₦airaland Forum

Osagyefo98:
Even Stella oduah saved the day..

Same Oduah they insulted...

Obiano has really shown how greedy a man can be.

Looting the state dry with no single road construction.

After governing a state for 8 yrs he wants to go and rest in other civilization with his loot.

So he couldn't build such in his state.

African politicians are thieves and all the know is the appetite to steal public wealth.

There are so many good politicians in Nigerians and Africa. European politicians speccialize in looking their owncountries too

vickydevoka:
O k. Ladies are peaceful people. They don't frustrate men at all

Na just question I dey ask....

Zonefree:
Only a fool will believe the words of a desperate Nigerian girl.

OP, tell your friend to embrace his L in peace.

What is L?

folarin24:
marriage is about responsibilities and sacrifice

After the yahoo bois and numerous boy friends don fukk the so called wife and without any responsibilities or sacrifices.....?

boyfrank:
Desist from drugs...it's deeply affecting ur speech and reasoning

Why did Europeans try to take over South africa if Europe was that great?? Why did France try to take over Algeria?? My dear Africa is far better than Europe....it took me 20+ years of deep thinking to realize this....

This is why European countries are still sending "peace keeping" soldiers to Africa to occupy. This is why France has deployed 5000 soldiers in the sahel to try and guard their colony....

Africa is better trust me.....

Jeromejnr:
Very transparent people. Not all these "100 thousand Russian soldiers killed" propaganda by the West.

Africa is better than the West. Africans must start believing this....

kowalsky:
As a guy you should never get married.

Marriage is societal construct put in place to guarantee the future of females and children. It doesn't pay you in any way.

You'll get tired of fc*$k#ig one woman.
You'll slave away your life and die earlier than said woman.
You'll loose you freedom and natural sense of male adventure.

The only allure marriage had for men was finding that one pure damsel who would do (and give) anything to keep you happy. So you slave away slowly to your death knowing the mother of your kids is truly 'yours' and yours forever in sickness, health and wealth. That was enough gratification at the time.

Nowadays that pure damsel is a myth. Marriage in the Nigerian society is an economic arrangement to yoke men with responsibilities without the 'joys' of marriage your forefathers had.

Your wife is not pure. She's fvcked a thousand and one dude before you. She probably thinks of her razz bf in Uni with the long schlong while fvcking you.

She's not loyal. She married you solely because you were her best option at the time for a better future. If this status quo changes her loyalty changes.

She's not 'yours' and I know that sounds possessive but in truth it was this 'possession' of women that fueled the male ego and spurred them on to accept the slavery that came with marriage.


21st century woman is not yours in any definition of the word. She probably has a better paying job than you. So you can't control her.
She probably has a literal horde of men chasing after her, so she has options.
You mess up and she fvcks her ex or her boss or your friend. And there's nothing you can do about it.

So you don't have any of that ego driving, testosterone pumping 'control' over your woman. She's your equal and rightly so. I genuinely believe a time will come when women will have more direct power than men. They already have more subliminal power.


Anyways. You're not getting any of the goods men used to enjoy in marriage before now. All you have is a yoke of responsibility.

You're tied down to one pvvssyy. When naturally you should be fvcccking as many as you could.
You have to devote a huge part of your income to raising kids who'll only remember their mother instead of polishing yourself up for more pussy and more worldly success.

You relinquish the two things that make you a man 'absolite desire to conquer the world' and 'absolute desire to fvvck as many young pussies as you can.' As a man those two traits are ingrained in your mental state, yet marriage comes in and pacifies you turning you into a meek homely man who society tells must provide a good home for his family.

But society doesn't care about you. It only cares about your family. You're a readily disposable asset. You job on this planet is to work work work and raise a good home, then die. Why do you care about society?

When you marry you're dancing to the pied Piper tunes of a fundamentally corrupt world.
You're choosing society over yourself. Society doesn't care about you and it should burn.


Put yourself first. No, love doesn't come because cupid shot an arrow into heart of the girl of your dreams.
It comes when you prove your worth as a man. When you are successful. When you dominate your world however miniscule it might be.

Chase riches. Bang young bvctchess. Have a thousand baby mamas.

