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BERNIMOORE: [size=18pt]Mourinho did not only fail, but an UNGRATEFUL LIAR![/size]

How could you describe a coach who was given the ultimate power, an exclusive power that was never confered to any coach throughout the 110yrs history of real madrid,but was handed for the ever firt time to jose Mourinho,(check this link next on evidence of highest power ever in real by mourinho)

http://espnfc.com/feature/_/id/1433917/real-madrid-struggle-jose-mourinho-legacy

This means that;

(1) Of all coaches that have ever won trophies for real madrid, none of them had to their advantage the superior power like mourinho but yet, under an inferior power, coaches like Vincente del bosque won 2 champions league and five other cups in 3 and half yrs,

(2) The function of Directors of football interfering with ANY of mourinho's decision had been cut down and reduced completely and subject 'only' to mourinho's approval at all time!
Director of football and other subordinate coach their role is reduced for the first time to be like 'a rubber stamp' no impact, no decision to be contributed by them but to always accept anything from the direction of the chief coach, which is even against the statutes of the office of football directors oversights.

RESULT;

(2a) Sporting director Jorge Valdano(who also won la liga for real madrid earlier) was fired after a bitter, year-long internal power-struggle during season one.

(2b) Zinedine Zidane, who was being groomed to take a more active role at the club, was sidelined a year later, when he was rendered like a dummy without impact that was promised by the club.

Florentino perez (the president) stuck his neck to mourinho at all time and atand by any decision or even terminate anybody who mourinho complained about, will see the exit door perez vowed!

for example;

(2c)when mourinho feels that he cannot move on with cassillas, perez jump the hierachy of footbal directors to ask mourinho what he wants, perez did not waste time to sign a new keeper Diego he preffered, Cassilass was benched and its final. mourinho's habit of not admitting mistake was manifested when he says that they should have 'signed diego earlier' then one would ask whose fault is it? with all the ultimate power with mourinho, perez was disappointed at mourinho trying to held anyone responsible, it was mourinho who failed to point out in time a keeper to replace cassilas. it is another debate maybe diego is better or not, but mourinho should know better.

Mourinho was totally unfair to florentino perez who risk his veto power to twist the age long tradition of real madrid club by bestowing the greatest power to suit mourinho but mourinho paid the president back how?

when the team lost to BvB less than 5 mins after the final whistle Jose was already talking about not being loved to the press, how do you describe a salt added to a fresh wound from such a coach with such powers?

NOW LETS ANALYSE,

[size=14pt]Mourinho says he is not beign loved in spain,[/size]

how true? and let see if he is very sincere and that if there is anyody or club that can satisfy him

(3a) when he poked tito vilanova in the eye, picture evidences shows it glarringly, mourinho should have had a lenthy ban,cases like that in italy ranges from 5 match ban and huge monetry fine, but was given 2 match ban.
but surprisingly the spanish FA later declared that mourinho had been forgiven! even his compatriot pepe who matched messi's hand was also forgiven while same offence attract 3 match ban in EPL.


(3b) can anyone check real madrids scores, then you see that they have highest penalties awarded every season all in mourinhos tenure.

it will be noted that no coach has ever enjoyed amnesty in spain, iwould have list few ones but i dont want to make my post lenghty

ANOTHER LIE THAT MOURINHO HAD ALWAYS GOT AWAY WITH WAS THAT;

he will say that he always leave his teams very strong, but it is another HUGE LIE that his stay in Madrid laid bare had it been that he won the champions lg last season(no wonder mourinho knelt down to pray before the penalty kick agaist Bayrn munich last season),

A worn out REAL MADRID team (After exhaution) that could not win a trophy this season,siting at a time 16 points behind Tito's barca all these would have been blamed on another coach in an unfair manner, even mourinho himself will be the one to stir intability for the new coach and his disciples(who are singing 'the man don try now') will shamefully follow suit without thinking like a mumu.i have seen his disciples defending endlessly on a hot seat and humiliated with jeers lately!

The Portuguese might say that his direct replacements - Luigi Delneri(PORTO) (two months), Avram Grant(CHELSEA) (nine months) and Benitez (INTER ML)(six months) - are not in his 'Special' class,

but there is a definite pattern there.

Those struggles to deal with Mourinho's legacy were caused by more than just sadness at the loss. Short-term thinking during his reigns has seen squads exhausted and youth development neglected. He has then returned to sign players (for instance, Ricardo Carvalho and Paulo Ferreira following from Porto to Chelsea) and often, even more damagingly, appeared to unsettle players who have stayed by remaining in close contact (for example, Frank Lampard almost joining Inter, and Maicon being linked continuously to Madrid for two years). Such tight relationships - text messages and all - rarely benefit the team Mourinho has left.

