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DEMZEE:
WTF!

Ahan

It has failed and u are still supporting that trash

Nawa oo

Simps shaaa

It has slowed down in Africa because poverty. As if you know what a simp means. It is now the go to word for egotistical entitled male who try too hard to compensate for their impotence.

DEMZEE:
Exactly why feminism has failed

Rome was not built in a day.

zedegit:
The man doesn't provide for her. He's a loafer; always in one betting shop or the other but feels entitled to food.

He bares her from coming home after 7pm and often locks her out of the house.

Yet same nincompoop comes home anytime he wants. What should she do?

She's tired of his nonsense.

Dumbest question ever asked. Thunder fire poverty.

DEMZEE:
And how that helping men in the family court uhn?

How is it helping the marriage institution in those countries uhn?

Not all laws are fair. Only a s.tupid man will marry in the west today and not sign a pre nup. With a pre nup, the courts hands are tied.

BLOODYSPERM:
That explains why such societies are not seeing marriages again, children are not given birth to as before and high divorce rates

That is not the reason marriages don't last. The reason is women have realized they are not property to be owned and used. Unfortunately African men have not caught up to the realization yet. Using the bible or quran to claim superiority no longer works. They are fighting back and are demanding to be seen as partners. It's worse in Africa because of poverty hence the thread we are on right now. In a normal country, this thread would be ignored because it wouldn't apply to them

Yungstallion:
Have you ever wondered about the history of the origin of beads? Their origin is traced back to the African community, especially those with kingdoms like Nigeria and Ghana where women in the royal families wore them and people would use the different patterns, sizes, quality and length to differentiate their status.

Having said that, these are some reasons why women may want to put on beads. Here are some of the reasons.

1 Fashion, Fashion is what every woman desires to have in their life. A fashionable woman is a darling to everyone.

2 Weight watch, Majority of women would use the beads to watch if they are gaining weight or they are loosing it.

3) Cultural Heritage.
Some communities among the Indians value this type of beauty and they always keep it as a value addition.

You forgot to add the 4th reason. That it is sexy as phuuuck.....

DEMZEE:
How many countries do women buy and clothe men oooo

Ok. Agreed. I over exaggerated a bit but I know for a fact that in the U.S, Germany, Switzerland, Holland, Canada, etc will will take care of themselves and you.

Monogamy:


Usa are always the first to start unnecessary interfering into others affairs



Usa policy about Iran has always been the same, Biden or no Biden cos they are nuclear power country threat

We all better hope that Iran does not get close to Nuclear armament, Israel will nuke them to smithereens which will start world war 3.

Mikester:
This is a sequel to my previous thread @ https://www.nairaland.com/6427941/things-every-guy-should-know for the ladies in the house.

Disclaimer : This isn't to bash women neither is it meant to surface gender war. I'm no expert on women affairs but quite well-informed. Thanks. Love from Mikester.

10 things ladies should know before 30.

1. Set your priorities straight

Women are more likely to view things from an emotional perspective than a logical one which in most cases make them to stick to some wrong choices consistently.

That's why every sensible and wise lady should know how to chase her needs before her wants and to ensure to stick to that decision. Know thy needs young woman. The woman who knows how to set her priorities straight gets her heart desires.

2. Don't be materialistic

Especially when you're broke. A materialistic broke lady will not be able to prioritise wisely thus she's bound to fall.

If you're a materialistic lady, you will always want to have a lot which you don't really need. You won't think twice before buying expensive things (bone straight hair, 60k dress, e.t.c.) but will find it very difficult to invest in yourself.

It is only a while before you eventually turn your head towards prostitution or other illegal means to sustain your extravagant lifestyle. If you want to be materialistic, then be rich.

3. Don't put your looks forward and your hygiene behind

Though some women prioritise their looks and hygiene, we still have some who do not really care because they somehow tend to believe that they will get admirers no matter what. They are the "take me as I am" crew but they fail to realise that for a lady, her body shape, quality and looks equates her self worth and will also determine the kind of men that will approach and cherish her.

Women, your body is your money, high value men prefer better looking and clean women. Don't neglect that.

4. Be busy with something

Though you're beautiful and have an attractive shape, you still need to engage in something. Don't be idle. Don't be a queen waiting on a king. Be a queen busy with her kingdom until her king arrives. Work and earn money and quit prostitution and idle living.

5. Do not depend on your man for everything

It's disgusting when a woman tends to rely on her man for everything even her basic needs. Women like this won't be kept around for long.

6. Shun feminism

Don't be a feminist in your home if you want to have a healthy marriage, that will be lying to yourself and anyone who wants to be happy and successful shouldn't lie to his or herself.

If you yearn for a successful and peaceful marriage, shun feminism as it is against it. Let feminism be for women who choose to be single.

Hate feminism till your last blood drops and you will enjoy a better marriage.

7. Hug feminity

Feminity is the power a woman have to get what she wants. Women who imitate men tend to be unhappy and ridiculed by society. Feminity aids a woman far beyond marriage as well.

A feminine woman is nice, humble and caring. The traits men love most in women. A man would rather fall for a feminine woman than a masculine woman because she makes him feel like a man the most and he'll be eager to give in to her desires more than the other.

Moreover, a woman can't change a man to favour her but her feminity can be a reason for him to change. Thus, she becomes happy and other women will see her as an inspiration.

8. Close your legs

Your body value determines the class of men that will approach you, the more you lose your value through sex, the more serious high value men will despise you. Men study women. Men are watching you and most men will rather choose a virgin whether primary or secondary over a slut. You know that. Deal with it.

Besides the fastest way for men to loose interest in you is by sleeping with you. When you give it to me today, Xenry tommorow, Slawormiir the day after and BadRadio the next week, you're just giving the impression that you have less or no value which lowers your chance of getting or keeping better men.

