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babestell: You all need to take a chill pill. we know she is not insinuating that all married women who make these statements are lying. But we also know that most of the time people will not tell you the truth about the harsh realities of their individual marriages.

My senior colleagues in the office are always like you young girls should try and settle down, get married and have a family so that you will be happy. But I have caught at least 2 of them complaining to friends about how their husbands treat them. but when i confronted one she denied it and swore hussy was an angel (yet she comes to work with bruises).

Am sure a lot of people are in happy marriages but there are also a lot who are not but are actively denying it just so that they don't stand out in society.

Ujujoan: Typical!
Now it's her fault cos she calls 100X a day? You expect her to throw herself at him and respond to his every whims . . just cause he's a man
There should be a level of commitment from BOTH parties in every r/ship. The lady doesn't even want to be conference calling 24/7. Just a 'hello' from time to time to show 'he's thinking of her' . . . is that really too much to ask for these days?
If this post were coming from a man, I know exactly what your response will be.
I wonder when NLd men will stop being such big fat hypocrites . .

Dahbutter: In my opinion the average university runs girl is faar faar worse that a prostitute.
A prostitute often won't allow u fully romance her and won't agree to do orals, she might not let u touch her boobi except under special arrangement, would always insist u are strapped with a condom which she would even provide. And she won't burden u with any personal wahala. To her its straight business, no need 4 wining and dining if u don't wanna.

Meanwhile uni runs hos would suck and lick and give u every style u want, dey don't always insist on CDs or might outrightly ask u not to use , they can equally ransack ur crib like an olosho, beg u 4 more money than u bargained 4 and easily blackmail guys with pics 4 more money.
Infact most of these chicks run more millage than professional ashys.
So If u r running or dating a popular happening campus chick yet say u can't patronize ashy u are a very ignorant learner, cos an ashy is even using u

kulyie: hahaha the police and prostitutes are very good friends especially in lagos.they offer free sex to police in exchange of security or when any gbege happens or where a client is trying to take advantage of them.going to report a prostitute to a police is like reporting thieves to street urchins or lagos miscreants,the ones they call agberos

kulyie: person wey don marry and born,especially person wey don tey for marriage

Policewoman: Pls if you have been destined forever to remain a spinstress, don't spread your curse to other ladies who wish to get married. Keep your opinion to thyself and stop polluting our minds. Thank you.

4bobo: [size=13pt]SEE WHAT LESBIANISM HAS CAUSED. DONT PRAY TO MARRY ,EH? DONT EVEN MARRY AT ALL. INFACT MAY YOU NOT MARRY, AS YOUR WISH.
BUT JUST TAKE A PICTURE OF YOUR SELF NOW, AND ANOTHER ONE IN THE NEXT 10-15 YEARS, AND SEE YOUR LIFE, AS YOUR SIBLINGS CHILDREN START TO CALL YOU ANTY AT 60 [/size]

devour129: if you read my post you won't have to ask that question . I have never insulted any single lady before but these chicks are pushing it. Why do they always like to make out us married ones like we are living in bondage or only managing our lives cos we still live in the Stone Age ? I can begrudge anyone to think and feel whatever makes them sleep better at night but don't spoil the notion of marriage for our younger generation coming up. If your parents marriage ddnt work,try make yours work so your kids can learn from you not talking trash here. Am going to boast here YES SOME OF US HAVE IT ALL,some are still working on there's and some are almost there. If you not married its your choice but don't come here acting like you are all that ! Bee baby that was the point am trying to make,sorry it offended you.

honeric01: 70% of men likely never going to marry if given thr chance and if free sex is not frown upon by the society.

Women naturally are builders, in building, you need foundation, marriage is one major aspect of the foundation, the day that aspect's removed, the day buildings begin to crumble.

