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Overflogged points op has being listening to women dating advice too much the biggest mistake a man can make.op do the opposite and watch women suck your diiik.

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Bruno3000:
Jealous n party scatter.

If you hate jealous you are not normal

masterflowx:
The worst pandemic to befall humanity so far.
Dear God, remember you sent your only begotten son (Jesus Christ) to the world to pay the price of this death for us.

Lord, in your tender mercies forgive us all our shortcomings and heal the world with the blood of Jesus Christ that sheds on the cross of Calvary in Jesus name, Amen!

Have you heard of Spanish flu or bubonic plague use Google.

Can you marry a lady you meet in a clubhouse lets say if she has good character and all or is it dangerous because she may be promiscuous?

Rejection is easier to handle depending on how you were rejected most women do not reject politely they talk down on you ,insult you like you are not in the same level with them.

Masonkaycares:
If that 41 on your monkier is actually your age , Bros you've wasted your life. I cry for you .Am 18 BTW

let's see how yours turns out.

franchasng:
nonsense yamayama talk, do you know how many girls 2face ididia fvcked Do u know how many girls small Wizkid has fvcked and still counting as we speak

Do u know many ladies Bola Tinubu, Adams Oshiomhole, Rochas Okorocha, Jay Jay Okocha, Kanu Nwankwo, Short man El Rufai, Donald Trump, etc have fvcked

Why is it that only broke guys attribute their financial difficulty to their sex life, why why why, na only them de fvck ni

For your info successful men fvck more than broke men, so what happened

Who go poor go poor, who go rich go rich. Who no get better dream no go dream, who go dream, go dream. See life is que sera sera, whatever will be will be


Yes fvck responsibly, use protection to protect yourself from STIs and STDs that's all

no mind african mentality jare everything has a spirit behind it mtcheewww.

richidinho:


The vegetable is no where to be found

His vice, Abba Kyari is nowhere to be found

Our military are busy killing civilians in Warri

Chad is a tiny country, smaller than Imo state in Nigeria

Nigeria millitary is 10x bigger than chad's in size

chad is bigger than Nigeria in landmass .

Jaemes:
Bros everything no be sex.

If u want to be serious with her and settle down in life. The talk to her ,show her wat u found in her bag ,hear from her side. Then take Ur judgement.

But no use or sex sex lifestyle spoil another person life wey get ambition. She trying to stay chaste till Marriott as a virgin don't take that pride away from her biko. Do not forget , talk to her about the pregnancy test paper u saw In her bag and listen to wat she says.

so you think she is till a virgin na people like you women dey like.

crafteck:
Find work doooooo, how woman be problem for una on nl, make money, be comfortable, get a fleet of cars, see thungs from better perspective, you will stoo posting these shit and be posting stuff like... How to avoid too much girls.... How to make girls say no, how to discharge ladies...

in this lockdown peroid.

Kylekent59:
You are quoting so that they will give you likes.

Now I know many people comment not just to make a point, but for cheap likes.

Have you ever asked the OP his dream for the girl??


From what I have read, he just wann be bleeping the girl just like other guys do.


You think to have a babe eventually means you will always Bleep her till when you are done, you separate and that's all.



To all the ladies out there, Hope you have seen their minds toward a female friends.


Please, just read and pass. "Don't like my post or even quote me"

Hypocrites!!!

so its a good thing she lied.

if tell you i am not confused about NL na big lie. a lot of us came here to seek solutiom to our dating problems lives i bet only a few have succeded both men and women make matters worse.
What what i have seen here it seems all categories of guys have problems with their dating lives .Rich guys,broke guys,handsome guys,ugly guys hmmmm seems no one have found the holygrail yet if you still think at this age and time your money will get you love you desire then you are are a simp .maybe you have not seen countless threads where even wives of rich dudes still miss their broke boyfriend and believe me wherever a womans heart is her legs will follow she will surely cheat women dont joke with their heart.

broke guys too complain about their girlfriends leaving them for rich guys so funny right life is a mystery
Nigerian women want a guy with money, a guy they are attracted to a guy that will not cheat a guy that is nice a guy that is blunt all in one.
mtchewww as for me i have made up my mind to do it the burnaboys way get money and marry a foriegn girl simple.did you know stefflondon is bigger than burnaboy but see how humble she is following burna boys lead always that i bet that guy has peace of mind better than when he
was dating a Nigerian babe.
for now am hustling good

