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Get another beautiful ❤️ wife
She will learn her lesson immediately.
If you should continue with her, you will die from the pains she gives .
Bro. Don't mind people's reaction and take of yourself.
God be your strength 💪

Only ladies can relate to this: everyone is right on her opinion.

Restoration of love if possible
I'm writing on top of your voice
I feel I still have a choice
I never know is too late
I never know you're testing my knowledge all this while: you could at least let me know about the exam.
I always wished we're happier and our old stories will be a signals to our greatness.
I never feel this way all my life even when I wanted to behave like a Man: even when he warned me not to call you yet I can't pour out those memories of ours.... What's the meaning of life (me) ? You gave me reasons for living �: your kindness, caring and loving hearts have nothing to compare with.
My heart is killing the body I'm into
I'm sorry CJ-U: if we light up we can scare away the dark.
No choice of living: I caused it all (blame me but please �❣️� don't forsake me: I'm only a boy then). Beyond words..... I love you (Saltme)

chatinent:


In junior grade, during preteen age, I cried and begged one girl like that not to leave but she didn't oblige. I was weak. I couldn't walk home. I was sober. I wanted to run into the road at an incoming vehicle.. I couldn't even push myself at it. I struggled to walk..only for me to reach home and eat confirm plate of fufu and nchawu soup with achara, beef, snails and periwinkle to know say na hunger dey do me o no be nonsense heartbreak. Mehn, I chop snail sotey bite my index finger amid scratching my big head in this food happiness. O boy, I eat finish see as boning return my face en. I sat down with my protruding belly angry at how I embarrassed myself earlier.

Next day at school, I didn't even notice her anymore. Was all frowns and big boy.

It took a while and she was coming close but I think, I was fly then, I turned her down. Reverse psychology took place. She was the one begging.

I didn't accept her back because I thought then more pretty and brilliant girls were after me. It took until four years later until we bumped at each other.






How about you?

Yeah, actually is emotionally toxic when you really Love her.
Am on similar issue at the moment, honestly, I'm at fault, I'm wrong...I mean, I bleeped up.
I regret every single process I took.
At first, I think I'm doing the right thing without understanding the pressure she's going through from family. Ever since she space me, my life is longer at peace: she's been nice to me "like a mother, she always pray and encourage me" .
Only God is my last hope

losky83:
FATHER MBAKA CAN NEVER BE SEEN AS A MAN OF GOD.
WHERE EVER HE GETS HIS POWERS,THAT IS BETWEEN HIM AND THE DEVIL.
MEN OF GOD DO NOT USE SATANIC WORDS AGAINST ANOTHER.
RATHER THAN PRAYING FOR PEACE AND UNITY,HIS BUSY WISHING DEATH TO HIS PRESIDENT.
MR.MBAKA NOT FATHER,IS A POLITICAL WEAPON BEING USED BY A PARTY(PDP).
MBAKA I URGE YOU TO CONTINUE YOUR SATANIC JOB AND STOP SAYING"PEOPLE WILL SUFFER".

Seriously you de mad ooo
I think say you get sense .... Na now I realize say sense done cease for your brain: "Nwankwo".
Rev.Fr. Mbaka is � right
Full bah support from we here

Go find a virgin boyfriend


quote author=Rosement post=101206903]I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?[/quote]

