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Destined2win:
The way I will empower the military when I become President, other nations will be trooping in here just to learn from us. I will do it!

If you really want to be president then you need to find a way to get out of Nigeria right now. The Nigerian mentality is all phucked up and you need to experience how normal people think and do business. Then you come back and apply all you have experienced and learnt. If not, it will just be a case of garbage in, garbage out.

hahn:
Do you think johnnydon22 learnt all this via the Nigerian schooling system? It's apparent that he is self taught

Really? Are you sure you understand how the internet works? If you have access to the internet, specifically Google, every form of information will be at your fingertips. People are just lazy and don't want to put forth the effort to want to learn anything. I can put up a topic on Rocket science in 10 minutes on NL. It does not mean I know anything about rocket science.

netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

You've just described Toks2008 to a T.

doveda:
Wow!. This is the kinda of threads I wish he would write. I have called him out several times on his manner of approach to these issues. I have explained to him that women have changed. As an adult, he should be trying to do is bridge the gender gap instead of widenning it. I can't blame him though, I blame the married women and shameless single women who take him as their personal lord and saviour.



Look at this convo from the fading beauty thread:





This was his reply:





My reply:









Toks2008, I am still waiting o

Lol...i doubt he'll show up.

doveda:
Wow!. This is the kinda of threads I wish he would write. I have called him out several times on his manner of approach to these issues. I have explained to him that women have changed. As an adult, he should be trying to do is bridge the gender gap instead of widenning it. I can't blame him though, I blame the married women and shameless single women who take him as their personal lord and saviour.



Look at this convo from the fading beauty thread:





This was his reply:





My reply:









Toks2008, I am still waiting o

Well said.

Mamog:
You are not making any sense my friend.. show m any plan by this government to manage the economy.. they came into government and the first thing they did was to share the balance LNG fund and u guys clapped for them as if GEJ hid the money somewhere.. they have been depleting the foreign reserve without making any plan to put something there..
They are picking fight every where.. which money will they use in prosecuting all the wars they want to fight.. they are seeking court order to seize Tompolo's assets forgetting that the Niger Delta Militants don't need court orders to commence blowing up oil facilities... the earlier we realise that PMB is a big mistake and begin to look for a solution the better for this country.
Very soon bread will be N1,000. If u think it's not possible go and ask Zimbabwe

I have just told you to take the country's history into consideration before making comments like this. The problem the country is facing has been festering since the day oil was discovered. I will share the secret of why countries like Germany, Britain, America etc are so great. For some reason, the concept seems to escape Nigerians and it's baffling. These countries are great because they understand that their greatest resource is their HUMAN resource and their knowledge or how taxation works. There's so much you can do with it. With your human resource you don't need oil. This is why these countries are not crying over the fall of prices and were not crying when the price was high as hell. Nigerians are not exposed or knowledgeable in matters that affect their lives. but if P square is involved, all of a sudden they pay attention.

praxisnetworks:
So that's why you don't have an economic team?

Those are just big words. All a country needs is it's finance minister and CBN governor or in the case of the U.S, The Federal Reserve Chairman. Fred Berananke helped the U.S get out the worst recession they'd ever seen. If anyone is not cutting it then you fire them. We just like doing things in a weird way in Nigeria. Committees, councils, "economic teams", probes, etc Recessions are not new. America has had more than a score since the country came into existence. The only problem with Nigerians, based on history, is that they do not know how to handle issues.

babestella:
Buhari and his gang are yet to prove any of these corruption cases in court, they are busy blaming the judiciary too. If you allege a man is corrupt, the onus is on you to prove it. Yes there is corruption in every corner of the world, it doesn't stop an intelligent government from moving the country forward. As it seems today, Buhari just earned himself the most clueless illiterate president ever in this world, even President Mugabe wouldn't perform this badly.

So, basically you are saying that Jonathan did a very good job steering the country in the right direction when he was in charge and the corruption allegations is and was unfounded. We should not even trace back the rot today to his stewardship during his tenure. Ok. Got it.

naijaboy756:
I wish Goodluck blamed Yaradua!

Do you even know what's going on in your country? You had a leader who's tenure was filled with unbelievable levels of corruption by people he appointed or nominated and you still want him back? Wherever corruption thrives, progress can never be made. It's common sense. When a child fails an exam in school, it doesn't just happen overnight. What did he do prior to the exams. Did he study? Did he ask for help? Were there safeguards to ensure he was studying. Blaming Buhari for this mess makes no sense. The symptoms have been there for years and only just exposed because of the drop in the price of oil. If oil prices hadn't dropped, Nigerians would still have been living in lala land thinking everything was fine.

