₦airaland Forum

traihit:
You're justified for the number 2 and 3 ladies ...you see the first one, you take the blame.

People have rules regarding the general populace ...people have exceptions to those rules also. You should have found out whether you're an exception to her rule of no calling, no WhatsApp etc.

IMO, the lady is trying to protect herself (men can be beastly when chasing women at time). You see the second lady, she's looking for food, the third one is looking for a tool. Both of them are manipulators.

hmmmm I was just trying to save myself as well bro. I do not want insults on my person at this stage of my life.

Mercury12:

You don't even know lady 1 enough to judge her the way you just did though lol. . .

Yes, I do not but I could infer she is unstable based on a few tweets on her status. The same person who talked about not liking calls or chats, complained that sometimes her phone would ring for some days and some other times, she does not get any calls. Do you see the problem?

Always pay attention to how someone treat other people.... very very important.

AbujaMenFashion:
Chairman is attracted to big nyash, popping skin, and big breast

wrong...

Tenrack:
do you get paid for trying to be correct all the time, or is this just a bad habit? Shey dem dey pay you ni? Must you be correct all the time?? Nawa o.

oh, na so him dey do? wahala

Kobojunkie:
1. You are kidding, right?

2. Some of you are truly resistant to learning. So at your age, you think the only way you can learn anything about a woman or even a man is only when you are in a relationship with her or him?

You have not realized at this age of yours that your can assess a person past the physical attributes before deciding whether to even engage such a being or not? You don't know that you can look around that person ...at relationships around them to learn some substantial information about their makeup and personality? You think it is only when you directly interact and engage the person that you learn what, truth? ...LOL.....

My assessment beyond their physical attribute is why I decided to leave them alone. If an adult doesn't know how to be decent in their engagement, I can't help them.

You fail to realize that an average Nigerian woman have been spoilt to the point they do not often know when they misbehave because men like you will be there to tolerate their rubbish.

JASONjnr:
I don't know how you go about it...Bit I've never started a conversation with a lady I like and have interest for, without asking her of she's in any relationship....

If she said yes....I stop the communication



Is she said, the guy isn't serious and she's holding on to break up... I will equally stop communication.

But if she said No...I will write out my intentions, I mean, I will speak it out. She will have to accept me or say reject me...

I will not give room to, "Let's be friends first"....

I just want to be serious and if you can't be serious, then we have to move on.

OP, you devout so much time and attention to get a woman.And you consider so many rules. If she asked you, if you have money to spend on her head...That wasn't supposed to be a turn off....Ask her how much and check your pockets...

If you're not financially strong, why going to look for ladies that's as pretty as Rita Dominic....Abi you no see girls weh resemble James Brown?

You do not understand... There are some things you should not say or do when you are just getting to meet someone. Well, I am broke and I even borrowed money to buy data to come online

DoMeGood09:
The problem here was you acted desperate. Next time, do not be desperate on women. If a woman is beautiful, tell her that she’s ugly.

I told her a pretty young lady last week that I cannot date her and she asked me, I told her that because she’s can’t measure up. Ever since then, she’s been calling me. What works for women is opposite.

True.

Abovebest:
How do we even know if you fall in the class of those that are serious?

lmao

Zonefree:
The 3rd lady discarded you after getting information about digital marketing and social media marketing free from you. That's where you loose-guard.

You don't give your intellectual property free to people, not to Nigerian girls.

Baba, I do this thing regularly. To you it is a big deal. A piece of information I dropped freely on Nairaland years ago has been helping lives... as hard-working Nigerians took it up and made something out of it. It is not a big deal.

But I understand your point.

Kobojunkie:
But women do exactly what you state there in bold regular so why do you presume you are the first to think of doing such?,

I don't convince myself of anything of such nor does the word "luck" and "relationship" go together in my dictionary so forgive me for really not seeing whatever moot point you are attempting to make with this response of yours.

Something about your person attracted those 4 girls to you yo begin with and even with you saying you have cut them off, it doesn't mean you will not still go out and attract others like them , maybe with better ability to hide their flaws next time. Rather than stone the gals what you ought instead do is look inside of you to change whatever is necessary so you attract better women next time. Coming here to accuse them as though they forced themselves on you somehow ain't going to help you any.

When you say I attract such, I laugh cos how do you know what someone is made up of if you do not interact with them?

Is it written on their head?

I am not the first to experience it neither will I be the last. The point I was trying to make is that women can’t eat their cake and have it.

