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Shollypopz: I don't look like her ooo. 'Tufiakwa'!! Olorun maje!!

Don't hate the player Bitty, hate the game......
You hv been played!!

That was my first crush, stop it... Those eyes will turn a gaylord into a fvcklord, believe that...

Shyte, I'll marry her, K.D Aubert, Meagan Good, and Gabrielle Union on the same night - and live happily ever after..

Shollypopz: [b]
Nah! Some women hv "power" more than the other #juss saying....Only a Mangina will refuse one!!

What power? - when what's on my mind is how you treated my shabbily with no respect whatsoever - and there's no another guy waiting there to see you? Only a freak would fall for girl power - or someone who hasn't beat it already lol.

I agree with guys getting jealous but not after they just found out you just cheated. My point exactly, if he has a bond wiv ya, competition comes after he has forgiven you. First thought is kill that bit*ch!
Bittyend the point is for me to play man W and B and that's exactly what I've done!! WINNING!!

Why would he kill you? He didn't see you getting smashed by another guy - he only found out that he has a competition, albeit disappointed in you because he trusted you. And he thought he was the only one you're checking.

There's no point lying - just tell the truth with some remix, and promise never to do that again. His ego would be bruised at first, but he'll get over it with time, if he really likes you - and try to get you off other guys (that's where the competition and territory comes in).. Telling lies would only complicate things - he'll never trust you again.

Some guys will just play dumb, get their revenge, and dump you..

Off to watch "The Wash" - to see my doozy Snoop Dogg.

Gotta love Angell Conwell - she looks like sholly.

Shollypopz: Nah! Dude you did not find loopholes you keep on telling me ur way, which u think is better. If i use my method, i would hv palyed W and B
WINNER....WHO IS THE WINNER??
CAN I HEAR SOMEONE SHOUT SHOLLYPOPZ!!!

Looooooooooool!!!

I showed you the LOOPHOLES in your assertions, and gave you suggestions. That's how great minds, with high cerebral prowess. and high consciousness operate. You critique and give suggestions - which are more practical, and less prone to errors... Chess NOT checkers, babes...

Your idealist theories won't work in the real world, except you're dealing with men with down syndrome - or friends with benefits..

*Play ya cards right* - 2pac's voice*

Jamming to: "Play ya cards right" - Keisha Cole Ft. 2pac..

**Another Shady Mission, Tricks Like Watching Pictures
And Hazy Vision. Tonight Is Love Making Take You
Any Place You Wish, Today We Satisfy And Stay With Stoling Kisses.

Chorus
I Want To Be The One Who
Who You Can Depend On,
Who Be The One Who Be There
Through The Thick And Thin
Go By The Wire We Will Be
There Till The Mourning We Won't Leave Until The Night And
We Will Be Forever Mourned***


Sholly, you know you lost already!

Come give papi a hug..

Shollypopz: .
LAI, LAI, would i admit. Even if i hv to lie and swear on my grandparents grave, lol. The guy might get suspicious from then on, but that's left to me to defuse the scenario and make him forget that ever happened. Make him believe it was all in his head, Using "female power" doesn't hurt either! [b]Point of correction:[/b]That's not a red-handed situation. A red handed situation is if he finds B in bed with me and when i mean in bed. I mean doing d do, if not, there's always a way out.

Female power won't work when the tension is high - the you can do is to 'plead guilty', and hope you get them back (or one of them back). EXCEPT THE GUYS YOU MESS WITH ARE SIMPLETONS LOL (Never say never for manginas lol)!!! Lying would only complicate the whole situation - and it would eliminate your slim chance of winning it all. Lying would make it a lose lose situation - which means, your game is flawed!!

Even your solicitor would advise you to always PLEAD GUILTY at first chance, to defuse every situation, and avoid meaner judgement!!!!

Except he really loves me. How many guys would compete for the girl that they already had that even cheated on them again. Mtcheew, even his guy friends would think he's an MUMU! And we both know, how guys value their friends opinion @times

LMAO! @ hug d both of them. I'm sure the guys would be fuming and B would be shouting @ me on top of his lungs. Not to even talk about girls. Entertain ur girls after they just found out u were cheating on them??!! Do you live in the real world Bitty? Or are u mistaking normal girls 4 hoes?

