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HealthRe: 7 Things You Must Know About Tetracycline by Bigsteveg(m): 8:57am On Jul 09, 2014
I'll like to ask, is it true that flagyl is good for pile?
SportsRe: Nigeria Team Wins Handball World Championship by Bigsteveg(m): 8:46am On Jul 09, 2014
Smartsyn: We are talking about football, you are talking nonsense.











But atall atall na im bad pass
Nigerian mentality, must it be about soccer alone. For ur information, South Africa is a major player in Rugby, Kenya, Jamaica in tracks & co, USA also are champion when it cums to america football. Its obvious dat we r not a football nation, we cant even compete on the world stage and our handball team just brought us GOLD.......i say kudos to dem, GOD bless them more, may they be able to do more for their country in Jesus Name.

NB: pls let us always encourage our own
FoodRe: Weird Food Combinations.. by Bigsteveg(m): 5:08pm On Jul 07, 2014
XVIER: Akamu (pap) and akra
What rubbish!!!
Akamu(pap) and akara (bean cake) still remains a very good combination of food, which hole did u come from?
FamilyRe: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Bigsteveg(m): 12:08pm On Jul 07, 2014
Giftedgreen: this is fine
Dis one no even good, eyes contact dey..anything still fit happen
RomanceRe: The Pitfalls Of An Office Romance by Bigsteveg(m): 12:00pm On Jul 07, 2014
montestic: let me confess.


I was once working in a place, I liked one of the junior workers there, she had big watermelons like that of Cossy Orjiskors if not bigger.
I toasted her and she agreed.
I used to invite him to my office to come and clean it up every morning.
Once she comes I will squeeze her big watermelons. and also tap her protruding azzzz.

one day I just couldn't help it.

when d senior workers were in a meeting with d management, I excused myself and went to her side and signaled her to come.
she did.
immediately she entered I started hugging her and brought out her big milk industry to drink, as I was doing that I forgot d door wasn't really closed and all I heard was a cough and I was startled.
behold was d manager of my own department who expected me to get a file.
I buried my head In shame.
I begged him.
he kept it secret but scolded me sternly.

He later directed me to get her d girl and they met outside the work place and he ate and cleaned mouth.

office romance isn't good ooo.

I won't try it again
U are lucky d manager is someone like you who can't get his eyes off women, thank ur stars..dat act could have cost u ur job or @least, a query and a bad name in the office among ur co workers.
FamilyRe: To Report A Cheating Wife To Her Husband Or Not, What's Your Take? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:55am On Jul 07, 2014
teeo: And the women are shouting MYOB, don't MYOB. Just imagine yourself in his shoes and what you would do if you would do if you found out he knew your wife was cheating and he didn't tell you.

Imagine you being exposed to all forms of STDs, I find it shocking that the same women that shout heaven and earth when it's a man cheating are now forming MYOB. Talking of double standards angry angry
U dey mind them, women are the most confused set of creature. They themselves are not sure of what they want, who they are and why they are where they are
FamilyWhat?! Alero Falope Still LOVES Dino Melaye, Denies Domestic Violence Story by Bigsteveg(op): 11:18am On Jul 07, 2014
Am sure y'all have being following Dino Melaye wife battering recently, well, Alero Falope still loves him and she denies domestic violence story & disses his ex-wife. Read what she has to say below.

"Alero Falope, the new wife of Dino Melaye who moved out of the house last week has finally spoken.She has denied ever been beaten by her husband, she claims she still loves him like 'crazy' and dissed Dino's ex-wife Tokunbo - thought they were friends already...?!
See excerpts from her interview with SDKbelow:
"Yes, I exchanged SMS with Tokunbo but I only did that because I thought it would remain between us and besides I needed to connect with someone who might understand where I was coming from. Tokunbo sent me a long mail earlier this year detailing all the bad sides of Dino and what she had lived with. At the point I contacted her, some of what she said made sense and because of my state of mind, I stupidly thought I could talk to her about some of her experience which I could relate with.
The experience I refer to has nothing to do with violence in any form.
The mail she sent me had a phone number and at the time I contacted her, I needed to talk. I deeply regret contacting her and I feel bad that she made the contents of our exchange public even though I asked her not to and assumed she would be private about it.
I also needed her to know that I wasn’t the reason her marriage ended, at the time I met Dino, he told me he was divorced and I believed him''.
Domestic Violence?
“Let me state here now that Dino might be a lot of things but he never beat me and that’s the truth.There were just some things I couldn’t handle and that was what I referred to as living in Tokunbo’s hell for six months.
I did not say he beat me…saying anything of such would be a big lie.
I am not saying this because anyone asked me to, I am only trying to correct a wrong impression that has been blown out of proportion. Dino has never laid a finger on me. keeping quiet on this means consent to the falsehood being spread and I am speaking up now to correct the wrong impression my chat with Tokunbo might have caused.
Why leave?
‘’I left for reasons best known to Dino and I which had nothing to do with any form of Violence towards me. I just needed some space and quiet to think but regardless of my actions and his imperfections, i still hold him in high regard and still love him very much. Dino is a good man but like everyone else he is not perfect and he is still my husband''.
Any chance of reconciliation?
‘’I said a lot of things concerning Dino to Tokunbo out of anger which I deeply regret but never say never. Life is always full of surprises''."