Think of Davido and think of your probably dead father.
The former might be high riding junkie but he definitely smiles more everyday than your dead beat dad whose laughs come only in marriage anniversaries when he's told by a woman past her menopause that he was the best thing that happened to her.

You can be the best thing that's happened to many young girls in their 20s. Work hard and keep lying to the love of your life.

Whoever disliked your comment knows you have spoken the absolute truth....

Youth was a major incentive to get married.

Boyfriends enjoy the goods without responsibility and then pass on used old hags to men to bear all the responsibility when the boobs are already sagging.

BABYharder:
Girlfriend no dey attend August meeting

Lol this is funny but who August meeting epp?

thorpido:
Two heads are better than one.
It takes marriage to understand this statement.

It depends on the quality of the heads

A friend is facing a marriage crises now. Before marriage the wife agreed to a 60% 40% sharing formula for finances. 4months after marriage the wife reneged and now the man is footing everything. Have you ever faced a similar situation and how did you resolve it?

Funkyswagzz:
Wait so u actually think staying married is as easy as abc. Well i believe ur parents never hard argument at home ever. Lets say there union was better than romeo and juliet

Then there's no incentive to get married because I want peace....

Funkyswagzz:
Bro when u understand the way women brain are wired then he wont discard that girl very easily because he was only suspect her. Remember this the only thing he complained about. How are you 100% sure he will get a perfect woman when they break up. When u want to get married u need to be ready for alot of challenges. He needs to make it clear to that lady he is not ready to tolerate promiscuous life. He cant discard her because of suspicion. He needs to have a little tolerance if not he will jump from one woman to another.
This is marriage not relationship

When you get married you should not get ready for lots of challenges.... that's bulkcrap.... if marriage is so challenging why not get a girlfriend then

wiseone28:
Relationship matter don tire me with everyday complain especially with women not faithful the most..

The earlier guys should realize girls can never be faithful the good for us.

Have money or no money girls will never be faithful.

Girls are only faithful to what's convenient for them....

Destiblack:
You just said the truth why men never want to waste money for marriage. Let have kids out of wedlock and go our separate ways.

The bitter truth is not everyone is destined for happiness in marriage cos they have lost the right person long time ago. Never you betray the trust of true love cos when is destroyed it can never be built.


Bleep whatever you think about me, always remember there’s no competition in destiny.

What is "wedlock" - na all these language dem dey use scare people... nothing dey lock biko....

tibatobi:
Women are public property...I advice men to just have babies... And be responsible for those babies but do DNA test ...

Na dat publicproperty part dey vex me pass.... if a woman wants monogamy or financial upkeep there has to be an incentive to do it.... men work based on incentive. You cannot Bleep around in ur earlier days Nd want lifetime provision....it doesn't work dat way....u hv to go to ur ex boyfriends to provide for you.....

titosblink:
Marriage is not overrated. Na sapa make most men dey fear marriage.

There's nothing in a man in a marriage asides children....its a bad deal for men....

laxetude:
Then don't involve at all... That's the whole point of the thread

I will involve but will be very careful

BadNews:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/28-year-old-nigerian-man-jailed-for-raping-woman-in-the-uk.html

Men the toxic murderous gender are at it again....

laxetude:
I hail you, so all the previous money you spent down the drain. OBO!

All the previous moni spent doesn't matter.... sanity and peace matters more.... I don't need any financial stress from ex-oloshos....

laxetude:
U are still assuming that such agreement holds any water. And what will you do when she starts slipping on the "agreed percentages"

Ask your married buddies how it's going.

When she starts slipping on the agreed percentages then send her packing....

WoundedLamb:
Lol... When guys don't want to settle down, they're said to be losing interest. When a ladies don't want to settle down, they're simply olosho. In both cases, only one gender takes the blame as usual. Many will say they're fleeing from liabilities (a convenient term for 'responsibilities') but our fathers still got married even when women weren't even expected to do anything other than take care of the home. So what excuse does this generation have?

The truth is, regardless of the term we use to refer to it, people are beginning to realize that marriage, as beautiful as it is, is not necessarily a do-or-die affair like society paints it. It could be argued to be some sort of irresponsibility but even that would be debatable. This change isn't gender specific. It might be more apparent with men cause we seem to have the financial power and the ability to easily pull that off without judgement. But some women would rather be baby mamas too.