You can’t be the one with repulsive attitude and still wonder why decent guys are not coming for you.

I don’t know what you are reading or comprehending from all I wrote.

Yet , you try to make excuse for the girls and blame me who chose to avoid trouble after I notice red flags.

Kobojunkie:
All this writeup here is give us a glimpse into your ability to reason the world around you and the kind of relationships you get yourself into.

Those girls are not your problem at all. You are and you should look into yourself to realize why these are the kind of people you continue to attract even at your age.

Lmao.. you are funny. So point out where I made a mistake and the girls are not at fault?

Did I ask them for sex or ask them for anything? What will it cost a grown-up adult to be decent in their engagement? At my age? At my age, I would leave any girl alone as soon as I see any indecent attitude or red flag.

Maybe you are the kind that tries to convince yourself that "it is not a problem, continue to try your luck and gets disrespected even further"

Gerrraheree mien

Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.

Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.

I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.

Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.

For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.

We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.

Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.

After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice

She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...

That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.

I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.

If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?

I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.

On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.

Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.

She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.

While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.

Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?

Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.

For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.

Let's move on

Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.

Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.

We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.

Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,

On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.

The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...

Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.

Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!

skillmyman:
hello all,
A buyer used domainagents.com to get in touch with me for a domain i own.
after we agreed on terms, it was transferred to escrow.com which does not work in nigeria.
now i was asked to open a wise.com account since escrow.com can transact with wise.com.
has anybody used wise.com before. how do you upload money to wise.com from nigeria. i tried using my dollar card but it was rejected..

any other advice please

Wise works with Nigerians. just sign up and do your KYC.

mystery22:
Fifa wants to buga

he tweeted about wanting to perform Buga at the world cup... i am happy he got his wish.

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

learn a digital skill that can pay you $200-$500 per week. Youtube is there for you, skillshare.com is there for you. do not waste your young age

VeryWickedMan:
Pictures of the Serpent or I don't believe it.

u are a VeryWickedMan truly

DenreleDave:


The intention of some evil igbos is to destroy Nigeria and to achieve this aim, Peter Obi is their perfect instrument......

They know this man is a package fraud yet they want to enforce him on us by threaten peoples life and property....

NA so dem push Nnamdi Epon O buko Kanu to jail and forgot dt guy to focus on obi fraud....

It is very easy to know supporters of drug baron but they think we can be fooled lol... you that your candidate is hiding from debates.

ClixMaster:
I have never sold a domain without site on it. Sold two last month. So there's nothing strange about what he is experiencing. This one on my signature sef was sold yesterday for 580$

who bought the one in your signature? ur lamba eh...

That is a poor domain name lol..

TOPCRUISE:
Though it was reported that he used some of the proceeds of fraud and cybercrime to donate to orphans and widows including mosques where 2 imams paid tributes to him and pleaded for his release because they have been a beneficiary of his philanthropic gestures. The sentencing is just too lenient. It's just a pat on the back.
Just like a human rights lawyer said he ought to be sentenced to life imprisonment cause his victims are still feeling the effects of fraud he inflicted on them.

That is American law for you. There too many loop holes

ClixMaster:
I have never sold a domain without site on it. Sold two last month. So there's nothing strange about what he is experiencing. This one on my signature sef was sold yesterday for 580$

there is something strange... cos he said he has no target keyword for the location.

so where do you sell your sites?

Nazacindy25:
It has 28 pages targeting roofing services. According to Google search console, the traffic is from Dallas Texas, it has never shown any ranking for Huntington.

well, there may be a reason for this development. Did you check to know whether this is coming from a previously designed site on the domain name?

It is weird really sha...

However, you are sitting on a goldmine.

what is the length of each article that you have on the website? When you say it has 28 pages, do you mean it has 28 written articles?

Also, what do you use to do your keyword research to come up with keyword idea?

How long did it take to start seeing results and ranking after writing the articles?

I have heard of this model before... and I am happy reading this from you.

Nazacindy25:
Good evening guys. I've been following this thread for over a year and decided to give it a shot three months ago. But instead of registering the domains to sell, I chose to buy the domain, create a website, rank it and sell the leads to businesses in the location as this will be more profitable.

So I settled on the roofing niche with Dallas, Texas as my target location.

I used a Google voice number for the website.

The website has ranking for some keywords like roof repair Dallas TX, chimney repair and replacement Dallas Tx and some other keywords.

But to my surprise, I get calls and messages from people in Huntington saying they came across my website and need my services, and I will reply that the website is a lead generation website and not really a physical business.