Bishops10:
Bring back Goodluck Jonathan

You do realise he is a major part of the problem?

PoliticalThuG:
Next time when u hear "change", ask very well which type of change are they talking about.. I only pity my yoruba prothers who have nothing to produce apart from cocoa and cola

you are just too s.tupid for words.

doveda:
The first thread was an insult to women
This second thread is also an insult to women


This guy needs to get his shit together!!

He is a complete m.oron. For some reason he want's to come out as a wise, knowledgeable person but ends up looking like a foolish uninformed id.iot. Stories he should be posting should go something like this. True story;

I met my wife when she was 20. She wasn't what you'd call the sharpest tool in the shed but i could tell she had serious potential, plus, she was and is probably the most beautiful woman on the planet. I know what you are thinking. You are thinking "yeah right. Everyone says that about their wives". Well, i can assure you that is not the case. You need to see her to believe. She still looks pretty much the same way she was when we first met. And that's after 3 kids. She's like a freaking vampire. Anyway, i digress. My apologies. I get carried away whenever i talk about her. We met and i knew she was the one. Problem was she was not up to what you'd call my "standard". Beauty alone can only get you so far. A person has to develop one's self in order to maximize their true potential. First thing i did was hurt her feelings. Really bad. I let her know she was too vain and she was not using her true potential; her mind. She was a model and probably thought she could be a model forever. Of course, she didn't like hearing the truth, no one does. But eventually she took it in stride, which is why i love her so much, and started developing herself immensely. She got so immersed in self improvement and ambition that she almost overtook me in that aspect. And 15 years later, she has her own successful business, a masters degree and a mother of three. Don't worry, warri boy no de come last. I had to step up my game as well. Not to brag, but i . . . . . . . . That's the beauty of our relationship; we challenge ourselves to be better. If either of us stumbles, the other picks up the slack. We motivate each other to do better. And this is not saying we don't fight. Our fight's are epic. Our makeup is even more awesome. This is the kind of message this moronic toks2008 should be spreading. Not this kindergarten psychology he attempts to spread. Marriage is a partnership. Not a slave owner relationship.

Toks2008:
A lady who is not really desired by her hubby will be doing him a big favor by cheating on him because he will waste no time in sending her packing but If you find your wife cheating on you and you truly love her, what would you do?

1.Give her a second chance if she asks for forgiveness?
2.Leave her against all odds and marry another lady who may even be worse than your ex?
3.Start living a randy lifestyle by screwing every available lady till you grow old and start living a miserable solitary life?

Different men will react differently but i will definitely settle for the first choice IF I LOVE THE LADY because i believe it will be foolish for me to dump her and push her to the other man who will now cool down to really have his way with a woman i have invested so much time on.

But If she does it the second time,i won't waste my money filing for a divorce because i will be very foolish to use my hard earned money to free her so that another man can have full access to her NO WAY.

I would rather do the following.

1.Starts acting as though nothing happened.
2.Kill every love and passion i have for her.
3.Start Treating her like a real slut by laying with her recklessly like i have never done before.
4.Find another lady to marry.
5.Tells her until she divorces me, she still remains my LovePeddler while also stripping her all the benefits of a wife.
6.Apparently i will make the marriage hell for her but will never give her the luxury of spending my money to divorce her to be with her new love...NEVER.


So guys what would you do if A WIFE YOU TRULY LOVE cheats on you?

You must lead a very sad life.

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emzila:
the whites are already scared of the new Nigeria ideology.

In what way? South Africa never fear and whites. Lol. . . .

porka:
It'll continue till 2019.

We will pick Nigeria up from the terrible mess they are sinking it. We would start all over like in 1960.

When they hear Bu... next time, they will think deeply.

This should be a lesson for Nigerians. The lesson is for Nigerians to get involved in how the candidates are chosen in the first place. They need let the parties know that they want candidates who have a proven track record in leadership. Someone with irrefutable values and characters. Anyone who has an inkling of scandal should not even be considered. People call Buhari all kind of names forgetting that Jonathan was way worse and would have been worse as president today. Not saying that Buhari is doing any better though. See my point? both candidates presented leaves much to be desired. We need to do better.