1. Why should I be responsible for a used up old hag who does not want to work

SenatePresdo:
So you mean taking care of another grown ass adult is a responsibility?

Some disvirgined girl that has been fuked by numerous guys (virginity used to be an incentive for guys to be sole providers).....and fully grown girls were no wan work..... the age of men carrying all financial responsibilities is over...

Why should I be responsible for a lazy used up woman??

vickydevoka:
I think there are scared of ladies n their wahala. Same lady who told you we will manage, dat you two will bring in something will frustrate u till de point of divorcing her

Frustrate you in what way?? They say they wil bring and then when you marry them they won't bring??

Animegirl:
Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Does the woman deserve the responsibilities?? Is the a virgin?? Does she have handwork?? Or she just wants to relax and be taken care of....what's in it for the man??

boyfrank:
Spot on bro.

Europeans have been fighting since the dawn of Europe, so much that they turned war into both an art and a science.
Dumb Africans here that will run from their shadows don't understand that the Europeans will rather fight and loose than not to fight at all. Europe is no place for cowards. The Russians actually originated from Kiev. So, if Russia head they hot eh, Ukraine own dey boil.

Africans are not dumb. The western European savages are... speak for yourself bro....

Videour:
Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.

I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.

Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.

Psychologically, it's affecting me.
Please what is the best way to handle this?
My Nairaland family.

35 yo guys still give it nice and hot what are you talking about??

MangekyoAlt:
Dem say make you go school and get your empty, coconut isi ewu head educated, you no hear. Where you see USA in the thread, abi you think USA is UK?


The purpose of all these sanctions is to force Russians to remove putin from power. But according to one site I read two days ago, a pole was carried out and more than 69% of Russians are supporting putin now, more than they've been for a while now.
Clearly, even a fool can see that those who are imposing the sanctions, are suffering from the sanctions
The German leader has even come out to say he won't impose sanctions again because the ones they meted out are already badly affecting their economy.
Putin will remain as Russian president till 2036, or even more.
Russia is one of the biggest food and fertilizer exporter and their biggest customer is Europe and Africa. For a country to have more than enough food to even export should tell you how self sufficient they are. So my friend. Putin isn't going to regret anything.
The west AKA USA and dirty, stinking lapdogs like small Britain threatened all these sanctions. He knew they would carry out their threats but still went on with his plans. I'm sure they have been preparing for this since Crimea

UK actually controls USA...USA is an extension of UK... think about dat.

Dreamhighnow:
U lack no brain. Everything is now BRAINWASHED BY CNN

You guy lack discernment

Who told u I watch CNN

If you don't watch CNN u must surely watch bbc or fox (kidding)

danngnews:
How can u say this destruction is justified? will Russia now safer after this war? will a Putin puppet be accepted to Ukrainians? some neutral countries in that region now want to join nato because of this invasion, how does that secure Russia?

this war is useless and wicked.

Russia will be safer after this war. Nato should not hv expanded eastward was it poses an existential threat to Russia.... it's like if Africa union forms military alliance that includes all countries in Africa except the ones surrounding Nigeria. If cameroun joins it becomes an existential threat to Nigeria because it means the full African union might can now over power Nigeria and Nigeria loses sovereignty (existential threat )

danngnews:
Am not wholy in support of nato or the west either, however can you justify this barbaric waste of life because the west have done same before or have failed to live upto some agreements, then something is wrong somewhere, two wrongs do not make a right.

If you do the Google search that I suggested you do, you will see a map in the image section of Google. The map shows how nato was in 1994 and how it is in 2022 ...it has expanded right close to russias door step and hence the military action is justified

nomenclature:
bloomberg propaganda carried by black monkeys in a 5th world nation for their slave masters .
SHAME ON THE BLACK RACE

U don start....u know what?? Whites are the real monkeys.... those guys are monkeys and savages aswr and all their countries are shitholes....

engrsyer:
CNN, BBC other Western media would not carry this news. Only those who rely on fake news watches those stations and believe all their propaganda.

For me I can't be deceived by them.

I am to exposed to be deceived.

Better for u.... Africa needs a media house similar go CNN and BBC to report good things about the continent....