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Did you get a colonoscopy

Nice read but I'll be much happier if anyone that sends me unsolicited emails with instructions to forward it to others is apprehended and executed. I'm just sick and tired of it.

jill:
@ Anuli GTB
You sure u're Anuli and u work at GTB? Wondering why you're giving us so much info on yourself.
Hope u aren't trying to defame anyone's character.
Just a thought.

That was my first thought when I coded her name as Joy(Anuli) from GTB.

Moving in with a girl if you're not ready to get married immediately is the most stupid move a guy can make. It's the classic example of moving too fast, and very soon a big ugly crash will follow. Stay the f**k apart. That's what courting is all about.

Which part of which country You must express yourself better if you have interest in becoming an attorney.

mamaput:
Funny enough these things always happen to "somebody i know that knows somebody that knows somebody"

Folklore and Mythology.

Keep your opinion to yourself. She didn't ask for opinions, right or wrong.

Samambaia:
@BlackMamba
I love your advice people! But could you write it with translation into English I would like to know what I am writing
Ciao

Amu gi asogbuo m - A piece of shit that you'll never touch with a 10ft pole

If you have no juicy tales to share, say so and move on. No preaching.

@Samambaia
If you want him to disappear feeling guilty, send him to following text message,
"Amu gi asogbuo m".

Joy from GT Bank. Good for you baby.

She needs medical attention before she harms someone or herself in her state of delusion.

Rikers or Sing-Sing?

You guys should please stop passing judgment on assumptions. Luvjones asked a simple question. Does the divorce law in Nigeria apply to the facts she got from her man, period? She never asked any of you to analyze the guy's intentions.

Radiant:
umm, due to my past experience, I'll like to ask u some questions,ok?
1. where do u reside?
2. if in the US, have u got a US citizenship?
3. is the guy a US citizen or plain green passport holder?

What has citizenship and residency got to do with getting a valid divorce under the Nigerian law?
Inasmuch as there are no "automatic" divorce under the Marriage Act, it may be possible to obtain an automatic divorce after a 2 years separation under one of the many diverse customary marriages that remain valid under the Nigerian Law.
You need to find out if your man was previously married under the Marriage Act or Customary/Muslim law. Customary marriage/divorce is based on tradition and there are no documentations.
Above all these advice, is for you to ask yourself if you really want to marry a man you obviously don't trust enough. No paper proof can give you that emotional security you're seeking.