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whats your objective for the question

are they humans - YES THEY ARE
do they have emotions - YES THEY DO
mark dey their forehead - NOOOO

sanb: Lol; Yes I'm a lady....unsure why you asked? Anyway how you doing dude? hope you're cool....

im fine ma just appreciated a balanced post on this NL battle of the s.exes for once
just kidding you.. your moniker says u r female
thanks for asking

damiso: I agree Biola and my hubby keeps telling me that academics( the way we were caned into learning times tables )the naija way is not the be all and end all of a childs achievement.I am learning to ease up a lil and stop the comparison.

My daughter teacher keeps telling me ease up mummy she is doing well.I guess its just the first child syndrome.

Dylesxia in Naija when i was growing up is just an Olodo who could not spell

na so,, u go collect baba nla iya cane jagbajantis until the spirit of dys-wetin run comot for your body

but seriously parents are the first indicator of direction for a child's life
Observe his interactions among his peers, very important

In modern work places, the leaders are not necessarily the most brilliant but those who have the highest emotional intelligence and can get people coordinated to acheive business goals

[quote author=tpia@]all too common.

the other day someone was saying its better to remain single than enter in a relationship with the kind of fellow who will drug his g/f, loosen her brazilian weave and sell it for half price.

imo, the solution is not necessarily remaining single [unless you have a strong conviction to do so, possibly a religious one], but if you find yourself attracting deadbeats only, then reevaluate the kind of criteria you require in a man.

and yes, reevaluate yourself also.[/quote]Sweet!...

obadiah777: GUY LOOKS CREEPY. ARE YOU SURE THE GUY IS NOT A ERMMM PEDO ? WHAT EXACTLY DOES HE NEED A NIGERIAN BABY FOR ? WEIRDO

maybe he has tasted black and likes it ---- grooming from the next generation


But seriously if he checks out, this is a good opportunity for the family involved why must he go underhanded

Barca have a poor away record in Europe generally

I hope they can get a draw or at least an awal gol is ok

Lets go to the Nou Camp then

Whoever wins this tie is my hope to life the big ears

[quote author=na2day!]Where is that pastor transforming into a jet gif when you when you need it [/quote]also waiting....

These guys need to fly higher than high

Can anybody remember memorable quotes of the MOG

God is a game and the way you play it determines your success

jidegirl12: I'm just dishing my sincere advice here, gotta problem wif that? And besides who's chasing who? I thought OP case is the reverse.

Extreme measure? Don't ask me , ask those girls who are desperate ( juju & likes) to leech on ' made' married men for material things and possibly be a baby mama.

no wahala.. its your prerogative
but can you pour acid on a woman chasing after you men.. God forbid but say it happened in an alternate universe

surprising you are saying this considering married men are demonised set of people

TheMadame: @OP,
Compliment your husband/partner all the time and gradually he will learn and grow to love complimenting you too.
Lots of Nigerian mean are actually not romantic,but hope is not lost because they can be taught through communication between the couple.
When I got married,I complimented my husband all the time and slowly he came to imbibe the spirit of complimenting me back. Nowadays He compliments me all the time,so communication is important in any relationship.

Excellent post
One made in love to correct and guide not a pull them down type of post

Op.. fine boi
a fresh break from the tonto toto/annie animashawun/ ini edo dobo threads

carry go,,,,

six one: Guess google didn't pay nobody ƒσя 30 mil ƒσя acting crafty.
@ 19 I was studying and not indulging in p*r*c* nd T*t* matters. Get it?

choi...
teenager already digesting feminist crap...
more fodder for the lez generation

kramer: Ok thanks for clearing that up, i now know where you and your mother are coming from.

Not to sound rude but i believe that women who believe they are entitled to these things from men are usually material women, and I have noticed most of them who have this trait are usually always in want. I also know for a fact that there are women who don't get phased by all these things because they themselves can get it and so nothing impresses them other than the feeling of being cared for emotionally not financially. These women are usually the independent types...never in want.



