mother on the 22nd of May, 2013.

The death of the "On Bended Knees" producer's mum is coming few weeks after actor and colleague, Chinedu Ikedieze, lost his father. It should be noted that another actress, Moyo Lawal lost her mum to the cold pangs of death two weeks ago.

Confirming the news early this morning via her official twitter handle, Chioma said;



May her soul rest in peace.

so au does dis news affect me? should i be happy or what? next.....

na today, we only hear and read it but we cant feel, touch and see d effect of d money, not even when oga joe's feeding allowance cost 1/200 of d said ammount, wonder what is left for d masses

Mod pls recommend for front page https://www.nairaland.com/1291060/15-awesome-things-having-baby and https://www.nairaland.com/1287745/whyme222s-wifes-judge

Wow, I love dis, can't wait 2 av my own baby, guess it feels so good especially when d baby is cute.

Les: The lady didn't force u guys to open her thread, if u cant say anything useful, why not click d back button other than trying to demoralise her??

Ayam tayad!!

Op, ur piece is best appreciated by those dat it's concerned... Nice one, keep pleasing ur man, noting do u!!

Tnx!

Don't give a fu*k bout wat pple say, its a forum and u're free 2 xpress urself wicheva way you lyk, but like sm1 earlier insinuated if you got no gud 2 say get da fu*k out, dias no point commenting, or beta still create ur own thread, not surprised NL is full of haterz, and d fact dat a mod had 2 say he is bored highlights it all, if you're bored go nd commit suicide if dat will help. mtchewww

Sexkillz, pls do me a favour by deleting dis thread

7 Interesting Ways Women Can Arouse Men

Has your sexual regime reached a dead end? Feeling bored? Follow our seven step sexual guide and feel your lost libido recharged ...

1. Change your sexual routine
Analyse your sexual regimen. Is it highly predictable? Is it more of a race to reach an orgasm? If so then perhaps you are in the midst of a sexual rut. So, get up and try breaking the sexual norm by doing the opposite of what you normally do. If you're having sex in darkness, try it in the morning or in the afternoon. If you're always getting down and dirty in the bedroom, enjoy a quickie on the kitchen counter or under the shower. If your man is always on top, surprise him by taking charge. Change your sexual POA to inject freshness into your sex life.

2. Show him the booty
It's not always a great idea to sashay around the house in sexy lingerie and killer heels if you want an instant arousal in your man. Why don't you surprise him by doing the dusting totally naked wearing a sexy G-string or indulge in some sexy shopping together. Men are turned on by what they see - so show him.

3. Make enough time
While sex is supposed to be spontaneous, unbridled passion, the pressure of jobs, children, and managing domestic chores leaves us with no time for sex. Try to give him hints that you are looking forward to a romp. Send suggestive and naughty texts and emails throughout the day. Spontaneity is a great mood builder and the anticipation and build up of something planned can be lots of fun.

4. Look back...
Remember the early days when you were in the first throes of lust when it was hard to keep your hands of each other? Most couples remember their initial years with affectionate nostalgia, so try and recreate those memories. Plan a nice dinner, reminisce about the first time you saw each other, what attracted you initially, and your first date. Recall the sexual connection, the pet names, personal jokes. Put on some sensuous music and dance around your living room to the song you first danced to. Recreate the thrill of having sex by doing it somewhere you might get caught! You share a rich history, so indulge in it a little - those that do are the couples that stay connected.

5. It's good to talk
Never sleep with anger within you. The unwritten rule of a great relationship is to really talk. Be open and honest. Talk about things you don't like in each other, irritating habbits. But remember to discuss the positive traits too - communicate what's important in your relationship; simply talking about why you love each other can help keep the passion alive.

6. Retain the mystery
A little bit of mystery adds spark to your love life. Sometimes when you are living with each other for years, you get too comfortable with each other and tend to be yourself with your partner. So keep the mystery alive and add some spice to your relationship.

7. Indulge your senses
Turn your bedroom into an erotic boudoir by adding loads of silk, satin sheets and colours that make you feel sexy. Cook aphrodisiacal meals together with naughty ingredients that really s-excite the taste buds, or share a candlelit bath with fragrant bubbles and scented oils. Make the time to indulge your senses and you'll soon your libido replenished.

Saw sis not quite long on d site 2, but the real question is, do pple av baby bump jst two months preggoo, or is it ar belly showing, or she's probably more dan two months preggo?

