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Benita27:
Super story!.
Beyonce said "big girls don't cry". Is it true?.

It's Fergie that said Big girls don't cry not Beyonce

OP your guy is a correct guy he shd not spend big on you at all. What of me that spent money on my ex for 4 years through school and service year and she later dumped me on some flimsy excuse. Which account shd I write all the money I spent.
Men shd only spend on their wives and not gfs. Na the next girl wey I go date go suffer am, I will simply tell her I can't give you money if your parents can't give you money go and fuc*k man outside me am not spending on any girl again ever in my life.

No be today them dey warn girls dem no go gree hear. Go Russian and Italian Embassies u go see queue wey long like say War dey Nigeria.

fasterwell:
So you blame the people? You see why i said the govt is not sincere?

To develop the host community, the company and govt should work hand in hand.

The community can't resist the govt but in most cases the companies will rather choose to spend less by settling few persons in the community and triger the anger of others

You are very ignorant if you think developing the region will make the militancy to stop. Youths are lazy, Leaders are greedy and want free money and you talking about developing the region. Haven't you heard when projects are to be done in some parts of the region they stop the work and demand for money instead or the job slots given to them sold to Non-indigenes.

majekdom2:
u Don hear say omo onile bomb she'll facility in Lagos or omo onile go industry go destroy property?? Omo onile is no where same as militants. Omo onile get sense. You'd be surprsied omo onile is always in good terms with his visitor. He is is good host because he knows that's where he eats from. He doe not use force! Na wisdom be that

That is what I am saying these militant guys shd attack high profile government officials convoy and kidnap them and demand for infrastructures and jobs not destroying oil and gas assets that ought to better the lives of all Nigerians. They are not wise in their dealings because what you are destroying to prove a point will further affect your community and your family will suffer more for it so why not kidnap these high profile officials that have refused to give u these better life you deserve.

What I don't understand is this if Yorubas can condemn the actions of Land grabbers a.k.a Omo-onile why are the so called Niger deltans supporting the actions of the militants. In the entire Nigeria there is Injustice.Every tribe has rich class and the poor class.

For those of you saying resource control will address the issue of Militancy in the region means you don't know jack about your region. Maybe during the days of the military or the early days of OBJ administration it would have worked but at this present age, greediness and laziness has eaten deep into the leaders and youths of the Niger delta no matter how much they earn they will never use it for development rather they will use it to carry women, drink Ogogoro and buy Ammunitions to fight during elections, hijack ship vessels and blow up Oil and gas Assets.

I agree with Shell move your HQ to Lagos and operate from a much safer waters in the ND using directional drilling.

I have this same problem too thought maybe it was alignment issue but I bought new tyres and did wheel balancing and alignment but the problem persisted maybe I shd change my brake pads.

The OP has said it all nothing more to include that's why I am tired of Nigerian girls of nowadays. Very minute few behave otherwise and most of the good girls are taken already while we guys that are still single are left with these hoes. I rep team foreign girls.

This world don spoil finish to get good girl these days na fairytale. All Women are now after money money money. Am sorry to say but most of us will be getting married to Olosho now.

YoruBanger:
Yinmu. You certainly dont know what you are talking about. Lagos stopped enjoying FG attention and was abandoned by the FG since '91 in favour of Abj in terms of development. Up until '99 when Tinubu took over as uts governor the state had stopped developing. The Lagos everyone is talking about and praising today is the brainchild of Tinubu and his successors. #Fact. Without their diligence in resurrecting the dying state i am sure you lots would have been abusing Yorubas for allowing the state to deteriorate, yet you refuse to give them credit for birthing the modern Lagos of today.

They forgot the time before Tinubu when Lagos was littered every where with refuse, and crime was very high, places like Oshodi was a criminal den and vehicles couldn't go across the bridge to Mushin.

Simply accept it as Karma, you dumped your ex bf that loved and cherished you because of money am sure and now this guy you think is rich has now dumped u too for a better girl. Better move on before you disgrace yourself.

nnamokenna:
Thank you for your interest. Very sorry for getting back to you late.

