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twogood: I thought you shd be asking 'Can you not share wt your wife or hubby'
Well, if you can't you shdnt be married.

Can someone pls define 'marriage'?

Joinin of two or more individuals

lynpetra: I must definitely have my own room.I hate the idea of waking up in the morning to see my husband curled like a milipede at one edge of the bed.I rather have my own room but visits his own room.

VISITS your husband bedroom, tot ure nau one

Eesha: I might have have a separate room from my hubby in the case we have excess space but I'll ALWAYS sleep in his room, or him in mine.

Comin 4rm a woman, i'll say i don get wetin i wan confirm

There's this issue bothering my mind and i wanna throw it open. Have seen couples mostly after building their own house share different bedrooms, and i wonder y?
Can you and your husband/wife share the same room in your house or not?

Damojo: vIDEO OF THE CRASHING OR IT NEVER HAPPENED

We are talkin abt sum1 lyf......##ODE NI E##

SHAAWA: Well said but how about the one's becoming cultist in universities? Evil has no age limit, tribe or religious affiliation. It's high we stop blaming parent for their children's waywardness.

True, enviroment does influence also coupled with peer pressure, but check most of those strayin away wen dey get to school...sumthin is always wrong @hum, instill d fear of d Lord in2 your children and their consience will alwaiz be there 4dem.

Dats d reflection of what their parents do at home, dont blame the kids blame the parents......'Teach your child in the way of the Lord, so that when he grows he shall give you rest"

May God bless you for this piece brother, this post is meant for me as am guilty of like 4 or 5. Am going to change as from now, most of those things, am always like it doesnt matter..i guess my school days attitude is catching up wit me.
Once again thanks @op

Nigellus_Hosan: lollzz..
Aww..
Ure d best jawe..

I thought it was only my mum that keeps calling Rambo insecticide powder piff paff..

what the hell is piff paff lol..i kept asking..
Op try piff paff it works beautifully...

I tel u, u nid to hear my mum say d name, everitime she says it i think abt 'puffpuff'.....chai, gone are dose daiz, only God know wot happens to dat company, wetin be flirt for where piff paff dey

berem: Get a picture of TB Joshua and hang it on the wall of your apartment. Since TB Joshua's picture is now a fire extinguisher, it can also serve as insect killer to kill bed bugs and even mosquitoes. I tried it and it worked for me.

LWKM...u gat me crackin there bro, ure a fool. Hope u know dat yet. Lol

Ofcourse yes, i can date a girl older than me with less say not more than 3years. @op, everything depends on you, women regardless of their age wants a guy who can always be in control, who can always defend, protect, care and love them. If you can prove all dese 75%....bro she'l respect u as if ure older. But d moment u realize she'z startin to feel superior, next bus stop pls

Am i supposed to say R I P or wot nau?

Ofcourse yes, my babe do use my sponge whenever she's around. Though she's now my ex but we r stil best of friends

Surely, the end is near.
You can all read another vision concerning the end time from another person via
www.nairaland.com/1425417/second-coming-lord-jesus-christ

This vision came to a nairalander himself, feel free to ask questions.

'Let those who have ear hear what the spirit is saying to the church'

