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guy in this economy someone will be giving me a ultimatum about marriage... since two of you are dating and things are going fine together what is the point of adding unnecessary financial burden on a one day event. I can't wrap my head why most women are so obsess with wedding what is the big deal about it?
in conclusion please don't let anybody nag you into doing what you are not comfortable to do, if she truely loves you, she will be contended and happy to still be with you and see it as a privilege and not a right, meaning she will do anything to keep you...

WrittyWritter:
I did not mean u should continue dating her ooo..I meant mental help or something den u hand her over to a friend or a relation

that is not my problem the best she can do was to go for therapy... and according to what I heard its a life term battle...

WrittyWritter:
Thank God oo...but wat u did was know of wrong u should have tried to get her some kind of help.

help?!!!!!!!! are you kidding me? go and make your research about bipolar personal disorder.. and come and tell me to help her!!

majority of guys are dating such kind of girls and thinking they are in love.. until the lady stab him or kill herself then they will now blame it on the guy and call it domestic violence, not knowing the real cause...

though I don't believe in love, but 3 and 4 is true...as a guy I can't count how many times a lady tells me am not romantic and still yet they are obsess with me... ladies want to hear us say sweet things but me am more logical
like last night I was with this babe that called me complaining that she was having headache, and I asked her have you taken any drugs to cure it, na so babe Change am for me ooo, that I can't even utter the word sorry or best still say something sweet, am like will that stop your headache?

Cladez:
I think you meant to say borderline personality disorder (BPD)
Bipolar disorder is different though.

Thank goodness you saw the signs.

thanks for the correction...

PureGoldh:
This country called Nigeria is Literally lawless

same with the citizens

GeneralPula:
Good one..

Everything should just be on hold for now. Let us all join hands together to start the CREATION OF A BETTER NIGERIA!!

so end SARS will solve all Nigeria problem.... guy you be magician ooo

what is peaceful about the protest? obstructing other people of movement by blocking of roads is peaceful!!!!!
like leaders like followers, after if there government who are masters of illegality and bending of law strike out there skill.. they will come out complaining and crying, whereas they them self the followers are the champion of illegality..

baralatie:
so

in conclusion age is just a number when you are desperate and you can't compete to get the best so you console yourself with that stupid word..

the most stupid and manipulative word am hearing "age is just a number" age is just a number to women when they sense that the clock is thicking and they have few options then they get desperate..

"age is just a number" to guys when they are broke or still struggling financially, hence they can't attract the 9, 10. so they go for the 3 4, 5.. which mostly consist the fat over weight chicks and the older women who are desperate...

me I dated a girl that was so needy, then I through it was cool cause is so rare to meet their type.... every seconds this girl will bombard me with calls, if she see me with other girls she will turn it into a war...
the deal breaker was the day I came home late I don't know how this girl got my boss number and called him and complained that I don't give her much attention... that night I decided am done, the next morning I woke up with a suicide letter on my bed, I ran to the parlour this babe was piercing her self with a needle, I have to console her I waited till weekend when I know she will go on a visit, I parked all her stuff out of my house and I change the locks to my door.. that was the end of her.. later after some month I discover this babe was suffering from a disorder BPD meaning bipolar personal disorder.. thank God for my life

the problem of our security is beyond end SARS.... seriously me I don't think the government can find a quick solution to this, it is a long term task... any plan or idea the government brings now is just to ease the protest... guess

Frankice12:
I'll advise you modify this post... Cause if this post reaches Front page, only God can save u here from nairalanders

I have already been insulted for voicing my opinion and I don't care what anybody feels about it... we are not machined or robot that is program to think one way....

from the day they started blocking the road I lost interest.. they say the kind of leader that lead a country is a reflection of it's followers.... this same people would be accusing the government of illegality and corruption but will do worse if they have the opportunity to be in that position.. this is case 101

long term relationship is OK when both of you know that you are in a open relationship, apart from that if you think either of you will be monogamous or stay true to yourself then you are dreaming..
and secondly if you are the type that want to stay focus in achieving your dream and don't want distraction and drama then I will advice you to go for a long term relationship..
in conclusion when you are in a long term relationship don't get too emotion and don't take things serious....

