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Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is This Thing Situated In Almost Every Nigerian City? (Pictured) by BeboNGN: 5:01pm On Jun 07, 2023
lhordspy:
It is a concrete elevated water tower. Na just normal tank but built with concrete. It is one of the best way to store water. Safe, durable and in case of fire outbreak. It keeps stored water safe from contaminants, bacteria and pathogens. Concrete can also keep water cooler throughout the entire year as the material itself is a poor conductor of heat. Plus it also helps keep water molecules intact. They provide sufficient pressure for effective water distribution within the networks system. They rely on hydrostatic pressure produced by elevation of water (due to gravity) to push the water into the different system.
You're an expert sir. Kudos
BusinessRe: Tingo Group (Dozy Mmobuosi) Is A Fraudulent Enterprise by BeboNGN: 5:00pm On Jun 07, 2023
Obanla100:
In one of the reports I read online, it was stated that Mr Dozy was the one who designed FlashMeCash, the first mobile payment solution in Nigeria.

This is very far from the truth!

I am one of the software engineers in the team that developed FlashMeCash and
I never met or knew Mr Dozy during these period.
Hello sir, I will like to be part of your company, can I send my CV to you sir?
BusinessRe: Tribapay Is Still The Most Reliable For Dollar Cards Because Of Customer Care by BeboNGN: 10:17pm On Jun 02, 2023
Lyricalz01:
Who knows about chipper cash dollar card?
Their rate and how reliable they are?
Scam.... Stay clear!
PoliticsRe: Police Raid Auxiliary’s Home In Oyo, Recover Weapons, Ammunition (pics) by BeboNGN: 3:15pm On May 30, 2023
mike8804:
The same guy was used to attack Sunday igboho, burnt his house.
Really, how come he knows igboho secret
FamilyRe: My 4-Year-Old Daughter Keeps Telling Mysterious Stories About Her Past Life by BeboNGN: 3:10pm On May 30, 2023
Amaka430:
she is possessed
Take her for deliverance
Do it now that she is tender
Another power is living in her
Are you the one that posses her?
FamilyRe: My 4-Year-Old Daughter Keeps Telling Mysterious Stories About Her Past Life by BeboNGN: 3:09pm On May 30, 2023
kekakuz:
My first daughter happens to live with her mum and i only get to see her Like once a week or less.

I have noticed that when ever she talks to me on phone, she talks like an adult. She says things only an experienced person would say.for example, she called me to buy 3 cakes for her birthday and I questioned why.

She said because the last time I bought her cake was for her 1st birthday and I have to buy for all the years I did not buy.recently, I asked her who is God and she said God is a spirit that lives in heaven and is on the water and he created everything from the the water.

Even though this sounds incoherent and funny, I don't expect such answer from a 4 years old girl.

Today, I called her to myself and ask her what of her mum and she answered "which one" I was shocked .

I proceeded to ask her how many mum does she have and she said "my mum dies long time ago and this one is her second mum" I was shocked to the bone.

So I separated her from her siblings and asked deeper questions even tho I didn't want her to feel scared. She also told me she had 2 othere siblings and called their names. Told me where she lived before and this is where I stopped.

I have always wanted to belive In Reincarnation and this is proof before my very eyes .

Guys what do you think and how do I handle this
Your girl is a gift from GOD to the world. She's older than you.

If you're a good Christian, pray to God for revelation concerning your daughter, you will see what God will show.

Or

You can go to a living prophetic Church, not fake ones ooo'.... Or the one that will ask you to fast for 40 days or lock up the girl.

Go to a LIVING Prophetic church with the baby and explain to them.

She's way older than even your father...

Both you and your wife needs to come together to raise this children, so she won't miss it in life.

Where there's no revelation people perish.
TravelRe: I Asked Russian General And Soldier To Say Hello To Nairalander by BeboNGN: 11:04pm On May 27, 2023
gimakon2:
grin Western Media don confuse you finish sir.
Go Belgium , make we know if the racism go allow u near any EU country grin

Your country and Africa day owe Europe , China , US and Russia , na only Russia forgo the money Africa day owe , others day Una neck, yet Russia is the bad one ? grin okay o...
Hollywood have done numerous damages
CrimeRe: Businessman Loses $11m Cash In Broad Daylight Robbery In Ogun (pic) by BeboNGN: 9:32am On May 27, 2023
Na lie... There is no way you will carry 11 million naira to the bank and they will refuse, not to even talk about Dollars.

