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mccloud224:
Wow,

There's some serious language exchange on this thread (completely unrelated to the original post)

michelin89:
So if I just give you a stamp kiss tomorrow, you go ask me out?  

michelin89:
You have blown this kiss out of proportion. Ahahhahahahah! I can't laugh.

1. It's normal for me to feel jealous especially if she was there before I came into the picture.
2. Although I might feel bad, I believe this is something my husband must sort out himself. It would be disrespectful of him to expect me to go and fight his bestfriend.
3. If it gets tough, then I intervene knowing well that I am stepping in as the last fighter.

PS: I wouldn't advise my hubby to throw a 10 year friendship away like that. I have had friends who came and went and it was always a heartbreak for me. Besides if the OP wasn't so stupid to be messing aroung and neglecting her thread we'd have come up with at least more info. I don't think a man would wake up one day and decide he wants his married friend. Something must be wrong somewhere.

michelin89:
Civilised ke? Just because I dey chop poundy with fork?

But you have not answered my question. What about the 10 years?

mccloud224:
This is why i have always hammered on the fact that THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS between opposite sexes unless :

(1)He is gay or she is lesbian
(2)He is dead broke
(3)They don't find each other attractive
(4)He is impotent

A "kiss" on the lips?Yeah yeah yeah, we all kiss our kids goodnight or good bye but kissing a full grown man on the lips is a way overboard.Maybe on the cheek but the lips?A kiss is a sensual thing.It's not a handshake or pat on the back.Yeah yeah yeah, i know some posters will come on here and educate me on how some cultures accept kissing as a norm (em, and it's always on the cheek NOT LIPS).I mean, i don't know what I'd do if i caught my lady kissing another man on the lips.It's because of all this "modernity and civilization" that the sacredness of marriage has been thrown to the dogs.In the U.S, a marriage beyond ten years is a sort of record.People now get married and get divorced 3 months later because of "civilization".A woman can kiss her "male friends" on the lips right?i wonder how they'd take it if their man kisses every girlfriend he's had on the lips.Talk about serving it and not being able to take it.

michelin89:
I don't think the husband is unaware of the 10 year friendship and their way of greeting. Right now, although the best friend might indeed have feelings for her, let's not exclude the fact that he may be having problems with his gf. Why wait for 10 years to make a move when she is already married and with kids?

ThiefOfHearts:
If you dont reply, you're a bastard.

michelin89:
They have been friends for 10 years so he is not a complete stranger. These kisses are usually so fast that you have no time to link anything sexual to them. They are like stamps and someone watching may not even see they were on the lips for how fast they are.

I believe this man has always had feelings for her and maybe right now he is having problems with his gf, reason why he thinks his 10 year old bestfriend is the best alternative.

michelin89:
Light kisses are very frequent. Parents do kiss their children on their lips. I used to kiss my bestfriend like that too until things went sour.

Hail light kisses on the lips.  

ThiefOfHearts:
Gosh this girl can lie.

winnergirl when did you get married not to talk of being married with kids


were gidi ni omo yi

Nikky23:
So you believe maybe you didn't see the post displaying my picture by this or that or those gaggi(s) like i've known IT before nor heard the name. Rubbish.