We can all see what single-home is causing to morals (excluding the widows/widowers)

kulyie: olorun maje God no go allow me reach that level financially,morally and psychologically :p not to talk of with an adelebo like you :p

esere826: Na lie
XX na female
while XY na male

nas why men are scientifically held responsible for producing male (xy) or female (xx) children

esere826: (Post 6)

Conclusions

Dissecting the theory will be too long for this forum,
so I'll race straight to the conclusion
(U can always refer to the diagram to understand scenarios better)

1) When women are ready to settle down (even when they do not have jobs) their university boyfriends are many times not ready because their graduate job slaries cannot cater for the pair
2) when the bf and gf have both finished university and have jobs, there is a stronger tendency to take the next step into marriage

3) wen ladies have jobs but their bf's dont have, there is a strong tendency for the girls to suddenly start seeing faults in their bf and start looking out for new relationships. Sometimes even cheating
4) Guys that have 'arrived' in Nigeria are most times married
5) Girls because of their inate desire to date upwards have a tendency to cheat with these married guys

6) Guys in their 20's because of their economic emasculation complain that ladies are bitches and gold-diggers
7) Sons of: politicians, top bureacrats and top private sector chiefs have it easier with all category of girls in Nigeria even if theyhave not yet got employment. This is because they represent the higher pecking order that girls desire to date. Thanks to their dads cash, they would already have nice furnished houses, cars and a bright future even while in university

8 ) When your boyfriend travels abroad and you dont yet have a job, U need to be worried because the probability is that except he has a job that can cater for both of you, he will dump u and pick a girl that can complement him there
9) When ur girlfriend travells abroad. The only time u shld be scared is if u dont have a job. Then, she will look out for some other alpha male

10) If ur gf travls abroad, and u both have jobs that pay same rate (all other economic condition being equal), the tendency is also for her to look out for males in the higher order. If she does not find any, she's coming for u.


These are all things that I have observed. Stay blessed

keeked: both working. i don't have an exact marriage range. when it happens, it happens

kulyie: well not exactly sha

An0nimus: Emotional Mathematics. Differentiation don already enter am

kulyie: i have come across several girls between 18-21 when i was still in school who come from wealthy homes.their parents are literarilly very very ok and they are into prostitution in full scale.when i asked one of them why they are into it,is it that your father doesnt give you enough pocket money or what and i was shocked when she said ir was her father that paid for her flat where she is living and tushed up the place however,its just for fun.quoting her i just love the idea of sleeping with different men,its thrilling,adventerou and a great experience.i want to have a feel of how different penis tastes like before i leave school.that was where i just pocketed my intended advice to myself.i didnt even tell her anything because her mind was already made up.i just said God will see you through o

devour129: marriage it's for companionship ,to re-procreate ,to have some with whom you share common,to have someone that will always have your back,some to grow old with etc. if you are not married with the excuse that not marriages are bliss,am so so so so so so so sorry for you. Am sure you can trade all you think you have for a husband of your own.dont know why all these single girls think we are not happy and they go behind us trying to steal our husbands

kulyie: a working class lady has sex when she feels in the mood to and doesnt necessarily do it for money,a married woman does it to satisfy her marital obligation and or make more babies,a student does it for fun while a prostitute does it for money NOT PLEASURE

kulyie: baba biola shey you too dey carry ashana :p

coogar: but the referee dealt with that with a yellow card. suarez's incident wasn't dealt with last night, the referee didn't see the biting incident, he only saw the coming together and besides, suarez is a serial offender.

he should be given a 20-game ban!

keeked: Yes, I have visited him before. I'm in the UK he's in America
Visits? Yes, plenty.
He's planning on settling down soon (he's older) and I have no problem with that.