The last time I checked, the scenario was about 'Boyfriends' - and not friends with benefits. So, I assume there's going to be a bond between you guys (or probably you guys are 'in love' with eachother)... I put it to you that guys like competition, 'sometimes'- especially when it's a girl they really like. If they don't do, why do you think most guys get jealous, when they see their 'girls' talking/being friendly with other guys??

Alpha males are territorial, and everything comes with the territory lol.. We're like Lions in the jungle, believe that!!

And ur girls would pick up?? I'm sure my W nad B would not pick up. They might give me an audience if I come crawling and begging. But I'm sure he'll always think I'm cheating. That's why I'll never admit to cheating, LAI!!!, LAI!!!

They would pick up when they calm down - and everything depends on how smooth your game is. As for them thinking you're cheating, that also comes with the territory - and it's left for you to prove them wrong, slowly but surely. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes - but denying your flaws/mistakes will always put you in a tight corner - and that's a lose lose situation.

Shollypopz: It's not the same situation!! I won't let u make light of scenario 4. This was real life not phone convo! Meaning two of them standing beside each other and u are few cm away! Btw, I ain't confessing sh*t!

If they were beside eachother, I bet they would've have slapped the shyte out of eachother, and I would've got them back, anyway. Trust me, playing games (or two timing) in relationships isn't the way forward - it isn't worth the stress, since you're dealing with people's emotions. That's why I've been on a break since last year lol.

Men cheat, women cheat - the best thing is to always have that at the back of your mind.

Shollypopz: Bitty, I never waved to W. My waving was ambiguous. Don't 4get i used an endearing term "Dear/Darling". The point is 4 them not to know who exactly the wave was meant for. Complete stranger??!!! Hv u 4gotten I said; "Hi dear, Wait or I'm coming" (Whatever i said earlier sha, lol). Bittyend i don't care if they both came to see me or if W knows B came to see and vice versa. All i'm trying to avoid here is B telling W that he's my boyfriend. Now, the likeliness of W asking a random guy who he is to me and d random guy answering politely is very low.

Well that's my aim....that B leaves and he's not in d mood to tlk to my sister. You hv no choice than to indulge her as you won't want to be rude. You would be so mad that you can't see me. It's either u call me rit after u leave or you don't call me @ all. Now, it's my duty to make up for that situation continuing with my sister's lie. If you ask me why you couldn't see me I'll only repeat d same line my sister told you. If you ask who d guy is I'll tell u d same thing i mentioned earlier. In shut i would apologize and @ d same time act like i don't get why are mad. Since d other guy is so harmless. I would simply tell u a lie that you could link to an event you know about to explain why i was grounded

Exactly why Bitty, I'm not the one doing the introduction except on phone with W if he asks. As i said introducing them to each other is what I'm trying to avoid. And my sister has no obligation to introduce the two. I never did any introduction but I'm telling you that if i had to talk to both of them, an introduction would be required of me. Read Bitty, u're making me repeat myself(I knw, my post is not that lucid though)

To be honest, there's nothing you can do if you find yourself in that awkward situation, babes. Waving, hiding, sending your sister etc. would only fuel more suspicions and anger. The best you can do is just accept that you've been caught red-handed, and defuse the situation - by fighting another day. All the actions you listed would only make matters worse, and you would end up losing the both of them - just confess your sins, without really showing that you love one more than the other.

Trust me, guys love competition sometimes - and the best you can do is to let them know you've been caught red-handed, and allow the both of them to go home. Let them try to outdo eachother for your love on a later date (but don't ever try this, I don't want to see another brother with a broken heart lol).

My suggestion:

Basically, the deed has been done already - and there's fretting about it. I would hug the both of them, make the introductions (introduce both of them as my friends), and entertain them equally without showing preference to none.