Lies
FamilyRe: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by BeboNGN: 8:20pm On May 24, 2023
CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.
"A simp is a danger to himself, to his family, and to the society". Ghost of Bakhmuth

This is a lesson to every single person out there.

Before you marry do family background check.

There is 99% certainty that what happens in the family will repeat itself.

DONT BE TOO WOKE TO CONDEMN YOURSELF TO A LIFE OF ANGUISH, AND SADNESS.

@OP I am very sure your wife looks exactly like her mother physically.

The same problem which her mother faced maritally is the same problem your wife will face, except steps are taken urgently.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Bad Day: I Fell From Ladder Today While Doing House Painting by BeboNGN: 2:11pm On May 11, 2023
I can't relate my brother. This reminds me when I was doing painting job with baba emma in Ilorin.

Sometimes, the man go out ladder on top table and ask you to climb.

Make God continue help and protect
PoliticsRe: King Charles May Pardon Ekweremadu – Kayode Ajulo (Lawyer) by BeboNGN: 10:24am On May 06, 2023
Ajulo thinks it's Nigeria where everything goes... Na Cat wan end Zouma career
CrimeRe: Abia Vigilante Kills 27-Year-Old Izuchukwu In Umuahia Popular Eatery (Video) by BeboNGN: 5:22pm On Mar 27, 2023
Naso una 'Viagra' go be?
PoliticsRe: We Are Investigating One Ministry Over ₦‎4 Billion Contract Scam – EFCC by BeboNGN: 3:18pm On Mar 25, 2023
They diverted Npower money
PoliticsRe: GRV Loses Polling Unit To Sanwo-Olu by BeboNGN: 5:28pm On Mar 18, 2023
If this same Shinedu contest election in the east on the basis that he is igbo, they will never vote for him.
PoliticsRe: GRV Loses Polling Unit To Sanwo-Olu by BeboNGN: 5:06pm On Mar 18, 2023
From 'Gbarebo o calm to Gbarebo o loose'
HealthRe: If My Girlfriend Died During Abortion What Would Happen To Me? by BeboNGN: 1:53pm On Mar 14, 2023
You just aborted a promise child. You need to go for repentance. You and your girlfriend should go to 7 different mountains in 7 different states, confessing your sins and ask for God's mercies. At the end of each mountain prayers, go to the shepherd of each mountain to pray for you. Then immediately after the prayer go and marry that girl.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Real Betis : Europa League (4 - 1) On 9th March 2023 by BeboNGN: 7:26pm On Mar 09, 2023
Na 7up people dey play together

PoliticsRe: 'I Can't Win' - Dumebi Kachikwu Surrenders, Seeks LP-PDP Alliance by BeboNGN: 11:52am On Feb 24, 2023
Obi ran away from Anambra and came to Lagos with his nylon bag to come and vote in ikoyi. Charity begins from home. Go back home Obi
Foreign AffairsRe: New Zealand: Police Seize Cocaine Enough To Supply The Country For 30 Yrs by BeboNGN: 12:53pm On Feb 08, 2023
Na them... Obidenson
ComputersRe: SMALL BUT POWERFUL: This Lenovo Could Be Your Ideal Laptop by BeboNGN: 9:46pm On Mar 05, 2022
Still available?
RomanceRe: My Husband Is Losing His Mind. Am Afraid He Might Harm Himself. by BeboNGN: 2:47am On Feb 24, 2022
hussey1149:
Life is the tragedy,' he said bitterly. 'You know how they categorize Shakespeare's plays, right? If it ends with a wedding, it's a comedy. And if it ends with a funeral, it's a tragedy. So we're all living tragedies, because we all end the same way, and it isn't with a goddamn wedding.. are you waiting till we die before you care for us ?
what can actually be the solution to this so much pain suffering that is endless ?
how painful to lose my home after all our efforts?
will this trial time be over?
somebody tap me and tell me it will be alright.
am in pain I can't endure anymore.
he's trying his best I do support him but we still don't improve.
he's a good man but his job pays less.
we are going down. am worried he might lose his mind and kill himself.
what pains a man working hard most to see his family in shame pain and total homeless ?
save me my family save us. he is a good man in his trial times.