A similar situation seems to be descending on Madrid. There have already been apparently well-sourced hints that Xabi Alonso, Angel Di Maria, Pepe and Sami Khedira could all be with Mourinho at Stamford Bridge next season. Meanwhile, transfer policy at the Bernabeu looks in a state of disarray.

And for those who blindly follow mourinho,

see the pics below, mourinho humiliating another coach in the techical area on the pitchstand, is this good for football, does this makes him 'so called special or childish' see it yourself;

Double27: My dear wot you are doing is wrong. Breaking a family.
For the fact that everybody does a particular thing does not make it right. Stop it pls.
Let me ask you for how long will you be with him?
Nne look for rightful way to enjoy yourself. this one no follow.

damiso: No offence taken o just saying.I do get and understand the need to want to stabilise,something which Legal residency affords you BUT as you said i thought it was a thing of the past too.The world is much smaller now with the internet so its not like previous generations where people just dove into it and then found out they were stuck.

I am not uppity about the whole residency thing,its just that i think our generation has more info than to just be jumping ship with the wrong means when there are legal ways to go about it.

Me i see both of them i.e.sham marriages and advance fee fraud as obtaining something through decietful means.Some people really had no choice and some even prefered to pay HUGE amounts rather than decieving an innocent party.

That said sha,its not cool to judge someone if i have not walked in their shoes BUT some kind things are just not right.People do it still does not make it right.

texaco1: read thru all my post and quote one place that i said that shopclue is innocent or guilty
the point is most of u allowed anger and sentiment to becloud ur rational way of thinking .if all of had kept a level head maybe all this case would have been resolved but instead u chose to insult ,abuse and accuse everyone that had a different idea from urs .

damiso: Oga Biola.Really?Really?Money na the main thing?

So why then do we crucify yahoo boys if money na the main thing?

I know the silver spoon comment was aimed at me but all i can say is regardless of how we sugar coat it some things are just plain WRONG and avoidable if truth be told.

Lying to a woman that you love and want to MARRY(i view marriage as an instutution) her as a means to gaining residency is WRONG,WRONG.If the guy no get american visiting visa till now he wont have died.He would have explored various other options.

Black Swan: How many pictures do I need to upload to nairaland during the contest?

By the way, I know say I no too fine but I was considering doing it for fun

coogar: the man is an opportunist - he knows very well the choices of a widow with kids are extremely limited and he's taking advantage of that!



one man's success is another man's failure. the same day you received your letter of appointment, several people got their letter that their interview wasn't a success.

while you were popping champagne, they were gnashing their teeth! senior wife would definitely go crazy when she learns her hubby is chopping a widow

coogar: if single men won't date her she should then kill herself? we have come to the conclusion that women are their own greatest enemies so whether her man is married or not is purely an academic point!

coogar: he doesn't trust you probably because you act shady around him. stop focusing on what you cannot control. you cannot control what this man feels about you....so i urge you to concentrate on the things you can control!

you can control your actions and your thoughts. act in loving ways toward yourself and toward him. as you radiate love and joy, it’ll be hard for anyone not to feel attracted to you....

good luck!

Ujujoan: Some things may not be life-threateningly necessary, but these laws/rules exist for a reason. Any responsible adult should do things the right way .. . simple!

I see a huge difference here. If they were married and things didn't work out, believe me the ex will not be an issue. But she obviously sees herself as being used and dumped. For 17 years he didn't think she was good enough to marry, but good enough to bang and impregnate . . and then after a few years, he's walking down the aisle with some other woman

Who wouldn't lose it abeg?

Ivynwa: Thanks Biola, No I wasn't crying over any lost heart/love. I was at work working the night shift in my place of work and in the quiet the beginning of the first verse came. I wrote it down and progressed from there. Some of the tunes even came while I am walking. Inspiration is an amazing thing indeed.

sunshine82: thanks @libertyfather. I think u're d only one who took time to read. Nigerians are so biaz and so in sensitive. Bc he's married he shouldn't luv another wman and be happy? Whether we chose to see it or not 99 percent of married men indulge in ds act, reasons best known to them. If my man is married and am equally married to him I don't care! So far he loves and care for me and I luv him crazy! I mean crazy! So u pretenders try and remove d log in ur eye before tryn to do same to another.

Ujujoan: I have said it before and I will say it again . . . the man is SCUM (I hope he is reading this )

F000lish man . . . chopped and cleaned mouth for 17 years and thinks he can just walk like it's no big deal

I blame the women who let him get away with such nonsense . . . he chopped free for 17 years . . 17 years!

The olodo (sorry Psalm) nko who married him knowing fully well she was buying trouble from Alaba market . .. all to answer Mrs.

