₦airaland Forum

emorse:
E no go better for trust. A friend was gisting me recently about how his wife saved money from their monthly upkeep (which was barely enough) and loaned him part of it when he went flat broke. Guess what, after things stabilised, he paid her back! Imagine that. His own money o. This man told this story with a big grin on his face. E reach woman turn, family scatter. I say again, e no go better for trust.

The man should have been up front about that extra fees...

Alwaysachick:
Have you imagined bringing a business proposal to a close relative which you think will benefit you and him if he buys the idea, only for this relative because he has the finance, tells you he wants the business all to himself, leaving you out of it.

So you don't mind giving this idea to this selfish relative of yours who isn't considering you. You will just dash him your aspirations without anything.

That was the case of this couple. The woman is wicked and self centered. The husband felt hurt and the only way he could let go was to see it as transactional.

Please free the man. If you were that man with the relative, you will involve a lawyer and sell your idea at a fee. And if this doesn't happen and your relatives goes ahead with this business without your consent, I bet you will be sworn enemies if you have an unforgiving spirit like OP.

The husband didn't have the money from what I read.. she had it and she didn't want to finance something and the man takes credit for it. Read her future plans about having a small house with her husband for her kids.

A man should find a way to have his own money. She is not wicked in any way.

RESHARPENED:
Any .com name caught by SAV backorder could have been handregistered after it drops.

It means no other backordering services was competing for that name.

It's cheap for a reason.

how much is their back order please?

Rozross:
You readily forgive those you love without a doubting spirit. You are kind of toxic, even me that like trouble dont know how to keep grudges, before the next day as e long reach, i've forgotten that we even had issues. Marriage isnt relationship, learn to accept your partner's flaws and weaknesses and forgive them each time their weaknesses is taking it's toll on them. This one isn't even a big issue sef, its you who has been complicating things. He's sorry and begging you for forgiveness and you still dont want to forgive him, what else do you want? His head? Abeg work on your unforgiven spirit.

Someone's trust is broken and you think she is toxic. You don't know that there are people who don't joke with their trust. I don't forgive people who break my trust, even if it is 10 years time... i will always remember what u did any moment i see your face or name.

Crazeworld:
This is serious.

Let's drop a full list of Nigerian banks that are working alongside the limits. Only mention banks you've used this month, not the one someone told you it's working.

I'll go first.

Stanbic IBTC = $20 (510)
Zenith Bank = $15 (490 - 500)
GTBank = $20 (490 - 500)
Africard by UBA = $20 (450 - 500)

That Africard, do I need to have a bank account to use it? Back in the days, you do not need a bank account at UBA to use one.

xammax:
The non hyphenated is better

lol... there is only one company in sight and they went for what is commonly used in their country which is hyphen. Austria, Germany, Netherlands have one thing in common.

xammax:
Who bought the domain adapagroup.com? Chai

You no do well oooo, domain wey dey list since morning I say make I buy person don snag am

lol... The hyphen name make sense more

has anyone been able to verify their Epik account using NIN or Voters Card? My voters card keep being declined on the basis of suspicious document tampering. The NIN card is not even accepted... I am tired

Humblemax:
You can fund over the counter or through PayPal. No monthly limit for the dollar card that I know of. If there is, then it will be high.

oh okay... is there no other way to fund it apart from paypal?

Humblemax:
For those using UBA dollar Africard, they've stopped withdrawals from that card.

Any cash you have there must be used to pay for something online.

how does one fund the card and what is the monthly limit?

ChiefOlabowla:
In analyzing domain metrics, what are the informed assumptions that can be made with increase the number of who is records? Just an innocent question from a learner seeking varying opinions.

The screenshot is excerpted from my Epik account. It contains the who is record as at 16th and 17th of this month

The recent whois search counter at Epik looks like bot... I have noticed an unusual spike and everything looks like bot and not real user searches.

Don't bank on it.

godofuck231:
Hes swimming in his money, stupid men in nigeria who build houses without town plan supervision, the house was built below sea-level, as why in nigeria uou see red markings on walls when roads are being built, with the ocean surge , you see such men lavishing in ther ignorance

You are a moro.n... You do not have his kind of money, you are on nairaland throwing opinions without knowing the real reason for the flood.

Ode, over 18 states have been affected because of water released from the Cameroon dam... and your Buhari stopped a project initiated in 1982 after he overthrew the regime that started it and that could have helped prevent this menace.

Fool thinks he has a opinion. if e easy, why you no build your own mansion.

BATified2023:
I have said it a couple times here that igbos don’t want election but war,they have started killing apc members in the east now n they ain’t seeing any big deal about it

They have started throwing the first stone now n when people threat them same way n return their action they will start playing victim card

Imagine igbos doing their rally anywhere but never want anything in their region

The same mindset that led to d civil war is the same thing they are repeating now,the mindset that only their own is good n others are bad so others must be killed n their own b left alone

Imagine one saying atiku n tinubu should b killed for corruption,meaning if he has d power he will repeat d mistake of killing other regions leadersn leaving only igbos

I repeat igbos don’t want election but war

lol... I am glad that you guys have been restricted to just nairaland. I am an Igbo guy and I KNOW THAT AUSTIN NWABUFO is working for APC. IGBOS know this... his has been using Labour Party logo to say all manner of evil things just to stain the movement but few months to election, nothing is working... tell Austine to try harder.