Then, as soon as they both leave; I'll ring them separately and talk to them calmly, to find out about how they feel about the awkward situation. Before I proceed with my next line on action.

Remember to stay calm at all times!

[quote author=High_Chief]I dont see any gal getting away with this. As long as the 2guys came in at the same time, the reception from the gal is what will arouse suspicion, any sharp guy would definitely smell a rat.[/quote]I have been in the same situation before and I played my cards right albeit it was a phone conversation.

The new girl I was checking found out about the old one on my phone, and she rang her. They both chatted on the phone for 2hours - argued for the first 15mins, and joked about me and my silly game for the remaining 1hr 45mins. I just poured some black hennessy in the cup (with no chaser) and lit up a cancer stick, to think about my next line of action.

After their convo, I rang the old one, confessed all my sins like she was Jesus (lied a little bit), and begged for forgiveness. And I told her to text the new one (her new mini-friend) to pick up my call because I know she won't (the girl loved me to death, she would die for me). The old girl did what I asked her to do, and the new one called me. I explained everything to her and also begged her for her forgiveness. Then, I told the both of them I had personality disorder, and that I needed a break to get back to my normal self. Got my 2months break, and I got back with the both of them lol.

But hey, I messed up again - and I've been on indefinite leave since December last year but I still chat to the both of them.

tellwisdom: bittyend, did u actually wrote al dis? Wat are u tryin to prove wit all the long post u just jotted??....come off it Bro.. .u don't need a long note to convince anybody here...dis chicks are stil our puppet,even wen we pretend to be mugu to them # they knw

Aye bruddah, just trying to show them that when it comes to games - they can NEVER outsmart the real nyggahs, doozy..

They should try their games on mummy's boys and puppets..

**We've been in this game for too long, it made us animals, and there are rules to this shyt** - Notorious BIG's voice!

Shollypopz: There is no biggy if he came to check on me. The problem here is B introducing himself to W as my boyfriend. Waving is something everyone does, even you(W)! You might feel wierd that I ran inside but u won't immediately think that I might be cheating on you except u were already suspicious

I know there's no problem if he came to check on you, but the problem is that you waved to me (something you've NEVER done since we've been together). That means you treated me like a complete stranger (or just any guy), because a next guy is there - and that would definitely make me smell something fishy. I'm a guy and I know the other would guy feel the same way, and we would both be eager to know what's going on. So, I'll definitely chat to the guy politely - to find out if he came to see you as well. And guys will always be guys - and I'm sure the next guy would also want to know who I came to see, and what's going on.

I don't think I made that clear. She's not chatting with both of you. She's telling both of you that Shollypopz is not allowed to see visitors. She them starts a conversation with W completely ignoring B

Duh, referencing your name already shows we both came to see the same girl. So, my girl's no show also shows that there's something fishy. To be honest, I'll too pissed off to even chat to your sister - I'll just tell her to ask you to come out for a min, and that I want to ask you a question. I came to see you and not your sister - and I'm definitely not interested in any chat after the awkward reception, your no show, and a next guy sitting there waiting for you as well.

I disagree with the bolded, i always introduce my friends. As long as u don't know each other I'm introducing. Why not?? It's wierd talking with one person and watching d other stare @ both u guys mouth movement. In shut i believe not introducing u guys brings forth questioning and doubt. Maybe it's just me, but guys i know always want to make their territory clear and their "property" known. Bear in mind my sister is not obliged to introduce the two but if i was there, W would want to know who this new guy I've never talked about nor he has ever seen is.

Bear in mind that women are emotional beings, and you would definitely act suspicious when you're introducing us to eachother. And I believe you would also be inclined to show preference to one over the other (i.e you like one more than the other). So, that would also fuel my suspicions - and you introducing us to eachother is also a form of 'familiarity' - and I bet that would lead to more conversations between the two us (I'm trying to find out what's going on, and he's trying to find out as well - and EUREKA, the introduction would lead to more conversations).

Shollypopz

Chess, not checkers - Leggo!

Shollypopz: .

No comment, huh?