No, I don't. But the 1990 -2000 Accord one I have MAY fit 2003 Odyssey. You can ask your technician or come with him to see it (that's if you are in Abuja).

Sorry I stay in Lagos.

Amaechi "were" right - Olu of "War" abeg OP make I ask you which War?

OP where is the millions of dollars? two bundles of 100 dollars bill is what you call millions of dollars.

OP your story is exactly the type of situation am faced with now. Just that am a guy, some people are good at keeping malice for so long. I havent spoken to her in over month even though I have called and sent countless whatsapp msgs with she reading and not replying. Mine is not 2 years but 4 years rship and we plan to do our Introduction this April and Wedding before the year runs out,so you can imagine how I am feeling right now.

My Mum and Sisters have called her severally to tell her to have a forgiven spirit and still yet she won't pick my calls. I still don't know what I did but am sure I must have done one little offence that I didn't even think was a big deal. Instead of you to tell me so I can apologize she has decided to keep malice.

I am only pained because I invested more into the rship for the past 4 years. But am learning to move on now but am quite sure she will be back when she realizes am beginning to forget her. I have also decided I can't go on with such a rship, DAMN! the 4 years.

OP don't accept him back when he comes you are only postponing your bigger heart break if you accept him back.

SIRKAY98:
Best Learn is to be sensitive to any change that occurs in your car at any time e.g Sound,..it may be change in Motion Sound from ur Tyre. It may be change in Engine sound from siezed Fan Blades. And so on E t c Was saved severally from this .i got to know my Tyre nuts were losing because there is a wobing Sound from my back since i had rim covers i never knew anything only to come down and check but finds out my tyre nuts ,the whole 5nuts were loosing to d effect that if i use my hand it turning them one by one.
Even if you can detect sounds you will know when likely your car wants to brake down

This issue of loosed knots happened to me this past weekend,the tyre was woobling and I knew immediately that was the problem parked and tightened with my Wheel spanner.

Do you have Honda Odyssey 2003 A/C compressor if you do how much do you sell it for?

I keep telling guys Baby Mama ti take over that's the in thing now. Marriage and serious relationship is just bullshit because Chris Brown said "These hoes ain't Loyal", "Take a biatch away from the club,treat her right but she be back at the club again" meaning no matter how you clean up a pig it will always go back to the dirt.


#Babymamatitakeover

The mods should move this topic to the front page.

This OP is not serious at all, tribalism is the biggest problem of igbos. They hate everyone else. How can you compare KingTeeblack pornography done in privacy to someone walking about with women in chains.

Why must you even look at this issue from the tribal angle. Igbos always quick to play the victim card as if everyone is out to get them.

Big comedy from Basketmouth believe this at your own peril.

baby124:
So many bad advisers here. He should go and find a prostitute. OP, how many prostitutes are you going to run around with before you begin to hate yourself? Not to talk about the risk to your health that comes with sleeping with strange women. Talk to your wife. No woman outside will make you happy. Also, work on yourself and get control of your urges. If you do not have control over your sexual urges then you have a problem which you need to attend to. You can practice restraint or even masturbate if it will ease the tension. Don't cheat. Anyone that tells you to follow Olosho as a remedy to your problems should not be your friend ever again. Beware of bad friends and advisers who only look to destroy an otherwise happy home. Your wife does not deny you sex, that's a big deal. Most women out there would not entertain the urge of a man like you. From what you wrote you must be compatible sexually with her. Don't go and put yourself in a worse fire outside. Be content and work on your problems.

I wonder who gave you the stupid like for saying he shd masturbate. Masturbation is not an option at all, do you know the negative effects masturbation as caused to millions of Men out there.

You also mention he shd talk to his wife, didn't you read where he said he has tried to sit her down but she won't listen.

OP if you want your marriage to go well smoothly so that when she wrongs you she apologizes and show remorse and won't subject u to begging her even when she is wrong because she knows you can't do without sex is to have a temporary side chick that will satisfy you urge when she wrongs you so that she can realize her mistake and show remorse, if not I don't see how u can cure you high sex drive and she will always use it to her advantage and that wrong she did will keep reoccurring.