how will any body sensible thinks the northern governor will go against SARS, can't you hear when borno governor was asking the igp of police to transfer them to there state..
the northerners problem is mostly banditry, bokoharam, robbery.. how will any body with common sense now ban SARS from the north? SARS are more active in the north....

while over here our our problem is different, more of ritual killing, fraud, and yahoo yahoo, and petty theft.. SARS over here are idle, so out of boredom they pass there aggression on us.
in conclusion most of them should be transfered to the north where they are needed..

omo this people are animals... do they have a soul at all

ggood:
Shiite fought because of religion , Endsars is not religion , we are fighting for our right

religion too is part of a citizen right... am not saying it should happen... but he has a point... only that in every humans reasoning we have our bias...

but seriously oo without bias and emotions.. what he said there is a element of truth

why will a set of people protesting which is there fundamental human right, and you open fire on them.... and another set of people exercising the same human right and nothing happens.. am just saying oo and am not been political correct here ooo

this one no be protest again... what is the logic in blocking of public road and infringing on other people right of movement

nkwuocha:
This people think say na only SARS matter make youths dey street?
Why are they feigning ignorance to the main issue here which is revolution to bring the government to her kneels and restructure the country or outright seccession?

The kind hungry wey dey now no be gun for stop the protest,and na youths dey hungry untop that most dey jobless, untop that we just come out from almost 3 months lockdown so most self don get small psycho wey dey torment them already.

Just small mistake and everywhere will start burning, just small kpakam, small one no be big one o, and e go red everywhere.

At this point if you're a politician Fu+ck you, weda you good or you bad, Fu+vk you.The injustice in every sector if this country is too much, we Don too bury innocent people for this country.We Don too suffer.

Una go just dey thief money yet poor people dey die for hospital everyday.Nothing is working.

Our youth dey commit suicide.
Our mothers dey naked comot bra because of government
Our girls dey sleep with politician wey go Bleep them finish any how still use them do money yet no go still give them work
Our intelligent young men dey thief goat, fowl, because of hungry,yet bags if rice dey rot away for Nigeria custom hand

see one of the confused protester, and keyboard warrior, from end SARS to restructuring and you believe this protest alone will achieve that and make Nigeria a great nation... wake up from your dream... protest has done is work, now is no more business as usual again for the Nigeria police force and is other unit under it.. any further protest will make this fight lost is relevance..

DontBullshitMe:
I supported these protests at the beginning but not any longer.

As you're ranting that you have a constitutional right to protest, do you not know that others also have constitutional rights not to associate with your protest and constitutional rights to movement for their legitimate economic activities. Why then are you blocking the road and ostracizing anyone that doesn't support your position.

As far as I'm concerned, the president's announcement rendered all further protests illegitimate.

You can't just be protesting forever. There has to be dialogue. After the IGP and president announced the disbandment of sars, the IGP went further to announce that all sars operatives have being recalled to force headquarters where they will be investigated, undergo tests etc. He agreed to your 5of5. He has released all protesters arrested. He agreed to allow Davido setup an independent panel to oversee the reforms. He also announced that a new tactical squad SWAT has being established to take over the activities of sars and training will begin in one week. He said they won't check phones, no former sars member will be recruited into the new SWAT. Then the next thing we here is, EndSWAT

What exactly is your problem? Should we not have tactical unit against armed robbery again. Is the solution to bad leadership, no leadership? You want to give armed robbers free chance to operate? You should have said EndPolice, EndSecurity instead of just EndSars

What we should be seeing at this point after the IGP's announcement is dialogue between the government and representatives of the protesters. Both sides must be ready to be reasonable and ready to make concessions. If after all this, the government still refuses to make any changes, then you can return to the streets. But no, they said they don't want to have any representatives, that they will continue protesting forever. Even the Hong Kong protests have leaders that if the government wants to negotiate, they know who to call.