Aldo MTO said its not a speculation, I don't know au tru dis is, all I know is dat d picture is a rexent one.

And what will happen when you are 34?

She had d most controversial look, yester9yt, d gal needs to rest!

None of d above listed particularly tonto...
Wia IS̶̲̥̅ genevive, omotola, chioma....

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Unfortunately, no. But you can contest in December. Something tells me you'll win the December edition. [/color]

Lolz, dis guy is funny!

oyin50: ok o

Babe u look cute nd beautiful, I must confess!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]"Miss Nairaland is only open to Bonafide Nairaland members to created an account latest on May 1 2013. . . No proxies"

General Sexkillz. [/color]

Damn, Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ I won't be able to participate

yuzedo: Bro, if he leave in Banana Island, he a playa, truss me!!!!!


P.s. i leave in Banana Ice land. tenks don mention.

No be only banana island nah mango island
Guys, fresh mango IS̶̲̥̅ out oo, jst ate one aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ its sweet

Wetin Ώϊ†̥̥ђ all dis lists nah, I tire oo.
ђã†̥ has im calling after 11pm got 2 do Ώϊ†̥̥ђ im being a player

Each parent must aspire ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ dia children τ̅☺ be beta dan dem, Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ I'll say its dia responsibility, even d poor ones wish dey can do beta. A Ǧ☺☺ϑ Education IS̶̲̥̅ d best inheritance Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ can give τ̅☺ ur child. But notwitstanding, a parent should be proud of his/ her achievement cos its not easy especially when ur child makes Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ proud. If Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ aint a parent yet, Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ won't know wat Ȋ̝̊̅̄†̥ entails 2 sponsor ur ward τ̅☺ skul, guess d child can never pay back ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ dat, Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ its a priviledge ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ †ђξ child, if Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ don't bliv ♍Ƹ̴ jst tink of au much ur parent maust av invested I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊, try 2 add all ur schoolfees, pockect money, money τ̅☺ buy books, transport fare, feeding... Tis not easy 2 b a parent. On one side its dia responsibility on d oda side its an achievement of both parties, especially d child ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ not dissapointing aπϑ d father ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ not relenting.

@ op well she try, but I don't see any reason y you should start bragging with Y♡ƱŔ g.f pix on a public forum, am sure she won't subscribe 2 dat, but as regards ur post dia ar lots of nairaland babes far more beautiful dan Y♡ƱŔ g.f, jst check staicey out, she's no way beatiful dan ogugua 2 nd many more..

As regards NL babes being shy 2 post dia pix, ya'rite, its a trend av observed 2, nd its a fact dat most are not dat too... Compared 2 d guys, notwitstanding Ώϊ†̥̥ђ over a million members on dis forum, no be Y♡ƱŔ babe fine pass, lyk sm1 suggested wait till ms Nl competition, aldo u'll be surprised @ wat you'll c.

As for Mrs chima, dnt know y sm naija gals lyk 2 dey daydream nd fooling demselves about white men wu do not know dey even existed, btw, ur username indicates u're married as I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ Mrs, den y searching 4 white men?

5 Foods That Kill Cancer

Certain proteins within our  immune system hold the precise instructions needed to destroy cancerous tumours. In a healthy body, this inherent ability is always present and always effective without the use of drugs. However, these proteins can be rendered ineffective if cells experience uncontrolled growth though damage or mutations to DNA or if toxins through food and chemical pollution override the immune system’s natural function. Researchers from Pennsylvania State University have finally helped identify and support previous evidence which demonstrated how foods suppresses tumour development during immune surveillance, the immune system’s process of patrolling the body for cancer cells.


Those who subscribe to conventional cancer treatments such as chemotherapy and radiation have little understanding of how powerful the body is at healing itself if left to its own devices with the right nutrition.
Scientists have recently found that healthy cells damaged by chemotherapy secreted more of a protein which boosts cancer cell survival. Chemotherapy has been proven to cause cancer cells to interact with nearby tumour cells and cause them to grow, invade, and importantly, resist subsequent therapy.
In a study published in the journal Science Translational Medicine, scientists identified a molecule, known as TIC10, which activates a protein that helps fight the disease. The protein, called TRAIL (tumour-necrosis-factor-related apoptosis-inducing ligand) suppresses tumour development it can actually cross the blood-brain barrier, which separates the main circulatory system from the brain.
Through the body’s infinite wisdom, its systems recognize foreign invaders and poisons such as chemotherapy which are not beneficial for the brain. Many cancer drugs are consequently blocked from passing the blood-brain barrier. However, TRAIL is permitted passage due to its beneficial effects on the immune system.
Another positive is that TIC10 does not just activate the TRAIL gene in cancerous cells, but also in healthy ones. This is known as the ‘bystander effect’ – i.e. where cells near cancerous cells are also killed.
Nearby healthy cells are also given a boost to increase the number of cancer-killing TRAIL receptors on their cell surface.