And regarding this statement


A man in love will do what he feels will make his woman happy.. if she's material = money ... if she's not = love + respect

Sweet post!

4llerbuntu: do u feel better now after the improbable and ass-brained rant?


Like seriously, The above is NOT TRUE.

and even more pertinent is, why does it bug u pple so much? since the advent of time, you pple have been doing this, under various guises and celebrated it as being smart, sharp etc etc.

ALL those fun cliches, ALL those "pay my bills" etc etc.

now the shoe is on the other foot,its now bothering u pple?

Nna, deal with it. Just the way all those Mugu men have dealt with it over the years.

feel free to rant, it helps relieve the stress.


BTW, in case you dont agree, feel free to be gay. since in your dystopic world, women are not gold diggers.


And just to be clear about all this BS, for every male gold digger, there are 1000 female gold diggers. matter of fact every female is a Gold Digger. Yeah i went there.

disprove it

Feminazis where una dey o

StateofMind: Abegi, make we hear word.. Just use this forum as a case study. Men are the ones always guilty of whining about Nigerian women and gold digging. Even those that are broke-Bottom.es come here to rant about how naija girls ripped them of their imaginary money. Hardly would you come across a thread like this.

@Op , the men you just described here are not gold diggers by nigerian men standards, they are smart dudes. Only women can be tagged gold diggers.

So gold digger as a word should apply be females. No wahala
We will take gigolos and just as women are now proud of being called s-luts I hope you people can spearhead to remove the derogatory nature of the GOLD DIGGER
 
Where is coogar to give me a Jamie/Kanye West gif
 

Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
But she ain't messin' with no broke niggas
……
 
18 years, 18 years
She got one of your kids got you for 18 years
I know somebody paying child support for one of his kids
His baby mamma's car and crib is bigger than his
You will see him on TV any given Sunday
Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai
She was suppose to buy you shorty TYCO with your money
She went to the doctor got lypo with your money
She walking around looking like Michael with your money
Should of got that insured got GEICO for your money
If you ant no punk holla we want prenup
WE WANT PRENUP! Yeah
It's something that you need to have
'Cause when she leave yo ass she gone leave with half
18 years, 18 years
And on her 18th birthday he found out it wasn't his
 

sanb: That just shows that times are changing...and some men are making gold digging a successful career.

please we need to confirm if u are actually a female
LOL

Babzilla: WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
LAZY GIRLS STARTED IT, LAZY MEN PERFECTED IT
INTERESTINGLY I KNEW OF THIS CAT WAY BACK
WHO LIVED OF HIS GIRL WHO IN TURN LIVED OFF ANOTHER MAN........
OH ANDHE HAD ANOTYER GIRL LIVING OFF HIM
.

Damn,.. Transitivity theroem of Mooching
WOW

safarigirl: You must be one of them.

Must a woman tell you to take care of her before you do what the lord put you on this earth for? Was Adam a lazy slob who Eve had to ask for everything?

Work una no wan work, yet you have the nerve to call women that cook for you, clean up after +ur disgusting selves and have to lie in bed for you to stick your 3inches in them at the end of a long, tiring day gold diggers?

What do you give a woman that should make her stay? What exactly do men offer in relationships? Nothing! The obly thing y'all are good for is the heap change you scrap off.

You drain women physically and emotionally with your lies and manipuzlations and she's supposed to remain in a relationship that offers her absolutely nothing?
You take from women to give women, so who is collecting money from your poor azz? Y'all be talking like you actually work for the money when you just scam it off of people.

Some of you women are so two faced more than two face
First its we dont need you men because we can pay our bills but now you are spouting that men have an ordained function to take care ot y"all sorry arzes

why dont you choose one
if it is my function from heaven to please a woman who will please me

SMH....

4llerbuntu: Really? and where did you get this nugget of wisdom from?

Let me guess, the "holy" books?, your "tradition"?