Rozaytee:
Hello nairalanders ...
Its my first time posting I just need an advice...I just wonder why wat u desire sometimes hardly comes to u...
Okay so I met Guy A...2018...my sis actually introduced us..in fact she liked d guy cuz he was her husbands friend and colleague...tall dark handsome wit a good job and living comfortably...so d dude and I started talking at a point we dropped communication. ...cuz we weren't really communicating well..later on we started communicating again...before we knew it I started falling seriously for this guy ...lemme say I fell in love...not knowing d dude wasn't on d same page wit me...as at last year September he revealed to me that he needed to tell me d truth that he had a gf...I felt bad...I cried cuz I tot I had found d perfect man...this dude spends on me takes me out all d time ...tho he never introduced me 2 any of his friends as his Babe...I didn't care tho I was just blinded by love...he does everything at my bec and call...wen I found out about his gf who he even claimed to love ...I was devastated...he started telling me to move on...that am meant to be d center of another mans world...I deserve a man who will worship d ground I walk on...etc...but he still helps me wit my upkeeps ..calls me to check up on me sends me money wen I need and invites me on dates.....so as at December last year i met someone else ...very.tall dark and averagly handsome he isn't from my tribe tho....he doesn't have much tho.he had but had financial relapse..but he tries his best to impress me...he doesn't have good oral English cuz he grew up in another state...he shows me love like no other ...always introducing me to anyone he knows as his babe...calls me all d time..d problem is am trying to love him...but My heart is still lingering for Guy A who I met earlier...why cant one just have it all in life..love d one in which u desire...

because a guy rejected you you cried now you see why it is said women cannot handle rejection but you guys reject 99% of guys that come you way and to us rejection is normal .women s.m.h

since monday i am mostly indoors i pray this whole thing ends.looking in deep into my most sincere mind i have come to realise that in this life you are truly on your own its all about you ,how you use and your brain(common sense) and how you relate with your creator no pastor , imam or the so called spiritualist can help you.

i cant believe that just because of one microscopic organism civilisation is threatened the whole world has shut down throughout my 27 years on earth i have never seen such it is so scary no nation was speared even the most powerful men looked like nothing i am even more shocked that the greatest men are even scared.
To my greatest suprise even the great religious monuments have shut down Mecca is empty, Jerusalem is empty, great churches have closed down God forbid what if corona lingers for another ten years will this relgious centers ever function .what of the miracle working pastors ,imams babalawos why cant they go and lay hands on the sick and heal them as they do and tv what is going on! if this lingers further the world will economies will sink into another recession right now we are looking up to just science unbelievable!

i am no athiest but i now believe the true God is not truly represented as we think its all business probably the real christians died during the days of the apostle (paul,timothy , luke and the rest the ones we have now is just scam extorting the gullible.

i rest my case. now it is oyo (on your own)use your head.

cheers
big priik

Sotland:
No way, she is certain to leave the marriage,unless she has decided to live like a nun..

why?

whenenver sexual topics are posted here i notice some born again sisters usually attack it even my moniker is attacked always.now since sex is a sin that most be avoided i am tempted to ask our born again sisters can you marry and impotent man? if not why?

A friend of mine just got dumped by his girlfriend so as guys we try our best to bring them back together but to no avail the girl said she is no longer interested we try to get say the reason why to know if the guy has done something wrong somewhere she couldn't give us a straight answer this got me thinking of the girl has a psychological problem or something like she decides to leave the guy for no logical reason is this normal?

Few years back I had a player mindset changing and getting girls to Bleep and not getting into committed relationships was easy for me but now I want something meaningful so we can plan the future together nuts its being a bumpy ride all through I just keep meeting the wrong type of girls I mean women see relationship as a game in which the smartest wins I mean no real women out there

Jaymaestro:
We can't have a day without CoronaVirus as an update. People complained about irrelevant topics hitting the front page months ago. Now , we have to deal with a relevant tragic topic.

Nigerians them no fit satisfy una.

expect the best and prepare for the worst that's the keyword for the so nothing shakes me in a relationship.

LosC:
Coronavirus cannot survive in Nigeria. God blessed us in a way we may not understand.

Trust me, soon, other countries will ask us how we managed to fight and win the virus. I have a strong belief

be deceiving yourself.

