Somebody say until enough dies. Hope part of the enough will not be your blood brother or relations. Violent in the name of God, religions is the highest foolishness. If Allah, Yaweh, Jehovah is God let him fight for himself. Please stop defending God or Allah.

If you leave in any city. Traffic congestion is a city trade mark. Even in developed world New York, Tokyo, Changai, New Delhi, London. All these cities are not left out. Recently Abeokuta express way is becoming terribly packed with traffic, Lekki Epe road is also a terrible axis, coming out of Victoria Island is another Headache.

I figured out that an average individual in Lagos spend like three hours in the Hold up per day. In the morning and evening. How can you positively utilize this hold up. There are two way by which you can positively enjoy the stress on the street. Either you ride on Motor cycle, Buses, personal car BRT or what have you. The first way is to get audio player it may be in the form of MP3, MP4, Handset with memory card. Get audio books and listen to books on your way commuting. We have more than one million audio books and still counting. Another way you can positively utilize your time is to get e reader installed on your phone and turn it to a reading machine

I have more than two hundred books on my phone. So when I am commuting it is either I am reading book on my phone or I am listen to audio book. This way you will not feel the boredom of an hold up.

For a free report on how to turn your phone to a reading machine write to benabbey2010@gmail.com

You can use Your blackberry visit www.crackberry.com That is what I am using here

The reason is plain and simple INFERIORITY COMPLEX, COLONIAL MENTALITY, and the multiplier effect is UNEMPLOYMENT. We keep people employed all over the world through our insatiable taste for everything foreign Cloth, Tooth pick, Match boxes, Rice, Chocolate, just name it. Some foolish people will even brag about there wears, shoe, jewelry. The same question can be asked is why is the value of Naira so low compared to Dollar, Pounds. Everybody is looking for Dollar to buy to take to Dubai, America, London Sales

Oops  while some of us are looking for liberation and independence from clutch of paid employment. Some guy are at a fix and wanting to force themselves into 21st century slavery. Friend I wish you well in your new quest. Employer are the same thing they only pay you a stipend. Their goal is profitability at a minimal cost. Your salary is a cost to the organisation so don't expect much. And once you are lost to the fun fare. By the time you are graying you are finished, with little to fall back on you are scared to get sacked.

It cost me my time. Blackberry don't charge additional cost after monthly subscription.

The beautiful alarm went on ringing coming with Pastor Chris Blessing You are blessed. Fully waked up I placed the cursor on youversion Bible that has more than fifteen versions of the Bible I read for some moment and pray. I quickly checked my mails yahoo, gmail, blackberry having so many fresh mails. Ready to bump out I scrolled to the media player put on Dolly Patron and continue to listen.

Getting to my office I flip to my web bookmarks and read www.sunnewsonline.com, www.punchng.com, www.thisdayonline.com, Pastor David Abioye daily devotional. After full resumption I attached my Berry as a modem to my laptop using zain 1gig data. The laptop charged the Blackberry with the Data Cord.

During the day I was able to chat online real time with BB PIN even with people all over the world. I really like my BB Bold, I still have so many wonderful application on my BB such as Dictionary, Note Pad, Times Newspaper, Fox,BBC, CNN, Mobipocket, Weather, Touch Light, ESPN , Flicker, Google Mobile, CNBC Various Game.

Friend I am not luring you to BB I just want you to know that it can do more than just a call and it worth the price

Good Day friends I need to check the Data balance of my ZAIN Blackberry . I am on BIS. It seems their customer service guys does not have an idea. Can anybody help me. I used to tether the blackberry that is why i am bothered.

divine logix (4 comments)
March 6, 2010 • 11:50 pm
@deoladoctor @alireta The BIS service from MTN is for “unlimited” phone browsing only!

@Afewgoodmen You can tether, but you will be charged at the standard WAP/GPRS/3G/3.5G PAYG Data rate, outside/apart from the BIS bundle. Avoid this option. Tethering is not covered by the BIS bundle. Also, any apps on your Blackberry that use the WAP/WAP2/TCP connection options aren’t covered by your BIS bundle. Be very careful. MTN does not fully spell this out but they WON’T give you are refund.