Nna, shame u picked this portion to hold fast, what about ALL the other aspects of those books and traditions that stipulate that your sorry arses are second class citizens, meant to be seen and not heard? the part that state u all are all properties to be maintained?


That part does not jell with your "modern" outlook, but u accept the part where some fool should have to provide for u abi?




@ debrief,
as much as i understand and sympathise with your views, It became like this the time when it became normative that only men who have it made are qualified to date women.

men have been enduring this crap for years or how they are measured primarily by the amount of cash they control. The human Nature is like the human body, IT ADAPTS.

Its a Sign of the times.


NB: I am not a gold digger, will rather die than be one. but i find it amusing to see woman complain about gold digging,.

seriously? women? what wont we see.

JuDGED!!! Damn u judged some arzes man

jidegirl12: No is not enough as you can see, I think the wives should start dealing with them with concentrated HCL.

Acid on who.. the men who still chase the girls or the girls

why the extreme measure..

greatgod2012: All of you making use of my slogan, prepare to start paying o, each time i see my slogan, it means you must have paid in the account i just opened for that purpose, anyone who uses it without first paying will be e-dealt with.
The account number will soon be posted, get ready.......


@pataki/uju, pls, i take God beg both of you, let sanity return, let go and let be plssssssssss.

Nothing do me i dey gidigba.. as long as the currency is in microkobos (one millionth of a kobo )

I think seun shd write a script on NL where A and B are perpertual fighters

In Thread where A has posted
B can not post within a time limit of 10 mins

ish... na wa o

Na so dem spoil family planning thread

walan: No be small theorem o. More peops need to see this. As this education is seriously needed.
This kind of analysis is really outside what one usually sees around here. @OP I think this should be developed further and documented. It will serve as instruction for the upcoming, myself included(even though i be old man! ).

Nice one sha. Please dont let this insight die here o!

I dey class o.. and i must get A+ for this course

[quote author=*Kails*]i haven't eaten pork since that post tbh. [/quote]nothing like some good baby back ribs.. yum...

ileobatojo: From the article, it appears she is not in Nigeria (probably US or UK). So I'm quite surprised there was no mention of the child seeing a psychologist for a comprehensive evaluation to figure out what exactly the problem is. I don't believe the school psychologists do as comprehensive a job as an independent psychologist would. That would help them figure out how best to help the child attain her maximal capacity and have realistic expectations.

I can imagine the mother's frustration though.

Interestingly i agree with you on the eval of the child to help identify latent abilities which a parent would not be able to adjudge

Parents shd not look at a child with the same eyes
Some children are not meant to be book genuises like their parents are
Some kids develop late and have interest in other things that their parent dont care about

If Leonardo da Vinci's parent had stifled his creativity, we would not have his drawings today
Ditto Bill Gates who left school to pursue his dream
Wole Soyinka was adjudged third class and yet hes a Nobel Laureate
Tolu Elumelu founded a modern financial empire

Some people are latent genius but dyslexic and supposed cant read (but they do in their own way)

This is an illustrious list of people who im sure would have been found puzzling by their parents and peers in the growing days
If dyslexia is key to being in this group, maybe its not a bad thing to have


- Note i am not saying this child is dyslexic (he may or may not be) but that parents should be patient with kids and study them to identify their gifts

- Prayerfully commit your child to the Higher Authority (if you believe) and to your logic (fir the other brothers). That child has a purpose and your goal is to help him acheieve it in life

- Parents should not live vicariously through their kids.

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Leonardo da Vinci.
Ansel Adams, Photographer.
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Pablo Picasso.
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David Boies, Attorney.
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Read more: http://www.dyslexia.com/famous.htm

Vicotex: kakashi is dead

on what basis did you make that conclusion...