[quote author=Oneday82 post=100064677][/quote]President Buhari is never the problem of this country Nigeria. The problem started from the beginning of this country Nigeria.
The country has three things to work on:
a) Religion
b) Political system
c) Educational system
* Religion: the leaders here should be sincere to their doctrine even when most their doctrine's guide is not favourable to the people, let them play the role of conscience which I believe everyone has. Mainly, most religion we practice here in Nigeria are all foreign, let us have the initial mind set of our religion (culture) to move this country forward. The White colonized us, yes, that's a good development from them to us but let's not allow them to always use us.
We are good people, we are special people, we are creative people from God.
* Political System: greediness has eaten deep the mind set of every individuals in the country, from the on set of the government (democracy) to now. Benferdy once said *the Professor father of all lies are the individuals (politicians)*.
To lie is good
To lie is bad
Our Leaders should know how to use it not to miss-use it.
Even when a leader knows that he has bad intentions on the people yet, he will still come out boldly to deceive the people and the future generations. Most times we have genuine leaders but surrounds with demonic corrupted individuals which will definitely, influence him/her and the system at large.
Let's stop blaming
Let's start fixing ourselves
Let action of actualizing real Nigeria Begin.
Note: Any individual that through his/her greediness, lifestyle or corruption practices set this country (Nigeria) ablaze is floating the destinies of this generation.
Please, my dear country leaders in any post of office let's apply consciousness in our leadership style, Nigeria will be better and the most best around the globe, we have all it's take to attract the world at large if only the leaders can manage it well.
*Educational System: Here is the backbone/back-end of this country Nigeria.
This sector has the tools of marketing this country around the globe but failed :
Due to corruption within them,
Due to corruption within the political System
Due to corruption within the Religious system
They have the intellectual, technical and moral tools to center this country at the zenith point for global attraction. They're busy burdening both Teachers and Students on irrelevant subjects and excessive exams rather than preparing the students for Life. If you prepare a student for life , he/ she will not be confuse when stepping into the society. He/she will even contribute to the growth of the society.
O! God, please, forgive and help our country Nigeria.

[quote author=benjackugo post=98304281]Media personality, Toke Makinwa has revealed that she has once dumped a guy because of his toilet hygiene, IgbereTV reports.
Ok naa, dump bitch

She wrote on Twitter;


https://twitter.com/tokstarr/status/1352242489403568128?s=19

When asked why she didn't try changing the guy, Toke Makinwa responded by saying she's not the guy's mother or a rehabilitation centre.

She wrote in response;


https://twitter.com/tokstarr/status/1352243478424674308?s=19[/quote]

Racoon:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/those-calling-me-supreme-court-gov-are-ignorant-uzodinma/%3famp=1

Most people lack the knowledge of supreme Court judgement, Hope Uzodimma actually won the 2019 governorship election.
I must confess this *He is doing better than I expected.... Always remember (Governor Hope Uzodimma) you're here you are because God wants you to rescue the state

Modesthy:
I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.

I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.

I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.

Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.

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I believe she has love for the family, that's why she proposed that to you(at least someone she has been with before the husband died).
I also believe that she is responsible type because most ladies don't even care rather roaming around sleeping with men having kids outside which will be a kind of shame to the family and keeps them talking about her action.
Bro, the best advise you can get, is from a few elders of your family.
Think about this 50:50..... consider her feelings, consider your uncle also consider yourself. Remember, nothing is new in this life .
Life is a movie, everyone busy playing his/her own character. No one has the right to state or judge what is right or wrong, the wise will only be busy playing that character that contributes to its history after him/her.
remember: lot's daughters slept with their father and begot him children by going against the law to retain their father's history.
I believe you are now a man (look things beyond the optical view ) never join the chorus of the audience .
Benferdy Nwafeenna: has spoken

Mutemenot:
This is a traditional issue, too many young men and women here 're advising you without considering the motive behind this. Remove this thread, better meet 1 or 2 elderly men probably from a far, who doesn't know you but shares the same culture with you. Seek their words!

Nice talk: surely, you have spoken the words of the gods

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Chaii.... your marriage was done on envy,
just pray to God for forgiveness,
Then ask God to re-instate your family financial status for comfortability.
Because from your story, "that guy is innocent of your action, he has serious intention to that lady"
You need to befriend that guy and ask him for forgiveness of what you did because if you didn't, your wife might have opportunity to approach him again. but if you befriend the guy, even if your wife your have the opportunity to meet him again, the guy will not have the mind to access her again

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

Hmmmm: some people do mislead the troubled, some people do give the troubled more problems that worsen their situation.
This is a kind of advice that give women more wings which leads to most men early grave. Men should know this:
never live above your income
never spend above your budget
never pet a lady always
always provide for the family in a principal manner
remember to protect your family on a principal bases
make sure your wife is productive to the family
never allow your wife lure you into decision you can't control

All these political parties, I guessed you people are learned: supreme Court judgment is final for all ages.....where una head of reasoning there

The white men have taken our culture off our reasoning, The Man of the soil have left his lucosinco of Igbo's custom, i.
His real father can easily deny him, his mother will actually hide the womb that shelter him. He is a disgrace to manhood.... God please forgive him for tarnishing your image

Good governance: if only other governors will emulate this maintenance pattern, government will be always