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PoliticallyInco:
Well, she is factual.

You want her to lie to you just to massage your ego? If tomorrow you see her messages to her friends and realized or uncovered this fact you will feel bad that she has been lying to you.

Another question is what other ways have you been able to impress her or influence her life?What other things have you been able to allow her see and appreciate? Also, even if you try to, does she see the importance of your mentorshop? Your sense of humor? Your wisdom? Is she mature enough to see the abstract and non-physical? Is she deep thinking enough? Is she wise and smart enough.

Besides it could be that she is speaking for her feelings at the moment you were talking to her. If at that moment she is sex starved that is what she wants the most at that time. She simply spoke from being mindful to her feelings at that moment.

Good thing is I like the fact that she boldly spoke her mind and didn't sugarcoat anything.

donbuchi1:
Not true, don't mind this elder. She enjoys ur company.

Ekakamba:
Tell us, what did you miss about her?

MrBrownJay1:
i guess thats what she needs the most right now... kisses and sex.

ogechchukwu:
She is playing with your mind...
Is your money ..

For God sake .
It dosen't take a rocket science for one to know that is your money she misses most..

You sounding like you forgot your brain in the bush ...

johnkey:
Tonight I'm going to our t-junction and I will shout 'abere' 21 powerful times so the gods can hear well, I will update you on the results tomorrow.

Exc2000:
Mindset and Proper Communication is the key to a successful relationship, not money and ambition

Lets say you read what you wrote from a neutral point or you reverse the case and put yourself in his shoes then you would understand the cause of friction

* you started off by saying this ; "This my guy is not serious at all" .. Flipping it, lets assume your boyfriend also hold the thought of you in a negative way: "This my girl is too greedy and loves money too much."

* I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.... --- You sound manipulative without even knowing it, you believe change is the only permanent thing and you are soft with people because you think you can change them... how would you feel if instead of accepting you your boyfriends constantly tries to change you? what if you being an introvert isn't cool with him and he starts forcing you to parties, lecturing you on how going out boost career prospects? you clearly don't accept him for who he is so leave him, break up and look for who fits your ideal man

* I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams--- You claim to be ambitious but the real question is are you successful ? perhaps the main reason he isn't buying your ambitious story is because with all your big plans and big dreams, big business fancy talks you haven't shown your self as a success in his eyes, and he feels if with all your masters talk and business talk you haven't helped your own self why should he abandon the career path that pays him 90k to follow your own dream that pays you next to nothing? Maybe he is a realist and not a dreamer and wouldn't take stupid uncalculated risk in the name of dream

* Masters degree isn't a means to earn more money as many believe or boost your certificate, in real world masters just sharpen your skills, before you force masters on him again, try and select an MSC coarse for him, check out all the courses module he would take for the 2 years and tell your self in all honesty which of this courses would make him better and worth his while for loosing 90k job?

Sense go kill you one day sir..nice one bro.

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makapella:
I've not commented in a long while but I've got to say this;this is a very very educative topic..

Nairaland is gradually getting back it's former glory..We have been on this platform since 2008 so we can authoritatively state how it went down back in the days..

We don't struggle for Ftc no more..
We don't try to be like the dead meat seller following every topic..
We were active in the days when Seun Osewa was dishing out directives himself..But we were just observers..

I learnt of this site in Madonna University cafe on one of those boring days..It was so so educative like this..
God no go Shame seun

Retrography:
Here we go again.
What about the wrong side of Yoruba language whereby you tell someone good night (Oda'aro) around 1PM in the afternoon because you won't see the person again till the next day?

boomssey:
you know I was actually thinking of this topic today.

dayleke:
That is why I love my Yoruba language.
Good evening is "E Ku irole o " .

8pm greeting na "E kaale o ".

dayleke:
Some Caribbean countries say "Good night" as a greeting for night time and not necessarily as a farewell.

hardewaih:
Good evening is used from 5-6pm to 11:59 pm.. Because saying good night indirectly means 'good bye'.. Imagine you want to discus something with someone at 9pm but you start with good night the other person may get confused coz you're mostly expected to go after saying 'good night'

Masonkaycares:
@op evening starts from 6pm so you definitely know when afternoon ends

leunseyis:
All na greetings... That Why white people greet like this... Good day or Hello, How are you doing... Naija we too dey great

internationalman:
It's slways good evening with people even when the evening is bad.

MrBrownJay1:
its either good morning, good afternoon or good evening....and to many people, 5pm is early evening so they just use good evening (as they cant use the 2 others).

DrayZee:
Oya drop. You said 10 comments not 10 individuals.

PrecioussB:
Check out my signature and send me a DM. I'm using the money to help my local community little by little. Thank you

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?