Crime › Re: Bolanle Raheem's Husband Gives Chilling Account Of How She Was Murdered by BigBashiru: 2:25pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace: What a day to die. Christmas day will never be the same again in that family.
The useless policeman should be killed too, so as to serve as a detergent to other gun crazy cops in the country. The police man should be killed too....this is black on black violence so shameful.... |
Politics › Re: Obi Donates ₦3m To Benue IDPs, Says Nigerians Should Not Be Living Like Refugees by BigBashiru: 8:11am On Dec 26, 2022 |
Hoelujohn: Sanity will be restored back to government spending. Imagine Obi allocating 100m or 200m for feeding in Aso Rock instead of the usual 3billion that APC spends Well said.... |
Politics › Re: Obi Donates ₦3m To Benue IDPs, Says Nigerians Should Not Be Living Like Refugees by BigBashiru: 8:10am On Dec 26, 2022 |
tiswell: My incoming president,
so humane,compassionate,
hope for Nigeria and Nigerians come 2023.
Peter Obi is our president come 2023
insha Allah! May Allah grant him the desire to become the President of this great nation.... |
Celebrities › Re: Marry Someone Who Has Sense - Elsie Okpocha (Basketmouth's Estranged Wife) by BigBashiru: 10:24am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: It is because our hearts are hardened and and a condition of the mind where we see this other person as an outsider who shouldn't be tolerated, we see it as difficult.
Now, you lived and grew up with your siblings and you guys were always fighting at each other yet you tolerated and remained with them till you grew up. Why did you not see that as punishment? Oh.. because hes your bloodline? It's all in the mind. The mind has been conditioned to accept and tolerate some and not tolerate certain others. You have a good point. for me i think the females are RUTHLESS when they decide to leave relationships - they are quite selfish about it though I know you will try to deny it.... its all about risk management and reciprocity, why should I endure, tolerate when the woman will pack up and leave at the slightest sign of inconvenience? |
Celebrities › Re: 14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022, Still Counting (Photos) by BigBashiru: 10:16am On Dec 24, 2022 |
ghiloman28: 90% of woman once they have money they feels husband has nothing to say to them regardless say thier husband get x10 of wetin Dey get oo expecially Nigeria ladies. Its not even money, its "relationship with God"...once a woman feels she has "relationship with God" then husband matters less and less to her... |
Celebrities › Re: Marry Someone Who Has Sense - Elsie Okpocha (Basketmouth's Estranged Wife) by BigBashiru: 10:08am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: author=BigBashiru post=119391840]
I have two questions for you:
Have you ever heard the saying, men don't know what they want. So they go with the flow of the moment and when they get half way, the jump in the new "bandwagon ".
2. Don't understand your second point. Can you paraphrase? lol ive never heard that saying before but in my humble opinion, it applies to women - since women initiate over 80% of divorces according to latest statistics... To paraphrase the second question, if marriage is about enduring and sacrifice and tolerance then isnt that punishment? |
Celebrities › Re: Marry Someone Who Has Sense - Elsie Okpocha (Basketmouth's Estranged Wife) by BigBashiru: 9:42am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: My dear, don't talk like that. It takes the grace and fear of God for marriage to continue after five years.
One of my pastors once said it takes God's kind of love which is, tolerant, enduring, and sacrificial to continue in marriage after 5 years because all the affection, and butterflies in your belly feelings flies away after five years of marriage. I have two questions for you: 1. Why do men continue to spend millions of naira on a wedding bearing in mind the woman can just wake up one day and say she is not doing again? And there's nothing the guy can do about it. 2. You talk about tolerant, endure and sacrifice what's the incentive to do these things? Are they being done because "God said so"? |
Politics › Re: My First Executive Order Will Be To Reform The Civil Service -Accord Candidate by BigBashiru: 9:19pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
jeromestarks: It's surprising how this idiot thinks he stands a chance to be president of Nigeria.
He is as delusional as a man who married a woman he didn't disvirgin and hoping to have a peaceful and lasting home.