HomoSapiien:
He’s given Tinubu the chance to win as he’d be neutralizing the votes Atiku would normally be getting in the south.

this people are funny...

lhordspy:
Let me say a little about this game Tinubu and kwankwanso are playing...

It is called Non-zero-sum situation

Non-Zero-Sum situation involves a situation whereby one person's win doesn't really and necessarily means another's person loss, and also one person loss does not really means that the other person wins. Vice versa.
Which translate to that in Non-Zero-Sum Game or situation all parties could gain, or all parties could lose.

This is the situation of Tinubu and kwankwaso... It is very obvious Kwankwaso can never win 2023 . I think all this crowd-pulling can just be likened to story of a man who wants to atleast show is political strenght or put his political influence and might on display OR maybe a man who is trying ro pull the greatest political strategy of all time. We call it the Last card method . The one pulled by Aminu tambuwal. But this seems way way different, something brutal and 'Finishing' .

It is 98% sure that Kwankwaso will never move to Atiku's camp at the end. So, that tambuwal strategy cant really work for atiku in the person of kwankwanso this time, it is completely off the table because it will be hard for a certain shekarau and kwankwaso to be in same party. It has always been a battle for supremacy between both.

Since, shekarau is already with the main opposition,PDP with Atiku abubakar as the presidential candidate.
That is where, the Non-zero sum situation comes into play. Tinubu winning doesnt mean kwankwaso will lose, and Tinubu losing doesnt mean kwankwaso will win.

Kwankwaso is left with no other option than to join Tinubu's camp.... And that is definitely what will happen at the end. The signs are there, it is just a matter of time.

Now the question is not will Kwankwaso eventually align with tinubu,that is imminent. but the question is What are these guys cooking? What is their game plan? I think Tinubu is going to make Kwankwaso his Last card, i see kwanwaso declaring for Tinubu just at the eve of the election. And that will be game-over .

Jabagan, king of strategy. Just give it to the man.

lmao... I just knew that your own is to campaign for Tinubu...Kwankwanso people have told him to go all in. He cant leave Atiku his brother and give it to Tinubu. U are dreaming. The man is battling for himself and no one else.

lhordspy:
Atiku and obi sharing their votes in the south

your tinubu wont get anything in the North... dreamer.

Spiritualizt:
Please guys what is the best approach to get in touch with Afternic to have domains owned by past owners removed?

it seems like they are overwhelmed sha... I have not gotten any response from Afternic for the same reason.

N3TRAL:
These polls are run by young people with multiple social media accounts who go to the extent of sending links on WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and LinkedIn for their friends to also vote for their candidate with their multiple accounts.

The young people will shock you... they are only 4 people in the room of rallies across the country after all... so why is Tinubu thugs intimidating people and their lives?

9jii:
IPOB, ENDSARS, OBIDIENT is all a the same evil agenda by the secessionist to throw this country into a civil war.
They ll never be organized.
God pass them coz failure await again.

coming from an idiot that supported the kidnapping of Ese Oruru to his Northern brother.... idiot think I have forgotten his comment.

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

look for someone else na.

Rozross:
Why has non of his appointees come out to support him? Big question you should ask

I bet you were dead when there was twitter space for appointees to come share their story. unlike your agbado masters, Peter Obi appointed seasoned technocrats to head differents departments. They returned to their profession after his tenure... but your agbado master can't boast of such legacy...

lastly, I am glad that you guys have been restricted to nairaland lol.

BluntTheApostle:
I waited till morning?

Jumping into stupid conclusions is the hallmark of illiteracy.

You think some of us work on Nairaland.

Or live on Nairaland?

Tell Tinubu to come forward. I don't have your time... dodging his way to Aso Rock will be his greatest undoing by the time we are done.

BluntTheApostle:
SMH...

No electricity?

No constitutional reviews?

You people should stay away from 2023 election.

We don't need a confused man as president

Tell your Agbado muncher to stop hiding from media and come forward like Peter Obi has been doing... tell him to stop hiding. You think u are smart. u wait till morning before u reply my mention. Tell useless Tinubu to come forward and answer live interview questions.

weyrey dey hide... he wants to hide his way to Aso Rock...Bloody nonsense.

BluntTheApostle:
SMH...

Una don start to dey give excuses.

For a country like Nigeria that produces nothing, how do you want to move from consumption to production with removing import restriction.

When I wrote sometime back that Obi was playing to the gallery with this consumption to production nonsense, many of you said he meant well for Nigeria.

Una see as Obi don dey Bleep up small small.

