₦airaland Forum

Enculer2:
You cannot be trusted. Simple. I feel for your husband.

she'll set her husband against his family very soon. Stupid woman. She de vex me. If she was my sister, she won't hear from me again for doing this to my mom.

LilX2:
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You just wrote total nonsense! I would have done same over and over again!! Her mom is wicked and careless of her actions, and telling her aunty that her daughters husband refused her to come or worst still, going to tell her sis husband something that's not true, the needful was done

you wrote rubbish!

When they accuse your mom of anything you know, try to put her out there to be attacked or set on fire because she's "wicked".

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

How foolish and careless can you be to even set your mom against her sister knowing their relationship and what your mom said is just to trigger you to stop her visit?


Why don't you "extreme emotional beings" use your head or think before acting?

Is it everything you are told you reveal to the other person? Don't you know how to use diplomacy? Couldn't you just tell your aunt not to mind what your mom is saying and not reveal the husband-snatching part?


As a wife, you can't manage information and you're about to set your own family on fire. Don't go and set your husband against his own family and that might lead to your fall. It's not everything you hear you reveal.


People are really stupid these days.

As a 10 year old boy, my uncle would report my mom to me and I would tell my mom to correct her ways that her brother is not happy with whatever she did without revealing other details so i'd not cause more problems cos I know my mom. She's his only sister and he's her only brother from same mom and dad- though they step-siblings.

If I can do this at barely 10, I don't know why a married woman would be this careless.

Your mom and her sisters are going to be enemies forever because of your stupidity

Clap for yourself!

ufuosman:
All dis closing stadium 🏟️ or denying other parties access to campaign is very bad and need to stop

it only creates sympathizer for the candidate.

His usual method. He should go and check records of how candidates locked from stadium ended up winning.

Bello's method is always same - use intimidation. He did with Natasha and I don't know where that led him.

seunlayi:
If you have the opportunity to vote in Kogi, who will you vote for?

For me, I will go for PDP Dino

Muri or Abejide.

Couscous?

This is my area in Lagos back then. I'm missing it right now.

Abujaexpress:
Importing crude oil again?

I don tire.


They said "might", so the report is trying to postulate a possibility.

We should be producing 2mbpd, but we're barely above 1mbpd. In one fold, it's us producing and going to buy refined products abroad to import. Now we're about to get the refineries and the challenge now is how to get them crude to refine or how to evacuate - so we have to import again to meet up their daily demand. Who did this thing to us?

I hope this is not true.

Senseless man!


So, the problem started on October 7th. What about other times Israel killed with no attack triggering it?

FreeStuffsNG:
You can't sue the President
SERAP needs to start considering a strategy to get people who share their views into the National Assembly to understand fully how government works especially from the inside. Talk is cheap o.
Check my signature for free stuffs!

It's in criminal case that the president is insulated from prosecution or trial because of immunity. The court can direct him to act and this is a civil case.

Gadafii:
To marry just be like horror film 😕

If you follow John Doe on twitter and you saw his recent thread Wetin men dey do with married women, you go just weak

All that talk of never sleep with a married woman, na scam


Peoples wives are getting docked steady and these women are even ready to elope of carry the child of these single guys as evidenced in the chats they shared on that thread

Married woman go dey show her husband shege for house while slutting and slaving for the guys they are having affairs with, that thread is an eye opener incase you are still delusional that marriage will favor you

Sad reality!

Finst22:
This is heart breaking

Women needs to be prosecuted for paternity fraud.

Winters23:


Israelis just want Arabs gone from Palestine.

I know Israel is the aggressor and occupying force but seeing what these religion of piss are doing in countries they have majority have made me lose sympathy for Arabs.

If nuking them will chase them away so be it, they'll do the same without warning if the circumstances are reversed.

you sound like you were breastfed by a dog.

I thought this building belongs to the federal medical center, didn't know it was for the red line.

They're homeless people who sleep just opposite of this place - the place actually belongs to Nigerian Railway corporation, but i'm sure they must have been driven out by now. I pity them.

Tithes gone into the right account.

naptu2:
Previous yachts.


Pictures 1 and 2.




Picture 3.

Shey Benin people say their Oba no de go out? What's this Oba doing on a ship? He should have resisted the transfer.

benuejosh:
Witch haunting and they don't want Igbos to progress will not rest in our ears today. We no go hear word.

Whereas the man is a fraudster.

The same Ibeto they haven't allowed to hear word for saying they forced him out of cement business in Nigeria.

SPAMBOX7:
Lol I have lost more than 500k and still counting but I ain't moved. I ain't withdrawing shit.