Another thing is that most of the twitter influencers, adding salt and maggi to the protests, firing up the protesters, preaching about how the protesters must go back and never back down, are not even in Nigeria. One Nigerian doctor in the UK and another Dipo something in the UK. The UK based Dipo was even invited to a zoom meeting held yesterday between the CBN governor, dangote, elumelu and other influential protesters, to show you how influential he is concerning the protests. If these protests lead to chaos, they will be there safe in the UK while the ones here that have refused to be sensible will be the ones to pay the price.

Some are even already throwing jokes about war in Nigeria on twitter and how they cant wait for it and many are laughing. I just shake my head. If only they have seen war.

Now that the protesters have shown that they're are not reasonable and even having clashes with thugs, I believe full military force is justified, before this thing leads to Civil War. If they don't agree to take a break and dialogue like any reasonable person should, then roll out the tanks and guns and we can redact Tiananmen Square here in Nigeria.

Another scary thing is the funding for the protests. If funding was just from within the country, I wont be concerned, but I am particularly scared about the funding coming from outside the country (over N35Million now). Even yesterday, the flutterwave account was said to be shut down by the cbn (which later turned out to be false, it was temporarily suspended by the company's chairman due to suspicious activity) and they continued accepting donations by bitcoin and crypto, boasting that they are untraceable and the CBN cannot control these.

It made me think to myself, so this is how foreign actors, enemies, foreign terrorist groups will freely fund movements that can tip this country into turmoil.

I can imagine the joy going on at the Elysee Palace in Paris. France's biggest geopolitical foe is on the brink of chaos. They tried weakening Nigeria by breaking it up during the civil war and failed. They have another opportunity now, to destroy Nigeria finally and be the major uncontested power in West Africa. It's inconceivable that French intelligence will not be looking to take advantage of this situation. They might already be part of those providing funds to keep these protests going.

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you make sense, but on the theory of funding am not surprise.. most Nigerians are into fraud, illegality in daily survival hence the great support... why didn't they protest when the government increase electricity tariff and increase fuel price aftermath of corona.... the only reason I support this protest is for the innocent Nigerians among us who have fall victims to this monsters.. if not there more pressing need to protest than end SARS... which to me is not possible they can only reform it and create a bureaucracy where the activities of the police is monitored and are held accountable... simple...

to me the protest as done is work, now to the police force is no more business as usual again... any futher protest to me will eventually backfire.. cause its just a matter of time people with another agenda will highjack it

when God created black people especially Africans he bombarded us with so much emotion and less logic in our thinking..
op I feel you, but many who read your article will never understand what you mean. you see it takes a mind that is rational and cleanse from is emotion and bias to think logically
like I have said before anybody that believe that by protesting the government will end SARS is deluded. the best the government can do is to reform it and create a bureaucracy where the activities of the police is monitored and are held accountable. which for me the protest to this stage have achieved.
but any protest further than this we will play to the government hands....

did they tie you with her? dumb that bitch... I will rather be alone and have my sanity than to be with someone that will lead me to my early grave

Gondonu:
Why banning peaceful protests? Perhaps Nigeria is back to the days of military infamy wherein the voice of the people are suppressed but the people will always win.

what is peace full about the protest blocking roads and depriving people the right of movement

jokers.... IG order no more road blocks, IG says bail is free, now is no more checking of phones....
it seems there is miscommunication among top ranks officer to there subordinate.

what do I know if the president can order the igp of police to locate to a particular state during crisis and after a couple of month the president later finds out he never did... so na igp I go kon believe mheeeeeew!

wake up guy... the only reason this protest was successful is because there was nobody heading it.... and most Nigeria are into crime, fraud and illegal activities hence the need tag in, imagine naira Marley leading a protest... am not saying innocent people haven't falling victims to this monsters...
don't you wonder after lockdown the government increase electricity and fuel price in the midst of foodstuffs been expensive in the market and nobody have the thought to think of protesting...
in conclusion there is a unconscious agenda in this protest and it doesn't change anything.

when you try to cut cost and put small change in your pocket.... here is the result... op I hope no lost of lives at site.... hope you get help good luck...

its normal, I guess sowore is just been jealous because he is not in there shoes.... there is always a agenda for activist... but this end SARS I believe by next week we will all get bored and another story will be trending.
hence the only benefit I believe will come out of this protest will be no more business as usual again for the Nigerian police and other unit under it.