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Amaaskia: I'm not enjoying the fact that you've enjoyed advising women instead of men, especially as you're a man.
You are NOT a woman. You totally don't know how it feels...
Have you thought of reasons why she lost interest?
She's 23, maybe she just got smarter? Figured he wasn't enough for her?
Don't we have choices again?
Don't we have the right to walk away from whatever relationships we've lost interest in?
Okay, he spent on her.. How much did he even spend?
Didn't she dedicate her time and possibly (love n body) to him as well? I'm certain he didn't spend up to 1million naira on her, he had no right whatsoever to pour acid on her and indirectly end her life.
What if she's her parents only child? Then cause of some probably poverty stricken lazy man, her life must end
She's just 23, probably still immature and testing waters- regardless he should have listened to her. Listened to her reasons: maybe he stopped doing the things that made her love him in the first place, he probably got boring or something. Or she realised he wasn't serious enough for her.
Men too, no matter how hard it could hurt.. Yall are just gonna have to move on. Its obviously no longer working, love no longer mutual. Would you guys rather have your gfs pretend all through the relationship? Seriously?!
Its not working, end it and move on.
Nobody wants to be stuck in a sad and fake relationship, unless you enjoy lying to yourself.
Men too, learn to listen and let go if she wants to go!
Love can't be forced and expected to work.
My point is everybody has choices!
Oh and please what makes you think 'Nigerian men' are all serious and willing to get married ? Or have sensible future plans?
There's always GOOD and BAD.

if you ask me who i go ask
yes so many useless families abound these days

kulyie: no mind am.if he can say that kind of nonsense there,its just a reflection or an idea of how he treats his mother and other female relatives at home.they say charity begins from home.a man that treats his mother like thrash cannot treat a girlfriend any better.

There are many useless families out there.a woman needs to be 1oo percent careful of the type of family she wants to bear their surname and have kids for. Tufiaaakwa.

Afterall we've heard of men raping their mothers and even their grandmothers.the pleasure they derive from such disgusting acts is what i dont understand.the mere thought of having erection for your mother,talkless of forcefully insering your penis into her vagina is beyond sickening

Kolo Man

[quote author=nwa-uwa]The man priiick sharp no be small. 17 years, 3 women ,7 pregancies,4 kids and counting. (Plus the aborted ones on drinking nights out)
I hail you chairman [/quote]

Funny.. Like the drama concept


[quote author=BABE!]I don't think anyone is telling him to "endure". He's free to do whatever he wants to do. If the ex comes in now to tell her own version, this set of people will switch stories to say "awwwwww, your husband is a cünt". Where is the intelligence here, people?!

...... and why is almost everyone ignoring the genesis of the story and focusing on the doom part?

- the chic got pregnant, asked him for some money for the abortion but he declined.

- he asked her to marry him and she said "hell no, ain't nobody wanna be stuck with you for the rest of their life"

- she asked for abortion money again. Please Biko after the reply he got from the marriage proposal , no be to give her the money sharp sharp ?! (The ones going into marriage together, peacefully, are having a hard time taking control of the wheel, talk less of a union at gun point.)

-but mba, he cranked up the heat and threatened her to keep the baby. He didn't stop there, he reported her to family members and of course she was forced to keep the baby.

It's simple physics. One DELIBRATE action causes a chain reaction!

It's simple Yoruba. O'un ojú n wá l'ojú n rí.

Heck, it's simple Christianity. Don't invite the dëvil in!

Trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am.

Mr Victim; hello trouble, please marry me and have my baby.

Trouble; nah, I'll pass. I'm not sure i want I be stuck with you.

Mr Victim; *brings out a pocket knife* if you don't come with me now and have my baby, you're dead.