Anyways, Nigeria needs foolish people like him to prove a point.
No matter who becomes the president of Nigeria come 2023, you can never have peace of mind if you married a woman you did not disvirgin because she will forever compare you with the first man who fvcked her and that will make her misbehave as the wedding progresses.
Don't pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (a virgin) by a boy who only gave her two eggs and indomie. Only a fool will do that. Are you a fool?
Do not Marry a woman above 23. Women gets clumsier with age. Most women who are single above 27 are battling with one serious disease or the other. Do you want to spend your hard earned money treating a woman disease which you know nothing about?
Once a woman has lost her virginity before you met her, she has lost her glory. She's empty. She's now a disaster. You can not grow old with such a woman. Just fvck her and go. Never wife her.
If a woman did not give you her best years (18 - 23), do not give her your best. Most of them spend their best years enjoying life and after they are used by yahoo boys, they look for a home to retire. Do not let a girl above 23 retire into your home. Most girls who aren't virgins have been used and they don't even know it. If you marry such a girl, you business will crumble and your life will be a hell on Earth. You will never rise again.
Finally, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion. While ur comment is noble, the 23 yo ain't ready. I've told you guys the resolution- marry 28+ but she will take care of herself financially....then hv the 23yo as side chick gf or concubine. Wen last did you see a 23yo getting married?? You don't need to marry dem to chop them.....be their bf ans let the old wife be for the family.... |
Politics › Re: Sowore: "I Don't Expect A Free & Fair Election, BVAS Won't Stop Rigging" by BigBashiru: 9:04pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
TastyFriedPussy: if not for that yeye angel that directed me to this useless country, all this one no for consign me ohh!!! Weda tilumbu win or no win, that one now for no be my business. I for just dey one place for California dey live soft life.. Haiiii God why? Why you look me finish as I dey come carry me come into this nonsensical country filled with 200 million wicked, useless, tribalistic,unproductive people? I won't forgive you for this at all.. @ bolded. Very good description of Nigerians.... |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Promises To Abolish Parallel FOREX Market (Video) by BigBashiru: 4:45pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Penguin2: All the things Peter Obi said in his manifesto is what Tinubu is now saying…
From removal of subsidy to abolishing multiple forex market.
Tinubu is a grade one thief. @bolded not just that but those are the exact same things Buhari is now doing especially Buhari's moves with Nigeria police recently.... |
Politics › Re: Asiya-Balaraba Ganduje, Inuwa Uba Divorce: Judge Orders Journalists Out Of Court by BigBashiru: 11:32am On Dec 23, 2022 |
This is why you shouldn't spend millions on a woman for wedding cos wen she wants to leave you she won't care..... |
Politics › Re: Asiya-Balaraba Ganduje, Inuwa Uba Divorce: Judge Orders Journalists Out Of Court by BigBashiru: 10:43am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Women dey initiate divorce sha....never fall in love with a woman. Always use your head when among them... |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Ugezu Explains Why Many Are Single And Will Remain Single Next Year by BigBashiru: 9:29am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Ever ask how come men seem to have so many possible "will of gods" for themselves, but women are limited to just one man which they typically have to prove their worth to throughout their lives in order to keep their Mrs badge firm. These days, the same same have to exists in constant competition with sidechicks and inlaws. No be hell be that? 
It is all manipulative bullsheet fed to women in order to make them less confident and more pliable for the men folk ofcourse.  Despite your white knighting Blessedmercy8 still won't give you her phone number. |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Ugezu Explains Why Many Are Single And Will Remain Single Next Year by BigBashiru: 9:28am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Is he not stating obvious facts?. A lot of people are not married today due to their high expectations including me.
In my early years, I had a picture of the kind of man I wanted but the opposite kept coming and I kept refusing them just because they don't fit into my spec. And till today, all the ones coming are still not not my taste and I won't settle until I find what I want.
