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For almost two weeks now. 60 percent of our stories are from this who join our either our whatsapp or telegram groups from here. So what the heck are some of you talking about

hope your name is not Thomas?

meobizy:
All these lie-lie stories, abeg. NEXT!

am surprise at your saying.

Nnaabros:
Are these your stories real life.? They all sound concocted, like some kind of Nollywood script.

Hello Lively Stones,
Reading about love love and love today prompted me to share a part of my love story…
Am married but not to the love of my life!
I knew TY many years ago, we were not close neither were we friends, just knew each other from a distance. I later got to notice him(he took note of me long before I noticed him) and then some how our hearts clicked…
Our connection… I can’t really explain cos it was a silent but firm one cos we still didn’t talk much… It was just like when ever we see our selves there was always that mutual connection… Unspoken words… Unexpressed emotions… Unshared dreams and aspirations…
At last the silence was broken and maybe as a result of built up silent emotions… The first time we talked was straight all night talk non stop (thank God for free night calls then). It was difficult to end the call that night but some how we did in the morning… But that difficulty increased in every call we made daily…
TY stole my heart even from a distance… I never for once doubted TY’s feelings for me…he also made me understand though in many words and action what he felt for me (he could not be too plain maybe as a result of our Religious set up I guess) And the feeling was mutual… I felt loved… I felt like a lady and he a perfect gentleman… I couldn’t ask for more… I knew if he ever pops that question I will not be able to resist!
But little wonder… see more


https://livelystones.com.ng/dont-be-like-me-i-did-not-marry-the-love-of-my-life/

The first daughter of popular pastor,Carissa Oyakhilome Frimpong who got married last month in a lavishly celebrated wedding to her Ghanaian husband,Phillip Frimpong just shared a stunning picture with her husband as they step out for date night.

See her Instagram post:


https://livelystones.com.ng/pastor-chris-daughter-carissa-sharon-shares-date-night-pic-with-hubby/

may not be because she is selective. Maybe some other reasons.it well!

donbachi:
She spent her youthful age selecting...now see the result...she been manless till now could either be a spiritual problem,character issue or she was a die hard ferminist before.

I agree with all you mentioned.

Hardrive:
I have read a lot about women complaining about not having husband or boyfriend. It is not easy. The economy is one major factor coupled with waywardness on the part of some women and also because more men are in prison or die from the activities of crime and cultism. Also, the deceptive and non existent conscience of some men.

Hi jzahne,

Dona and I were sweethearts since college. We have a beautiful daughter that is seven years old. All together we were in love for more than 12 years. She held me down on so many occasions for so many years and I couldn’t be a happier man to have her in my life.

That happiness came to an abrupt end three years ago. It was just a stupid night with friends at the bar. We were darn too drunk and there was an after party that had girls. I met Denise and we had s*x. I swear if I had known,I would have run away from her the minute I was done but this girl,Denise had a way of pulling me back.

Even though all my senses were telling me to end the affair,I met Denise a few more times after the bar. When I had to balls to call it off,Denise did not want to hear it. She found out I had a girlfriend and contacted Dona and told her about us. Dona never forgave me for that. We were best friends. She would have forgiven me if it was a one time affair and maybe confessed to her but she could not get past the fact that I had met Denise several times after and even found out through Denise.

Dona broke up with me and I think in her anger and pain,she met someone and before you could say....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/lost-the-love-of-my-life-once-i-will-do-anything-to-win-her-back/

Hello Jzhane,

I read your blog everyday. I feel like you are that friend I could talk to. My name is Zara John (Not real name) and I am 48 years old. I am a Teacher and I am smart,beautiful and a Christian.

Jzhane,since I was born up to this day,no man has ever asked me out. I have never been in a relationship before. Its as if I am invincible to men. I have been on a dating site once . I met a guy online but he just wanted to sleep with me which I did not agree to. I feel lonely most times in my life. The only thing that gives e joy is teaching the beautiful children in school.

The Children call me Ms. Zara and I see them like my own children but I actually wish they are truly mine. I feel like I have missed so much in life. I do not let people know how I feel inside. People think I am used to it by now. But as I near the age 50,I am getting scared more and more.