Trouble; ok, then.[/quote]

If you ask me who I go ask

nikkykay: Dey said she can't use computer if am right and can she b told about ds forum/ wot is going on asper her issue?
If poster culd invite d man, she can as well invite d woman just 4 d sake of peace & resolution of ds matter!
No matter how crazy she's , she wil hav a moment wn she wil b in her right sense!

jidegirl12: Ohhh
iola (cic.gc.ca ) good nite... gotta do the do do

Thanks this is for canada I know and already told my peeps considering it opened may 4

I was interested in other countries though

But you try

U call urself brilliant but all i see is shiny bits of glass
Pathethic that you were able to raise some likes

What is the meaning of this that because she jilted the man she deserves her just due
I hope our sisters can avoid the likes of people like u and those who like your demonic posts

No wonde r.ape is on the rise

SMH

Brilliance9000: [b]Let me state first, that I do not condone the pouring of acid on her by the Boyfriend. However, for a guy to do such a thing, he must have invested so much into the relationship; and for most people its difficult to let go. I bet he had given her so much. Typical of Nigerian women...I will continue to eat your money, your time, have you suspend your future plans for me, but when I find someone else, I have the right to dump you when and how I want. WOMEN...be careful of who you date. If you don't like a man, say it at the outset and let him go peacefully and happilly; they are other women out there that need him. Don't try to waste his time and money. You wake up one morning you just tell him it's over...what the fu$ck? What do you expect him to do if he has invested so much into you? Even if you must do this, there are slow and deliberate ways to ease yourself from someone you have known for years and you know they love you. Slowly do it and before time, you both will lose attraction and break up. Don't just do it outright...it hurts badly.

WOMEN NEVER LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP UNTIL THERE IS SOMEBODY ELSE...BELIEVE ME ON THIS. WOMEN DON'T DO THIS.[/b]

All well and good but u called a point i raised foolish when i asked about immigration programs
That knowlege may yet help others who may be thinking of putting their wives and families in a similar situation; at least they have information

Unfortunately it was caught in the cross fire

jidegirl12: Please continue to post your threads and I'd be happy to contribute anytime . By the way I'm looking for nylon bag thread ( maybe tomorrow, gotta hit the sack before the little one wakes up)

Bro please continiue posting as yellow sisi said a lot of people have been guests on this section and superlative posters like DB, CC and some others made them start posting

Also this section will help someone else who may be your family or friend in making a decision

So don't stop posting the topics

Or else no one will come around here cos really who wants to see e-fights and e-skivvies on NL

jeffizy: Hey ladies, a good way to stop yourself from getting angry would be walking away from a situation or not texting back.
I get angry easily too and i'm stubborn as heck!!! I know its hard always wanting that "last word" or if someone's annoying you, you can interrupt and say, "i am getting angry can we please change the subject?". Another way to stop would be music but if you are into metal or rock, pop your ear piece and diffuse the energy abeg.

It's not worth it picking on one another when y'all don't even know urselves in reality.

I will refrain from posting any topic that will spark hurtful genes in readers in the future.

Yellowpawpaw, thanks for ur post. If it gets to only 1 person, it has been useful.

All I know be say if the woman talk her own the yam pepper go scatter

Remember whyme222

Ish

This Is nice


Be encouraged you will reach your goals

texaco1: well fhemmy was here in the morning he didnt stay much , i dont think those whom u call victims are really interested in all these noise ppl are making , you maybe the surprise that they maybe looking at u guys as jobless people ,what assurances do u have that all these so called victims and shopclue are not doing business again now , that was what shopclue was trying to tell u people that apart from the things you know some things happened behind the scene . well no be my case no be my money

ok...

texaco1: all my post on this thread have been hidden,this shows how bias ppl were on this case , everyone just wanted to nail that lady , she may be guilty that isnt my concern , the money we wanted to collect from her was what i was after and i kept telling people to leave the insult and focus on the money but all ur friends here kept shouting and derailing the topic , now she has gone , what has all their insults resulted into.she agreed that she owes , she even paid some ppl like fheemmy and one other guy , if ppl had taken time with her she would have at least paid part of aigbe money

per her acct she paid fhemmy some money with the remnant to br paid later.. has the bal been paid... we no know
aigbe ... well we dont know

CFCfan: My exams went well o; and I graduated on Saturday.
I'll be here for Saturday's big game.

goodnews!

congrats

texaco1: biola should i pull out all my post here for u to read ?i have repeated this over 1000 times in this thread that she should pay anyone that she is owing but that ppl should stop insulting her , you want to collect something from somebody and u think dishing out threats will solve it,someone u cant even see for that matter , all the person needs to do is just keep quite .

ok...