The man is right because I'm still single afterall and not because they are not coming but I no want them. And the ones I dey give green light no send me. Hahaaaa.. such is life but I don't kia. As long as I'm happy. @ bolded - oh ye arrogant child! What I normally ask those like you is when you find what you want, yes he approaches you but will he follow through to marriage?? The problem is most females are skewed in their thinking by the number of men approaching them online and offline and miscalculate. Hv it at the back of your mind that you may eventually not get what you want. This is a more pragmatic approach. But be hopeful that you will and pray to God. Humble pragmaticpeople entertain the possibility of accepting they could get less than what they want. The arrogant and proud insist they must get what they want. |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Ugezu Explains Why Many Are Single And Will Remain Single Next Year by BigBashiru: 8:43am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Tsolutionjoseph: if you are a responsible man in marriage you will understand Explain in detail |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Ugezu Explains Why Many Are Single And Will Remain Single Next Year by BigBashiru: 7:10am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Tsolutionjoseph: Being single as a man,is far better than enduring in marriage, I won't advise men to settle for less, because marriage is more beneficial to women, even happy home How exactly is marriage more beneficial to women?? |
Sports › Re: Kylian Mbappe's Father Speaks About Corruption In Africa. by BigBashiru: 2:33am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Napata77: And Russia dropping bombs on innocent white women and children means the saying ''Europeans are monkeys'' is totally true.
Hitler sending 6 million whites, including children, to the gas chambers means the saying ''Europeans are savage, demonic monsters'' is totally true.
America slaughtering 2 million innocent Iraqis just to control their oil industry shows the saying that ''the white man is the devil'', is totally true.
ASSWIPE. Western Europeans killing off native Americans to take over their land.....and same in most African countries.... |
Politics › Re: 2023: President Buhari In Strategic Close Door Meeting With Tinubu (Photos) by BigBashiru: 12:31am On Dec 22, 2022 |
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Health › Re: Buhari Inaugurates Eye Hospital, Says It Will Reduce Medical Tourism by BigBashiru: 8:53pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
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Education › Re: Reps To Include Anti-Corruption Classes In Primary & Secondary Schools by BigBashiru: 8:05pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
JoeNL22: Does it matter? i want to see if that administration was controlled by the West cos thats a western policy...the West is big on erasure of history and thats an integral aspect of colonization... thats what they tried to do when they told you you were dwelling in a hut until they came to show you light....its false.... |
Education › Re: Reps To Include Anti-Corruption Classes In Primary & Secondary Schools by BigBashiru: 7:12pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
JoeNL22: Are u in Nigeria? Are u not aware we don't do history is Secondary schools anymore? I'm asking which administration enforced the policy?? I.e. which administration started the policy.... |
Education › Re: Reps To Include Anti-Corruption Classes In Primary & Secondary Schools by BigBashiru: 6:58pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
JoeNL22: Well...they should have not ban history from Secondary schools in the first place.
Secondly the plan is well thought out, provided its highly implementable.
Don't worry.....obi will ensure this plan sees the light of day and stars of the night. For with Obi, a new system of primary & secondary school is achievable. Which President banned history from secondary schools? |
Education › Re: Reps To Include Anti-Corruption Classes In Primary & Secondary Schools by BigBashiru: 6:57pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 4:21pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: How is 50-50 unfair for the female? 
How can you achieve fairness for everyone is 50-50 is off the table? Look, just admit that like everyone else out there, you are simply looking for the product whose specification suits your taste same as everyone else out there, and stop pretending yours is the best way.  Where did I ever claim my way was the best way. You are a jobless man trolling nairaland. |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 12:50pm On Dec 21, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Compete?? Who's competing with you?? Relationships are not black and white.. there is not text book for it... i can tell u for a fact..no man truly wants to share bills with his wife. ...nigerian men are too proud for that....But if unforseen situation arises ..what men want are women that will support them and not frustrate them even before the chips are down....