My upbringing may have a lot to do with my situation. I grew up in very strict religious background and for most of my adult life,I was thought I was going to be a reverend sister. But I backed out just before I got into convent. I tried to make friends but men only see me like a sister. I had a crush on a guy in school back then but I could never tell him. Today he is married with kids.

My mother has been to several prayer houses for my situation.Some have told her that I am not.....see more




https://livelystones.com.ng/almost-50-i-fear-that-i-will-be-alone-for-the-rest-of-my-life/

hmnnn

Hello Jzhane,

I read your blog everyday. I feel like you are that friend I could talk to. My name is Zara John (Not real name) and I am 48 years old. I am a Teacher and I am smart,beautiful and a Christian.

Jzhane,since I was born up to this day,no man has ever asked me out. I have never been in a relationship before. Its as if I am invincible to men. I have been on a dating site once . I met a guy online but he just wanted to sleep with me which I did not agree to. I feel lonely most times in my life. The only thing that gives e joy is teaching the beautiful children in school.

The Children call me Ms. Zara and I see them like my own children but I actually wish they are truly mine. I feel like I have missed so much in life. I do not let people know how I feel inside. People think I am used to it by now. But as I near the age 50,I am getting scared more and more.

My upbringing may have a lot to do with my situation. I grew up in very strict religious background and for most of my adult life,I was thought I was going to be a reverend sister. But I backed out just before I got into convent. I tried to make friends but men only see me like a sister. I had a crush on a guy in school back then but I could never tell him. Today he is married with kids.

My mother has been to several prayer houses for my situation.Some have told her that I am not.....see more




https://livelystones.com.ng/almost-50-i-fear-that-i-will-be-alone-for-the-rest-of-my-life/

pedrilo:
wats deep there? Pipo fcck all nyt for Pete's sake.

Editor’s note:

This a question from a whatsapp member. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.


Hello ma’am,

Please I am shy. I see how you are answering marriage questions on whatsapp. I have question please. I am newly married. I got married in May this year. I know I am still very young in this marriage thing but I this s*x thing is really disturbing me.

The thing is,my husband wants to have sx every day and sometimes I am too tired. I work on the island and sometimes due to traffic,I get home late. I rush to make dinner and I just want to sleep but my husband,once its around 12 mid night,he must wake me up for sx.

Yes,another thing is,why must it be in the mid night? I ask him,he say that is when his emotion is doing him. But me,that time,sleep,deep sleep is really catching me. The only person I complained to is my mother. She encourage me to bear it that it will reduce as we get older. Honestly,I am enduring o.I will just lie down there while he is on top…waiting for him to finish so I can sleep. And he will complain that I am not responding…it is not easy ma.

I try not to complain but its affecting me and I am beginning to feel he is not sensitive to my feelings.He will say that a married man must have s*x in his house regularly to avoid temptation outside. This is why I don;t complain but.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-does-not-get-tired-he-bothers-me-everyday/

Ufedolove:
You want us to answer a question for and you are still giving links to follow?

How do you want your thunder?

The beautiful Actress who has been vocal about her struggle with infertility welcomed a baby with her Husband Dwyane Wade. Gabriel shared pictures of her baby on her Instagram



https://livelystones.com.ng/actress-gabrielle-union-husband-welcome-baby-via-surrogate/

Editor’s note:

This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise him? Drop your comments below

Hi…. Good morning

I trust your night was good.There has been this question bothering my mind for days now asked by my girl friend. She was in a happy mood judging from our conversation on phone when she threw the question…

She asked what is that character of hers that would make me give up on her….Because from all indications, we plan spending the rest of our lives together….The whole family knows I’m the one she’s dating.They see me as their in-law already. We’ve been together for six good years now.

