₦airaland Forum

momsloved:
Good afternoon everyone, pls I urgently need your advice and suggestions on this.

My husband has been out of job since towards the end of last year. Almost the same time I had my second baby. The truth is, the same me nursing my baby has been the same person struggling to provide for the home.

Knowing that he contributed to his lost of job. He goes to work late, different excuses, doing the job anyhow that the management had to fire him. This is the second job he's losing due to carelessness.
He wasn't still meeting up with responsibilities even when he had those jobs. He was always complaining of TP expenses, deduction due to late coming, his salaries was not benefiting us.

Our present accomodation of 250k, one bedroom apartment is expiring ending of next month and I don't know how we're going to pay for the rent. The previous rent I have always contributed when I had the money.
Presently I have no job. I left my job during delivery, but I'm hoping to start looking for job very soon. Yet, I'm not idle. I'm still trying with little business to cartar for the house.

The issue now is, he has arranged his stuffs preparing to relocate to the village and he wants us to go together because he can't afford to renew the rent.
I told him I can't go to the village with him, we are too young to start retiring to the village. What about good school for the children especially my first child? But he has decided to go without us, leaving us with the whole responsibilities.
I'm afraid, I can't afford everything here either. But going with him to the village is also very scary. A man who ignore us when there's nothing in the house, waiting for me to fix, how can I trust him and relocate with my two children to his village? I can't speak their language and it's an interior village, How do we survive there?
He's not even considering all these.
Pls, advice me on what to do. I'm really fed up.

don't go to any village. Everyone's destiny is different. Fight for yours

fredoooooo:
Its part of assurance ... life goes on

lol, d girl go dey chop a la carte assurance with quartz glass of tears. I hope she doesn't regret not fulfilling her life purpose because of a ring to a wealthy guy. wait!! what if that is her life purpose.. .. to be Davido's draw string wife.

tommy589:
Ok

Who was doing the counting,the boy or the woman. Abi dem get diary to jot am down ni

I tire oooo.
na so I been wan ask.
who was documenting it

LookinguntoGod:
God Almighty, let her be seen hale and hearty.

Amen. God bless you

GOFRONT:
Lets give her small time. She will return.


She will return but this time looking refreshed.

Fear female. Hookup everywhere.

so shall it be for your children.

VeryWickedMan:
She'll be back once she is through.

You are a fool. MOD please baN this idiotic myopic BARSSTard. Someone's child is missing and you think she's out for a sexcapade. 18 years as a parent and you feel she is missing due to sex. A mother is helpless and a father is hopeless and this is all you can comment. May your children if you ever have them go missing this way exactly when they are 18 and may you remember this your useless post. insensitive lowlife.

na GWR dey reign now

April15:
Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen

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Faith
First Bank

LIES!!!!

JasonScoolari:
Father Lord, give us the strength to deliver Vawulence today..... Amen.

lol..where u see this one again?

Princeton92:
Why's her right hand looking like a man's hand?

She's pretty though

I tire oo, the right hand strong no be small
abi she be soldier b4.
the hand no resemble the face and left hand.
if this kind hand slap you. sense go return to default settings

Switruth:
While his supporters and boys are out there eating corn and pear..... trekking up and down. The guy really get sense.

lol at corn and pear. imagining it is even more hilarious. comedic irony.

OP trying so hard to give Mr Agbon relevance on SM. is today the first time he is congratulating someone that it is now news? IS THIS A PAID ANNOUNCEMENT IN THE FORM OF A POST?

the attempt is too obvious.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Na we just dey carry the matter put for head...you see as akpabio smile...later after the meeting shettima and akpabio go even laugh the matter together

Akpabio: hahah....o boy you don upgrade o...like this me nor fit follow you use the same door

Shettima: bros na so we see am o....na security protocol

Akpabio: security protocol kill you there

Shettima: hahaha ...but wait o how you see man City vs inter Milan match on Saturday?

Akpabio: that na straight draw na..na to put 50 million naira..if he come he come...pin Baba tinubu the matter wether he go put body

is this really slawomir? nigga no dey too talk like this b4..

