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delishpot:
You couldnt have been more wrong in your post.

If am wrong then you don't have an indebt reasoning of our life works. A wife is like an investment especially in Nigeria nobody wants to lose his/her investment.

A man investments money, time, sacrifice to make a woman happy so if she cheats it's not easy on the man because most times men invest more in a rship or marriage.

whubbhey:
Some of the comments just portray the issues with society! People actually applauding this psycho for his barbarian act! So she cheated, one wrong, stab her as a solution? Its crazy how men cannot condone cheating, but when they cheat? Its the devil, or its how men are or, he was pushed by the woman! Excuses are usually made, the woman is pressured by everyone to forgive him, even her pastor and her parents. Cheating is wrong! Irrespective of the spouse that cheats! Do not condemn one and be indifferent about the other! #wrongiswrong! #cheatingischeating!

Cheating is not cheating, when women starts giving men money and other material needs as men do then we will agree cheating is cheating.

After spending millions you want me to just divorce and she walks away to her lover, what does that make the man? a fool, am sorry it doesn't happen that way.
That's why abroad most of the time the man and the woman share the responsibilities,so when one party cheats they go their separate ways peacefully.

What many ladies don't know is that the man doesn't just gets angry over the emotional pain, he drools over how much he has spent over the years. The sacrifices he has had to make to make the woman comfortable and then you go give the goddamn pussie to another man that doesn't know the suffer you be suffered over that same pussie.

For the ladies if you know you have the tendency to cheat do not collect money from any man be it your bf or your husband.

Catastrophe1:
Eiyaaaaah I can relate bro. Just move on she will regret her actions

Thanks Bro. I know if girls no dey interested again they withdraw gradually but this one just woke up one day and didn't pick my calls again. I was even scared if nothing happened to her until I sent her whatsapp msg and she was reading and didn't reply that was when I knew she gone.

The reason I find it amazing is because of its price, the features it has ought to make it more expensive even if it's an Infinix.

wizzywisdom:
No notification light, speaker location isn't up to date with newer version of android phone, the camera quality is too poor. The only good thing about the phone is the battery!!!

Who told you the camera quality is poor, because it says 8MP back camera and 5MP front camera ba? Check most HTC their camera quality says 5MP back camera and 2.1MP front camera. But the camera is better than some phones that says it has higher camera quality.

chibuzorAbia:
My padi! Go and work on yourself, so that anytime a woman no send you sef no send double. At the end of the day na only toto! Let it go, sweet olosho plenty for town.

E easy to just forget babe wey una wan marry, e easy to forget babe wey una dey for 3 years plus. E easy to forget babe wey una be like family.

Abeg no gimme lecture me myself I be correct Omo igboro when it comes with women I dey talk of woman wey plans to wed don dey already on the way.

drehdinho:
As sweet as this your story reads, it's one sided. A reason has to exist for the lady's actions.
Sometimes, men go beyond their boundary. Women are not animals, the way you treat them and how you make them feel, particularly when they realise you are the rigid type, will determine their behaviours around you.

Most women want a man that will protect them, make them feel secured. Women, as though senseless as they are, can read between the lines when a man seems to be the unbending type.
All men need to realise that women don't think the way they think. Hence, the way you behave around them should be totally different. The kind of joke you make with your fellow friends might not work for your woman. What might not cause a quarrel among your male friends might be a serious case with your woman. The more reason you need to ask your would-be wife several questions while dating her is so you can get to realise how she thinks, how she takes things and view situations.

As a man, you need to understand all of these things. That's what's expected of you to know while dating, not for any other purpose. And once you get to understand all this, you would be able to know if she's who she claims to be , and whether you can live the rest of your life with her.
And again, try to ask her questions when she seems to be natural in herself and with you. Ask her deep and thoughtful questions. Such as "what was the most terrible thing you ever did?" That moment she would say things which might be in total contrast to who She's parading herself to be all the while.
The purpose of this all is to know who you're dealing with. Women are weaker vessel, to me, this idiom or whatever is ironical, never fall for it.

And you think I didn't do all that. She was happy with me for 3 years she just left without notice.

Women are fucking heartless people their heart dey their back they can switch from loving you to hating you within one hour.

My gf of 3 years that we were about getting married just pulled the plug. We were having a great time, both families knew each other, she was even like family with my parents and siblings.she could do anything she likes in my family house, a lot of people think she is my mum's daughter.

My sisters even buy things for her from abroad, give her money.

Shey na straffing I dey use correct Jedi straff am, shey na money I dey give am, shey na outing I dey carry am comot. Just one day she no pick my call nor that of any of my family members again.

Even if you follow another bobo go, at least call them to greet them for Christmas or pick their calls when they were calling to greet you for Christmas. The girl no just send anybody again.