She’s in her early twenties while I’m in my late twenties. Because of her....see more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-girlfriend-asked-me-a-trick-question-what-is-the-answer/

Editor’s note:
This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise him? Drop your comments below
Hi…. Good morning

I trust your night was good.There has been this question bothering my mind for days now asked by my girl friend. She was in a happy mood judging from our conversation on phone when she threw the question…

She asked what is that character of hers that would make me give up on her….Because from all indications, we plan spending the rest of our lives together….The whole family knows I’m the one she’s dating.They see me as their in-law already. We’ve been together for six good years now.

She’s in her early twenties while I’m in my late twenties. Because of her....see more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-girlfriend-asked-me-a-trick-question-what-is-the-answer/

Editor’s note:

This a question from a whatsapp member. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.


Good Morning ma,

I just join d group but I want to ask a question in the group….

I was dating a guy but suddenly the guy told me that we can’t continue the relationship again. That we can be friends, my problem is that I can’t help my emotions for him.

When I tried to find out what happened,he said nothing,that he just does not want to tie me down. What does that mean? We are both adults;29 and 30 years old..why does he say he does not want to tie me down?

I have tried to let go but I can’t….. And it’s killing me.

Please I need advice


Sources: livelystones.com.ng

Abi?

Rucheen:
Be forming confused till one or two of
your friend find out your man is that verile

ibrutex:
BRB

Hmnnnn

divinelove:
Is she medically okay and fertile

Then pray and fast for a child without ceasing

Editor’s note:
This a question from a whatsapp member. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.


Hello ma’am,

Please I am shy. I see how you are answering marriage questions on whatsapp. I have question please. I am newly married. I got married in May this year. I know I am still very young in this marriage thing but I this s*x thing is really disturbing me.

The thing is,my husband wants to have sx every day and sometimes I am too tired. I work on the island and sometimes due to traffic,I get home late. I rush to make dinner and I just want to sleep but my husband,once its around 12 mid night,he must wake me up for sx.

Yes,another thing is,why must it be in the mid night? I ask him,he say that is when his emotion is doing him. But me,that time,sleep,deep sleep is really catching me. The only person I complained to is my mother. She encourage me to bear it that it will reduce as we get older. Honestly,I am enduring o.I will just lie down there while he is on top…waiting for him to finish so I can sleep. And he will complain that I am not responding…it is not easy ma.

I try not to complain but its affecting me and I am beginning to feel he is not sensitive to my feelings.He will say that a married man must have s*x in his house regularly to avoid temptation outside. This is why I don;t complain but.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-does-not-get-tired-he-bothers-me-everyday/

pls leave your email on the blog story, hopefully she sees it

Steppingup4lyf:
There is no problem bigger than God.where is her location.can we talk. my email is steppingup4lyf@gmail.com. God is able to do all things. i need more information.shoot me a mail

Amakavula:
Poor girl, You are an alpha widow. No other guy will ever satisfy you. He has destroyed your destiny with sex.

Hmmmm, It like them dey follow u ....

Editor’s note:
This a question from a whatsapp member of LS. What are your thoughts with her question,how would you advice her? Drop your comments below.
Good morning ma’am,
I am in your whatapp platform and I have seen the way you guide people, so I felt I should tell u my story and I really need your advice.
I met a boy in my church, late last year, we talked and I get to find out he was interested in me, I liked him too so we started dating. But he was my kind of man in dress sense, since I love him I decided to build him up to my kind of guy, I sew male clothings, so it was easier for me to build him.
I just buy the materials and sew for him or he buys and I sew, we were going perfectly well until his mom got involved. She said she wants a graduate for her son, and I am just an O’level holder, he told me about it but assured me he will sort it with his mum.
However, all of a sudden he just called and said we are over.I was down, I rushed to him asking him to explain, he said he can’t disobey his mom and his siblings are also supporting his mom, so we can’t work,we cannot be together, I was devastated and down because I really love this guy.
Weeks later he called saying he still loves me but its his mom that is the problem. We started hanging out again, had s*x and all but I later found out he had a new girlfriend. He told to my face he has moved on so I have to, but I find it difficult to move on cos I love him. After finding out he has a new girl, he still called me and I still .....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/he-keeps-breaking-my-heart-i-keep-going-back-to-him/