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Villa12:
Real men don't cheat

Ur blinded by modern day feminism....there's nothing like cheating....

By ur analysis wat of all the bfs the girl had prior to the marriage that's also cheating!!

Abi she be virgin wen dem marry am??

Una no dey think

Khalsss:
see confusion everywhere. hiv and co still de exist so?

You assume you must sleep with the gfs. No! That's against the word of Allah. E no go pass rub breast and kiss na....

elonize:
those ppo dat liked ur comments r like u..no brain .
So if u r a woman, u will b api about dis..ppo like u dont have compassion..

Did the husband divorce her? NO. Did the husband stop caring for her? NO. Just that he went to make the hair of his gf - ehen so what??

lansile:
Marry 2 0r 3 0r 4 but if you can't be just among them, marry 1. Islam a complete way of life. This problem is just beginning and will continue to expand as long as we chose human rule over Almighty Allah's. By nature man is not created to be satisfied by just single woman (she wan die?). God allows you to marry the second woman instead of these embarrassing idea of following some whores all about.

The situation is more complex. We are in the "Tiktok generation" the young attractive babes are simply not ready for marriage and want to enjoy their lives to the fullest and enjoy social media attention etc...

So marry a wife and hv a large concubine of girlfriends and sexual partners.... but this must be done in the fear of God

mecuries:
wake up from what? having kids,and instead of me spending every penny on my family,I'd start seeking a young girl to spend the money on?.....were you raised that way?

What does the wife spend her own moni on??

It doesn't take much money to woo a woman. Maybe 2k or 2500.... its the idea that once a man is married he can't entertain the thought of another woman that I'm against ohhhh

Villa12:
you're saying Gliberdash. I pity the unfortunate woman that will mistakenly end up with you

My wife is comfortable with my concubines....

Creativity22:
I don't like the way she reacted. But i can understand her pains. The irresponsible man did not even provide money for the mother of his children, to get a new hair, but could afford one for another woman. That is very unfair. Am sure you will feel very bad, if she is your sister

Men are polygamous in nature....get used to it.....

Villa12:
I hope you can take what you dish out right?

What does this mean?? Since bible times, noble men hv always had concubines....I can't be restricted to just one woman and she can't pull the same stunt as she's too old to attract much attention.

Maynman:
You’ve been to all continents to conclude on this?

Is it only africa and the west that are on this earth?

Address the laziness points raised na your just making more arguments - I do not engage in unproductive arguments. this is my last comment.

Why are those scenarios always happening in nigeria/africa...

Even in this thread only one person has come to support the truth.

Blacks (Africans/ negros) are a left behind race...

Jman06:
Unless the wife contributes to the man's finances, she has no right whatsoever to question how the man spends his money!

Maybe the side chick is his source of happiness, sexually and otherwise, hence his decision to spend on her. The wife should deal with that and make do with whatever the man decides to give her.

But if the wife contributes equally to the family's finances, then the man is wrong and should be crucified

What if the man makes his own money and spends his money on himself and the woman makes her own money and spends the money on herself.

Someone like me I must have my concubine no woman can restrain me cos if she was still in her prime she would do the same i.e. have side boyfriends!

Maynman:
And only this happens in africa?

It seems you are not well travelled. It only happens in Nigeria specifically.

Or you go to your bank and they tell you "network is down come back tomorrow" - thats also laziness....

Or you go to a hotel and you want to wash ur clothes and they tell you:: "the laundry man is not on seat and there is nothing we can do"

An entrenched culture of laziness permeates every aspect of nigerian and african society....

And yes these things happen only in nigeria and africa as a whole - they dont happen in the west because the culture does not encourage laziness...

Maynman:
I asked a question, who are the “whites” that are hardworking since “blacks” are lazy?

What’s the metric you are using to judge to conclude that “blacks” are lazy?

Just use the term "Africans" and instead of "blacks" - this should answer your query....

Have you ever been to an office and they tell you: "Mr Ojo is not on seat come back tomorrow" - thats laziness - they should hv looked further and address why you came and not ask you to "come back tomorrow"

Maynman:
You calling yourself black is the origin of the problem.
Who are the “white” that are hardworking?

Where did I write in this write up that "whites are hardworking"? In an attempt to deny the truth ur sounding more funny.

I simply said Africans (the vast majority) are very lazy. I didn't compare Africans with Europeans...ur the ones that started including Europeans....

Why the denial of the truth tho?? Why being so defensive? Shows Africans aren't progress minded... it's better to acknowledge the truth and find out why it's like that

Napata77:
What issues have you raised?

You're just an idiot with racial inferiority complex.

Judging people by the colour of their skin is the ultimate idiocy, so saying ''blacks are lazy'' is just a sad testament to your foolishness and ignorance.

Again you deny the issue raised and resort to personal attacks.

Examples of the laziness were described. The black man is very lazy and disinclined to work and loves to use "leaders" as a scapd goat.

Address the laziness issues raised....the fact obvious african laziness isn't real to you proves the black man still has a very long way to go.

Another example is most shops don't open at 8am or 9am. Many open at 10am meaning the workers can't even be bothered to come on time..

KnownUnknown:
What the hell is a black?
Yea, government is people but how does an incompetent government equate lazy people?
The reasons the government is incompetent is myriad and complex, but laziness is not the reason.
No matter how hard one works progress is not guaranteed given the environment. Just look at the three thieves running to be president.

"Incompetent government" = lazy people who hv public service jobs...

So its saying the same thing that the blacks/negro/african is very lazy.....

Maynman:
Negro is a spanish word that means black. A mere color.
So what’s a black man?
How did caucasians end up as “white”? Are Japanese not also white?
Caucasians is just a group of people, it doesn’t refer to a whole continent, so what’s a black man?