Animals in human skin

This means of bestiality seems to be takign solid root now alongside se.xual assault

However No gender has a monopoly of violence and acid

MAYOWAAK: Domestic violence has been on the increase nowadays as aggrieved lovers have been pouring acid on their estranged partners.

In March 2010, Oluwatoyin Safiu Morufu, from Oyo State, was reportedly bathed with acid by his wife of over 16 years, Uloma Beatrice, from Abia State.


In 2011, a suspect, Samson Igbinomewahin, 47, was arraigned at an Ebute Metta Chief Magistrate‘s Court, Lagos, for allegedly pouring acid on his wife, Mrs. Susan Jeremiah, 31.

Also, a 35-year-old man, Ndubisi Okoro in 2011 allegedly bathed his wife, Anthonia, with acid. He was arraigned before an Apapa Magistrate’s Court in Lagos, charged with attempted murder.

In November 10, 2012, a jilted man in Ikotun, an outskirt of Lagos, bathed his wife with acid. Men of Ikotun Police Division immediately arrested him. The list keeps rising everyday as acid bath has become a weapon of revenge.

http://ngrguardiannews.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=122302:man-bathes-girlfriend-with-acid&catid=3:metro&Itemid=558

texaco1: and who were the praise singers?were they singing fuji or juju

you tell me cos u defended her stoutly...

CFCfan: Okonjo Iweala/SLS will explain that better

bros wey u don dey since

How were ur exams

Nice,, i know of Canada"s FSWP and Australia while UK's HSMP has been sort of discontinued.. pls which other programs are available
Thanks

Please anyone that can help should let me know

i have people comin round and seeking counsel on immigration things

Some of my senior colleagues already shuttle from Canada and Aussie
Any other programs

it may be foolish to some but its helpful to others

EmmyDe25: You be confirm olodo! So when fergie bought Cantona frm Leeds in 92, Man u went trophyless that season ryt? Or
When Rio came in 2002 for a record 28 million pounds, were United trophyless also?
Or was it when Rooney came in 04 for 27 million pounds dt Man U didnt win a trophy?
I have said dis somewhere before now, and i will still say it to illuminate d ignorance of pple like u. Fergie neva spent more than 60million pounds on transfer in a season... Compare ds with Mou 407euros squad that cudnt even win a common pin.

dude all the name dropping to show u know a little history does not change nothing
fergie used money to win titles
do you know that there is sth called inflation soyou can compare trf fees
So u think the 28m paid for rio ferdy is the same as 28m today

ok o

OP.. have u contacted a lawyer...

I hear legal adoption is a bit stressful in naija as those people wan collect money... go to social services in Alausa n get more info

onatisi: with the kind of bashing she recieved here ,well i dont know.but she was willing to negotiate and compromise but i must confess the insults were just too much ,even me that i am not a party to their deal or didnt know them had to unfollow this topic .she admitted owing,she didnt deny it all we needed to do was to build on that,if she had denied then that would have been a different story.now those that insulted her have nothing to lose it is aigbe money,go and google shopclue name all u will see is fraud u know what that means to her ,i know she will be regretting ever even replying ppl here or dragging the matter,that was why she said anyone can go to court,

I get yyou but the more reason why she should have endeavoured to clear her name pronto
She opened threads on so many people, got praise singers to defend her at every turn
Asked for extension upon extension

Has she paid now//? Lord Knows

MMotimo: @ Topic

Several countries still have programs for immigration and education,

Nice,, i know of Canada"s FSWP and Australia while UK's HSMP has been sort of discontinued.. pls which other programs are available

Thanks

U for no mind the guy,, but if u no talk he will continue twa twa ing
To borrow a siggie
Too many MCs not enuff MICs so na enuff noise
dem go just dey misyarn
Fergie used real money mehn...

