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pcicero: But, i am fed up with this country.
This same Danjuma that publicly acknowledge that he is bereft of ideas.
Didn't he recently declare that he doesn't know what to do with $500 million? His home state (Taraba) is one of the most underdeveloped in Nigeria. It is not on record that he has made any meaningful contribution to his state.
Being an OBJ critic does not make you a better (good) politician.

There you have it. The more things "change" the more it remains the same. What about his mental capacity? Wasn't that an issue a few years back?

Does anyone really believe this mumbo-jumbo that the wife of the president is calling the shots in Aso Rock? If some influential part of our corrupt ruling cabal, in and out of the present regime, do not rally around Jonathan to put an end to this mess, we will continue to grope in the dark. It doesn't really matter because with or without a figure head as president, the corrupt elite will continue to run the corruption enterprise called Nigeria.

DaRapture: Hey, how come no one has answered my questions?

Cause it makes no sense. What's the basis of your conclusion? How many Nigerians/Igbo girls have you met?

I've always thought of the prosperity of Nigerian banks in the midst of a dreadful economy. But who cares. It's just like most institutions in Nigeria where corruption and lack of transparency is the norm. Corruption has conditioned us in a way that those that understand the irregularities in our system either do not have the capacity to effect change or just find a way to join the corruption train and cash in. Unfortunately, it's the better option in Nigeria at this time.

SegzyJoe: @ St. Funmi
I think the reason for the Igbophobia on this site is because they make the loudest noise, naturally when you make noise you will be heard. Unfortunately in political and power game, tactics and strategy are critical and my brothers lacks those two game decider. That's why in the words of Prof. Omo Omoruyi Igbos have been relegated to a glorified minority. Its sad, I really look forward to see this great and industrious people becoming president of this country one day, but their calculation now is not sound. Power is a priced possession, it is easily relinguished, except perhaps in an idea society, Nigeria is a power jungle, might makes right.

Good to know that is just your personal thought because it's simply stupid and irrational.

Simply grandstanding. Mix of ignorance and often calculated schemes to get their share of the ongoing looting of public funds. Most of them do not know what their job entails and most Nigerians do not even have a clue. I forget, they weren't even elected.

adconline: Is Chinedu Nebo from Enugu state? Yes, he was the DVC of ESUT

Nebo must be from Udi area of Enugu State. More reason why it's about time Nsukka man is made the VC of the Lions Den.  
Who cares about mediocrity when we have quota.

angelina08: It is the duty of the Landlord to repair any damage thing in his house not the tenant.

You don't have to reply to every topic especially if you don't know.

Enugu used to be home for me. And like any home I had more fun in Enugu than any other Naija city. Hard to believe for some folks, but remember I called it home and knew how to maximize the limited fun potential it presented.

Goat meat and rice at "Nwanyi Ituku" was a good way to start off the day. Lunch could be at "Emily" or some woman that had wonderful "Okazi" soup in Morehouse. Talking about Morehouse. That used to be the spot. Nothing really special. Just boiled chicken and moi-moi, but I preferred the ambiance to fancy spots. Guys used to just hang out, gulp bottles of chilled beer and listen to ogene music. Or you can do Oneal in New Haven. On weekends, the next port of call from Moorehouse was the Forum nite club. During this period, Forum nite club was the place to be if you're in Enugu. If you stay till morning like I often did, you definitely need to sober up with a hot plate of rice at "Dans" in Ogui road.

What exactly do our oyibo folks want to get out of voting? If it gives you any personal satisfaction that you actually cast your vote, good for you. Unfortunately, votes don't count in the selection process adopted in Nigeria over the years.

Sapphic: When I first went to secondary school, I must admit that I was one of those who was flabbergasted that there were people who had never been to Lagos [sup](OK that was ignorant, I know, but I was surprised that most people did not travel abroad for summer holidays [or had never even travelled period]

Were you really that ignorant when you first went to secondary school?   Hopefully, you're now aware of the real reason why some Nigerians are able to do summer holidays abroad and live affluently Lagos.

To me, Christianity and its bible and other religious beliefs only serve to instill some level of morality in society. Without the reward and punishment in the after life, we will all resort to predatory living like most other animals despite any human laws. This is the one and only meaningful interpretation you can get out religion.

From these premise, humans over time pick and choose what promotes an orderly society from their religious books and doctrines. What does the bible say about slavery? I guess we can't follow the bible on that one.

Why not advocate for colonial rule instead. If someone that has the knowledge to access the internet will call for a military rule, then it seems we're at a loss in our battle against ignorance.

It's a very very delicate issue. If at the end of the day he cannot at least help you cultivate some kind of working relationship with his family, then don't even bother. Especially, if he has a close bond with his family. On your part, you must be ready to sacrifice a lot of ego. Remember you're getting married to him and not his family. He needs your help to work his family. I'm not saying you have to take BS from his family to get married to him but if there is true commitment between both of you, you'll be able to navigate the murky waters of cultural differences and come out just fine to enjoy a happy marriage.

I'm actually in the last phase of a similar situation. I had to put pressure on family subtly because I was 100% sure of what I got in my AA GF. And she has played a wonderful role in the whole process. Good luck in your quest for happiness.