Lastly, when using the Blackberry’s web browswer with your BIS bundle set the Internet Browser or the Wi-Fi browser as your defaults. This will ensure you don’t browse with the WAP browser which will attract additional charges. Even when browsing with the Internet Browser be sure to avoid selecting bookmarks saved under the WAP bookmark folders. Doing this switches the browsing session to WAP and you will get slammed!

I know, it sounds too complicated but that’s the nature of the world we live in!

Google Chrome 4.1.249.1021 Windows 7
Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/532.5 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/4.1.249.1021 Safari/532.5

http://www.mobilitynigeria.com/2010/03/02/blackberry-prepaid-from-mtn-nigeria/

@Benzion cry no more cross over to Zain BIS. just 5k per month with 1gig data you can even tetter it with your laptop for internet browsing

I love Reggae and Country music
1. One Love By Bob Marley
2.Coat of Many Colour By Dolly Patron
3. The Gambler Kenny Rogers
4. Forever loving Jah By Bob Marley
5. You are my best friend by Don William

Hey what is the last thing heard from Justice Naron team. The first judge indicted by The News Magazine for having telephone contact with Oyinlola lawyer, nothing happen again. Nobody sent to jail

@ I will like to read your book Hard work is not enough. Where can i get a copy, Thanks

@Cabali thanks for usual help. I have a little question is there away to find out the level or balance of the 1Gig data on my BB, I have been using it as modem? Thanks

What a great weekend we had. have you bother to ask yourself why are you here on this planet Earth?. What is the purpose of your existence. is it to marry, have children raise them and die. Is it to wake up in the morning rush out to the office come back late in the night day in day out, week in week out, month in month out, year in year out.

Class, if you have not ponder this question in your heart, it is high time you sit down. Think very well and come up with a reasonable answer on why you are here. That should be the basis of our education in the first instance and parent have a long way to go in identifying their children gifting and help mold them in the direction of their gifting so that they can flow and bless their generation with their gift.

Emerson will still guide us today and what does he have to say about our purpose:

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, honorable, to be compassionate,
to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well… To know that even one
life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

You can find your purpose by being useful in some way or the other to the society where you live, to the people in your surrounding,to your nation by becoming valuable to the world with the gifting that you possess. Look deep into your being and come out with a gift, can you teach as I am doing please do it, Can you compose a song, or write a hymn, please go a head do so. Can you mix flower differently and come up with a great recipe please go a head, can you go to the nearest hospital and touch the sick with compassion please go head.

You don't need capital for all these all you need is passion to leave our world better than the way you find it. leave our world better than we find it. Do you know the following people leave the world better than they find it:

Mother Theresa She does not have any money, she does not have any power she just love street people of India. She left Scotland and spend the rest of her life in India. She lived, dined, with the poor of India.

Martin Luther King Jr The guy is just an ordinary Pastor of a local Baptist Church, but discovering that he is has the gift of speech he used it to liberate whole oppressed black American from the shackle of segregation. The guy has a dream that one day on the red clay of Georgia the children of the black and white will play together Today we have a BLACK man in a WHITE house.

Chief Obafemi Awolowo this man had a gift of leadership and today the Western part of Nigeria will alway relish is legacies in The First Indigenous university in Nigeria, the first TV station inn Africa, The first twenty five stories building in Nigeria and so many first.

Friends what are you going to give to our world. We are waiting for your gift. Because you live some other people must better for it. We are still reading Emerson Book, Self Reliance and it is available free of charge from:

benabbey2010@gmail.com

I will be glad to receive your friends here also. See you guys in the next class

Don't think it is a form of luck that has brought the money to your account. Elsewhere some Cashier/Tellers may loose their JOB on that simple error. The Cashier must ensure that the name on the Deposit Slip Tallies with the one the system, failure to do so the Teller will be a gonner. The call over officer who suppose to call over the Teller Job to ensure compliance who fail to see the error is also a gonner. The operations manager who signed of on the days transaction is also a gonner. The compliance officer of the branch who is the internal Auditor who fails to see such error is also a gonner.