Iyiataata92:
Thats your opinion bro. But I think myself first before any other person or thing and thats pure human nature

And that's how you will think of yourself first of you contacted the virus anyways you are a typical Nigerian.

Iyiataata92:
Thats what we should have done to the Italian man here. Kill him and tell the Italian government he was assasinated by unknown gunmen or even Boko haram. One problen solved. All of us cant just die because of one man

you are a wicked soul.

lefulefu:
the lady replying u with k is probably chatting with another guy that she fancies more

And she will later cheat on the guy she fancies more with the one she fancies more..won ma do.

For this kind of ladies finding true love would be really difficult unless they change i am not generalizing but it applies to most of them if you look deeply most of these ladies are Damon lonely because their bad attitudes always drive men away the are living in a world of fantasy looking for a man that is rare most of the time they are the most heartbroken because they are always looking for men other women want and when you find such man you cannot tame him never the higher the demand the lower the supply.

1) snubbish anrd rude ladies

ladies that reply chats with k, lol,or don't like talking when you approach them.Always frowning and keeping scary face of always insulting men that approach such ladies will surely scare way even the kind of men they desire because they want to prove they are a challenge they go home feeling lonely as f..k and karma always serves them well.

2)confused ladies

imagine you as a guy you met a lady today you guys talked and laughed together she have you her number you went home feeling like a king but when you call her she refuse to pick you chat her up she refuse to reply.its not your fault though these kind women are just confused not knowing the kind of man they want avoid them like plague that's the way the treat 90% of men that come their way thereby reducing their chance of finding the right one n.a. them they cry pass.

3) Entitled women

These is the typical kind of girl you will find in Nigeria.sometimes you will know even before approaching them.99 percent of men avoid these women or do not want a committed relation with them as a lady of men always chop you and go it's mainly because of this mentality this women hardly change.

Vortex369:
@ Girlwhocares

I really am worried how people babysit you on this forum when all you need to learn on how to make your marriage works lie in more than a Gospel Truth.

Here comes my 'more than Gospel Truth' and you deserve it:

You think too highly of yourself, you believe the world revolves around your own happiness. It is silly of you to conjure up this image of your type of man. It is a world of fantasy and smart people know it is nothing but fantasy.

You believe in your heart that he is not your type, and you keep fantasizing about your type in such a manner that you are ready to go down on sex with boys who can not clean the floor that your husband walks, because because they are your type. Those boys you sleep with do not have to do anything to make you like them. You just foolishly like them, cos they are your type. It is not shameful, it is a worrisome case of mentality so disordered by expectation of what should have been that you have lost touch with what is.

I want to repeat that line;

You have lost touch with what is, while your mind is fixated on the framework of what should have been - a fantasy image built on a particular structure of the body and lifestyle that you have totally forgotten that you are married. You are ready to behave single and lie about your marital status and diet to look for ever young because you live in denial. You are hoping someday you will be with your type for ever. A silly fantasy that dies when you realize that you may not be the type of lady for your type of man. When you meet your type of man, are you really his type of woman? mostly no, so the table turns, and you begin to face the Karma you put your husband through. Because obviously, he is also a slave of your type of woman.

Do you want my advise?

No, you have already made up your mind and it is fixated on the frame work of 'your type of man'. But what will give that mind set a hard reset is called 'Disappointment and Heartbreak and Insult' from exposure to the world out there, where there is no protection, no mercy, and definately no loving man who loves you sheepishly and foolishly than the man you have.

He is suffering and too ashamed to tell people how much his own wife hates him and he is helpless because he has not made up his mind.

The day he decides to mix up and share his suffering. He will be liberated, he just does not know what great life he is missing on an account of a mentally deranged woman who is suffering from chronic bipolar disorder engineered by thoughts of what could have been as opposed to what is.

You are not a married woman, because you are obviously in denial. But remember, some day, you will grow old, and lack the love you failed to give to someone who loves you. The Universe is savvy. We programmed it with a reward mechanism.

Solution:
1. Meditation - Stop inputs from all 5 sense organs and be left with your Thoughts alone for 1hr each day.
Watch your thoughts go through the memories and projections of your mind and delete the disgusts you feel for your husband and replace hem with what you love about him, cos you will find that your thoughts are mostly negative. No one can do this for you. This is epigenetics.

2. You are not your thoughts, start using the reticular activating system to replace your 'type of man' image with your husband's image during visualization and contemplation and the fabric of your universe will output that within 30 days of the exercise.