H2O2 :
How do you do it?  And did you finally quit the dope smoking?

"DOPE IS WACK KIDS"
Unfortunately I had to lay off the trees after I ended my affairs with Jamo

I don't think you make such an important decision that may change the rest of your life based on advice you solicit from strangers on the internet. Like someone asked, Are you willing to alienate your family. Whether this culture is stupid, which I personally think it is, does not matter. If you can't work it out, it's a choice between your family and your personal life. Think hard before you make the call because you'll live with your choice.

Replying to the poster, the only difference in dating an AA is the cultural orientation. Cultural differences can be a wonderful experience if neither of you is ignorant and is willing to learn. Bad character people exist in all cultures. The fact that most Nigerians date Nigerians is just a default of humans, being comfortable with their like. It doesn't mean they're better choices. My life with my AA wifey has been most fulfilling. This is coming from a Naija man with very strong African values.

If I haven't met some highly placed Nigerians in power, I will be amazed by such display of ignorance. But it is what it is. The Naija way.

Why would any sane person relocate to Naija if you've not figured a means of tapping into the corruption pipeline? We all know what the deal is in Naija.

We are stuck in a fundamentally corrupt system. Acronyms like EFCC, ICPC, WAI, MAMSA etc are simply useless. It's the same corrupt wine in new bottles. BTW there is still the police and the AG & DPP to prosecute any crime. Unfortunately, they're Nigerians like the members of the new acronyms. Genuine changes will be obvious from Aso Rock whenever that happens, if ever. Especially with the "unitary" system in Nigeria.

With all the poverty and brazen violent crimes in Naija most people are worried about winning a stupid soccer game in China. Are we under a spell or what? I read today that Yaraduah's mum was robbed in her bedroom. Bullion vans getting snatched in broad daylight and governors entourage ambushed by robbers. Any hope for this banana republic outside soccer? I guess not, with the explosion of ChelseaManUArsenal disease to keep the masses suffering and smiling.

Just for clarity. UNN is acronym for University of Nigeria Nsukka. Obviously, located in Nsukka in present Enugu state. Enugu state, Ebonyi state and present Anambra state used to be one state called Anambra state. Nsukka has never been part of Ebonyi or present Anambra state. Enugu the capital city of Enugu state has a campus (branch) of UNN. Hope this helps to enlighten some folks about the breeding ground of Great Lions and Lionesses.

If you're comfortable in your skin, you wont notice what anyone else is wearing. You may rock your flip flop with no make up and still make guys like me salivate. Quit commenting on others dressing unless you feel so threatened.

Recently Chinedu Ogbuke told the press that his last name is Obasi. Ogbuke is just a middle name. Also I noticed that Obinna Nsofor is now referred to as Victor Obinna, dropping the Nsofor. I'm not sure what his change is about. Mikel started off as John Obi Mikel but has reasonably rectified the obvious error to John Mikel Obi. I'm not sure what to make of these name mix up of Naija players. It could all be mistakes but it's Naija where things are not always the way they appear. I assumed people always know their name.

Unfortunately, the solution is not going back to invest resources in your private venture. You will either get frustrated out or adjust to the very corrupt system to survive Naija. I'm waiting for those committed to sacrifice everything and fight for public office. Only way to start changing the corrupt system.

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I smell the same old elitist put down by some Naija folks who happen to find their ass in a western country. Like someone rightly pointed out Naija is still a 3rd world country last I checked, regardless of how we value ourselves and our stuff. But we have the right to appreciate stuff any way we like. Folks comparing our so called deli-like mall to Walmart often shop in low cost Walmart and discount stores rather than designer stores on 5th Avenue. Shoprite is big in Naija and Naija is not US or UK.

ukukaegbu: When some uneducated players travel all over the world and make millions
When some politicians are enriched from the game
When it makes millions happy
When it makes millions heart broken
When it gives some fraudsters to exploit innocent ones
When it brings unity in Nigeria 3rd world.
THAT'S A GLOBAL GAME.

Above can apply to other sports eg Baseball in Latin America. That's not why soccer is global. Soccer survived and flourished better than other major sports introduced around the world by colonial masters because of its simple rules and cheap cost.

@poster

Heloooooooooooo

Have you returned the money as you should or held on to it? Totally your choice. Not that it really matters to me what you do. I just want to keep the story/tale going if I can. Be a good sport, keep us updated, even if you've not decided yet. After all, you started the conversation. It's just an interesting mix of professionalism and morality struggling for a soul in a very corrupt society. Or just a naive mind scared of getting caught in a financial fraud?

Is this bill really the no.1 priority of women and youths in Nigeria that this selected senator is sopposed to cater for? What a shame.

vikiviko: In Nigeria you can be a millionaire in a month if you are smart and intelligent.

Of course. 419, politics or flat out armed robbery eg. bank bullion vans. That's why the country is in ruins, my friend.

The solution is easy but selfless and may be dangerous. You can sacrifice your personal dreams and start the struggle for change even if it is at the village level. You don't have to be a millionaire to do this. Surely, the consequences can be dire or even death but that's the price we must pay for posterity. Do something today if you really care or just shut up. Is it in you?