So who should we believe?

TV/MoviesRe: Movie Director Blasts Genevieve Nnaji by Bigsteveg(m): 11:18pm On Jul 06, 2014
borlarge: space for sell
Which kin grammer u write there?
FashionRe: Stunning! Toke Makinwa's Outfit To The Fayrouz L'original Show's Red Carpet by Bigsteveg(m): 10:43pm On Jul 06, 2014
Yungwizzzy28: Who's toky??
The babe u normally hold her picture when u mas_turbate
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2014
bukatyne: Don't let your head drop o!
I am covered.
PhonesMy Blackberry Bold 2 Drains Battery by Bigsteveg(op): 6:39pm On Jul 06, 2014
Please i need an urgent solution to my blackberry 9700 (bold 2), most times when i off it for like an hour or so, by the time i switch it on back, my battery would have drained to zero percent most times shutting down, this has being happening to me since even is my battery is fully charged.

When i want to sleep at night, i have to remove the battery to prevent it from being drained, as electricity is very poor in my area. Please, what can be done to prevent this.
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 11:53pm On Jul 05, 2014
bukatyne: Hilarious!

I stated my opinion, you state yours and move on.

If you get home by 8pm, wifey gets home by 10pm due to traffic/long hours etc., sit your ass and wait for her to get home before you drink water grin


Or you can play games or nairaland
Ssmmmhhhh
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2014
bukatyne: My way, if you don't like it, good for you cheesy
Seems ure to be big for correction, kip it up
PoliticsRe: Fayose, Fayemi Meet Again (picture) by Bigsteveg(m): 7:06pm On Jul 05, 2014
This picture u posted is not something that just happened, it happened long before, even before the election.(Not sure tho) but av seen dat picture like 2 weeks ago
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:32pm On Jul 05, 2014
God bless
crackhaus: And when either A or B decides to wait and does not handle that thing before the other gets back, what happens then? Is it to be a cause for grudges and resentment?

Your example about paying bills is somewhat besides the point, but I'll indulge it by asking this question...
"How many men have you heard/seen/come across complaining or harboring a grudge because their wives did not pay the light/water/refuse bill compared to the number of women who complain and resent the idea that their husbands don't help out with house chores/cooking?"

I'll give a clue to the answer, no reasonable man would dare open his mouth to complain of such to anyone because he knows that by default, it's his responsibility.

This is my point... There are gender-specific roles, it's the reality whether we like it or not because thousands of years of evolution has made it so. The world is not ideal, heck nothing tangible in the world follows the laws of ideality except the intangible (gravity, mass, light, etc).

If a woman is lucky enough to have a husband who satisfies her in every nook and cranny of her life (still highly unlikely as y'all always find something to complain about), then good for her.
But for women married to men who find sharing the responsibility of chores/cooking/cleaning unimportant whether or not the wife works as much as he does (best believe, they many), then it's not a bad thing either because by default it is not what naturally comes to him.....thus, a sensible woman who values her marriage must not make it a big deal but instead try to get her husband to do little by being polite, respectful and humorous...this is how smart women deal with it, I've seen it happen a lot..sometimes the man even sees it as a new challenge and deliberately does the chore/cooking just to lighten the mood and get good laughs.

The summary is that a woman should not be making it like it's a must or a responsibility to do those.....I repeat, it is his prerogative just as it's a woman's prerogative to pay bills without waiting for her man to do it.
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:32pm On Jul 05, 2014
ireneidiva: I already said I don't get. So please, show me what I'm missing out.
Follow the comments
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:32pm On Jul 05, 2014
Typical woman thinking over there, for those asking y such topic, if for people one of who i just quoted......they look @ the solutions but cant find it. Sis, u read d article upside down

cococandy: Doesn't that contradict the topic sentence?
being a wife,mother,daughter,care taker,home keeper is a beautiful position to be in.