NwaAdazi:
Ebele Ogbuanu the Hunter goes into the bush, kills a very big Antelope and sells it to Mama Ngozi who sells peppersoup. He sold the game for N1,000. He told mama Ngozi to make sure the peppersoup is well made because he is coming along with his friends in the evening to enjoy themselves. When they got there that evening, they ordered for plates of peppersoup. Ebele bought the head for N500, he bought the four legs for four of his friends at N500 each, another person ate the intestines as assorted, he paid N500 for it, three other people also ate N500 worth of peppersoup each. The hunter ended up spending N4,500 to buy what he sold to Mama Ngozi for N1,000. Mama Ngozi made a cool N3,500 profit just by cooking (processing) the meat and selling it back to where she bought it from. That is 350% profit and yet she still had excess remaining to sell to other customers. So who is wise and who is foolish here?

Let us relate this story to our dear country Nigeria. We sell crude oil to UK at $110 per barrel and we are very happy; so happy that we spend the money lavishly, and then go back immediately to UK to buy the processed crude oil in the form of Kerosene, PMS, AGO, Tar, petroleum jelly, wax, petrochemicals etc. At the end of the day we end up buying these products at 12 times the cost of what we sold them. How is it possible Nigeria is not broke. Nigeria sure has been broke since 53 years ago.

Culled

Ayeni Ekundayo
(Inbound Marketer |Google Certified AdWords Fundamentals, Search Advertising, Display Adverts)
https://ng.linkedin.com/in/dayoayeni

This is not the reason we are broke. We ate broke because we have an overall phucked up mentality

dearpreye:
You've simply wasted words. Nothing said.

I showed the same post to my 5 year old. He didn't understand it either. Funny thing was i showed it to my colleague at work and he did. How old are you again?

cococandy:
It's people like you that made it a cruel world with your selfishness and double standards.

See how you implied that it's okay for a guy to philander but when it comes to the woman, it becomes "shameless"
Aliens didn't come form Mars to make it cruel. Selfish People like you did.

Daaayyuummmnnnn!!!

cococandy:
So you know tok2008?
Lol I think say na only me.
I've given up on the dude long time ago.

He needs deliverance.

Toks2008:
You really think i have time for your juvenline deliquencies?

I think i should stop responding to your vague comments.

It will take time for prayers to work on you. Be patient.

Toks2008:
What a question?

Im old enough to have a graduate as a child...how i wish Seun has age sections on nairaland.

You know what I think? I think you have a potency problem. You can't function unless you can dominate a woman. I bet if you meet a confident woman it shrinks up. What's with you and male dominance? You need help. Every article you post is always about the subjugation of the female species. I will pray for you. Now close your eyes.

Toks2008:
This is a thread for men and not boys please...

If you want to comment here please do so like a matured person and not one high on liquor or oshogbo weed. Its not a must to make comments an we are not in a palm wine joint so make intelligent comments or keep mum.

A thread for men? What are you doing posting topics here then?

Toks2008:
All over the world,women divorce their hubbies for so many reasons but statistics have shown that infidelity tops the list especially in this part of the world where polygamy has become the norm,but the question is;does it make sense for a lady to divorce her hubby over infidelity when same man can as well decide and indeed marry more wives?

I want ladies to understand this one vital point that most and i mean MOST HUSBANDS will cheat on their wives even if they are married to angels and the fact that your husband cheats on you does not mean he does not deeply love and desire you.

Please don't get it twisted...Not all men cheat and adultery is a sin before GOD and all adulterers be a man or woman shall end up in hell but i am not here to preach any sermon but to face reality head on.

Many ladies are always quick to say they can not stand an adulterer as a husband and some will threaten to rain fire and brimstone on a philandering hubby but in case you discover your hubby cheats on you please what would you do?

1.Would you rather leave your marriage, remain single and celibate for life?

2.Would you rather leave your adulterous hubby and start sleeping about with other men who are probably randy or husbands of other women?

3.Would you keep changing the new man to start all over with another if he also cheats on you?

4.Would you prefer to stay with an adulterous hubby and also shamelessly philander about in the bid to seek a revenge?

5.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby,live a decent lifestyle and focus on your life and that of your children and just see him as a sex partner warning him to use protection if he must eat out?

6.Would you prefer a sexually decent hubby to take a new wife because he says he hates sleeping with random women?

Please don't answer with "none of the above because if you are in that position,you will certainly be faced with an option.