Believe Nigerian government officials at your own peril.
They invested heavily in the Dangote group on an individual basis. The group borrowed US $3 billion to build the refinery, which evidently cost US $3.8 billion to build.

Fraud No 1 - The refinery was revalued in paper to US $13.9 billion when it was 70% completed.

Fraud No 2 - NNPC led by Mele Kyari, the statutory industry regulator and affirmatively a competitor with four moribund refineries in Port Harcourt, Warri and Kaduna, decided without public knowledge or imput, to buy 20% shares in Dangote Refinery. 20% shares is US $2.8 Billion.

The total amount required to revamp Warri and Port Harcourt refineries is US $2.65 billion. The question here is, what is the special interest in Dangote Refinery?

Fraud No 3 - The president of Nigeria hurriedly commissioned a refinery that is only 80% completed. The refinery may not be functional until January 2024.

NNPC, the industry regulator had advised the House of Representatives Appropriation Committee that the Dangote Refinery would be up and Running in March 2023 hence there would be no need to make provisions for Subsidy in 2023/24 Budget. Unfortunately, the Refinery is not ready and there are no provisions for subsidy in the budget.

At the commissioning of the half baked Refinery, Emefiele, the famous Central Bank Governor, announced that Dangote had paid 70% of the loan he took for the Refinery. I am forced to ask, how did a Refinery that is not operational raise money to pay 70%? The Nigeria stock exchange does not have any record of share sales in relation to Dangote Refinery other than the NNPC investment.

Fraud No 4 -When Dangote came into cement production, the government brought in a fictitous quality standard designed to restrict cement supply to his company and cut off all imports. The same style has now been adopted to grant Dangote the exclusive right to supply petrol to NNPC at a price determined by Dangote and his co- travellers.

Conclusion - the subsidy removal was planned and agreed by the government as a pre-condition for Dangote to build a refinery when the Western world is moving away from Fossil Fuel. The removal of the subsidy is to maximise profits for the owners of Dangote Refinery ie Mr Buhari, Mele Kyari, Emefiele, and so on. The list is long. They do not care about the common man. They forgot that there is no social welfare in Nigeria.

They can tell us stories about loans and palliatives to deceive us as usual.

What they do not know is that Nigeria is about to be set on default setting!🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🧎🏽‍♂️🧎🏽‍♂️🇳🇬🇳🇬😎😎

badboyTee:
she would be under serious Dickmatization RN only When she decides to come back she will just flenjoor your self

what an insensitive response. someone is missing and your thoughts are only that she is being sexually sedated. put yourself in her parents shoes..

chrisxxx:
Make una stop this praise singing I beg. It will be too difficult with the masses with the total removal of subsidy. Cheap fuel drives Nigerias economy. Salary has not improved. How do people cope with rise of cost of living? Tinubu should set up a committee to know the exact litters of petrol used by Nigerians daily, identify mode and means of theft including diversion. You dont throw the child and bathwater away. If the proper thing is done it will be discovered that out of the 60m litters NNPC quoted Nigerians consume daily that we consume even less than 30m. That wont be much for Government to subsidized even at half price. Can someone talk to Remi Tinubu please? She has listening ears and the ears of her husband.

d last question be the koko. Remi is d President of Nigeria. We don enter Turai Yaradua pro max. she covers the gap when the man falls into dementia...

Nigerians should appeal to her.

The fraud Hadi Sirika committed will not fully be revealed in 8 years!!

nothing oooo!! it's been a jolly free ride!!
At the busstop, I shouted on your mandate I stand, immediately, 5 black G-wagons screeched before my feet and transported me from Chevron to Banana island.

when I'm done, I will whisper Yoruba Ronu not so loudly so that only 2 Prados will plead to take me home.

I didn't like the intensity at which the G-wagons begged to transport me. it gave me too much anxiety. Life is good. Hope your experience was similar to mine.

FalseProphet1:
Lol...this post is funny.

I see you reaching the peak of your career, I see you getting a mouthwatering job, along with a cute Russian princess as wife.

This I have seen.