The reporter of this story got some details wrong or mixed up. If the said girl he slept with was 16 years as at 2013 and the child they had together is 7years now then the said minor he slept with was 12 years plus as at the time he slept with her.

Mine happening right on Christmas day, my gf has just compounded my depressed state.

Since 3years plus we spend our Xmas together in my family house because her dad is dead and before the death of her dad her parents were separated. Her mum is married to someone else in far away illorin. So am possibly the only one she could spend her Xmas with.

My family has taken her as part of the family everyone knows her even my extended family knows her. I supported her with the little I could afford financially, emotionally through her final year in school to service year. We were even planning on doing our introduction this year and one day she just woke up and decided not to talk to me again. I called her,sent her txt msgs she didn't reply to any with no explanation.

I'm like how could people be so callous, we did everything together. Everything gone

When it comes to the word "greed" that word was created for women.

Cubeet:
Lagos is a no man's land. Non indigenes developed lagos.
Lagos is the only developed state in Sw.
You can't compare porthacourt with Abeokuta, Or can you compare warri with Oshogbo. Have you been to Yenogoa

See this Osu igbo you think you are talking to a Yoruba Man that doesn't travel across Nigeria. Yenegoa is the worst state capital in Nigeria and you compare it to Oshogbo. Warri fine is OK but has lost its glory since militancy took over.

I don't think you know the difference btw contributions and Administration.
The Lagos state Governor, deputy,law makers, civil servants, commissioners and other administrators are Yoruba and they are the one doing all the works of construction and urban planning so who do you think developed the state the most.

I cannot excuse the contribution of foreigners especially Foreign nationals but when the FG abandoned Lagos where places like Oshodi where den of criminals, when all the streets where littered in waste and rubbish who brought Lagos back to its present status? The Lagos Administartors( Tinubu,Fashola and Ambode) so please shut up if you were too young to remember the Old Lagos when FG abandoned it to rot.

Cubeet:
This shows you have not once moved out of your region to other region just like every other omo oniles.
Anyways those you think are enriching lagos are also enriching themselves and their communities back home.

Lagos without non indigene is equivalent to Osun state

That is why your so called Igbo states will never get it right like Lagos.

You guys are too hostile to foreigners you don't sell lands to them that is why your region has refused to develop.

Great cities all over the world has huge population of foreigners and that is why they are great.

Take a cue from Lagos and other world cities welcome other Nigerians and foreigners to your land and watch your Anambra develop into a great city but if I may guess I doubt if you tribalistic Igbo tribe will ever allow it. It is a taboo to sell lands to other Nigerians or foreigners except the state govt is directly involved.

khalids:
what nonsense talk, why did you not go to the Uk to tell them that when he was being convicted. You guys just want to turn this country into a Zoo. I think its high time we separate we humans from the animals in this country who seem to have no concept of right or wrong

I agree with the guy you quoted let the FG leave him in peace. If not am sure another full scale pipeline bombings will resurface in the delta.

He has had alot of his money and assets seized so as compared to other politicians who stole us blindly and are still walking free he has paid a small price for his crimes so just leave him alone in peace.

So far all his cronies are still in the delta state govt including the current Governor, he will bounce back finiancially.

Horlufemi:
Depends on where you bought it. some are refurbished called London used.

She bought the phone new in London not London used in Nigeria.

Horlufemi:
How can you compare Samsung note 2 to Infinix hot 4. they are years apart. I'll still prefer to buy a used Recent note series than Infinix. There is more value in A Samsung than Infinix. infinix build quality is terrible.

OK thats you sha, I don't like used products no matter what either London used or Nigerian used. I like my things new. Besides this case is just like the case of IBM and Apple in the 70's . People still prefered an IBM computer to an emerging market computer, Apple even though Apple was cheaper and gave much more value but because people trusted IBM they where skeptical about Apple.

Where is Apple today and where is IBM. Besides its the same Asians that do both Samsung (S. Korea) and Infinix ( China) so never doubt their abilities to surpass Samsung someday.

My mum's Samsung Galaxy 3 crashed just 3 months after purchase from a London store. What do you have to say to that?

Horlufemi:
I don't know who's calling you poor. Just say you wanna be prudent. I can agree that Samsung and iPhone are overpriced but they aren't overrated. For use Ifinix Hot 4 is OK but performance wise they can't compare. Is it even about the graphics? Is it about the sensors etc. Please just say u don't need a samsung. Infinix don't do more, they just do basic.

Please educate me

I understand you quite well and I agree with some of your points not all.

What I am trying to say is that some people will prefer to buy a Samsung Note 2 with slower processor, Camera quality, okay screen resolution at say 60k to an Infinix hot 4 with faster processor, good camera quality, longer battery life, and better screen resolution for 45k.

