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Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 9:11am On Mar 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA:You have comprehension issues. You didn't read this? Since he didn't, he's just posting his opinion which is: there's no disadvantage of having a wife (read the title). But his father would disagree, no? And millions of other happily married men. Therefore, his opinion is biased and toxic and illogical. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What happened To Virgil (Lil Durk) by Banilla: 7:55pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 7:53pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kingofhoes:Writers are hardly honest but you were. It's nice. Now, I'm interested... Still too nervous to send a DM tho. Can't ruin this too early... |
Romance / Re: South African Lady Displays Her Certificate Of Virginity by Banilla: 7:49pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Zonefree:Are men so gullible? She couldn't have had anal and oraI sex? May God truly bless her. I'll go print my own certificate soon. 44 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 7:35pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kingofhoes:I was patiently waiting for you to come online. And yes, I did. What would make you update it? |
Romance / Re: Pls I Need A Sincere Advice On This. by Banilla: 7:18pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Presently, you're not his responsibility. If he's ready to settle down, then go for it... He's a good man, right? Since you aren't working yet, he'll be the sole provider. Is he financially stable? 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 7:14pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kingofhoes:Are you 5'11? That's really tall. |
Romance / Re: Women Of Value by Banilla: 6:56pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Realistic expectations? You just defined your miss perfect. She shouldn't do the same? Unless you're successful, insanely rich, intelligent, with looks to make Aphrodite drop dead with lust... Forget it. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 6:51pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:You're contradicting yourself. You said the op is doing the good work of letting people know the reality of marriage, so they can choose if it's what the want or not. If that was his motive, he would have been completely honest. Talked about the good and bad. Since he didn't, he's just posting his opinion which is: there's no disadvantage of having a wife (read the title). But his father would disagree, no? And millions of other happily married men. Therefore, his opinion is biased and toxic and illogical. Growing up, did he not see the advantage of his mother in his father's life? His father is the number one man in his life, what other man has revealed his secrets to the op or confided in him? I don't want to get married cause it's not my thing. Not because I'm a hypocrite, condemning something others want and happily have. That would make me a lousy person. If the op finds marriage distasteful, he should remain single. There's no need to come here, with facts from social media, to write that marriage has no benefits when many would disagree. |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 6:26pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Lmao. I clearly stated that his NEED TO BROADCAST HIS CHOICE is irrelevant. Comprehension issues? If the op is being honest, he would also wrote down the positive side of marriage, then allow people decide. If he needs inspiration, he'll ask parents. But he didn't. That's mischievous. You don't think so? Kinda like if I only talk about how men have only sex to offer, forgetting the good they've contributed, that I benefit from (I'm referring to white men btw)... |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 6:13pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
JOACHINpedro:As they should... If you take this advise of a man whose parents are happily married, you deserve to live and die single... Let's better men pass their genes. They would be doing the world a favour. Let's forget most of them can't afford to raise a family, can't even feed themselves. Marriage is the least of their problems. |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 6:06pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:You made it a gender thing by calling women out. If I attack the op then I'm against men. No? It's a forum doesn't mean he should post irrelevant things. When he does, he gets called out. There are marriages like his parents'. Does he live with these other couples? How does he know how miserable they are? The couples celebrating decades of being happily together, are they and his parents spirits and not humans? He got his fact from where? Social media? Lol. You only know so much about the people around you. His parents, relatives, friends and so on...they are the people whose marriages he can truly study. one he is entitled to. I don't wanna get married too. But you don't see me broadcasting it unless asked. Again, what evidence? Exaggerated stories on social media? Lol I didn't. I asked questions. A topic is meant to be discussed. Why are you allowed to agree and I'm not allowed to disagree? If the op knows some marriages are successful, he would advise people here to work on theirs.... Not come here condemning the same thing his parents are proud of. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 5:29pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Wrong. I was raised Catholic. Even if I had never been to a church, I would still have been taught to love them... You deliberately refuse to understand... But you would do anything for the sake of arguing. *Sighs* 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 5:24pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:No one asked for my opinion? For your information, this is a forum. If you bring something here, expect a response. How did a guilt trip him? You just love to play the role of the victim and it's pathetic. Was he insulted? No. I didn't say he's from a broken home, I tsaid he gives the impression that he is from one. You learn from your home first. No matter how bad other marriages are, if your parents have a perfect marriage, you would still be hopeful there are others like them. Aren't his parents human? How come their marriage is so great but others are bound to fail? He focused entirely on the negative aspects of marriage, ignoring all the good it did his parents. It's illogical and toxic. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 5:15pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:14. Too old for you? |
