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it's time you asked for handout to start a shop of your own.

Swallow your pride and ask. A closed mouth is a closed destiny

Emi o ni fi owo osi juwe ile baba mi

Me likey

Now this is inspiring!

Who cares?

Gkemz:
This is how we see, except you're a feminist that's when you argue this. Its a generally accepted notion not a battle of sexes as usual.

Accepted notion that women need to advertise themselves or that when a woman exhibits the mentioned attributes, she's advertising herself?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I'm sorry if I may have come off too blunt in passing my message but we have to call a spade a spade.

Everybody has the right to whatever opinion he/she pleases, but a dumb opinion will forever remain a dumb opinion. I just couldn't look at it and pass. surely everyone cannot be passive, some of us just cannot overlook bullshyte when we see one.

You're welcome. [/color]

It's no problem.
Cheers!

Femiartalade:
ok...fine i dare you to say it!

I wee not

3rdlegxxx:
Funny i just noticed both your replies, bro naijaboi u need to chill, it's messed up when a guy can't handle an argument when a girl raises a point without referring to insults rather than intelligently drive home punch lines packed with easy but real and true words, i am not a fan of taking sides until i have an idea of the state of minds of the people having a go at each other or when one starts a topic like this.

Thanchuuu!

Truckpusher:
Check your mail please

Okies!

MzLarem:
pardon my inquisitiveness,if you are not the relationship type..what type are you?

The type who's often not in a relationship...

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Oh! You saw where she was agitating for men to keep fit but you turned a blind eye to the part where she said she would cheat and you came here to ask why some guys are throwing stones at her like you don't know why.

If the dumb Op had come out to clearly state her agitations and then give solutions I'm very sure this thread will not turn out this way.

So if you came here to question why guys are against her instead of cautioning her against the aspect of cheating she made then it very well means you support the Op's dumb and lopsided mentality.

And when you support a dumb mentality you know what that makes you to be automatically.

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My stand was clear in my initial post. You were just too eagerto dish out insults and you still are.

I addressed exactly what I was concerned about. Those who see no reason why men should keep their body in good shape.

Enough with the insults already. If you can't do without it, mentioning me has got no consequential effect on your e-life...you can do without it.

Thank you!

Truckpusher:
Lmao , where did you get that word from ? I do not disappear , you apparently didn't look out for me well enough .

Now I'm here , so what's it gonna be ? Are we in business ?

Oh yes!


Wait o! What type of business

Your whatsapp has been inactive...

Truckpusher:
Lol, who cares - just wanted my stuff back . He's got no point at all , that was a breach of trust .

Lol... You are such an ungrateful sperm


BTW
Why do you like disappearing the way you do? It's not funny, you know?

Truckpusher:
Bullshit

I ain't giving out any blank cheque to anyone . Last time I left my ATM card with my Dad , the dude took me to the cleaners and when the fight started he told me how hard he fuccked my mom to make me breath .

The old man has got a point, though

Did you ask him the style they used?

wristbangle:
From your response, I get your answer.



No mind am baba. Something whey e dey happen well.

Lol. You are welcome. You argue a lot. Kilode!

Truckpusher:
You never requested for anything nah !

Just say it

Blank cheques are always the hardest to fill.

Just surprise me

wristbangle:
From your response, I get your answer.

Thanchuuu

Truckpusher:
It does happen .

And you are yet to buy me even recharge card


E no dey happen

Truckpusher:
It does happen .

And you are yet to buy me even recharge card


E no dey happen

o ma se o!



Bet why?

Femiartalade:
lmao....what would u have said? without the winks

If you really are interested in knowing, you shouldn't have included the 'winks' in the first place

wristbangle:
Lol very "corny" answer. You speaking from the angle that the guy is your bf. What if he is a friend u just met?

You shouldn't even be asking me this question.

It might happen in other countries but not in Nigeria; certainly not in this part of the world. A guy who is just a friend to a lady he just met buy her a car or some other expensive gifts with the kind of mentality we have in this country?

E no fit happen make we no yarn am at all

wristbangle:
Sure it is debatable but let me ask you this question. You just met a guy and hang out with him as a friend. If the next time, he presents a range rover sport as a gift, will you accept it? If YES, don't you think, you will seen as a cheap, desperate, broke and hungry lady?

I would be skeptical of such gift any reasonable person would be.

That's why I used the word relative and debatable.
Your bf/gf should be able to assist when you need financial help if they have the capacity to help.
Let's just stop all these drama about collecting from a guy already. It's not a taboo to receive financial help from a guy especially someone who claims to love you.

I won't reject gift from a bf so long it's not above his income.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And if her man cannot reach her requirements cheating is the next option?

You ladies further prove how dumb you are with the way you articulate and bring out your points.

SIGH![/color]

You really should have stopped at the first sentence...the insult attached to it is highly unnecessary.

The fact that I support what the OP is agitating for does not mean I support what she has made up her mind to do should her man be found wanting.

Femiartalade:
you haf vex.....laughs...


i like ur way of advertising sha...winks

My dear, e pain me no be small.

Your last sentence, cos of the 'winks' attached to it, I'd let it pass

wristbangle:
Hmm now we are diverting from the topic but it's still on point.

Well some ladies use this cocoon of pretence to deceive guys which becomes difficult for them to know her real colour.

That's reminds me of a story shared by my friend about a lady who was forming good girl just to lure her fiance to marry her. After the wedding ceremony, the beast in her showcased but it was too late for the guy to reverse his decision of marrying her. Well he struggled initially in the marriage but I heard their marriage is peaceful now sha.



Pele oo

I don't believe we are going off the topic...

You are communicating the right msg in a wrong way and the point about not collecting gift from a guy...my dear, it's relative and highly debatable.

The points you have mentioned should be seen in any responsible lady without any connection to 'advertising' herself for marriage.

Gosh! That word advertise...what?
E don bad like this... Are ladies now commodity

SycophanticGoat:


Partner of life... Have you completed it?

danieljessy:
SMH.anoda potential adulteral sighted.

I don't even know where to start from. I'd just let you be...

Enjoy yourself

wristbangle:
You have a point but don't forget the competition is getting higher. Only the smart ones(ladies) know how to manoeuvre their ways into getting the big fish (a complete man)

It still boils down to pretence, my dear.
What you do just because you need a big fish.

It should be whom you are because that is whom you should be not what you do to earn a tittle

SycophanticGoat:
LoL.. Whenever they watch those craps, they paint in their minds, Utopian islands, inhabited by only Utopian guys. They eventually turn down guys with good intentions that wouldn't create poems or lyrics of love songs and sing to them, for conmen who'd go the extra mile, just to dig her under. When those kinda guys finally leaves them, they turnaround and bash all guys, calling them names.

Op, I employ you to cheat on your man and may God give you a possessive man to handle your cheating àss

Issorite!

I don't get it.
Men want ladies to be in good shape even after childbirth. I've seen lots of threads about how ladies should always look sexy and presentable to keep their men suddenly it's now bad for a lady to request same from her man.

Ladies should always strife to meet up with the physical requirements of men but they should never ask the man to keep fit.

wristbangle:
Is the one "advertising", a negative word? It is only what you want to accomplish with your advertisement, that is where the question is.

Going by this submission of yours, it's looks more like pretending.

I'd rather you admolish ladies and guys to inculcate good morals rather than flashing the light on being responsible for the sake having the 'Mrs' tittle attached to her name in the case of ladies.