Friend do you see the chain of people you will put into problem if you do not quickly return the money before. the beneficiary escalate the issue and lead to a loss of so many job. And do not forget for one person working in Nigeria today so many people are tied to their apron. please i beg you in the name of everything that is good return the money immediately.

Remember the Yoruba name Ajeigbe. Do you know the meaning. please find out

I have been following this line of argument since 2am and I have tried to restrain myself not to talk, being a Professional. At a time I copied and pasted some web page here. But I just felt keeping silent may not be too good. When it come to Religion people hardly see reasons both Christian and Muslim. We tend to see from the pane of religion. Even the most learned, most Respected they fail and flatter when it come to religion, Because it is more of a culture than reasoning. I do ask my fanatics friends what is the religion of the baby in the womb. There is no religion in the womb. But immediately you are born an Alfa or the pastor must name you, Why?

Religion Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism, Hinduism, name it has always done more harm than good. Men were sacrifice for what they believe by Catholic in the dark ages. People still kill in the name of God and Allah. I don't know, if your deity is so strong why not let him fight for himself in the name of Al kaida, Taliban and what have you. I am not here to be partisan you are free to believe whatever you want, be it Sango, Ogun, Obatala, Oya, Allah, Yaweh anything.

Don,t let your faith hinder the progress of other. Some people raised some salient point

Will Yerima give out his daughter in marriage at 13 years?

When it come to governance you will swear to defend the constitution

(I, , do solemnly swear/affirm that I will be faithful and bear true allegiance to the Federal Republic of Nigeria; that as a Member of the Senate/House of Representatives/ , House of Assembly, I will perform my functions honestly to the best of my ability, faithfully and in accordance with the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the law, and the rules of the Senate/House of Representatives/ , House of Assembly and always in the interest of the sovereignty, integrity, solidarity, well-being and prosperity of the Federal Republic of Nigeria; that I will strive to preserve the Fundamental Objectives and Directive Principles of State Policy contained in the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria; and that [s]I will preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria;[/s] and that I will abide by the Code of Conduct contained in the Fifth Schedule of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

So help me God".)

that support Child right

“ These include [s]prohibition of early marriage[/s], of conscription of children in to the armed forces, the right to a name and nationality, free and compulsory education, protection against domestic violence and child trafficking, structures and systems for the protection of children at village and chiefdom levels, as well as protection against harmful traditional practices affecting children including female genital mutilation."



holding Al Quaran, and in the long run you will go against the constitution you swear in the name of Allah to defend.

You will steal people billion and run to Civil court and cut the hand of Jangedi who stole a Cow.


Friends Religion especially the one that hinder peoples freedom and liberty and pursuit of happiness in any form is ante progressive. That is why some part of the world are so backward. They are filled with hypocrisy  they tell their people not to go to school that Islamic Education is the main thing, whereas their own children are studying in Buckingham palace with with Prince Charles children.

The other day one called himself Boko Haram anything Western is anti Allah. Stupid and gullible people were following him about ,they refused to ask him that his Dish and decoder, GSM, Fleet of cars, Foam,Internet access, Airplane he took to Haji even the AK 47 he is holding are the product of English and western people. he lead many to their early grave. North Ireland are still fighting for their Catholic God, LRA Lord Resistance Army are still fighting for God. Catholic priest are fucking children.


Friend I think religion should be personal, people should be free to hold any religious opinion and your opinion should not be at variance to the constitution you swear to uphold and defend.

Aisha the Child Wife of Muhammad

By Ali Sina
The thought of an old man becoming aroused by a child is one of the most disturbing thoughts that makes us cringe as it reminds us of pedophilia and the most despicable people. It is difficult to accept that the Holy Prophet married Aisha when she was 6-years-old and consummated his marriage with her when she was 9. He was then, 54 years old.

Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3310:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88
Narrated 'Ursa:
[s]The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).[/s]
Some Muslims claim that it was Abu Bakr who approached Muhammad asking him to marry his daughter. This is of course not true and here is the proof.
Sahih Bukhari 7.18
Narrated 'Ursa:
The Prophet asked Abu Bakr for 'Aisha's hand in marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother." The Prophet said, "You are my brother in Allah's religion and His Book, but she (Aisha) is lawful for me to marry."




http://www.faithfreedom.org/Articles/sina/ayesha.htm

Surah 4 - Al-Nisa' THE WOMEN
004.001 O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, who created you from a single Person, created, of like nature, His mate, and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men and women;- Fear God, through whom ye demand your mutual (rights), and (reverence) the wombs (That bore you): for God ever watches over you.

004.002 To orphans restore their property (When they reach their age), nor substitute (your) worthless things for (their) good ones; and devour not their substance ( by mixing it up) with your own. For this is indeed a great sin.

004.003 If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.

004.004 And give the women (on marriage) their dower as a free gift; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, Take it and enjoy it with right good cheer.

@Ujujoan

Ujujoan:

This guy doesn't have the charisma or motivation to do that! I think getting him a job will be the best way to help him afterall . . But nobody should complain when he starts getting sloppy on the job!

What type of degree is in his hand. Hope it is not Oluwole. or somebody somewhere is just testing the kindness of Nairalanders

After reading all your posts. I can see emotion running very high. Some wrote it is an appeal to pity. Some wrote why front page. My own concern is how long will you feed this fellow. The essence of schooling to my mind is not to get a job.Perish the thought if you hold one. The guy should sit down and build a concept with market a value around his study. He should market himself and his concept. With that he will be able to stand on his own.

It is a new day and you are welcome to another opportunity, a new and fresh capital of Twenty four hours has just being handed over to your hand. Looking from my Window I can see so many activities going on. While some are busy talking and arguing over the Newspapers vendor enjoying their own fare share of the day. Some are busy with transport Business calling passenger to come in to various destination such as Yaba, Oshodi, Ikeja, Iyana Ipaja, Obalande CMS etc. So many people are flocking out to go to their place of work. In all you do make sure you are not wasting your time. Make sure you are enjoying your self. Remember you can not bring yesterday back, it is filed away.


I will like to welcome our newest student to the class in person of Felix, by now he should have received two e books complete work of Ralph Waldo Emerson and a summary of the book by my dear friend Brian Johnson of the www.philosophersnotes.com. As I said in the mail sent to him, Self Reliance essay we are studying is on page 52 of the book. The essay is a must read for all. There is hardly any American author that will not quote Emerson.


Back to the business of the day Emerson is still guiding us on our journey of Self Reliance:


"God will not have his work made manifest by cowards".


Cowards!!! are you one? In all of us is this monster pulling us back from trying great thing, from living our dream. It is this monster that keep us perpetually on a job though killing us, but we fear if our dream does not work. Who will foot the bills. We have forgotten that the present job we are dying to hold unto was a dream of somebody who dare to bring their dream to reality. So many dream are dead and buried because of this monster. I will advise you never let your dream die, bring it out. Even if it does not work there is no crime. You will be pardon for a failure, but you will be disciplined for non trying at all, remember the parable of the talent in the scripture.


God cannot stand a coward. When commissioning Joshua the only instruction giving to him is to be strong and courageous. The instruction was repeated severally. Nobody is born with courage neither were your born with cowardice. But over time due to influence here and there, training majorly done by fear we have being molded by society to fear their fear to respect their taboo.


Friends be bold enough to leave without fear of future. Bring out your brain child your idea, cloth your thought with flesh. Don't let your idea die with you let them see the light of the day.


It has being your teacher Ben. Remember we are reading Emerson Essay Self Reliance the whole ebook is available free of charge at

benabbey2010@gmail.com



At the Core of Freedom is Self Reliance


Good morning friends, how was your night, hope you had a nice one like I did. If you have not requested for your Essay of Ralph Waldo Emerson our main text on Self Reliance please do so.