Chybeno: hei wot a wicked world jst like dat he died God av mercy o

Amen o

When 35 year-old Adesuwa got married to
Kevin Okihria from Iruekpen in Esan West
Local Government Council, Edo State in
2004, she prayed that the resentment that
bedevilled the union from some of her in-
laws will fade with time.
Few years after the union, a lot of issues,
including the couple’s inability to have a child
of their own, compounded her fate. The
sordid situation ended up with the death of
both the mother in-law and her husband
under mysterious circumstances that now
pose a great threat to her life. Before then,
Adesuwa and Kevin Okihria were inseparable
despite the odds, praying and hoping that one
day, they would have their own baby to bless
their union.
The relative peace they maintained in their
home was the envy of friends and neighbours
at their No 18, Modupe Street, Balogun bus-
stop Ikeja, Lagos who though were aware of
the challenges the couple faced, marvelled at
how their marriage stood the test of time.
This was however, short-lived as Kevin’s
mother took ill and they found themselves
saddled with the sole responsibility of taking
care of her.
The distraught widow narrated her story:
“Shortly after Madam Okihria took ill,
members of her family decided that she was
brought to Lagos for proper medical attention
which was a far cry to what was obtained in
the village. When we brought her to Lagos,
she was admitted at the Naval Hospital, Ojo
where she spent two weeks during which
various diagnostic tests were conducted on
her. I and Kevin noticed that she was not
responding to the medications been
administered on her, so we decided to take
her elsewhere.
This, however, did not go down well with
doctors at the Naval Hospital who had no
choice than to compel my husband to sign an
undertaken which he did. The quest to get the
best for mama took us to four different
hospitals that included; Rivet Hospital, Ajao
Estate, Mobineki Hospital, Dopemu, Unity
Hospital,Ikieja and Trinity Hospital off
Awolowo way and the General Hospital in
Ikeja. “In all these hospitals, it was only at
Rivet Hospital that it was discovered that
Mama was suffering from kidney failure, liver
enlargement and septicemia.
We were told that mama had to be put on
dialysis. We couldn’t really understand why
the repeated calls put through to my
husband’s siblings who reside in Nigeria,
most especially, one Linda Okhiria(Kevin’s
sister), was not replied. I called Kevin’s
brother,Tony Okhiria who lives in the United
States to report his sister’s attitude but Tony
advised me to simply ignore Linda because
her presence would not help matters rather
she might compound issues;and he
encouraged us not to relent in taking care of
their mother.
“A few days later, to our surprise, Linda
showed up at the hospital and without talking
to any one, asked mama repeatedly “have you
reversed the thing”? After some seconds,
mama managed to mutter, “yes, I have
reversed it”. And Linda left. I and my husband
were lost because we had no clue what that
was all about. Mama pleaded with us to take
her away from the hospital; when we
demanded to know why, she simply said
“well, I am saying this because if I die here,
your brothers and sister will heap the blame
on you.
They will even insinuate that you used me for
ritual purposes. “Out of the fear of what
mama told us, we notified some family
members. It was the collective agreement of
these groups that saw mama taken back
home to her villager in Edo State. On getting
there, mama was admitted for further
treatment at the Irrua Specialist Hospital and
we engaged the services of one Sister Lovett
to take care of her, we also sent weekly
allowance to Lovett for her upkeep.
These gestures did not impress her relatives
who never saw anything good in whatever
we did; tongues started wagging that we
deliberately “dumped mama to die.” When it
got out of control, we were compelled to visit
mama at Irrua where we observed that she
was fast deteriorating. “On our return to
Lagos, I told my husband that based on the
countenance and body language of some of
his family members during our visit; they
might have plotted to bring mama back to
Lagos.
But Kevin said that would not be possible, I
was however taken aback when he added “I
know they want to get me through my sick
mother but I am not sure they will bring her
here, for what? he asked. “A few days later,
on arrival from an outing, we met a vehicle
which we immediately recognized as a
Peugeot wagon driven by one Mr. Samson
that ply the Ekpoma to Lagos route parked at
the entrance of our house; on a closer look,
we saw mama all by herself with no family
member accompanying her inside the
vehicle, half dead.