our landlord has been disturbing us for house rent since last month january when we are supposed to pay for the house rent but things has been very difficult for us the little we earn from the little business am doing with my husband is not enough we are using it on feeding and right now the landlord has giving us ending of this month to park out of the house if we didn't pay.we went to the bank for a loan but we are not eligible we have done everything we could but nothing seem to work out.
1476108621 access bank

God bless you assistance.
Take him to Elohim ministry and cry to God that the work of his hand will begin to prosper.

How can your husband be working like an elephant and eating like an ant.

No matter the monetary contribution, it will still be difficult.

If you know, you know
Christianity EtcRe: Is SCOAN The Same After The Demise Of T. B Joshua by BeboNGN: 12:25am On Feb 18, 2022
jesusjnr2020:
True.

Worst is how many Innocent lives were lost as a result.

Thanks for being bold enough to speak the Truth which many were opposed to hearing.

God bless.
Them don serve you your food
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Middlesbrough FA Cup: 7 - 8 pens On 4th Feb 2022 by BeboNGN: 11:52pm On Feb 04, 2022
Middleborough losses this match, bet it.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Middlesbrough FA Cup: 7 - 8 pens On 4th Feb 2022 by BeboNGN: 11:11pm On Feb 04, 2022
osazsky:
If i ever carry man u straight win again make i wipe even if na man u vs asoro gramma sch ss1 student for my backyard i nor go try am.idiots both Ronaldo the owner keeper una nor well
Hahahahahahahahahah
PoliticsRe: Rinu Oduala Hosts Bukola Saraki On Twitter Spaces, Gets Criticised by BeboNGN: 6:09pm On Feb 04, 2022
The girl that was very active in that their yeye telegram group, immediately she gained small fame, she abandoned all of them their, she no even dey respond to their message. grin grin
SportsRe: Cameroon Vs Egypt: AFCON 2021 Semi-Finals: . (1 - 3) pen On 3rd Feb 2022 by BeboNGN: 10:43pm On Feb 03, 2022
EGYPT DON WIN quote me.... And Egypt will win this nations cup
SportsRe: Cameroon Vs Egypt: AFCON 2021 Semi-Finals: . (1 - 3) pen On 3rd Feb 2022 by BeboNGN: 10:34pm On Feb 03, 2022
planetx:
Same Egypt we defeated in the first match is about to enter the finals, we started feeling funky like we just won the world cup. Instead of concentrating on the journey ahead, our goalie started talking about he is single and looking for toxic women
Na Buhari plague...
TravelRe: Car Swarmed By Thousands Of Grasshoppers In South Africa (Pictures) by BeboNGN: 9:48pm On Feb 03, 2022
gaby:
Just blow the trumpet, Michael, make everybody go rest.
Hahahahahahahahahah
Christianity EtcRe: An Armed Robbery Experience I Had Moments After A Holy Ghost Church Service by BeboNGN: 11:46am On Jan 16, 2022
jesusjnr2020:
It's not impossible though that they may know me but i think it's highly unlikely.

There was another cultist who was in custody of my stolen property, but when he saw me, he said God told him not to play with me, so this may not be any different.
Assistant jesus don come again oooo chai
Christianity EtcRe: Does Spending The Last Night Of The Year In A Church Service Make Any Difference by BeboNGN: 2:33pm On Dec 31, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
What's it with you and hating on those who destroy the works of Satan and speak the Truth as Jesus did?

Or are you an antichrist?

This is not about TB Joshua your dearly beloved so that you'd start using him as an excuse to hate.
Which Satan's work are you destroying eh,... Assistant jesus?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is This Job Invitation Real Or A Fake Job Offer? by BeboNGN: 11:15am On Dec 31, 2021
Ritualist... It's the new year.

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