3. Invite your dream master every night to show you the progress on your simulated visualization through dreams and recommend steps to open up your heart chakra for unconditional love for all lives including most importantly your husband.

4. Surrender to the Pilot of your Avatar and seek realignment of your Soul within your husband soul group if you want to be with him.

OR Simply walk away and leave that innocent man to a new girl who will love him unconditionally.

I do not like people like you. So, do not thank me. But if you need my assistance, I can guide you out of your valley of darkness.

bro no need for long grammar you cannot force people to love you it happens naturally .you either fall in or out of love it's is not of logical occurrence people are wired differently.every body has their spec even you yourself have your spec respect that .

1StopRudeness:
It’s a lie... it’s can just get get around the range...my child good friend plays in France. When he was leaving he was already 24. Dude claimed 19years and he passed the test neat...

Don’t let oyinbo wow you with their magic...biology is not engineering or computer science.... it’s the most complex and difficult to crack...why do u think we are far behind on cure to disease. Ordinary bacteria infection is still dealing with us with resistance development, let alone cancer and arthritis, fibrosis etc....

Fifa rule states that players between the age 19 --- 24 are for fit to play as under17 and 20 since most teenagers are not matured enough to play professional football they know what they are doing ask yourself how many 17 year old boys in Nigeria are strong enough to play professional football.

NaijaMutant:
28500 years

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PrincewithGod:
Give your life to Christ instead of engaging in immorality.

so Christ said we shouldn't date Abi you just bump into a girl today and declare her your wife .no courtship no nothing continue confusing us.

I wrote an article 2 days ago which made the front page I was even surprised it will go that far it was about how having a girlfriend is good for you as usual most people criticised it well I am not surprised it's Nigerian way hypocrisy every day .guys claim they don't need a girlfriend , woman are distractions yet your spend up to 10k to buy illegend books for woman matter 50% of your WhatsApp contacts are girls you keep chating them up always even though most of them don't reply you or reply you with one word.is it not the same guys I see all day disturbing my sisters promising them heaven and earth dashing them money and gifts s.m.h it doesn't matter what you need a woman for be it for sex,companionship or love you are still abiding by the law of nature which says you must mate to pass your genes before death occurs.

why do you as a guy fail in most of your relationships?

the answer is simple you are not masculine.this generation of ours when men kneel down to propose, your spend millions on women like you are trying to buy them like goods, your girl is suppose to look up to you as her pillar of strength being that your are a man but you are the one looking up to her instead whenever you are in a relationship or even marriage you always have fear that someone better than you will snatch her away you cannot speak up when she does you wrong in general you make women feel like they are above you that woman will not last with you sorry.you do not keep women by being sweet and tender always that doesn't show you are in control. insult me if you want to but that's the bitter truth.i will write more in the future just starting .

Quick ejaculation is becoming a serious problem amongst young men today let's say 7 out of ten men cannot last up 20mins during sex which is the most appropriate time any time beyond that is a bonus .there are many causes of premature ejaculation but since I am not a doctor I will only talk the ones I know.
premature ejaculation has many causes as I said earlier but the major cause of pre ejaculation is inability to control your excitement during sex and most of the time it's not your fault.the female body is very powerful the sight of a naked sexy woman triggers many hormones in our brain and if you pack self control you may just ejaculate at the spot of immediately.my first sex was very horrible the sight of the girls naked body blew my mind imagine a girl I have chased for long now ready to take my diiik chaiiii seeing her fair and fresh laps and bushy pussy got my heart pounding so hard when I penetrated I came almost immediately shooting shots of cum all over the room.

After she travelled I had a very hard time finding another partner because I was shy this was 11 years ago as a result I resorted to masturbation I started masturbating and watching porn since I was 17 that's a decade now.i masturbated to the point I got so used to orgasms and excitement that I had total control over my sexual urge.i have masturbated to the videos of the sexiest and most endowed women in porn videos so no girl born of a woman can freak me with her body no matter how endowed and sexy you are I will nack you for 45mins till you beg me

what are my saying here?

premature ejaculation is a problem of the mind not the body you allow yourself to be controlled by the ecstasy of penetrating a pussy your brain will respond and result to you cumming fast.
what is the solution?

I know this is gonna be controversial but the best cure is not herbs and hard drugs the best way is to have sex or masturbated constantly till the female body is no long a big deal for you it might take you a long time but it will surely go away.