We were shocked and raised alarm which
attracted our neighbours. “We immediately
put on hold every other thing and sought for
a hospital to take mama to; but due the bed
sore and the stench from the sore, we were
turned down at the hospitals we went to. This
made my husband to Tony, his elder brother
in the USA and one of his uncles in the village
informing them of the situation. He
specifically informed the uncle to help him
look for another maid because he has
concluded plans to return her back to the
village.
“After some meetings, the family decided that
we take mama to a hospital in Benin City
instead. There was however, division
amongst them as some thought there could
be spiritual connotations to the issue and as
such, mama should be taken to some
traditional healing home instead. Others
argued that the medical doctors who all along
had treated her be allowed to continue,
another group also thought she should be
taken to church instead. This last group won
as the woman was taken to one ‘God fearing
Church’ in the Ogida part of the Benin City
where she eventually died.”
Crime Guard gatherd that after the death of
their mother, the story took a different
dimension. She continued, “After that, Tony,
my husband’s elder brother in USA demanded
to know how their mother died. “Whenever
such questions of how their mother died was
posed to Kevin by Tony, my late husband
wept bitterly. The calls persisted that at one
point, I decided to put a stop to it by snatching
the phone from him and putting it out. Also,
my husband suddenly became paranoid and
insomniac, talking all by himself and
punctuating such talks with “they want to kill
me, they have bewitched my home, and they
have taken procession of our cars.
Doctors and sympathizers advised us to seek
spiritual solution to the problem. That was
when we decided to go to the Synagogue
Church of Nations in Ikotun –Egbe, Lagos.
“On our way to Synagogue Church to attend
one of their Thursday services, my husband
suddenly parked his SUV by a palm tree and
pointing at it, he started shouting “look at
them, they are here already.” When I looked
closely at the top of the tree, I saw an owl
perching on one of the branches.
After that encounter, we decided to shift the
trip till the following day which was a Friday.
At about 7pm of that Thursday, we checked
into a hotel close to the Church. “At about 11
pm, Kelvin suddenly got up and said we
should return home, according to him, some
spirits were waiting at the gate of our house.
After a heated argument that attracted some
staff of the hotel, we were soon home bound
getting to Ikeja a little after midnight. But to
my shock, my husband suddenly exclaimed
“oh they are not there, let’s go back to
Ikotun”.
Out of fear and respect for him, I did not
object to that. He reversed and we headed
back to Ikotun, and arrived the hotel at about
1am. It took some minutes of pleading before
the Manager ordered the security men to
open the gate for us. We were also allowed
into the room earlier allocated to us after
which my husband changed into his night
wear. Instead of relaxing, he suddenly
changed back into the cloths he came in with
and ordered me to pack our belongings as we
are going back to Ikeja. “I objected.
From then, he became hysterical and started
banging on the doors and windows. The other
guests and staff woke up, all efforts to calm
him down failed until he was allowed to sleep
inside our SUV parked outside. All the while, I
was in contact with Professor Goodluck and
their family doctor who both advised me to
take things easy promising they would come
to my aid the following morning. The
following morning which was a Saturday, hell
was let loose as he became violent, chasing
me and everyone in sight; when he
eventually caught up with me, he hit me so
hard in the face and dragged me on the floor
to where our car was parked, shoving me in
into the car.
He pulled off his shirt and asked me to put it
on. I quickly did to avert more beating, a few
minutes later, he jumped out of the car and
ran away. In the midst of this confusion, I ran
after him shouting to anyone in sight to help
me hold him. “Some Mobile Policemen on
guard at one of the companies nearby and
some passersby managed to stop him.
Despite this attempt, he became so
uncontrollable and at one stage, attempted to
disarm a Mobile Policeman, that was when it
was advised that his legs and hands be
chained pending when we would gain access
to the officials of the Synagogue Church.
However, when the family Doctor came and
observed his violent behaviour, he advised
that we take him to the Psychiatric Hospital in
Yaba instead. Kelvin gave up the ghost on our
way to the hospital,” the widow lamented.