Shollypopz: I would simply wave @ both them before they get to me and say; "dear stay there, I'm coming". Without making eye contact with either of the two
I obviously can't pull this lie on my own without an ally, *that's what makes boys good players anyway, they hv loyal and good
allies*

Doing the bolded part will make me suspicious because you've never been like that (If that isn't my first visit to your house). So, I'll definitely say; 'hello' to the next guy, and chat to him in a sly way - to find out if he came to check you as well.

I would go inside and let my sister do the dirty work for me. She'll come out and say I've been grounded from receiving
visitors and that my Dad must not know they are even here to look for me. Btw, she must add that my punishment was to wash everyone else's clothes
Something about boys, is that they would try and form familiarity with my sister. U knw, like I'm of more importance than the other guy
My sister has got to hv d no nonsense face on like Dad is fuming and can kill anyone rit now.

How about if you live by yourself, or you're at home by yourself? And if your sister came over to chat to the both of us referencing your name - don't you think that's a giveaway that we both came to see the same girl?

I don't want them to leave together, in order to avoid any form of conversation
So, she would simply start a conversation with W as B is leaving. The conversation might be as random as she likes.
I'm sure B will call me immediately asking to know why he saw me and I could not even say hi b4 i ran away, I'll
simply say; "didn't i tell u to wait". If he then goes on to ask me who W is, I'll simply say he went to high school
with me and was quite close to my sister. I'm hoping he would link my sister's attitude to W to what i just said.
W won't be any prblem because he sort of got treated as more important than d other

If you went to high school with the next guy, you would've introduced him to me - if the relationship between you guys was harmless. And your no show would also give credence to the fact that there's something fishy between you guys. So, I'll ask you to let me speak to the guy myself - to find out what's really going on between the both of you.

Sholly went ghost on me lol.

Do I need to answer the question as well?

Shollypopz: Cuddlemii & Bittyend:
I pick Scenario 4..........

Gosh, i hope I'm a good liar

Where is "Scenario 4?"

Can you re-post it?

Get Shollypopz and I in the ring, I want to see what she's got. I want to check if her IQ is as high as she wants us to believe, and I want to check out the girl behind that signature..

I'm a chess player, and I like checking people out, ya dig?

honeric01: Interesting, but i don't see any WOMAN in the world getting over me with all the scenarios the OP explained.

I wish Sagamite was paired with one of the highly intelligent ladies out here.

Maybe Sagamite the fukctard vd queensmith the whiter than white?

So, what's the difference between the sagamite character and queensmith? They're both incoherent sadists with self-esteem issues. You don't need to be a psychologist to know they post based on inner emotions, or something they perceive as a betrayal from some quarters. If you could look beyond their posts, you would find out that, they both love the things they show disdain for on NL.

If you think sagamite is intelligent, then, intelligence is overrated.

I personally think, they fit eachother.

Shollypopz: lol, u are derailing and I'm helping you to
As long as u re not a sore loser, I'm good. Prepare to be defeated!

@Cuddlemii,: Can I exchange partners?
Denzel would not mind, i think.

Let's go there, I'm a party rider!!

Losing is a thing of the mind - and with my cognitive skills still intact, I'll not lose.

Shollypopz: @Bittyend....Hi, pls do not derail d thread.
u were not around, so i gave myself to PhysicsQED


Sry, cuddlemii.....i won't derail again

Aye, tell the OP to set us up, so, I can show you what you've been missing; since I went on hiatus. Physics is my doozy, but he sure can't get down like I do. I'm the brother to the night, the 'daywalker', and the daydream. You can't get away from me, cutie pie... Let me love you, and I'll give you that good love and protection, babes. I'll transform ya, and stimulate you intellectually. And I'm shrewd when the lights go off, I'll hit fast, and then go slow - make you moan low and loud. I know your body's calling me, baby. Time is of the essence, don't let this moment pass you by.

And yes, I'm the guy who put the satin in your panties.

**Just playing before you go shaniqua and pookie on me in this biatch**

@OP - why did you include my e-wife, shollypopz, in this game?

I paid for them tiddys, get ya, ya own...