Religion / Re: Why Catholic Church Is Evil! Majority Of Atheists Are Former Catholics. by Banilla: 5:07pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker:Using my own words against me? I must have really hurt you. How big is your Bible? 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 5:04pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
pansophist:Maybe I'm asexual? If so, you focused entirely on something I don't even understand. Honestly tho, sex is the least thing I care about. I emphasized the need for companionship. Friendship or a relationship, but I don't know if I even want that. Still discovering myself, I guess. I have commitment issues, need to solve that first. Have a blessed day sir. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 5:00pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Presented by my parent and family. I was raised Catholic, remember. At the age of three, I should have known better? You're being ridiculous now. I grew up, asked questions and gave up the faith. What's so hard to understand? |
Religion / Re: Why Catholic Church Is Evil! Majority Of Atheists Are Former Catholics. by Banilla: 4:58pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
jaephoenix:I was a Catholic. I'll be honest, I'm grateful I was. Are they more accommodating? Kinda. Some priests have the 'Nigerian' mentality, the parishioners too. Others are extremely nice. Catholics hardly condemn others. They believe in purgatory, meaning they even believe some bad people have hope of attaining heaven after atoning for their sins there. That's one of the reason I could never worship I'm a Pentecostal church. I can't stand the hate, self-righteousness and hypocrisy. I also enjoyed the ritual of mass... Outsiders might not get it, but it's something I'll always love. *** I commented cause you accidentally mentioned me. DTruthSpeaker is a frustrated old man. He reminds me of the hungry looking men who pray for traveling passengers, spitting on them, quoting verses their small brains can't comprehend... 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 4:45pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
pansophist:Your advice was entirely on sex... But it's fine, atleast you were respectful. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 4:42pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Priests? No. I've only admired three, because they were decent and honest. I'm an excellent judge of character, if they weren't priests, I would still have respected them. I'm not a hypocrite. I'm not blinded by religion, never was. I loved God and Jesus and Mary... Priests are men. Some spend extravagantly on themselves, others fornicate, the worse rape children... You don't deserve an explanation tho. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 4:30pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:And you really quoted someone who hasn't attended mass in years? I don't know if it's the emoji ( ), but I feel you're accusing me. |
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Take Your Self Out? by Banilla: 4:28pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
helinues: Company? Unavailability of time? Stress? The money isn't even good enough to enjoy, with all the bills... Plus, you gotta save. |
Romance / Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Banilla: 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Many women are miserable married. If the op doesn't want to get married, he shouldn't. Who's forcing him to do so? Who asked for his opinion? No one. If a woman created a thread asking the relevance of a man in her life, you wouldn't hesitate to bash her. So let's pretend the men here are the mature ones, despite your prediction, how many women commented? Francistown: Saying you don't wanna get married doesn't make you special. This is getting boring, you owe no one an explanation. You haven't made an impact, only achieved a few minutes fame. All over the world, people are getting married less. Birth rate is also declining in the West. I also find it surprising you mentioned your parents are happily married. You outlined only the negative aspects of marriage despite being raise by a couple who you claim truly love themselves. One would think you were raised in a broken home. Did your parents not inspire you? Did you not learn a thing for them? Isn't your mother a paragon of virtue, so much so that you pray for a woman like her... Are you sure you're not echoing the thoughts of your father? If you don't want to get married because it's not your thing, that's fine. But you're being awfully toxic. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla: 4:02pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
pansophist:I'm a girl. Is something wrong with me? I've never been with someone, except for online relationships |
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Take Your Self Out? by Banilla: 3:59pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Someone should take me out!!!! *** Honestly, I've never. But this year, I intend to. I'm going to make money and spend it, on myself. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 3:50pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Dearest Kobojunkie, I don't believe in God. What church do you speak of? Must you attack me? |
Romance / Re: Happy International Women's Day To All The Women On Nairaland. by Banilla: 3:47pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Nia69:🥰 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Why Do Nigerians Refer To Their Pastors As MOG by Banilla: 9:09am On Mar 08, 2023 |
It's obnoxious. What's worse is how they treat these men, like they are demi gods doing them a favour. |
Romance / Re: Happy International Women's Day To All The Women On Nairaland. by Banilla: 8:57am On Mar 08, 2023 |
Oh. Thank you very much. Happy women's day to you and all the amazing women on Nairaland! Nia too. 🤍 3 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Religion: A Realm Of Hope by Banilla: 8:50am On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kalatium Kobojunkie I'm not condemning hope. I'm saying it's wrong to hope for someone else or something to save you. That's religion. It teaches you that you need a saviour. That your capabilities alone aren't sufficient when they are. The rats died expecting to be lifted out of the water a second time. They made no effort to save themselves, to figure a way out if there was one. (Assuming they could) That's what most religious people do. They pray then wait, expecting a miracle. That's not life. Hope on it's own isn't bad, humans have survived on it. I have too. But I'm putting my trust in me, entirely. I'm not a rat, you aren't too. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by Banilla: 12:46pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
Failure2019:Congratulations. |
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