₦airaland Forum

Billyonaire666:
Are you saying she is inferior?

Her mentality is.

Draslo:
Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

It does not matter if you want to sleep with her or not. The fact that she is married and her husband is unaware that the person she wants to help manage her business is an ex should tell you something. I suspect you know what you are about to do is wrong but you need confirmation. Just as you said, there are multitudes of women out there same as there are plenty of opportunities as well. You are walking down a very dangerous path that won't end well for you.

Jaqenhghar:
My oga. Where you enter nah. You scarce pass common sense in Nigeria

Omo how now? Remember say I tell you say I de do wan course. The tin just de stress me like crazy. Dem wan turn me into teacher oooo. How your family? Hope all is good.

Asour:
Thanks.

Actually I had (all) my schooling in Nigeria.

Funny enough your nice remarks made me go back to check my response. I found a number of errors which I have now corrected. Thanks again.

I was more concerned with the logical structure of your comment rather than the grammar. Rare as phuck on NL. Really rare.

Asour:
Why should we trust you?

We don't even know you! I.e the real you. To us you're just a nairaland moniker.

Hahahahaha! Never mind my jabs above.

On a serious note though, there are NO total solutions in life. Every decision in life essentially involves TRADE-OFFs. I.e. opportunities forgone for taking a course of action. There are TRADE-OFFs to marrying late as well as early. Hell, there are TRADE-OFFs in not marrying vs marrying too. (But that's another conversation).

Intellectual honesty requires that one at least agree that no course of action in subjective issues like these is PERFECT.

It always nice to marry early though but their are costs.

Let's not get into marrying while poor. Unless of course poor is relative.

You go know say this guy go school. Kai...... Most definitely did not pass through the Nigerian education system for sure. See structured response.

gbami:
Let me guess.. you are not married.
When you get married and he can't provide make sure you remember me.
Guys listen. From a married man. Marriage no be fantasy island o. It is reality. Nobody expects you wife to contribute a penny in marriage unlike relationship. You go get High BP if you can't provide basic stuff for your family. Reality is different from "20 ways to make marriage work" written by one single woman.
If you can't provide basic for yourself and another person...no marry. Guys, Stand up, Draw your ears..Repeat after me.. "If I no fit provide basics for myself and another person, marriage motivators leave me". You can now sit down guys.

Make sure you add "In Nigeria", when you write things like this.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad......damnnnnn..
Damnn....a proper investigation should be carried out...
It is possible the car was snatched from the pastor to carry out that crime....because you nor fit carry out this crime finish then still leave the dead body inside your car

That is why it is always good to report to the police immediately them snatch your car...

Damnnn when a real niggarr heave a sigh of relief and he is about to light up his weed thinking he has heard and seen enough in this godamnn world then boom another shit pops up

Lol...see as the guy just create e own narrative out of thin air. I guess he missed the part where the headline said "decomposing bodies". So if his car was stolen e no get nose to smell rotting flesh? Nigerians and too much home video.

Onyi22:
From my inbox

I met this guy in my final year in school, we almost shared the same view in life, he possesed all the qualities I need in a man.

He's so caring, kind, handsome, a good pay Job n from a humble home, I can't deny the fact that I Love him.

But the issue is that he's a Muslim while am a christian lady.

Pls house does religion matters in marriage

Don't let anyone deceive you. It is a big problem. Especially if he is a devout Muslim. Remember, in Africa, the extended family will use it as a weapon to sow evil seeds between you two.

Jaqenhghar come shop ooooo.

Jaqenhghar come shop oooo.

Jaqenhghar:
There is this subtle endorsement of rape in Nigeria. Well even murder is no longer a big thing..... in fact is there any crime they dont endirse there?

Lol. I never thought of it like that.

Akuchinyere:
My friend be quiet that's not the issue on ground.... Open a new thread for ur atheist talks

Lol. You too dumb. I am commenting about religion in a thread about religion and this m.oron has a problem with it.

hopeforcharles:
Me thinks this is attention, popularity and marketing moves.

And that's why women are afraid to speak up about being raped. People like you.

1Sharon:


A bit extreme

I don't think so. The Bible is a wonderful book written by motivational speakers who had good intentions but underestimated how evil men can perverse anything. A pastor will tell you that the only way you can be wealthy is to donate a healthy portion of your hard earned income to him meanwhile, a little financial education can do that and you do not have to spend anything to acquire the knowledge. The funny thing is that same knowledge is also in the Bible they so profess to love and read. St.upid people everywhere.

1Sharon:
Aren't women more religious than men? Is that a lie?

You seem not to understand. Anyone who believes in any God is a fool. Thats the point.

1Sharon:
Women are more religious than men cos they are more gullible

And I'm a woman, he's right

So let's break down your argument logically. Does it matter who does what more in this situation? You are basically saying women willingly fall prey to fraudsters more than men but they both do it. Got it. Makes sense. Smh. .

kalu61:
An average Nigerian woman will listen and worship a pastor far more than her husband

You see them trooping to worship centers, vigils, crusades and conferences.


Mana otu abu n'ezi

Olaniyi alago alumdi ya niyi maka ukochuku

St.upid people everywhere. As if Nigerian men don't that too. Bottom line, if you believe in angels you are reta.rded

gomojam:
I am not a tribalist. That was just an illustration for your illogicalities and selfishness.