Cantona at 1,8m from Leeds na beans
Rio Ferdy na beans
Rooney na beans

epl juves...that started watching footie when mourinho became coach

Wahala90: [size=14pt]
For the 1989-90 season, Alex Ferguson further boosted his squad by paying large sums of money for midfielders Neil Webb and Paul Ince, as well as defender Gary Pallister (a national record £2.3million signing from Middlesbrough). The season began well with a 4-1 win over defending champions Arsenal on the opening day, but United's league form quickly turned sour. In September, United suffered a humiliating 5–1 away defeat against fierce rivals Manchester City. Following this and an early season run of six defeats and two draws in eight games, a banner declaring "Three years of excuses and it's still crap. Ta ra Fergie." was displayed at Old Trafford, and many journalists and supporters called for Ferguson to be sacked.
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With all due respect to Sir Alex Fergie. Think well you will know that spending on players doesn't give trophies the way Mou had them. Except you just like blind argument.

mechummy: I nominate myself!

pretty head and i like your confidence too

Noted...

coogar: http://www.theloop.ca/living/travel/daily-temptation/article/-/a/959838/Underwater-hotel-suite-in-the-Maldives#!/

Sorry my bad on the exact personality but its always good to have such a defender but .....
@kuly how we for do....

kulyie: exactly.in whatever situation,i dont subscribe to violence

Daresh: I did not say my mum, I said my mother in law. My husbands mother. She does not take nonsense and who born you to kick her out of her own house? I give that woman hand cos she doesn't take nonsense from any fool trying to mess her or her family up. I can't do what she does, but I'm sure she will do the beating up of any fool for me.

kulyie: exactly.in whatever situation,i dont subscribe to violence

. unfortunately for this matter shopclue shd have paid up for salvage the little left of her integrity but well did she have any
Lord Knows....

texaco1: i believe that shopclue has the means to pay up,but what is my concern ?the people ho are the primary actors are no longer talking dont be surprised that aigbe and shopclue may still be communicating regularly.u must understand that me and u are just mere spectators watching them.i kept telling u people all along that these victims u are talking about know shopclue if they want her down they know where and how to do it .so why dont e just leave them to sort out their differences .
imagine someone as even saying that i connived with shopclue and i even deleted my post and bla bla bla,irratioonal thinking of the highest order.do i have a commission in aigbe or shopclue business?well i have not been around no for like 3months ,now tell me with all ur abuses and insults what have u achieved ?zero
this matter could have been handled in a better and more matured manner .anyway women will always be women,same rash rash attitude

The cyberland called NL... wetin man go do..

Moji12: I nominate my humbleself

https://www.nairaland.com/moji12

I like your confidence

causewahala: Nah, u got it twisted amiga! Marriage will be eradicated in the future, una go dey una own we go dey our own!

For different galaxies!

fellis: All the better

I can't wait for that time to come

You guys should just come out and say it as it is. - you are anti-marriage (please I mean man and woman)


Why you never admitted so before now is what I'd never understood

Your mum was fortunate and that does not mean that is the prescribed route

Someone else may try it and lose the marriage

Daresh: Hmmmmnnn In this one I trust my husband. No one can try to talk nonsense about his wife to him, he will just throw the bagger out of his house. See tell ur sister to do my mother in laws style. She told me that when her own sister in law came to house to try rubbish she BEAT the bejesus out of her, stripped her NAKED and kicked her out of her house. No body from that family tried her again. Why will you bring your unhappiness and negativity into my home. God punish her. That your sisters husband is a stupid fool. How can you gang up against ur wife? He prolly has a gf or someone else he wants to bring in as a new wife