The one and only @falseprophet!

na you and @slawomir be my top2 for nairaland.com

duduade:
His picture might be uploaded by a catfisher

exactly. most people use other people's pictures for such

the funny thing is how no one had called this married man a brostitute for checking the power of his rod with other woman..

I can imagine a woman saying his exact words,

"Very worryingly for me, I decided to check myself with other men and dear readers, I achieved greater wetness and orgasm and no fail moment. That was my first shock."

The whole feminine foundation would have been destroyed with insults from same people glorifying his virility.

Oga, if you like marry 50 more women, as long as mentally, na outside food dey hungry you, your Rambo go dey weak during action time. REMOVE YOUR MIND FROM STOLEN WATERS.. LET YOUR BODY ANTICIPATE MEETING YOUR WIFE. rewire your mind. imagine all d sexual things with her face doing it not some public girl. Start making love to her b4 u see her, bring our the romantic in her, sext, send her nudes, bring her out of her conservative zone, talk raw with her, do kinky stuff so that when both of you meet, your antenna go don collect enough transmission to stand and deliver in its right environment. Most importantly, be prayerful. Not everything is clear eye. This issue, u don dey talk divorce. who told you it won't repeat itself if you marry 60 times. better add hot prayer join. ko ma lo bulaba. You have been advised.

61 cars!!! backwardness appearing smart

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Ooni my niggar

We were born to bang kpekus and many kpekus we will bang before we die

Like I will always tell my niggars
We men are born to smoke some weed, drink enough bottles, bang alot of vagina, seek little knowledge and make some dope money
Those are the five main purpose why we men are here on planet earth

the king is back!!

malcom1X:
The man fails to work on himself or improve himself. When he reaches there.

Indians, Chinese, Kenyans, people who are more educated than an average Nigerian do this same thing but you'll never hear them divorce. They settle their family issues.

But Nigerian women?


Hmmm 🤔

Don't put the blame on Nigeria women.

A couple travels abroad. The man refuses to enter kitchen or support in the home claiming African male. The woman works midnight shift. Tension starts.. problems brew.. unfortunately she has 'na abroad we dey' friends pumping her ears. b4 u know it.. divorce!!

Couples have lived abroad and prospered till old age. Lack of proper communication, understanding and teamwork will cause issues. Not Nigerian Women.
if we keep blaming the man or woman.. no solution will ever arise.

if u dispute it, you know where to go!!

illuminutty:
From whocup to GWR. Kudos

mediocre brain and thought. na your impotent prickh she meet to do hookup with?

abi na on top hookup she take learn all the intercontinental recipes she dey cook since?

your mind cannot correlate hardwork with success. you think everything is from prostitution.

CgRay:
Continue with your virgin search. I pray you don't later regret it, if you end up marrying a virgin that will frustrate your life.

don't mind the fool. looking for a virgin as if he is one himself. there are deeper things to consider when looking for a life partner. he has not considered that, na the mileage of a woman's private part be his major concern.
A fool that does not know he is a fool.

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Rokiat:
Continue. When you catch one deadly STD you will come to your senses.

lol, na there he go sabi NSPPD prayers, Shiloh and MFM...

BigIyanga:
Go and get autopsy done on your brother. Stop speculating.. Why would a woman kill her husband because of her inlaws?

inlaw wey still dey struggle oooo.. even the man wey die was not a thousandnaire... according to the ops explanation. it's poverty ridden mentality that makes them feel there is an evil motive hence the urge/need to punish someone.

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

may nemesis befall you. just say you want his property. thief ole!! eat did u do for your brother b4 he died, when last did you also check on his wife. sit your brain and sorry life down b4 you go about victimized another human being. have u sent her food for her 40 days in confinement or you think the drip from Tinubu's hand is what is feeding her. unfortunate foo*l.

jahsharon:
You think Tinubu is like Buhari. By now you should know better. Just wait and see as Emilokan Tinubu pulls the rug under everyone's feet. He has done this several times in the past, he will do it again.

The problem is that this Emilokan is not the type you know before. The baba has dementia, is sick and with all his wealth, medical and spiritual solution has not cured it. He cannot do it again. unfortunately.