Guy just stop. My sides are hurting from laughing. So I am the crazy one for telling a citizen of a country not to be a tribalist. I going to drink some brandy.

gomojam:
Living in Nigeria? So u are probably in one of the racist country that have continue to progress despite racism yet you do not want me to advocate for the dissolution of a failed experiment called Nigeria because of the younger brother of racism, tribalism? What a selfish individualistic and visionless human you are.

See logic. A tribalist is advocating why he has to be one because racism exists in other countries. See why you people will never move past your stagnation?

BSdetector:
Why so pressed and pained concerning his statement.....how is his statement even tribalistic, is it because it promotes the advancement of his tribesmen that makes him tribalistic?, should he give more loyalty to a nation created by whitemen in Berlin or more loyalty to his tribe.......if evil racism didn't stop the advancement of countries you nigerians are running over to, countries which were built on racism which you nigerians living abroad can't leave.....if such countries could be successful what then is stopping a Yoruba nation from being successful or the next Singapore.....truth is that you're the real tribalist.

Again, your mentality is the reason you all are stuck in the deserved vortex you are all in.

uunwanaobong3:
Young man, before i argue with you further, HAVE YOU READ THE POLICE ACT of that state?

Do you know that choke hold or pin down is widely and commonly used in almost all the states in america for decades?

As i said before, law does not care about the emotions/sentiment of the masses or political opinion or woke culture or media.......... Law deals with undeniable facts, full and comprehensive evidence and the constitution.

Do you even understand what a choke hold or pin down is? I hold a level 3 combative ranking and there is nothing legal about pinning your opponent down by kneeling on their neck. Except of course if you want to kill him. You can put a choke hold on a person by wrapping your arm around someone's neck in order to restrain them temporarily or put them to sleep by cutting off blood flow around the neck to the brain. And you have to know what the phuck you are doing to even try that. Dude stop googling rubbish and stick with what you know. And bros, you can pin down a culprit with your knee on their back not their neck.

uunwanaobong3:
Pls can you argue based ön fact? And stop insulting.

The truth is bitter.

As a lawyer, i can assure you that no one can prove that the officer is a racist, because the crime was not a racial crime.

Neither can any one prove that the officer murder mr floyd, because he uses legal and cönstitutional backed means of arrest, which has been widely used in the states for years.

Infact the only crime that the officer can be accused of is NEGLIGENT, and as such he has to pay for damages in tort of breach or failure in administering his duty of care as of the time of the incident.

Law is blind to the emotion of the masses. Law deals with fact

such as it has been proven that late mr floyd was a fraudstar(counterfit money) & an overdosed drug addict who refuses to enter a police car.

i feel sorry for floyd But i deal with fact

Are you high? Since when has kneeling on a suspect's neck a means of subduing a culprit? What rubbish are you talking about?

gomojam:
There is high probability that a sovereign Yoruba nation would surpass Singapore in no time and take the position she deserves in the committy of nation as super power and developed country.

She has every resources and characteristics to becoming that if she can pull off the burden of Nigeria.

There is no way in hell you can be great at anything with that tribalistic mentality. Absolutely no way hence your lot in life as Nigerians living in Nigeria.

Jaqenhghar:
Wow nice. Im good jist a case of the blues. It is becoming very frequrnt these days I dont know if its because of this damned lockdown

You probably have the flu or something. Get well soon brosef.

Jaqenhghar:
I feel very very far from this bro but thanks. I love the song . Good Morning...what time is it over there ATM and what is the good news?

Its 7 am and I start this course today I've been lobbying for 2 years now. Life is good. Whats up with you though?

Jaqenhghar:
Dont bother educating them.

Good morning bro. I woke up feeling this. Hope you feel the same way too.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7nG0CHBy0o

tit:
People like you are why Nigeria will never progress.
Do you think the jihadist policy makers dont know what they are doing in insisting on Ruga in every local government area of southern Nigeria?
Havent some Northen states offered to set up Rugas? Why hasent the goverment made all herdsmen to relocate to these Rugas? Or is the cattle will not be belleful except they graze on the little piece of arable land in Bayelsa?

Why you people go to school still amazes me. How a supposedly functioning human being can fail to understand what i wrote is mind boggling.

This is what happens when you don't plan as a country. The concept of growing what these cows eat seem alien to Nigeria which is why the government never planned for it. Normal countries assist farmers in growing hay so that problems like this does not occur. Not in Nigeria though. They are turning what is supposed to be a minor and solvable issue into world war 3.

Jaqenhghar:
LOL.
Oga Banmee. Wetin you do this guy nah

Na bad belle de do am. I see a tree in his life.

Under16:
my bro..welcome back. Abeg no dey change moniker like this...i even mistook u one time 4 d spoilt brat called banmee

Lol...take a bath and drink some whiskey. It should calm you down.

Jaqenhghar:
LOL. E be like say you see something. So the paper he gave him is it some kind of report on what your superior did to you..... is it the standard practice?

Na standard practice ooo. It's called the inspector General's complaint. Not a good thing at all. Your best defense for it is to have counseling paperwork for the soldier to show a trend or pattern of misbehavior. I've had a few IG complaints myself and na counselings save me.

Jaqenhghar:
LOL. Let me tell you my story. I remember when I was still in naija and I was talking to my boss, one woman from UK. I remember the look she gave me when I mentioned me having savings.


We have this hoard8ng mentality that's part of the reason.

Bro, just came across this. This was what I went through in basic training and it was constant. Dude, they will test the phuck out of you just to see if you will break. It's funny now but it was not funny then. Funniest thing is I actually did 03:47 and I was almost destroyed. That was my 1st journey into the land of real push ups.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VliOGfNCVc