May GOD save us o
SOURCE : www.informationng.com/2013/10/double-tragedy-hits-edo-family-2.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Front page thins...am makin it small small ***dancin alanta**

Taylor184: May his soul rest in peace.....This confirms the brevity of life,Vanity of wealth and unimportance of going after the things of this world....life is too short to lose heaven...I hope he makes heaven...


Btw,repent cos for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!!!!

The end is surely near....."Let those who have ears hear what the spirit is saying to the church" not only church, his people.

My very mother, Odunola, Asake.....ure stil very fresh in my heart, just like yesterday death snatched u away from me, it will be 7yrs on the 31st of this month. I love you even in death, and i miss you. Mummy, your only child is doing well, and i promise, d whole world will hear abt u and celebrate u even wen ure no more....R I P MUM

Ngenge: The most painful death of a loved one I have experienced hapened in august 2008.He is my aunt's husband,an orthopaedic consultant with federal medical centre Owerri,acting HOD in department of Protesis & Orthopaedic tech(FUTO), Surgeon to many private clinics in Owerri & Port harcourt. He slumped and died while walking to his office after going for ward round for his patients. Aged 51. A man of little words but brave in action. I couldn't cry when I heard the news cos in my wildest imagination,he is not suppose to die even in d next 30 years. Medical science,finance nd gentility would have saved him but they couldn't. Chai,may d soul of Dr.R.N. Ikechukwu rest with his creator. What's your own most painful death of a loved one?

Are u kidding me, i know him, Dr Ikechukwu He already started processing my admission into FUTO dat same year he died, i was at his burial ceremony at Ohaneze or so, how is wife doing? I knew the man through his wife. She was supposed to go for a baptist conference when he died. Please how are the boys doin? RIP Dr.

For the righteous we have to be hopeful d second coming of our Lord but for the sinners, they will be in fear.
I posted a vision about yje second coming of our Lord here on nairaland, u can check it here:
www.nairaland.com/1425417/second-coming-lord-jesus-christ
www.nairaland.com/1235695/second-coming-jesus-christ

Also, this is another chance for those who are still sinners to repent and proclaim JESUS CHRIST as lord.

Let those who have ears listen to wot the 'word' is sayin

SAD NEWS!!! Check-out the World’s most tragic
wedding..bride is married after two years in a
coma before family turn off her life support
A woman who spent two years in a coma was
bid a heartbreaking farewell by loved ones,
who switched off her life-support machine just
hours after she was married.
He Jingjing and her fiance Lu Lai, of
Guangdong in southeast China, had the world
at their feet in 2011.
Both had found top jobs in the local
government at Guangzhou, they had recently
bought a home and were planning to get
married.
But their plans for a long and happy life
together were cut tragically short when He
Jingjing was taken ill one day at work.
She slipped into a coma on the way to hospital
and never woke up.
Two years on, her family gathered by her
bedside to celebrate her 28th birthday complete
with a cake, and then took part in a wedding
ceremony, finally fulfilling the couple's dream
of marrying.
Her organs will now be donated to help other
people in need.
Lu Lai said: 'I am happy she will have helped
others to live but for me I don't think about her
living on in others, for me she will live on in my
heart forever. I will always miss her.
'No matter how, she will live in my heart
forever.'
Relieving the tragic events leading up to when
his bride-to-be was taken ill, Lu Lai said: 'We
wanted a special wedding, so we were doing
overtime to make sure we saved up enough.
'She was ill but she did not want to stop work.
Then one day I had a call to say she had
collapsed at her computer and been taken to
hospital.
'They said she had stopped breathing on the
way, and had to be resuscitated.
'I was told at the hospital she was alive but later
it became clear that she had been permanently
brain damaged. There was nothing we could do
for her.'
Her father Fang Lu said: 'She was such a
wonderful, vibrant young woman. I can't
believe she is gone, but she did always say she
was prepared to be an organ donor and this
way part of her will live on and help others to
life.
'She was our only child, we wanted to have one
last special thing together.'


Pictures show;
Emotional: Lu Lai (in the green t-shirt) finally
married his fiance shortly before her life-
support was switched off
Embrace: Her mother Li Xing embraces He
Jingjing during her 28th birthday celebration
Only child: He Jingjing's heartbroken father
Fang Lu kisses his daughter while friends and
relatives look on
Heartbroken: He Jingjing's family pay tribute
to their daughter and fiance, who slipped into
a coma

Hello guys, please i created this trend to know which state will be wise for a prospective corpers to go. I just finished from LAUTECH though our result is not ready yet due to the ongoing strike, but am still hopin to make the batch c, which state pays well and also not expensive to leave in. Thanks

"Now I tell you before it comes, that when it
does come to pass, you may believe that I am
He."------------ (John 13:19)

***************************************************************** It started on the 21st of march 2013, GOD showed me a vision of the end time and commanded me to tell the people of the world to repent, heaven is weeping over this world and GOD himself is very angry.