Leave what crown at the garage?
This where you guys get it wrong.
'Wifehood' 'motherhood' is a crown itself.

What you just said makes it sound like all the above are lowly positions and once a woman who's CEO in any big shot company gets home what she need to do is remove the crown.
and become what??

I think I get the message you guys are wrongly trying to pass accross.
It's the right message.
But it's being passed the wrong way. Being the caretaker and the mother and wife in a home is a very exulted position. And unless a woman is confused about her role in the family,she won't see it as not having it all.


If I can rise to be a CEO and a leader in any public outfit with the respect and benefits that goes with it. Then on reaching home,I'm the undisputed mother,wife and care giver. Taking care of my family and trying as much as possible to give them my best.
Then I will count myself as someone who has it all.it may not be 100 percent. And some days might just be hell.
But that's as close to perfect as life can be.

So one can't say a woman who's the CEO in her workplace and the woman/wife/mother/caregiver in her home is not having it all.if anything,it is the dream of most women.
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:30pm On Jul 05, 2014
bukatyne: Hunger never wire the man!

A man gets home like 2hrs before his wife and waits for her to come back before eating?

If he cannot fix dinner for his wife because he is the head/man/oga or she is the tail, can't he get something for himself?

Like I said, hunger never wire am.
Tell me, how can u rise to d position of a CEO when u cant even manage ur home properly, cos dis ur comment shows a kind of ego in it, and perhaps, try read it from d top again slowly, u might see dat u mis-understand the article
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:28pm On Jul 05, 2014
Typical woman thinking over there, for those asking y such topic, if for people one of who i just quoted......they look @ the solutions but cant find it. Sis, u read d article upside down

cococandy: Doesn't that contradict the topic sentence?
being a wife,mother,daughter,care taker,home keeper is a beautiful position to be in.

Leave what crown at the garage?
This where you guys get it wrong.
'Wifehood' 'motherhood' is a crown itself.

What you just said makes it sound like all the above are lowly positions and once a woman who's CEO in any big shot company gets home what she need to do is remove the crown.
and become what??

I think I get the message you guys are wrongly trying to pass accross.
It's the right message.
But it's being passed the wrong way. Being the caretaker and the mother and wife in a home is a very exulted position. And unless a woman is confused about her role in the family,she won't see it as not having it all.


If I can rise to be a CEO and a leader in any public outfit with the respect and benefits that goes with it. Then on reaching home,I'm the undisputed mother,wife and care giver. Taking care of my family and trying as much as possible to give them my best.
Then I will count myself as someone who has it all.it may not be 100 percent. And some days might just be hell.
But that's as close to perfect as life can be.

So one can't say a woman who's the CEO in her workplace and the woman/wife/mother/caregiver in her home is not having it all.if anything,it is the dream of most women.
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 6:19pm On Jul 05, 2014
Dotng: Well said. You can't have it all. So, decide what you want in life. You can't invest all your life in a career and assume that your children will bond with you without investing time with them. A missionary who had lived abroad away from his family died and was brought home for burial. Someone was wondering about the unemotional response of his son. The son replied, "You can't miss what you never had."
Uhnmmmmm, i like that..."You can't miss what you never had."
CultureRe: Why Do Nigeria Men Prefer Male Child To Female Child by Bigsteveg(m): 10:27am On Jul 04, 2014
zicjoe: tnks
Ure welcum
CultureRe: Why Do Nigeria Men Prefer Male Child To Female Child by Bigsteveg(m): 11:07pm On Jul 03, 2014
zicjoe: every one is entitled to his own opinion. If my opinion seems to make me a confused persn. Ur opinion shows u ar a retard
Hahaha ode
ComputersRe: Urgent Laptop Engr Needed by Bigsteveg(m): 4:48pm On Jul 03, 2014
onegig: fairly used one costs around 15k with a warranty period of one month. What's your system model? I don't have any engineer in Ib. Best bet is for you to bring it down here. New one costs between 25k to 35k depending on system speed and type.
Hp 6735s.....what is the probability that it will last, do u advise i should repair it or sell and but a fairly used one( my major problem is money) thanks
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 1:11pm On Jul 03, 2014
Well, dat maybe u..av seen cases of women who are not even managers, who even when dey get home, wanna dictate....check out most of our celebs (i have seen diff cases), most of them are more concerned about their public image dan their home.


cococandy: Doesn't that contradict the topic sentence?
being a wife,mother,daughter,care taker,home keeper is a beautiful position to be in.