This is what i want many married ladies to know and i can't stress it enough..There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop a man to be polygamous either by sleeping around or taking a second wife "IF" he wants to and you can't even nag him out of it but In order to have a good stand if your hubby cheats on you,be a good wife first by being very humble,GOD fearing,Excellent cook,Financially independent,a crazy LovePeddler only to your hubby then watch and see.

Many ladies make some adulterous hubbies feel too important.Don't even think about worrying your head about your husband's fidelity but warn him to use protection if he must keep mistresses...i bet he will be so scared that he will sit up. Unfortunately many ladies just give their husband an excuse to have that Alpha ego whenever they rant and give them heat over an inconsequential emotionally vulnerable side dish.

There are more interesting things in life so please don't spoil your fun by hinging your happiness on your hubby's infidelity to you..trust me,If every married lady can care less if her husband cheats and just focus on developing her life and that of her child(ren),how happy many marriages will be. Its not difficult,,its a thing of the mind.

Hope this makes a little sense.

Here we go again. Another chauvinistic article from a chauvinistic prick. You can never end up with an assured and confident woman. I pity the slave you end up with. I strongly believe you should emigrate to Afghanistan or Iraq. You'll fit perfectly over there. At least they think exactly the way you do in matters relating to women. This muthafucker is justifying staying with a philandering husband. Really? Come and say this same shiit in an organized society and see if they'll not throw you out head first. There is something seriously wrong with you. I wonder what kind of environment you grew up in. I really wonder. I will keep bugging you till you receive sense.

XaintJoel20:
I initially thought Sahara Reporters were in the payroll of Tinubu, Buhari and APC Perhaps, Buhari has not paid December and January salaries. same fate some federal civil servants are battling with..
Anyway, I commend them for coming out open this time in the interest of Nigeria...

This is not the most embarrassing budget in Nigeria's history. It is nothing compared to the one's presented in the era of IBB, Abacha and OBJ. They put up ridiculous figures and no one could say a damn thing in objection. (Anyone remembers how many times the refineries have been fixed and re fixed since the 80's?) SR is just looking for traffic. Not saying this budget is a not a disgrace, but we still need to refer to and understand our history. We don't and that's why the same crap keeps on happening.

"Forgetting our past dooms us to failures in the future"-
Banmee.

freecocoa:
How did she flaunt her wealth in people's faces? A Birkin is a huge deal for bag lovers/fashion conscious people, so what's the biggie in saying she got one? It's her right to say it, It's yours to ignore or pick on it but don't call her wrong for showing she bought what she wanted in the most light hearted way possible sef, while I don't see the need to spell it out in words on the net, I do understand that everyone likes to show off, no matter how small.

Mike and bill Gates may not have time for such cos quite frankly, I don't know how many old men take social media as serious as the youth do, you don't know that the likes of Adenuga and Gates don't brag amongst their peers.

I'm talking about the house she mortgaged. And frankly, it's only an insecure person who does things like this. Also, you deserve whatever you get when you put your personal business on twitter, Facebook and instagram.

NiGeRianTr0ll:
It's quite clear she has very few friends that are celebs. She has pissed several people off let her enjoy how it feels for once.


And she is too proud, even small boys like us that make cougars wet will feel intimidated once they see her $14k bag that's why she's likely to die with a cucumber at her bedside

It's a lesson for all. You don't go about flaunting wealth in peoples faces. I don't see Mike Adenuga, Bill Gates etc doing that. If i'm not mistaken, they are far wealthier than she is.

kossyablaze:
Itz a pity most Nigerians dunno Sade Adu

Only a 5 year old would not know Sade adu

OKDnigeria:
http://dailypost.ng/2016/02/16/what-jonathan-told-me-after-he-conceded-to-buhari-ita-giwa/

Nigerians and English. At last? Like we care about it or even knew they spoke in the first place.

Ogbeche77:
Bunch of cooperate retards and misplaced priorities.. Now this is called pushing it to the limit.. I do not begrudge Olajumoke of luck, what I see are just leeches and opportunists everywhere..
And is it not shocking that in a country like ours, a ''model'' gets all attention and endorsements from cooperate sponsors while young men/women who are innovative are being deprived of funds. A few weeks ago on twitter, I came across a picture of a Nigeria student on twitter who invented biodegradable machine and a generator powered by water, just afew of his inventions. Another dude in Yaba tech used waste plastic bottles in an artistic way. No media attention.
A society that doesn't encourage science and research is headed for doom. Twitter and IG celeb offer no substance.. Its time we all wake up form our slumber

I beg keep quiet. You are making too much sense. We don't like that.

Staged

Money can never buy you class.