I just dey laff people wey still believe in naira thriving over dollar. Yall will keep fooling yourselves till it's too late. For as long as tifnubu is here to stay dollar will hit 3k before 2025.

Come back in 2025 and read this again and say I told you.

Drops pen*

stupid thinking. If your candidate is not there, Nigeria should fail. That's your thinking.

saasala:
Bro, many Nigerians don't get the exchange rate on weekends. I get it per second. It's currently going back up as I speak. It's 995 this night. Let's see what happens on Monday.

And as for the money CBN is expecting, it's not a sustainable way to keep the currency stable. It's just a makeshift. And we don't even know when the money is coming. They said in weeks, but you know Naija. Weeks might turn to months

if we have that money, it boost liquidity and they can offset backlogs and forward guarantee can be issued for seekers of dollars to buy the stuff they need to use dollar for, especially those in manufacturing, and this would ease the pressure on the naira.

PoliteActivist:
But Dangote is a PRIVATE capitalist company intent on maximizing profit. Example (see below), it hired 11000 Indian workers not Nigerians, and they won't be paid in naira. In other words, just because Dangote happens to be located in Nigeria doesn't mean it will sell refined products cheaper to Nigeria, neither is Nigeria obligated to buy from it if it can find cheaper price elsewhere

The dollar the refinery will be earning from export would be in our economy. The 11k indians pay their taxes in dollars. It's a win for us.


You need to see the amount of dollar we spend on importing petroleum products. If we save that alone, we're good. NNPCL own a stake in Dangote refinery. Demand for dollar is higher than supply, so expect to rise.

Wujio:
Now it will keep falling into this weekend, fall into next week till next week friday, it will keeo crashing. Hit the withdrawl now, it wont rise back to that 1,300 level again. It wont from this year end into next year, it is crashing towards 750/Naira. Ive been saying this for a while now

By the tim the policies on dollar progress from the gestation period, it could hit as low as 450. It was rising too quickly and it's bound to fall. They have some loans they're expecting to hit the forex space and some forward backlogs are being paid - this would drive it down.

When Dangote refinery start producing, a chunk of the dollar we spend to import would be saved and retained in the economy. This would further drive it down. When we have enough liquidity to meet demand, the value of naira improves.

tommy589:
Son-in-law from hell. Daughter is not different

The father rejected this same man. Women don't listen. When the useless daughter wanted to commit suicide over a man was when she should have allowed her to die instead going through this ordeal with the help of her own daughter working with her enemy. She even called her mom a kidnapper. That girl own don spoil. Maybe she was under a spell.

Realashbobby:
I don't like writing Epistles. It seems you are interested in the whole story. I will share the whole story soon.

You sounded like you did what led to the divorce.

Hit the gym to keep fit, to clear your mind and focus on your son for now.

You women don't think of repercussions of your action, especially when you use harsh words on your men.

If you still miss him, i'm sure he wasn't an abusive man.

I believe some people influenced or goaded you... They're not here for you now.

May God be with you.

Twitter people and urge to tell stories. He's not being a professional here. Why come out with what happened?

Testiebobo:
It is true that some elderly couples are more concerned about their partners even than the younger ones.
" I dont want to see you on social media! But why? Dont you know that when you are on social media you get more exposed to the world, and your privacy might be tampered with by the public. But you can only join whatsapp, so that i can get in touch with you whenever i am absent from home." hmm i laugh in spanish!

Your dad is a great man.

Coolsat:
She doesn't have much grip on her people in regards to the forthcoming governorship election, you won't understand.

Each region will vote their own and remember APC is still very much in power

But you said she's with the APC candidate in the forthcoming elections because the guy is from her tribe, and now you're saying she's not got a hold on her people. Stay one place!

Coolsat:
She's supporting Ododo APC for governor

She said she can't betray her people, so don't let this crowd for her deceive PDP members.

lol

Go and check her interview on channels tv with Seun.

She said for equity and justice, she's supporting the West and her party is in the race - she's with her party. She's against tribal politics

Artiiclebeast:
This beautiful woman looks good to govern Kogi State in the near future.

Dino would have been able to leverage on her advantage and acceptance if she was on the ballot as his deputy. An upset is still possible though, not minding the bloodletting that might ensue.

Her looks and skin tone will work very well to her advantage knowing the mentality of our people to "looks".

Dino from Kogi West should pick a running-mate from the Central? Lol

emmabest2000:
Ogidi man
Na Tony One Week senior brother

Amaechi Muonagor is related to Tony 1 week?

He's one of my favourites. I'll have to send something when I find his account.

May God heal him.