9. Stop chasing bad boys and scornful men

For God sake, chasing people will always put you at a loss. Consider a man who sells yam at the road and sees Uncle Lalasticlala driving by and chases after him with a tuber of yam, begging him on arrival to purchase the yam.

If the yam's original price was #1, 200, Uncle Lalasticlala will be at power to reduce the price to his own choice, perhaps as low as #500 which will make the man out of desperation to tender it to him leading to his sad loss BUT peradventure the man had opened a nice yam shop with an attractive display that lures people to it, he would sell at a much better price and may even find a better buyer.

Therefore my point is this, chasing people especially bad people will put you at a huge loss. You'll have to follow their own terms to be accepted and what do most guys require from ladies? You'll answer that yourself.

Besides studies have shown that being a bad boy is no longer perceived as cool. Chase a bad boy if you love to be taken advantage of.

As I said to the guys in my previous thread, so I'll say, Don't chase people man or woman, rather be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you.

10. Invest in yourself

It will do you good and no evil. People who invest in themselves increase their value and are revered by society. Read more books than people's statuses. Look more attractive, engage in something, add to your cooking skills, be hygienic as though no one has ever be hygiene before. Invest in yourself today.

Hope I'm making sense


Courtsey - Mikester

Title of this thread should be "Things every man should know before they are 30 IN NIGERIA" because most of what you have written does not apply to women in Normal countries where they will buy you and also feed and clothe you.

psucc:
Be contented with that while waiting to secure a better job. No follow follow person.

True. But it is better if one is ambitious and follow in the footsteps of other successful people.

Badadvisor:
500k? Lol

You must be rich to laugh at 190 million, five hundred thousand Naira.

BRATISLAVA:
The swollen eye.

Nigerian drivers and brutalizing their female passengers. They usually don't try it with men because they will be beaten in turn.

It's nothing new, there was a time one beat up a woman for not greeting him, when he is the one offering the service.

You are right. Didn't see that. I be think say na so e face be naturally.

Idiotseverywher:
. They don't, what the need is the agreed tax to be paid, most of the market especially where Igbos trade are privately owned, that of ASPANDA or trade Fair is owned by ministry of commerce federal government, the Lagos State government has been trying to interfere but it has not been easy, like that of computer village and alaba, the market union there will take them to court if they misyan

And that is the control the government has.

Where are the injuries?

Felabrity:
He don relocate go ghana

I have a new respect for the guy. No sane person should have ambitions of living the rest of their lives in that rubbish called Nigeria. That is exactly my plan when I retire. All I need is 500k and it will come to fruition. In shabalayan name. Amen.

Idiotseverywher:
. Who do you think owns the market ? That is a private property bought by those traders, why do you think Lagos government has no say in alaba market

You are joking right? A legitimate government has no say about a market in the state it governs. Lol.... ok. You should be worried about that.

Jaqenhghar:
LOL. Try this bro you cant go wrong. Na my oga for office share this recipe with me.
Madam dey do break dance as I speak

Loool....I can visualize it. Make sure she performs the eletcric bugallow.

Jaqenhghar:
I can imagine. Plenty talk shey

Bro, you have no idea.

Jaqenhghar:
LOL. You no even comot uniform

Comot wetin? Na death by PowerPoint yesterday. From 0900 to 1700. It was painful.

Jaqenhghar:
Banmee check out this bad boy. Its called the nashville fried chicken sandwich (sammich)
Link to memu below

https://www.rte.ie/lifestyle/recipes/2020/0603/1145205-nashville-fried-chicken-sandwich-cook-in/

cc. Cococandy pocahontas

Ol boy. E don tey wey i shop burger. You come de make me hungry for one. Kai.

Yesterday was annoying as phuck. It was damn near beerthirty and we were still stuck in our quarterly EO and SHARP class. We were provided crappy food so I had to go out and console myself with this.

See the madness your god does to you?

lilvicky68:
When you allow your maid to cook clean and take care of your husband what do you expect..the man has seen that the maid is better than you.. nice one sir

Would you say the say the same thing if it was the wife who divorced her husband to marry her male servant? She'd be LovePeddler right?

Acidiously:
Okay, make sure you remember it's against teams he has faced not all serie A teams

Read it again. It is all the teams in the Serie A. Not all the football teams in all the leagues in Italy. He has been there for 3 years going on four remember?

Sleyanya1:


Hit Or Miss


Like for hit
Share for miss

It's a miss for me sha

My wife loved it which automatically meant I hated the movie. She's a helpless romantic. I watched 5 minutes before I started rolling my eyes in disgust and then started snoring. In that order.

YungMillionaire:
How is it even possible for a human being to be citizenless? Na wa o!

Half the mofos here if I ask won't even know what renouncing Nigeria's citizenship means. It means nothing. And unless a person advertises it on CNN how will Nigeria know? And even if they did, what is the benefit of having Nigeria's citizenship?

Jaqenhghar:
When did tomato and onion become food?

Good question

I wouldn't advertise this place too much. Nigerians will soon phuck it up. It's in their nature. They can't help it.

Jaqenhghar:
Whkch kain wahala be this. As if you know what I have been craving for

Hehehehehe. I exist to torture your inner long throat.

pocohantas:
You are not weird . I really do not eat, but I enjoy cooking and I also eat better in the company of people.

Now that is a no no for me. Unless we are incredibly close. I get irritated easily. I never know when I'm going be around a person who eats with their mouth open or smacking their mouth as they chew so I avoid people eating around me.

Jaqenhghar come shop ooo. Minimalist nkwobi.

May his soul rest in peace. But I thought planes are flown and not driven.