Each day I get like two calls.

I dont know what to do at this point, should I contact roofing companies in Dallas or Huntington to try sell the website or leads?

If I contact roofers in Huntington, bear in mind that the domain contains the keyword Dallas. All the content on the website is about Dallas Texas abd not Huntington.

I'm just wondering how the site is appearing in Huntington for Roofing keywords, could it be because of the Google voice number?

Please advise me. Thanks in advance.

That is some smart move there and I love it.

How many articles do you have on the website? Try to find out where its traffic is coming from and for what keyword that bring you the traffic. That way, you will be able to know what to do.

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

Get a skill, a digital skill, and start using it to make money. Find a way to make money that you can use to enrol for course on SkillShare.com and Youtube videos.

Nobody is going to do it for you. You have to do it yourself. Self development is key and what I HAVE used to sustain myself.

9ousky:
Chipper Cash is selling dollar 810 to 1 USD
But When you are to convert to naira back it is 698Naira to1 USD. I have lost over 15k

That is how they make their profit

successmatters:
On the contrary, I think it's a win for Peter Obi.

Let me explain it very well.

Most of the people loyal to the PDP in the south west looks unto Makinde as their point of direction. Brotherly affection means that where he stands, they will stand. As Makinde makes moves to dissociate himself from the camp of Atiku, the generality of supporters of PDP in the region will turn their backs on PDP as a party, but will they vote for a Tinubu? No.

Most people who are supporting PDP in the south west are people who hated the overbearing nature of Tinubu. So voting Tinubu is a no no to them. They will rather throw their support on another strong contender whom the angry Wike camp aligns with, and there is no time for reconciliation, all these crisis in PDP is going to benefit Labour Party and Peter Obi, with Yusuf Baba Datti Ahmed.

Ireporteronline.com is owned by Tinubu's camp... they are fooling themselves with their Nairaland traffic source. they have been completely chased out of twitter. Nairaland is the only place they try to sell their fake news.

DieRich5:
one of my guy 30yrs sex a V- 13yrs old girl last week, I can't say shit but I'm sad for her future self


Having sex with children like 13 to 15yrs, good or bad?

I rather buy for sex Dan sex a kiddo

That is wrong... so wrong. so so wrong... not even 18 or 20 year old... ahh

Emperormartin:
I doubt if you give these ones education they will drop guns

it is not just about Education. Give them Jobs and they will drop it. You need to hear how much they are paid to carry out this manner of evil... na peanuts. Peter Obi addressed this in his last interview at Arise TV.

I could deduce from the documentary did by BBC on Zamfara bandits that even they do not like what they are doing and they said in that video that it is Business...

No human will love to starve to death, they will do something, either good or bad to stay alive and 90% of the time, they will choose evil if there are no alternatives.

Some of us who criticize these things down south might do worse if we were born in the North into a very poverty-stricken family with no education.

Heathrow44:
oga a typical naija girl would take all ur Bs just t make sure she gets to UK, once she's in UK, she can't go bk to naija even if u force her to, that's how thorough they re towards executing their set objectives, the man should do d same

This is so spot on! Women always have objectives before getting into any relationship...

Okonandmary:
You will lose your wife soon.
Just a little freedom and she is misplacing her priorities.

Sometimes i winder why it is difficult for some women to play along as a team reaching a goal with their husbands

I will advice you not to worry yourself, the cure for this isn't to run yourself down with hypertension. Stop caring and acting like you cant live without her.

That woman does not sound like someone that was really into him...And I do not think he didn't see those signs before they got married.

No man should marry a woman that disrespect him... NONE!

Amotolongbo:
All I can read here are
1. A lady who isn’t straight forward
2. A man who feels insecure

A man who feels insecure really? I do not blame you. You are seeing someone who does not respect her husband and you dare call his reaction "insecurity"

hmmmm

Sapiosexuality:
Send money from Afternic to Grey, then withdraw the USD to Dom account. Gpxchange and co, this works, right?

get a wise bank account in USD.. when u receive the money, move it to binance and cash out via BTC at higher exchange rate

emorse:
Bros. Women do this all the time and heaven does not fall. Some things are not worth the stress please. Worst case, spark, do small shakara and move on like nothing happened. I say again, if na me, the marriage don end be dat. I hate nonsense abeg.

I understand you but I feel she won't feel this way if the man had communicated things with her. I think she is the kind that values communication... she feels cheated and maybe if the husband had expressed it openly, she won't feel this way.