MRbrownJAY: bro A-40
there was only one person who could have challenged the top spot yesterday against Vettel (there was only one person who had the car for it) and that was Alonso. unless they get their act together and quickly fit upgrade, this part of the season is between Alonso and Vettel, and who will make the less mistake (and at the moment thats Vettel)

they said Perez sponsors were there, so he had to show that he is doing the biz.......the way Button was laughing on the radio while talking to his eng. was priceless though.






see this enemies of the truth!!!! Alonso got 1 more schedule stop than anybody out there, had a car that was CLEARLY slower than pack, yet made brilliant overtake moves on Mc Larens etc, and still managed to finish 8th......and you guys have the audacity to not put him at the top of your "driver of the day" list? obviously, your support for other teams/drivers does not make you see clearly. abeg guys, open your eyes, lol!

http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport2/hi/football/eng_prem/6079436.stm



Mascherano fury at Defoe let-off



Referee Steve Bennett booked Defoe and Mascherano

West Ham's Javier Mascherano believes Tottenham striker Jermain Defoe should have been sent off for appearing to bite the midfielder in Sunday's match.

Fifa regulations mean the Football Association cannot take action against Defoe, who was booked for what boss Martin Jol called a "comical nibble".

"To receive a bite was the worst thing that has happened to me since I came to England," said Mascherano.

"The strangest thing was that the referee did not send him off."

Interview: Jermain Defoe's agent Sky Andrew

The incident followed a foul by Mascherano on Defoe towards the end of the first half.

"Things weren't going well for me but this was unexpected and outrageous," added Mascherano.

Both players were given yellow cards by referee Steve Bennett over the incident and, under Fifa rules, this means the case is closed.


The referee was standing over me and if he felt I had done something bad he would have sent me off

Jermain Defoe

An FA spokesman said: "We are unable to take any action because the referee has already dealt with the incident.

"Fifa regulations prevent us from taking retrospective action."

Manchester City defender Ben Thatcher was punished by the FA after the event earlier this season when his forearm smash left Portsmouth midfielder Pedro Mendes in hospital.

However, that incident was deemed exceptional because Mendes suffered serious injury but, in most cases, the FA's hands are tied because of Fifa's stance on the issue of retrospective punishment.

Defoe felt his actions had been "blown out of all proportion".

"The referee was standing over me and if he felt I had done something bad he would have sent me off," said the 24-year-old.

"The incident doesn't look great on TV and I accept that as a role model to kids I have a responsibility to conduct myself in the right way.

"When the West Ham player fouled me, I reacted in a bit of a mischievous way - my character is a little like that at times."

deavicky: those days that i was in the world i carried one home she stole my money she letf me sleeping in the bedroom carfully lock the door and move to the seating room to find her way but unluckly to her,I hide the key some where very safe (becos i had to watch my self againts her). And my bedroom lock is bad, it cannot be open from outside, for that reason i don't lock it. so when she got to the seating room she could not go out she decided to come back to the room, she couldn't enter i noticed somebody struggling with the door i turn around and found out that she was no longer on the bed and her things are not there i realised something was wrong so i check my things and discovered that my money is no longer where i kept it. i just knew she has taking my money and for the fact that i know she cannot come out from where she was i just quitly woke up took my bath and letf for work, through the back door she sayed there till around 9pm that i came with out food and water but i don't know had some drink i kept in the bar.

hrmkz: Read with kin interest....
Really want to be objective and sincere to the best of ability in analysing these topic.

1. Single Men not willing to get married and still strugling to become rich are one of the many reasons we have many single ladies giving in to married men, who to some extent have some cash to splash on them.

2. Secondly, parents need to brace up in finacing their grown up daughters, as a girl grows to become a woman so does their financial needs increase (how many parent buy sanitary pads for their wards even when they know that she is not working and still under their care)

3. The average man CANNOT be satisfied by one woman (these also account for the rate of divorce in western world where polygamy is not allowed), coupled with the facts that an average african woman will not allow her man take a second wife if the man wishes.
The man is not allow to touch the wife after delivery for a period of 3-4wks minimum, and this will increase if the delivery is via surgery, the man will definately seek alternative.

4. Lastly, it is also known that many a lady accept to date married men even when they know the truth just for the fun of it.

this is not to spite any lady, just my own thoughts.

adaobi123: Dammmnnnn