₦airaland Forum

GOD is with Nigeria.

Tehila07:
I had thought that love has bigger roles to play in marriage. I was wrong. I got married at 36 when I thought I had seen someone who loved me.

While dating, I was not spending money on her because she has a job and was not complaining. I ride okada for a living, hoping to go into a business soon. Before marriage, I used to have spare cash of about 10k always. Even if that 10k is spent on something, I would recover it within a week. She told me that if money she spends on feeding and what I spend on feeding are added together, we will feed ourselves, and save more. But since we got married, I labour hard to ensure she has whatever she needs. Now I'm stretched to the limit and can't cope anymore. She has money in her bank account, but said she's saving for raining days. Anytime she wants to perform online banking, I do it for her. Two days ago, I wanted to buy data, I transferred money from her account to the seller, brought out the money and told her seller accepts bank transfer and I don't want to go and queue in the bank for lodgement. I would have informed her first, but she was busy attending to visitors and her phone was with me. She was angry and said "I will change my password." I replied that the only favor she did me was saving my journey to the bank. She said if she has cash in hand, she would be tempted to spend it. So, it's me that should not have savings?

I don't feel like having sex again, because of the depression and she is now angry that I'm turning her down. Now I'm planning to leave home and return whenever my situation improves. She can cope because she has enough money.

Why the financial pressure on me is too much is that we are both 36 years old and friends keep trouping to our house to wish her well. As a man that manages resources, I entertained guests from my family once for the past two months we got married because it's not my town but hers. She keeps asking me for money to entertain guests. Some friends made it a habit of visiting twice weekly, while she keeps showing me off. When she asked for money for food yesterday and I told her I had no money, she has been moody since then, thinking that I'm hiding money from her.

This was a woman, that, last week, when I said I couldn't afford a particular asoebi that only concerns me because it's costly, went to the market, bought it, and took it to my tailor. Judging from her recent actions, I won't wear that cloth except I'm able to refund the money.

P.S: Love is just a rhetoric - humanity died long ago.

Be a man.
If it means quarrelling your wife, do it.
You have to be a man and control your house.

But you MUST provide food oh.

bukkyemotions:
Sorry, though my username is not my real name, but what can a lady do if she mistakenly sleeps with someone when she goes to give the person her wedding card. Let's say when she goes to give a wedding card to her ex & the ex rushes her for the last time & sleeps with her, & when she is done, she avoids the ex forever. Should she confess to fiance or just repent to do it no more?

Just asking a general question.

I understand the rushing part. When I was young, I and my babe use to rush it. Immediately she enters no time for protocol, just shift the panties aside and slot. So so sweet.

But the fiancee bleeped up.

Some pussies are meant for the public. Don't bother deceiving yourself and the brother( husband ). You can't change even in marriage you will still share the cake

A man that does this is the biggest FOOL of all time.

Can somebody earning over #30 million per month sponsor a robbery that would yield a maximum of #10 million. That aside is Saraki their relation. Why won't police leave this guy alone and be apolitical

Only real men achieve this glory. Fake men form one wife and knack other people's wife outside - that's called double adultery.

Wilder should have fought Joseph Parker. He wants Anthony Joshua to do the dirty job while he comes in to take glory.

Funny politicians.

This type of babe is mean for Kings. If You know, you know

Stella Oduah and Jonathan

Kemi Adeosun and Buhari


Which President is really patriotic

Sweet tin. I wish I could play with those boobs

Even if U are not the primary people responsible to clean it, You are expected to call them to do it b4 driving out. Otherwise don't drive out.

China says her investment in Nigeria is most strategic. I guess they are exploiting our system, using casual staff to run critical facilities. When U die, U will be flown to your people. Our stupid government and labour unions sit and do nothing.

Civil servants are in every local government area. They are the best people to sound a governors praise.
When you don't pay civil servants, then your loss is certain. Even if you like pay up all arrears a day to the election, you will still loss.

All children are prone to this. When I was a child I use to sleep walk.

Hope they won't keep people in training like Chevron Nigeria Limited, that kept VTP5 in training since 2013 till date July 2018.
Chevron using training to avoid paying the right tax.
Nigerian government should sue them. We must get all tax arrears from them.
PMB I trust You

Those are arm robbers. A SARS personnel won't allow you do a transfer, he will go for cash.

Whenever Nigeria has the ball we kick it around. But when Croatia has ball, they play it straight to our post wanting to score. Why is Croatia not kicking ball around like Nigeria, this is cheating.

This company that is carrying out forced labour. Using training to suffer Nigerians for five years, while in actual fact they are working. Using this scholarship to deceive us.

It is well. Only feed #149 million. Then their salary will be What ?. Later they will point at Senators.

Thegeneralqueen:
The earlier we stop relying on our family members for help the better. If they want to help us fine but we should have it in mind that they don't own us anything.....




I feel for the man though

What does a family owe a son / daughter ?. Is it education, food, clothing etc.

The truth MUST be said. Buhari tried in one aspect thus far. If I mention it, APC might use it to win election. Anyways back to daura is what I want, come 2019

I can't download that song or dance to it. It is a useless song, politics aside

Where is the road ?. Where is the power ?. Just thinking aloud, DSS I am sorry, I no need any harassment

Nice move. These companies are terrorist. Sometimes if U fail to cancel renewal, after a month when U mistakenly get #1000 credit gift. The next thing U will see is that your #1000 data bundle has been renewed. Abi na thief ni

Most times we don't appreciate our partners until we lose them. Guess one of them, or both of them will be regretting.

Fire fire in our con3. Give me plenty water to quench it.

Do You sex the oloshi on skin to skin. If not why Oloshi de sweet U like this. Every rich man, that travels a lot, might have slept with oloshi. But they don't carry it on their head, neither do they love oloshi. It is like U love Oloshis. Just live your life, stop thinking about the oldest business on earth.

mrpackager:
This one strong oooo.....

are they paying them @ bolded and how much?

It is not about how much they are paid. It is about a company using employment advert as a subterfuge to enslave humans. The persons would have caved a career for themselves with good health. But when Chevron tricks you into inhaling and handling lethal chemicals, you have no future or career and no good health due to the carcinogenic chemicals you might have inhaled. Also Chevron Nigeria limited might have used the trainees in defrauding Nigeria government, telling the government they have 5909 staff while in reality they pay 5000 as staff and the others peanuts.