The first vision happened on the 21st of march which was on a friday, and it goes like this...............I SAW THE STARS FALLING AND DARKNESS FILLED THE EARTH. SUDDENLY, THERE WAS LIGHTNING IN HEAVEN AND A SHINY FIGURE APPEARED WHICH LATER TURNED OUT TO BE JESUS. THEN THE ANGELS STARTED SHOWING IN THE SKY FOLLOWED BY THE RAPTURE OF THE RIGHTEOUS, LEFT ARE THE SINNERS, LATER THE LORD DESTROYED THE EARTH WITH FIRE. AFTER THIS A VOICE KEPT TELLING ME THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE.

This first vision of the end time was posted online by me, https://www.nairaland.com/1235695/second-coming-jesus-christ.

Similarly, on the 31st of august 2013 the second vision came even as a warning to me also not to forget the assignment he has given me.................I SAW AN IMAGE SITTED ON THRONE, I WAS SITTED IN ONE CORNER, THE IMAGE WHICH I THINK IS GOD WAS VERY ANGRY AND I NOTICED OTHER IMAGES ALSO SITTED, IT WAS LIKE A MEETING. I NOTICED ANOTHER IMAGE WHO MAINTAINS THE POSITION OF SOMEONE KNEELING DOWN AND HE WAS PLEADING, THIS PARTICULAR IMAGE LOOKED LIKE JESUS. GOD WANTED TO DESTROY THE EARTH AND HE WAS ANGRY THAT HIS CREATURES ARE GOING ASTRAY, BUT JESUS WAS BEGGING ASKING FOR MORE TIME AND MORE MESSENGERS TO TELL THE PEOPLE TO CHANGE THAT THE END IS NEAR, WHERE I WAS SITTED, A VOICE WAS SAYING TO MY EARS THAT THIS MESSAGE HAS BEING SENT TO ME BEFORE AND AM HEARING IT AGAIN.

God told me "THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE"..........."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".................."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".

LET THOSE WHO HAVE EARS HEAR WHAT THE LORD HAS TO SAY.
Thank you.
*****************************************************************
For more enquires, please contact Seyi on 08082557151 or you can send a mail to oluwaseyiakinpelu083664@gmail.com

"Now I tell you before it comes, that when it
does come to pass, you may believe that I am
He."------------ (John 13:19)

***************************************************************** It started on the 21st of march 2013, GOD showed me a vision of the end time and commanded me to tell the people of the world to repent, heaven is weeping over this world and GOD himself is very angry.

The first vision happened on the 21st of march which was on a friday, and it goes like this...............I SAW THE STARS FALLING AND DARKNESS FILLED THE EARTH. SUDDENLY, THERE WAS LIGHTNING IN HEAVEN AND A SHINY FIGURE APPEARED WHICH LATER TURNED OUT TO BE JESUS. THEN THE ANGELS STARTED SHOWING IN THE SKY FOLLOWED BY THE RAPTURE OF THE RIGHTEOUS, LEFT ARE THE SINNERS, LATER THE LORD DESTROYED THE EARTH WITH FIRE. AFTER THIS A VOICE KEPT TELLING ME THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE.

This first vision of the end time was posted online by me, https://www.nairaland.com/1235695/second-coming-jesus-christ.

Similarly, on the 31st of august 2013 the second vision came even as a warning to me also not to forget the assignment he has given me.................I SAW AN IMAGE SITTED ON THRONE, I WAS SITTED IN ONE CORNER, THE IMAGE WHICH I THINK IS GOD WAS VERY ANGRY AND I NOTICED OTHER IMAGES ALSO SITTED, IT WAS LIKE A MEETING. I NOTICED ANOTHER IMAGE WHO MAINTAINS THE POSITION OF SOMEONE KNEELING DOWN AND HE WAS PLEADING, THIS PARTICULAR IMAGE LOOKED LIKE JESUS. GOD WANTED TO DESTROY THE EARTH AND HE WAS ANGRY THAT HIS CREATURES ARE GOING ASTRAY, BUT JESUS WAS BEGGING ASKING FOR MORE TIME AND MORE MESSENGERS TO TELL THE PEOPLE TO CHANGE THAT THE END IS NEAR, WHERE I WAS SITTED, A VOICE WAS SAYING TO MY EARS THAT THIS MESSAGE HAS BEING SENT TO ME BEFORE AND AM HEARING IT AGAIN.