If naruto does not know the flavour of the 1st and 2nd he cant sense them
He also may not know the 3rds fighting chakra though he shd know Minato's own

Mad mara is happy now he faces off with hashi...

obito neutralised kakashi with kamui


Superb chakra stamina from Naruto to boost and defend everyone at the same time

na wa o.... so much anger in the land

May God Help Us All

andromida: So you are saying a girl that you don't know and does not care about your wife and kids,has no stake in your marriage and has loose morals should help you be faithful to your wife and kids who you care about and are priority in your life. Lets say a girl reads this and repents there will be others who are worse than she was out there so you keep telling the girls don't tempt me,i will fall. Sorry the responsibility is yours and your wife's only not the sissies.

How can you ask a random stranger to be responsible for your weakness?

You can't ditch this even if you try. Its hard for folks like you but this is the reality its like saying "satan you know i want to be holy please don't tempt me". Am i missing something? is there a girl on this forum you are appealing to because......

Another sensible post

six one: Well yarns men. Dem don chow her lean change she de come vent her frustration here. Mtcheeeew

Na so LMAO

SAGirl: WOW... this is one of teh most beautiful articles I have ever read. And so well-written at that (compared to some of teh stuff that we are subjected to on this forum)...

And I think people are confusing issues... this is not about the pressure women put on each other. This article is simply telling an average man that we are no as eager to become his wife as he believes. So its time you really got over yourselves.

What women do to each each other should not even be discussed here.

The fact is that women do not gain anything from marriage... IT DOES NOT BENEFIT US AT ALL. More and more women are starting to realise that and it scared the crap out of the male-species.

Welcome....
This cause needs more adherents

[quote author=Okija_juju]https://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lujvq3TQXS1r4u2opo1_400.gif

Bitches be hussling brothers everyday for everything from; Recharge cards to Cellphones to cars, house rents, lands, open up boutiques for them, shopping in Dubai, Private jet lounging, Yatch cruises, expensive vacations, money in the bank, etc.. This has been the case since the beginning of time. We men complain, but we keep it on the down low..

A Man gets some help from a woman, she opens a website and tells the world...

Whats the ratio of Guys who hussle women to girls who hussle guys?! Prolly like 500,000 : 1 (in just Abuja o!!)[/quote]OUCH!!!

L brasi: At least the men are classy running after gold.with the women its anything be it gold,silver,bronze,copper,coal and even firewood.

No time to type long story now.

what of mud

[quote author=Okija_juju]This is another reason why we are perpetually f`ucked in Nigeria..

So what if she is a woman?!

Was the reason for the closure of her workshop investigated?!

Was there any wrong doing in the closure of her shop?!

If yes, why isnt anyone in jail?! If no, then why was her workshop reopened?!

I'm sure many other people must have had their shops, garages,etc locked as well, were they all open or was it just hers?

Was there a waste management issue with her shop?! If yes, why is she getting special treatment??!


This is just bullshit!! Whats good for the goose, is also good for the Gander.

We Nigerians demand the full unadulterated story behind the locking and re-opening of that shop!!
[/quote]Sweet!

me sef i tire...

andromida: Since the beginning of times there has always been and there will always be loose women and men with little or no morals nothing new there. So the reason for this post will be (i am guessing here) that you are a very decent man weighed down by the excesses of single women in the society who are after you despite your wedding ring firmly in place. Are you advising Single women to stop being loose yes i guess? or is this a red alert for married women to shine their torch light on the uselessness of single (oh some) gals? You cannot convert all the ladies to decency even you know that? Or are you trying to tell your wife the great favor you are doing her by being faithful?

Especially when you are young and successful? The older successful ones must be walking about with shields to deflect the singles then.

Ruin their future? or ruin you and your wife and kiddies happiness. Na you go get tension for house na by the time you are always whispering and deleting text messages and wifey is resenting you and the atmosphere at home becomes sour sotey childen are always crying when they see mummy and daddy quarreling dey deceive yourself instead of you to advice yourself or come up with a profitable post on maybe how to resist temptation as a married man you are telling confused women when they see your ring to stay off.

smart post
a man who wants peace does not carry hot coals on his chest

if the home front becomes too heated, nobody has peace

Darn.. Too much anger in the system
Some people here travelled abroad for the first time in their 40s
Na wa o