₦airaland Forum

fashrola:
Probably you are right and wrong.....

Lol.. okay buddy

The curse of Hollywood

Wodu89:
Always perform all necessary tests before una build na. How can you buy lands billions per SQ meter and can't or rather refuse to conduct integrity tests at every level of your building.


Do people bother to ask about how integrity tests applies and matters to construction projects especially in high rising buildings at all?

If we say that as a society all buildings from certain heights must have integrity tests at every levels, are these tests not supposed to be scrutinized by the governing authorities from before and during building processes ?


And to think it's Banana island, written about on Wikipedia as the home to Nigeria's brightest minds and the cream of the society, yet in such quintessential issues fail woefully ?


How can Africa be ever redeemed how?


From the pictures, it's clear to see that it's yet again Chinese building technology.

I've always maintained that I don't trust modern Chinese architecture that focuses on material and cost reduction over safety concerns. No be me go stay for those buildings that looks like houses constructed over bamboo sticks

Please leave China out of it, the technology cannot be at fault it's the humans who cut corners

tizteezy:
What about Kenstar ACs?


How reliable are they?

Have you used them before?

I've not used any but Kenstar is an Indian based company. Might be good from what I read up on it.

God forbid.

Too bad

JosephXavier:
You have your own space, so why not use it the way you want?

How dare you tell me what to write in my own space?

STFU...

Sebastine1994:
My mum sells fish, one day I started eating her fish and she caught me.

She picked up the umbrella and used it as cane, she whipped me until she saw blood.

Then she just paused and started crying. I was bleeding badly. She immediately found a cloth to stop the bleeding and rushed me to the chemist.

What is this 😂😂😂

None at all. My mom is a gentle dove.

JosephXavier:
The first governor to be installed by the Uba family that helped to drain Anambra state coffers and also the only one-term governor in Anambra so far (Soludo may be the second)

I can't forget during his regime that schools both secondary and primary school teachers went on strike for one full academic year

It was the terrible things Ndi Anambra saw under him that made them choose Peter Obi who turned the state around from being "Home for all criminals" to the "Light of the nation"

May his gentle soul rest in peace

You're stupid for not acknowledging Governor Chris Ngige.

May God have mercy on his soul.

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

😩😩

kyber:
This girls broke up with me through text message,so I called her and pretended not to see the message, she even asked me if I saw the message but I denied it. She didn’t say anything more, she told me to check my message and anytime she asks if I saw it I told her no that I haven’t.
I Refused To Accept The Breakup Untill She Started Flaunting Her New Guy

Please what do I do now ?
Why couldn’t she tell me to my face?
Or does she still love me ?

Is that how love should be ? Please be a man and move on. It won’t be easy but you’ll heal eventually.

mosho4all:
Good evening,

I had an encounter with Nigeria police twice regarding a intimacy gadget in my car which they are telling me is a illegal. They stated that it’s must be ceased from me.

Lawyers in the house please enlightening us regarding this please

No it is not.

fashrola:
Probably they came in recently, cos I wanted to get their product and searched the internet and never got to see one, that was three to four years ago

You’re wrong, you didn’t search well.

toluxa1:
Ah, no new Daikin in Nigerian bawo! Daikin has authorized Dealers in Nigeria. Their adverts have been all over for months now.
I just bought 3Units of their 2HP Inverter. It's an incredible product, even better than Panasonic I believe.

Top 1% air conditioners in the world. I bet it cost you an arm and a leg 😅

anayolity:
Small thing Una don start silly conversion

Nna Ike gwuru

Septagon:
You guys above saying its too small.u guys are funny.have u converted it to naira?do u know how many games they officiate in three months?do u know abt allowances?

Are you dumb or what ? Is Naira the legal tender in the United Kingdom? 🤡🤡

IamAgod:
I haven’t used it for a day cos I’ve not been around but I’ll give you an update once I’m back before end of the month

Alright, thanks

shosky1794:
I have bought mattresses for about 5 clients in the last 4 months or so. With your stated weight and an extra person, I will advise you buy a vita supreme mattress. It's just a level below an orthopedic mattress. If you can't afford that then you can for a vita grand(10ft), it's also very good. They have a comprehensive pricing on their website unlike Mouka. You will even get better prices at any of their vita shops(note: not distributors) near you.

Hi, I know this is a long time but I see you’re still very active here, I’m looking to buy an orthopedic mattress but I’m looking for the cheapest option available for a 6x6.

With the inflation and all prices having gone bunkers but can you suggest any good brands.

Apart from vita, Mouka a friend uses winghan a Chinese imported product not too bad and I’ve seen another product here Green earth a new product. What do you think ? Are the durable options available? Thanks

IamAgod:
Thank you for your quality service and resourcefulness
It’s was nice doing business with you sir.
The mattress is in great shape 🙂

After using for almost a month now, what’s your current review?

This is coming from a sitting governor oo 🫢🤣🤣🤣

Tomiwasamuel:
There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.

First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?

Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?

Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.

In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

I agree totally with your submissions

Lai now speaking for INEC, this guys stoopidity is amazing

God, he is lucky to be alive, look at those deep cuts

Fantastic idea

motionarena:
Dey play.

Guys on a serious note.
Twitter app is sucking my data what can I do to stop this.

Seeking for attention 🤔 alright take 1

skj1377:
Enugu is a lovely town
Good place to spend your loot

😂😂 True though

Why didn't you go Senator?

jessylaurel:
Your useless insults will go back to you. Onye nkuyere

🤡🤡🤡 Be there and wait for pocket money o.... Anu ohia

This lifeless thing 😅,she was so ugly the day i had no choice but to watch one episode of the eviction show