The key is to not succumb to selective cancer therapy or drug treatments based on clinical trials with artificially created versions of the protein.
Food is the body’s medicine, not drugs. All you need to do is seek those powerful foods which naturally inhibit tumor necrosis factor (TNF) of which there are several.

1. Turmeric
Curcumin, possibly the most powerful antioxidant known from the popular Indian spice Turmeric, has countless health benefits. A recent study led by a research team in Munich showed that it can also inhibit formation of metastases.
Curcumin exerts anti-inflammatory and anti-oxidative effects by inhibiting tumor necrosis factor-alpha (TNF-alpha), suggesting that its effect on endothelial function may be mediated by the suppression of inflammation and/or oxidative stress via down-regulation of TNF-alpha.
One of the most comprehensive summaries of a review of 700 turmeric studies to date was published by the respected ethnobotanist James A. Duke, Phd. He showed that turmeric appears to outperform many pharmaceuticals in its effects against several chronic, debilitating diseases, and does so with virtually no adverse side effects.

2. Grapes and Resveratrol
Resveratrol is a phenolic compound that contributes to the antioxidant potential of red grapes.
Resveratrol is not only an antioxidant and antimutagen, but also reduces oxidant-caused cell death. Resveratrol has been shown to inhibit production of nitric oxide and tumor necrosis factor alpha (TNF-A) by lipopolysaccharide-stimulated Kuppfer cells. Kuppfer cells are macrophages fixed in place in the liver. Their chronic overproduction of nitric oxide and TNF-A due to chronic infection can cause severe liver damage.
Perhaps Resveratrol’s most important property is its ability to inhibit cyclooxygenase-2 (CoX-2). CoX-2 is related to cancers and abnormal growths in the intestinal tract. Natural CoX-2 inhibitors such as resveratrol have been shown to reduce the occurrence of cancers and pre-cancerous growths. So while pharmaceutical companies race to find complex agents that inhibit CoX-2, the ingredient is already present in red grapes which if consumed daily (or via organic grape juice) will protect against tumors naturally.

3. Green Tea
The health benefits of green tea are due to the presence of a group of plant flavonoids called catechins. Of particular interest to researchers is epigallocatechin-3-O-gallate (EGCG), the primary catechin in green tea. For example, South Korean researchers have found that EGCG blocks TNF naturally by interfering with the ability of certain pro-inflammatory chemicals to bind to cells of smooth muscle tissue of the vascular system. In a 2009 study conducted by the Chonbuk National University Medical School, it was noted that the specific mechanism of action of EGCG in terms of blocking TNF is the suppression of fractalkine, an inflammatory agent specifically involved in the development of arteriosclerosis, or hardening of the arteries.

4. Tomatoes
Regular consumption of tomato and its products is being consistently associated with lower risk of several types of cancer and, to a lesser extent, coronary heart disease. Among the many tomato components credited with healthful properties, carotenoids and particularly lycopene are being actively investigated.
Modest effects of the regular intake of a tomato juice provides small amounts of carotenoids which were found on the production of inflammatory mediators, such as TNF-alpha. TNF-alpha production by whole blood was found to be more than 30% lower after almost a month of consuming raw tomato juice.

5. Raw Fruits and Veggies
There is sufficient evidence to indicate that a diet consisting of foods high in natural antioxidants such as raw fruits and vegetables provide anti-inflammatory benefits. The higher the intake the more they are associated with significant reductions in levels of markers of inflammation, including C-reactive protein (CRP), interleukin-6 (IL-6) and tumour necrosis factor-alpha (TNF-alpha).
Any fruits or vegetables (preferably dark colored) which are a good source of indole-3-carbinol, a chemical that boosts DNA repair in cells, blocks the growth of cancer cells. A team of researchers at Ohio State University announced that anthocyanins, the compounds that give cabbage its purple color are capable of cutting the growth of colon cancer cells both in vitro and in rats by 50%-100%, with certain extracts even destroying up to 20% of the cancer cells while leaving healthy surrounding cells intact.

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