But Women like u already telling a man i cannot do this or that in marriage when u dont even know how tomorrow will be dont deserve good and rich men....yeah....
like u all say... only virgin men deserve virgin women.....y'all deserve men that earn the same like u....lets see if u will tell him to go and steal to do more for you or u will step up and keep ur marriage alive till things get better No one is talking of sharing bills with a woman....I can take care of bills....the expenses I mean are if she wants to buy a new car she should make her own moni and use her own money to buy it....if she needs exotic foods beyond what I eat myself, she should use her own moni to buy it....if she wants Brazilian hair, she should use her own money to buy it..... Wen it comes to children's fees, it needs to be divided....it's either I pay the school fees and she's in charge of their pocket money or I pay 70% and she brings 30% of both. As for Nigerian men being too proud, that one is them that know....me I'm not a Nigerian man oh.....lol |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 11:30am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Divoc19: And what is my perfect picture? A manly man not the one that competes with his woman. Rather he builds a support system for her and they are both great together.
Behind every successful man there is a secret woman. It can't be 50/50 one of them has to be recognize in all...Know this and know peace.
2 captain can't what again And y'all can go marry your fellow men and stop complaining 
Offs Mic It cannot be 50 - 50....I agree with you on that.... I've never been an advocate of 50 - 50 as that's unfair to the female.... I'm just an advocate of fairness to everyone.... |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 10:00am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Divoc19: Am looking for my warrior dear 
We still have 21st century men that don't need feminine support, complain that they have spent/invested too much in women that have refuse to open their laps for them. I am one such man that does not need feminine monetary support. I hold the position that the woman went to school and therefore should be able to fend for herself in the marriage.... Wen it comes to children, they are her children too do I expect her to bring 30%-40% of their bills.... |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 9:53am On Dec 21, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Go and marry your own warrior.... and leave other men for women that understand its not bad to support their man...
21st century women!! always looking for men relationship that will make them not be responsible for anything except having sex.....and when u meet men that treat u as such, u start crying for respect... @ bolded i think it should read its not bad for her to support herself.... See bah, in this day and age, women get married whenever they want and in the course of a marriage they also call it quits whenever they want. Hence patriarchy is a thankless task that allows women take advantage of men.... After playing patriarchy raising millions for her huge hospital bills one day she wakes up and tells you she is not doing again lolz and there's no damn thing you can do about it. The controls that hold marriage together are no longer there hence its best everyone fends for themselves so that no one is used. |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 9:40am On Dec 21, 2022 |
Divoc19: Back in the days men were warriors today a lot of men want to be treated like women. Is it because we don't have commnal wars and it's likes the way we use to anymore Better go and get ready to fight if / when war breaks out! |
Politics › Re: Germany Returns 1,000 Benin Bronzes To Nigeria Amid Frustrstion At Britain by BigBashiru: 11:52pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Swiperite: If you ask me, I will suggest they keep the artifacts in their museums and send us the revenue generated from visitors.
The items are better cared for over the there. Read my comment above. Get well soon. |
Politics › Re: Germany Returns 1,000 Benin Bronzes To Nigeria Amid Frustrstion At Britain by BigBashiru: 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: So much hot air.
Why would I have to know about German and British owned totems, and a history that is yours?
All the other artefacts that the British didn't preserve for you, the ones they left in Nigeria, where are they and why have they been used to make fires for roasting wildlife? If they were kept by Africans, where are they? on a serious note you are a victim of colonial brainwashing....it takes the grace of God for you to come out of it. Start by stop watching western media and focus on African media and maybe Chinese state media. Secondly read African history written by African authors....you need help bro. Get well soon. The same Africans that preserved olumo rocks, ogbunike caves and obudu ranch will preserve it. Secondly those art works if they made it they could also preserve it. Finally read about the colonization of Canada and from that you will see parallels with what happened in Africa....may God help yr soul |
Romance › Re: Who Is Going To Take Care Of The Man? by BigBashiru(op): 11:46pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: First, stop hanging out with women whose issues go back to their childhood, and you will find that not all women out there think of themselves as eggs that need to be taken care of. 
A man who sees himself as a workhorse is a man who will be treated as such. If you cease to see yourself as a horse to be driven for the benefit of another fully abled human being, then a workhorse you will remain to others.  Shhhh |