We women are the cause of our own wahala . . letting men get away with such crap . . shame shame shame!

texaco1: why are u calling me now?when i was telling u the right thing to do sebi all of u were insulting me,ok go and collect naww

yellowpawpaw: Psalm23,what do u really want? U want pple to tell u means to get rid of d first wife?congratulate d man that he has found peace and lv finally? Praise ur sis for gettin married? I ask again,what do u want?
I found out that pple here lv u so much from d way they address u, (reason I don't know)so they r giving u various forms of advice from their heart.forget d tone, that's why we r all diff.u sought for advice,pple gave that to u and u r not happy.maybe u wouldn't hv started this if u know it will go against ur cous and d husband!
Now concernin ur cous,nobody hates her,she deserves happiness but pple r tellin her she got it all wrong.believe me u some hv passed tru dis kind of union and don't wish it on anybody.some hv witnesd it.either way,they r just tellin her d truth.
If u people feel that this is d only way she can be happy,like I said in my first post,I wish her luck cos she might need it.
I rest my case.

adl: @ poster, its so funny how we support evil because its on our doorstep. A lot of our parents didnt do court or traditional wedding in the past Yet they were regarded as married. Your cousin is trying to snatch another woman's husband. There are two Sides to a coin. The man can not claim to be a saint in the whole 17yrs and am certain in anoda 3yrs ur cousin too might be exhibiting the same madness That woman is exhibiting and the man will go after anoda woman. Even in a law court, divorce is done after all the party have given their consent. Your cousin shld go look for her own husband and leave the woman and her man alone to sort out their issues. There is no crazy woman anywhere o.

nikkykay: We shldnt support shit because somebody is a friend, relative or enemy! Let call a spade a spade!
Ohun ti o da ko da( wot is bad is bad)
If table turns ard and d woman happens 2b poster coz, wot advise wuld u give her afta 17yrs wit a man & 4kids? Will she not say she shld stay dre oo cos no man will want 2marry her wit 4kids?!
Like yoruba wil say kaka ki eku ma je sese a fi she wa danu( for rat not 2eat crubs it will waste it)! That's wot d woman is trying to do!
After turning her 2baby factory 4 17yrs wit 4grown up kids, u now want dump me & marry a youngie, over her dead body! Dey must rock d life 2gether whether dowry is pad or not

kulyie: the wife,because if she is busy and gone to work,all this would not have cropped up.meanwhile overfamiliarity too is another factor

dayokanu: Who is this figure 8 field worker?

Tell her I also have a field she can work on

kulyie: *in jenifa's voice* biola! Biola!! Biola!!! How many times did i call you,no just vex me o,no let me transfer agireson on you o.han han

cmega123: FEMINISM... Hmmmmm... In my opinion, feminism, as with other things in life, when taken to the extreme, causes problems. A woman has rights. She is human for crying out loud and not a property. She is a partner and not an inferior slave.
When taken to the extreme, feminism throws submissivenes and respect for one's husband to the dogs. Women would always want to compare with me. There is nothing wrong with that, but when you now see yourselves as equal to your husband, na there problem dey. I am talking in respect of marriage.
Outside marriage, the law protects women. You can be whatever you want to be. There is no height a woman is prevented from, just because she is a woman.

kulyie: so a woman does not have right to privacy again because she is a married woman,people cannot call her again,ehen biola no dey fall my hand o.if it was in the middle of the night like 1am,2am ehen,i can say something is actually wrong,but it is not so

causewahala: Some of ur girls were throwing in the kitchen sink tactics @ feminism so I felt I might as well rep the boys! As per feminism itself, majority of those championing the cause barely understand it. Some guys are set in their way and believe they're all and all(quite archaic reasoning) those of us willing to be partners as we (male & female) mutually deem fit should be encouraged not castigated and lumped along with the others.
If you want to be treated with respect, there're things expected of you, if you meet your obligations and boify's not fulfilling his, then bounce, no be by force!

If I pay all your bills without complaining (particularly when you're empowered financially), don't cry foul if you see me creeping with ur bestie. I'll never lay my hands on you so long as you don't slap me first and start claiming you couldn't control your emotion, or you're a weaker vessel and should be allowed to express youself. . . I go DECK u life! Don't expect breakfast in bed if you always talk me into eating out and can't even do the dishes talkless of cooking when you come visiting.

Talking about equality, its simply an illusive idea some female like to cling to to get away with some ish! There's bound to be a head in any institution, bible supports it, society supports it. Whether it naturally belongs to the man is subject for discourse. However, men are doing better job leading, we don't blow salaries on LV bag and shoes, we provide security in terms of finance, physical and otherwise, and that leader(father) figure, I know ladies can equally do some of these but not all. we can do this all day cos I ain' even started yet!

Whatever parameter you choose, guys would still edge out babes! I know there're tasks babes can do guys can't, etc child bearing (talking natural things). There're also tasks reserve for guys naturally, we'd have to weigh it all and come to a midpoint.