I understand the OP very well. It's like this anytime his wife wrongs him he gets angry and keep to himself and the wife knowing he will come ask for sex will not apologize for what she has done and instead he will still be the one to apologize to her for her own wrong doing because he wants to satisfy his konji. This makes her repeat the same bad attitude over and over again.

OP I think the best you can do is try to get like 1 or 2 other side chicks but make sure they don't destroy your marriage, so anytime she does anything wrong you go outside and satisfy your high sex drive and just go home and sleep, try not to eat her food as well. After a week or two she will be the one to beg that way she can realize her wrongs.

edudguy:
Forgive me if I keep on quoting Achebe's There was a Country.. Achebe said that when the news of the coup started to trickle in, there was a sense of relief infact people were happy; relieved due to the corruption of the ruling class at that time no one taged it an Igbo coup but after things began to change.. It was seen as an Igbo coup because majority of those killed were Northerners. Sir Ahmadu Bello - Premier of the Northern Region and Ladoke Akintola -Premier of the Eastern Region, Tafawa Balewa - Prime Minister. It was alleged that maybe Azikiwe knew of the Coup as he extended his holiday

So it was only the political elite of the Western ,mid- west and Northern region that was corrupt? Micheal Okpara was there they did not touch him in fact the East was as peaceful as a graveyard.

We know Major Ifeajuwa was Azikiwe's cousin so he told him about the coup that was why he took a long vacation towards that period.

We are not fools, blame your tribesmen for the genocide before the war in the North and the massive killing during the war.

Igbos need not defend that coup that it wasn't an Igbo coup. If you killed the leaders of other regions and left the leaders of your own region out of the killing then there isn't any other excuse.

On top of that, ironsi was supposed to execute the coup plotters by military law but what did he do? He put them in a prison in the East and later released them.

Put your emotions aside and reason it why won't the North be angry and seek revenge.

HCF:
Spot on. Added to this, some ladies are not just lucky with men. It has little to do with waywardness. In fact, I observed that the tendency of a wayward lady getting married is higher than that of a disciplined and focused lady...
However, I didn't know Kemi was ALSO a music director..I thought she was solely into movies. She directed the much celebrated movie 'the wedding party'.

Sorry I didn't complete it she is a music video director.

greenermodels:
99%of Nigerian girls are like that, that's how one was impregnated at onitsha by a guy that claims to work in an oil company at asaba,the guy then claimed to have been transferred to abuja and disappeared. the olodo girl is still arguing till today that the guy is an oil worker whereas he's a trader.

You are right you know how many girls don fall for that format " I work on the oil rig". Very gullible set of people. Greed na hin dey kill ladies pass for this country,they want to reap where they did not sow.

IdiAmin2:
really?
typical olosho mentality

all these olosho that have used there youth jumping from one bed to another,
then when age they catch up to them, they will looking for someone to tie down aka 'commitment'
fvck commitment!!!

But Kemi Adetiba is a successful music director. Not every lady in their 30's live wayward lives in their 20's some just focus on career and by the time the success is attained they now start looking for a man at their late thirties.

No only God go save us from all these idiotic men who no fit give the needy around them money but na to dey dash Olosho big motor because of sweet pussie.

I disagree on point number 3 which is that it has the best street food. I think anybody that knows Ebute-metta well will agree with me that it has the best street food. Amara joints everywhere, Big and fresh roasted plantain, Fresh and nice fried yam, dodo, Akara etc.

Mkhitaryan's goal is special just as Giroud's goal but just like Gary Neville said Giroud's goal was a more difficult angle to hit on the ball.

See guys we need to look at this issue from both angles. See its not easy for a man to find his wife cheating after spending money on her for years, after all the sacrifices you have made for her. We all have varying ways of controlling anger.

That is why it's better women bring their fair share of contribution and responsibility into marriage so that when things like these happens we can blame the man.

But when a man is the one doing all or most of the things in the house, working his ass out to take care of his family,taking care of the woman she now goes outside to sleep with another man it's very annoying because she just took the man for a fool meaning all the bride price, wedding spendings, all the money he has been spending on her over the years has gone to a waste not every man will be able to control his anger.