Leave what crown at the garage?
This where you guys get it wrong.
'Wifehood' 'motherhood' is a crown itself.

What you just said makes it sound like all the above are lowly positions and once a woman who's CEO in any big shot company gets home what she need to do is remove the crown.
and become what??

I think I get the message you guys are wrongly trying to pass accross.
It's the right message.
But it's being passed the wrong way. Being the caretaker and the mother and wife in a home is a very exulted position. And unless a woman is confused about her role in the family,she won't see it as not having it all.


If I can rise to be a CEO and a leader in any public outfit with the respect and benefits that goes with it. Then on reaching home,I'm the undisputed mother,wife and care giver. Taking care of my family and trying as much as possible to give them my best.
Then I will count myself as someone who has it all.it may not be 100 percent. And some days might just be hell.
But that's as close to perfect as life can be.

So one can't say a woman who's the CEO in her workplace and the woman/wife/mother/caregiver in her home is not having it all.if anything,it is the dream of most women.
CultureRe: Why Do Nigeria Men Prefer Male Child To Female Child by Bigsteveg(m): 1:08pm On Jul 03, 2014
zicjoe: dnt blank me an hypocrite. Cos u dnt kno ma persn. Jus shut up or sleep. I aint no fan of (i reteirate) dat WACKED MENTALITY.
Dose words above showed a major part of ur personality, u not only seem confused, u look confused
ComputersRe: Urgent Laptop Engr Needed by Bigsteveg(m): 1:03pm On Jul 03, 2014
onegig: How do you know its the protection circuit?. Anyway am not with my tools and cant work on a board without it would have helped you out. Also there is nothing like protection circuit on a board. Maybe you meant the power module.


Call this guy...he sure would fix it for you.


08023639134.

His name is Adam. I can vouch for his work.

bu
Hi, my laptop has motherboard problem, i need a fairly used one, pls do u recommend i get a fairly used motherboard, i dont av money for a brand new one, will it last again even if i repair it? Do u have any engineer in ibadan? Thanks
ComputersRe: Gateway MS2273 Laptop For Sale. Price: N35,000 by Bigsteveg(m): 12:57pm On Jul 03, 2014
Omolola1: Sleek design, comfortable keyboard, intel core 2 duo processors, windows 8, front camera used for video calls, wifi, bluetooth, hard drive local disk 232GB.Battery life:3hrs.
contact: ceeoyet@gmail.com
Is it negotiable, is it still in good condition, how about the battery, cd rom. Am presently in ibadan and we can work something out. How can we discuss better, bbm pin, whats app? Lemme know
ComputersRe: Naijaloaded's Azeez Makinde Is A Scammer!!! by Bigsteveg(m): 12:55pm On Jul 03, 2014
Oga o, if what u posted above is true, then he just embarrassed himself, ure also @ fault looking for cheat but dat doesn't make him right, its a lesson, never believe faceless people, u got swept by d fact dat ure dealing a naijaloaded owner, what if it was impersonation, it might even be him, be careful, we r talkin 200 naira dis tym, it may be 2million next time,
ComputersRe: Mini Laptop For Sale... by Bigsteveg(m): 12:37pm On Jul 03, 2014
I am interested but unfortunately am in ibadan.
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 10:40am On Jul 03, 2014
cococandy: I didn't read your thread
But in response to the topic only.

No one can have it all.
Even successful career men.
It's fallacy thinking one can.
The idea is to get as good of both worlds as possible.
And it is possible when you have a partner who's dreams and goals align with yours.
There for each other. Back to back.
And a successful career woman can have it good.
Wish u could, the main message being passed to her from her mom is "You might be
president of PepsiCo. You might be on the board
of directors.But when you enter this house,
you're the wife, you're the daughter, you're the
daughter-in-law, and you’re the mother.You're
all of that. Nobody else can take that place. So
leave that damned crown in the garage. And
don't bring it into the house."
FamilyRe: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Bigsteveg(op): 10:39am On Jul 03, 2014
sauer: She apparently has a good support system in place. Plus an understanding husband.

As far as I can tell, the best gift a career woman can ever have is an understanding husband. Any other thing is secondary.
Fully seconded

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