It is available free of charge at benabbey2010@gmail.com

To understand why you need to rely on yourself and not on your Uncle, Brother, Sister, Government, Church, Mosque you need to read the essays of Emerson.

In a conventional school you normally start with definition, what is? Advantage and all sort but here it will not be so. Normally there is no school that teaches you to rely on yourself for your survival.

The core of the curriculum of the conventional school only teaches you to rely on corporation, to rely on government and individuals. Here it will not be so, because if there is a failure of the entity you relied on automatically you are a failure. If Government fails like Greece government is failing all the citizen that relied on their government fails. If corporation fails as they often do, due to mismanagement all the staff also fails and don't forget that management failure is noticeable with the sack of the junior staffs.

When Oceanic Bank, Intercontinental Bank failed the staff got the axe. Friends you cannot afford to leave your life management at the disposal of external forces. You must be responsible for your life.

The core of true freedom is Self Reliant. Let us go to Emerson to guide us


"There is a time in every man's education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better, for worse, as his portion; that though the wide universe is full of good, no kernel of nourishing corn can come to him but through his toil bestowed on that plot of ground which is given to him to till. The power which resides in him is new in nature, and none but he knows what that is which he can do, nor does he know until he has tried".



You must learn to rely solely on yourself, on your ability, on your ingenuity. You must learn to tap into yourself the power within you is new in nature and it is only you that can bring it out. Friends you are fearfully and wonderfully made. you are a poet, an author, a musician, a footballer, a Doctor, a Philosopher a teacher like me I can see Handel in you, I can see Michael Angelo in you, I can see Chief Obafemi Awolowo in you. I can see Steve Job in you, I can see Michael Jordan In you, I can see Chief M K O Abiola in you, I can see greatness in you, it is in you bring it out. Don't die in Portiphars house you belong to the palace. Stop imitating your friends who go to school, graduate serve Nigeria and look for job like everybody does. Stop it, you are different. Create a job, employ yourself employ others. Turn things around. You can allow greatness to die withing you or you can bring it out for the world to see.


'No kernel of nourishing corn can come to him but through his toil bestowed on that plot of ground which is given to him to till'





Though, you are loaded with good and greatness you must learn to TOIL, work hard on yourself at refining the the talent embedded within you. Greatness doesn't fall on people you have to work hard to bring it to pass and you have a choice to make it or to mar it. Look at athlete and footballers they train for hours upon hours preparing for 2minute hundred meters race or ninety minute football session.





Imagine the number of hour invested in training by all the team preparing for the World Cup, they are still training all of them have a training camp. Friend Hope you have pick one thing or the other in this morning class see you in the next class.


Before I leave you don't forget to share your story with us, so we can learn to rely on ourselves and no other person, not even a wife on her husband, children on their parent everybody here has a cross to carry. So carry your own I will carry my own. The book that is guiding us is still Self Reliant by Ralph Waldo Emerson and it is available free of charge from


benabbey2010@gmail.com


Also you can share your story and if these appeal to you don't forget to get your friend to subscribe. see you latter

To understand why you need to rely on yourself and not on your Uncle, Brother, Sister, Government, Church, Mosque you need to read the essays of Emerson.

In a conventional school you normally start with definition, what is? Advantage and all sort but here it will not be so. Normally there is no school that teaches you to rely on yourself for your survival.

The core of the curriculum of the conventional school only teaches you to rely on corporation, to rely on government and individuals. Here it will not be so, because if there is a failure of the entity you relied on automatically you are a failure. If Government fails like Greece government is failing all the citizen that relied on their government fails. If corporation fails as they often do, due to mismanagement all the staff also fails and don't forget that management failure is noticeable with the sack of the junior staffs.

When Oceanic Bank, Intercontinental Bank failed the staff got the axe. Friends you cannot afford to leave your life management at the disposal of external forces. You must be responsible for your life

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