You are asking how a country can move from consumption to production? fix insecurity, improve SME, create employment and support entrepreneurs... that is how to do it

The problem I have with people like you is that you think you are smart... Your candidate is busy hiding from the media thinking Nigerians are not aware or observing it, but you think Obi is the problem in all of these, a man that is even making himself available to you and engages you, answers questions, and shares his plans.

Many of you do not deserve anything good in this life, I swear. Tell me what sector is fully functional in this country as of today. Go to Airport and see the sea of Nigerians running out of the country for better lives elsewhere.

Wetin concern me... from January till this moment, I have not earned 1 naira from Nigeria. Make una continue.

jamih:
Exactly, maybe through afternic wide network. That's huge advantage of afternic, but their shakara too much.
Although,.I got a visit on my Landing page when it sold. Maybe Buyer prefer to pay 1258 at afternic, than 300 on the landing page

yes, trust issue. I have done outbound for domains and told buyer to go to the URL but buyer went to Godaddy and bought it from there at a higher price.

jamih:
Alhamdulillah

WashingtomDCLimos.com
Holdtime ; 3 months
Sold : 150 DAN

PalauAirlines dot com
Purchase date: 2017
Hold time : 5yrs
Got an offer of 300 in 2017, countered, then asked for 800, buyer did not buy.
Sold : 1258 Afternic, was available for 300 BIN at DAN

congrats. Most buyers are often searching and rarely type-in

BluntTheApostle:
You people are impossible.

Did the same Obi not talk about moving from consumption to production?

Why mention import restriction removal again?

Do you have constant power supply? you didn't even answer that. I am sure you have one old power bank that you using to come online to talk this nonsense.

consumption to product means countries do not import? No country in the world that does not import and it is only someone that does not know what he is debating that will sound like you...

Why should we be importing crude oil which takes up most of our forex? you left that one and focus on other sectors cos it fits your agenda...

Can you manufacture a laptop or the phone that you are using? I am not talking about assembling... I am talking about manufacturing everything from scratch. Pretty sure that you can't but you want to argue online to sound intelligent.

Most people Sound like you do not even run a successful business to really understand how sectors operate in the country but you will be talking and blowing grammar.

Later you will data is too expensive while forgetting that diesel powers all mast in the country in most cases.

N3TRAL:
Refresh your memory

The first sentence means you can import as you like and get enough dollars to import whatever you want without restriction.

Okay.... but how is that a bad thing? do you have a constant power supply to manufacture things in Nigeria? NO... or do you think people importing are doing it because they love the idea?

Do you have a business or are you an entrepreneur?

N3TRAL:
A voice note isn't my problem.

My problem is that a presidential candidate wants to remove import restrictions in Nigeria.

Like what the Bleep?

Within 2 months of such stupid policy the dollar reserve in the central bank will be empty.

Millions of employees will lose their jobs.

Even people that produce biscuit will close their factories.

It's scary in this e-commerce era where I can order for 1 million crates of eggs abroad, 200,000 cartons of frozen chicken online, and throw poultry farmers into joblessness.

Nigeria will suffer the worst balance of payment deficit ever known to humanity.

Wow. Just wow!

he didn't say he will remove import restriction... he said the forex restrictions.... where we have up to 3 exchange rates, he will make it a single exchange rate, which was what we had before now. stop the lies.

yusufmurry:
A turn off question is asking a girl her age and what she does for a living

But a girl can ask this question abi?

YoungLionken:
You're right..

Again, some ladies are just unlucky when it comes to finding true love..

Too many men/suitors proposing love, heaven and earth to one woman (I can't lie, if I were a woman, I would be confused as well), hence the mistakes in choice by the woman..

Most men lie (though a necessary tool, no thanks to women who find comfort in it) alot...

I tried to work something out with 3 ladies... I am a guy that loves giving and showing through actions that I am serious...

do you know what my action earned me? "desperate", "mugu that can be taken advantage of"... I laughed, learned from it, and stopped doing that to ladies.

I don't believe what that OP said it totally true, especially for average pretty ladies... they have had good men come their way. But how did they treat him? read my experience with girls like this and tell me whether any man will keep trying or move on.

One during COVID 19, despite the lockdown, I managed to do the best I could as i had just done some supplies and was left with nothing but 50k after I sent her some money for her mum's medical needs. In the same year she requested I help her with money to buy oven for baking and I did... do u know what this girl did? do you know the insult she meted at me after all these?

Well after all done to save the relationship, I left. It has been 2 years since then and now she is feigning remorse that it was because of the situation she was undergoing at that time... tomorrow, someone like her will come and write this nonsense like the OP did, pretending like NO GOOD man has ever crossed their path. Bloody rubbish!

I simply told her a few things that she didn't know, how i was left with 50k and how i have managed to bounce back from just that 50k, and recoup whatever I gave her.

Don't mind this write-up written by the OP. it is all lies. women don't appreciate good things.

Festus30:
did you say just 21k? I've done lots of things for that girl. 21k is nothing compared to the things I've been doing for her since we started dating.

baba, send me your number through the email I sent to you... forget all these talks. I will call you personally on my own airtime... like call and talk to you, even if na 5 hours call, I go burn am to talk to you