The reason for these is because of the brand name I use a Samsung you use an Infinix. But the guy using Infinix hot 4 is getting more value for his money than you using a Samsung Note 2.

Horlufemi:
You can't compare sleep to death. I dare you compare their performances and watch your hot 4 blown away

Which performance stop deceiving yourself I am not a poor dude I can afford to buy the Samsungs and Iphones cause I have even used them before but when I see a phone that does more than they do at a cheaper price why waste my money just because I want to form Porsche.

I tell you many folks wasting their money on Samsung and iPhones. Its all about class nothing more. I can tell you I get more from my 45k Infinix hot 4 than someone using a Samsung S5 or IPhone 5, who probably got it for 80- 100k

Ecosystem4u:
You know too well that my comment is indisputable. no tribe i repeat no tribe can ever lay claim to the entity called Lagos. Revisit your history n u can thank me later.

I repeat you are just a jealous Osu igbo whether you like it or not we own Lagos and nothing will change that. I don't need to start going into details of what you yourself know deep down but only trying to console yourself to accept the truth.

Ecosystem4u:
Lagos is NO MANS LAND believe u me 99% of Afonjas cannot own a property in that place. Lagos remains a multi-ethnique society. There is nothing like aborigines in Lagos evry one hia is a settler!!!!!!! The only thing is that the Afonjas share boundery with Lagos. That explains why former n present gorvernos of Lagos state are 4rm Afonja neighbouring states.

Modified: the spate of developement in the area is commendable.

Mumu jealous Osu Igbo.

You do not know the history of Lagos so you have no say in this issue.

I have always told whoever cares to listen that the Colony of Lagos is different from Lagos state.

The colony of Lagos is a small area that consist of Marina, Victoria Island and Ikoyi.

Post independence, part of the western region was incorporated into that colony of Lagos which use to be the seat of power for the British colonial administrators.

The Ajah,Epe,Ikorodu coined out from the western region into the colony of Lagos are all Ijebu lands. The Ipaja, Agege towards Ikeja are Awori lands.

So Mr man shut ur dirty mouth if you know nothing about Lagos.

I swear have looked at this world critically, we give women too much attention. Why must everything be about them. Everything we do as men is to please women am like why the fuxk did God have to create men with so much high urge for sex. These women know these things that's why they do to us as they like.

Oga please if you can find another lady to have sex please do and let your wife know you getting it real good outside.

Fuxk this women.

Same thing happened to me. I did my masters in the UK and after 3 years of waiting doing jobs of 30-40k per month. I decided to go into Business and now I can tell you I make that salary in just one week. But I still pray I get a better paying job to do alongside the business and make more money for myself.

The moral of the story is that Nigeria of today is moving away from Paper qualification to what service can you offer me and I pay you in return. We don't value education in this country so there is no use studying abroad or getting higher educational degrees and returning back to Nigeria.

When Baba OBJ said these guys are bunch of unarmed robbers alot of you attacked the messenger instead of addressing the message. We can all see these motherfuxkers are there to make laws that benefits them and not the people.

They think they are there to better their lives and not the lives of Nigerians.
The earlier we stand up to these assholes the better for us the citizens.

Is the guy dressed in Yoruba atire or na my eyes dey deceive me ?

Guyman02:
Chai! Everything is projected on Niger Delta OYEL

What has happened to all the talk about economic diversification by the State Govs and FG over the years?
No wonder they keep supporting Operation Crocodile Smile, Python Dance, Rabbit Clap, Cockroach Laugh, Mosquito Bite in the Niger Delta and South East where the Oyel is domiciled and many Nairalanders who are state and local govt workers will be shouting on this forum kill them IPOB, scatter the militants, burn the agitators because their salaries comes from that area

My friend will you shut up. As if Ondo,SW is not part of the Niger Delta and it produces more oil than the entire SE.

This MMM crash news is getting so boring now can you please let us enjoy nairaland just rest this MMM issue.

XwhY:
Infinix hot 4 , the battery is magical. Two days with heavy usage

I concur I use Infinix hot 4 as well.

gentlegenius:
Assuming you committed a crime and was charged to court.
The judge decided to sentence you with two options:
a) 10 years in prison
b) To stay in prison until Arsenal wins the Champions League...
WHICH OPTION WILL YOU CHOOSE?
pls be sincere.

I will pick 10yrs in prison because I don't know when Arsenal will win the champions league or if they will ever win it so it's better I know am going away for 10 years

For my fellow Gunners fan we cannot completely avoid a very good opponent throughout the UCL. So either now at the second round or later if we are good enough to win the UCL we will win it.

Billygee2u:
2 afonjas

Mumu one Yoruba and one Calabar man.