God told me "THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE"..........."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".................."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".

LET THOSE WHO HAVE EARS HEAR WHAT THE LORD HAS TO SAY.
Thank you.
*****************************************************************
For more enquires, please contact Seyi on 08082557151 or you can send a mail to oluwaseyiakinpelu083664@gmail.com

"Now I tell you before it comes, that when it
does come to pass, you may believe that I am
He."------------ (John 13:19)

***************************************************************** It started on the 21st of march 2013, GOD showed me a vision of the end time and commanded me to tell the people of the world to repent, heaven is weeping over this world and GOD himself is very angry.

The first vision happened on the 21st of march which was on a friday, and it goes like this...............I SAW THE STARS FALLING AND DARKNESS FILLED THE EARTH. SUDDENLY, THERE WAS LIGHTNING IN HEAVEN AND A SHINY FIGURE APPEARED WHICH LATER TURNED OUT TO BE JESUS. THEN THE ANGELS STARTED SHOWING IN THE SKY FOLLOWED BY THE RAPTURE OF THE RIGHTEOUS, LEFT ARE THE SINNERS, LATER THE LORD DESTROYED THE EARTH WITH FIRE. AFTER THIS A VOICE KEPT TELLING ME THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE.

This first vision of the end time was posted online by me, https://www.nairaland.com/1235695/second-coming-jesus-christ.

Similarly, on the 31st of august 2013 the second vision came even as a warning to me also not to forget the assignment he has given me.................I SAW AN IMAGE SITTED ON THRONE, I WAS SITTED IN ONE CORNER, THE IMAGE WHICH I THINK IS GOD WAS VERY ANGRY AND I NOTICED OTHER IMAGES ALSO SITTED, IT WAS LIKE A MEETING. I NOTICED ANOTHER IMAGE WHO MAINTAINS THE POSITION OF SOMEONE KNEELING DOWN AND HE WAS PLEADING, THIS PARTICULAR IMAGE LOOKED LIKE JESUS. GOD WANTED TO DESTROY THE EARTH AND HE WAS ANGRY THAT HIS CREATURES ARE GOING ASTRAY, BUT JESUS WAS BEGGING ASKING FOR MORE TIME AND MORE MESSENGERS TO TELL THE PEOPLE TO CHANGE THAT THE END IS NEAR, WHERE I WAS SITTED, A VOICE WAS SAYING TO MY EARS THAT THIS MESSAGE HAS BEING SENT TO ME BEFORE AND AM HEARING IT AGAIN.

God told me "THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE"..........."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".................."THE END IS NEAR, TELL MY PEOPLE".

LET THOSE WHO HAVE EARS HEAR WHAT THE LORD HAS TO SAY.
Thank you.
*****************************************************************
For more enquires, please contact Seyi on 08082557151 or you can send a mail to oluwaseyiakinpelu083664@gmail.com

Among the first few to comment, glory be to God for this oppourtunity, i thank my father for gettin high d very night i was conceived, my mother also who neva tot of abortin me. My well wishers, fans, my ex, present and future babes.
I want to thank nairaland for creatin time for jobless nigerian youths and also for the op for creatin this trend.
Finally,i'll like to thank my blackberry 4nt disappointing, mtn 4not provin deir name @dis time and want to thank myself for commentin.
God bless nigeria.
Thank you all.

3ace: I am surprised at this comment particularly coming from a lady. Are you saying a female should keep a pregnancy for a ràpist? I pray it doesn't happen to you.

Wot if d lady in particular looses her life in the process, she committed abortion of an unborn baby and murder or herself.