You still choose to deny the problem instead of acknowledging the problem. Whether black, negro or African all refer to the same set of ppl who I am saying are very lazy.

Napata77:
He's just a confused kid with identity problems.

What has this comment got to do with the issue raised? You have not addressed the issue raised and this is more or less a personal attack/ denial of the raised issue....

KnownUnknown:
True, but you don’t have any support for your assertion about Nigeria. Let’s use your examples:
Are buses breaking down because of the laziness of the mechanics or the failure of the incompetent government to provide a thriving economy where parts and repair facilities are available.
Did the fireman forget to refill the extinguishers or are extinguishers unavailable?
Were electricity and other utilities available at this hospital to prevent silly mistakes?
Did the government create an environment that would motivate competent and “not lazy” doctors to stay in the country and prevent silly mistakes?

Even more concerning is the fact you do not see anything wrong with blaming government....government is people...it's still the same lazy blacks that are in government which explains why government (aka people) aren't working....

KnownUnknown:
True, but you don’t have any support for your assertion about Nigeria. Let’s use your examples:
Are buses breaking down because of the laziness of the mechanics or the failure of the incompetent government to provide a thriving economy where parts and repair facilities are available.
Did the fireman forget to refill the extinguishers or are extinguishers unavailable?
Were electricity and other utilities available at this hospital to prevent silly mistakes?
Did the government create an environment that would motivate competent and “not lazy” doctors to stay in the country and prevent silly mistakes?

You blaming government shows the laziness I'm talking about in you. Bro it's only in Nigeria that everyone is blaming government which proves the laziness....

Let's say Bola Transport Company operates busses from Ogun to Oyo.... there's a crew at each bus station that checks vehicles etc....most never do their job. Driver will not check his car and "trust in God"

You are a very lazy person....for the fact that ur blaming government....and I don't discuss with lazy folks....

KnownUnknown:
A black man is black man?
What is a black man because I know the color black and I’m yet to see a “black man” nor a “white man” for that matter. Are Caucasians from the Caucasus mountains?



Still don’t know who this black man and this white man are?



If you say so.



So, you’re talking about Nigeria and Nigerians. I doubt that you can justifiably paint with such a broad brush.



Well, there is an epidemic of superstition and ignorance from the highest places to the lowest.

A population can be generalized based on how the majority of a sample of that population behaves. That's purely statistics...

KnownUnknown:
Interesting!
What is a black?
What is a negro?

A black man is a negro.... negro is synonym of black while Caucasian is the synonym of white.

The black man is very intelligent and has achieved more than the white man in science and technology historically speaking.

But this intelligence is hidden and overshadow by an an entrenched culture of laziness.... just observe around you from cutting corners to making mistakes to unseriousness....all the signs and evidence are around you. From intestate busses breaking down cos folks are too lazy to service it, to buildings burning down cos fore service man was sleeping on duty or "forgot" to refill extinguisher, to silly mistakes in hospitals that cost lives....the evidence is there.

Even in this election ppl are still praying "for God to give us a good leader" whereas it was revolutiona that brought in good leadership in developed countries of today....

justtoodark:
that cant be true.......

we are like this because we try in vain to copy other people.....we are different than other people....

we think different,we look different,we smell different....

we are not lazy,just different.......

Not every African is lazy but the vast majority of Africans are VERY lazy....

Laziness is also responsible for kidnapping for Ransom ( I don't want to work but want N50 million Ransom), use of female pant for ritual, dealing in human parts for money etc....

The negro is damn lazy and is cursed with laziness....


They go to church every Sunday with nothing to show for it....

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Racoon:
The era of rhetorics must be put behind Nigerians and that the electorates must sieve and interrogate the presidential candidates on their ideology, plans and governance style before making their choice. Never again will anybody become Nigeria’s President through fake and unsubstantiated packaging.

@Ur last sentence, isn't that what Tinubu is trying to do??

Suunnn:
There is no going back here mean a whole lot

And elucidating well enough talking endurance between men and women, fact remains that women go extra miles in such sense i mean endure most

I i'm not insinuating that women are ruthless but most times women are never to blame on certain areas, as understanding differ so as opinions.

You tend not to understand one's view you try to ask questions to be properly cleared and not misquoting one rather, please taking note matter..

The females are ruthless....na who no know them....

Franzinni:
That's why it's good to watch what you are wearing if you know understand the meaning of things they wrote ...


He is wearing one of those demonic symbol shirts haha no wonder he went all the way

you are right.....

OgaDeyVex:
Source: https://punchng.com/lagos-scrap-collector-kills-man-over-argument/

toxic masculinity.
na wah for the male gender...

Demigod22:
Exactly, that's the sad reality for them. No matter they pretend to be happy without a man, deep down they are sad and lonely.

Show me a feminist who smiles publicly and I will show you a miserable fellow.

Men too are sadder and more lonely without a woman....

In America it's men that carry gun and commit mass murder because girlfriend or wife left them.

It affects guys more....Chee59 @Chee59

another1:
https://punchng.com/nassembly-says-constitution-amendments-may-fail-blames-states/

Peter Obi effect. They know they will be compared with Peter Obi after they leave office

Creativity22:
Really ! You want her to work 9 - 5pm but will be expecting food on your table, when you return from your own 9 - 5pm . How is this going to work brother

I serve myself food. Don't need any woman to serve me food

abidem4real:
Hmmm! What I see here is Western education eroding all African marital values.

May God allow us to come back to our right senses.

When boko haram said "Western education is sinful", you guys called them radicals. Insha Allah, Nigeria will turn from a federal republic into an Islamic Republic....

NB: I do not support terriorism....