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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by BigDawsNet: 8:39pm On Oct 17
Super controlling...

Tho i ignore because of the love and feelings...

She belive its her duty to control because she's a rich kid...

Not knowing wealthy pass rich... I just they live coded life for her...

Because i was taught by my people that's how I can get a perfect woman

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by choo: 8:48pm On Oct 17
luscioustrish:
Red flags
.
Naked pictures of girls
.
Messages on FB, Snapchat, Insta message on hookups.
.
Denied having anything to with me because of knacks.
.
I stylishly called off the wedding preparations when some of the girls including exes started calling and sending me messages.
.
Movement.

Had a tear or two run down my face reading this. You must really be a strong woman. It takes a really brave person to call of the wedding. The signs are always there but we always lie to ourselves it would get better in our favour.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by annayawchee: 9:07pm On Oct 17
1. She rarely call

2. Arrogant

3. Las Las she posted a guy's pic and wrote this love thing on it and confronted her and she got angry and ignored my texts. ..


It's been two weeks without her in my life.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by angelfallz(m): 10:53pm On Oct 17
Agbebakun22:




I prefer to fear women than devil i'm currently facing one shit like this now.... Some girls are the one turn some guy's to beasts.... Fear women

There's nothing to fear from women. It's males like you that have convinced themselves to fear women.
If you're a man with self esteem, with respect for himself, a man that knows what he wants from a woman and this life, you would naturally not fear women, because when you come in contact with a woman that does not respect you, you jump and pass, when you come in contact with a woman that is not showing you the qualities you want from a woman, you jump and pass.
But because you don't have any of the qualities I mentioned and because you don't know what you want from women and life, you're always scared of women.
Did our forefathers fear women?

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by WrittyWritter(f): 11:12pm On Oct 17
Powerfly:
Fake life, lies and being overly materialistic and ever- demanding but never
willing to give made me give up on her, but she was a badass in
bed. after sex, we can't even hold a decent, intelligent
conversation, aside the latest hair-do, sneakers, make-up and parties. I just realised that we weren't
compartible on any
level.

her ..are u a lesbian..no offence oo
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by WrittyWritter(f): 11:15pm On Oct 17
Blackmoran:
me I dated a girl that was so needy, then I through it was cool cause is so rare to meet their type.... every seconds this girl will bombard me with calls, if she see me with other girls she will turn it into a war...
the deal breaker was the day I came home late I don't know how this girl got my boss number and called him and complained that I don't give her much attention... that night I decided am done, the next morning I woke up with a suicide letter on my bed, I ran to the parlour this babe was piercing her self with a needle, I have to console her I waited till weekend when I know she will go on a visit, I parked all her stuff out of my house and I change the locks to my door.. that was the end of her.. later after some month I discover this babe was suffering from a disorder BPD meaning bipolar personal disorder.. thank God for my life

Thank God oo...but wat u did was know of wrong u should have tried to get her some kind if help.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by WrittyWritter(f): 11:15pm On Oct 17
Blackmoran:
me I dated a girl that was so needy, then I through it was cool cause is so rare to meet their type.... every seconds this girl will bombard me with calls, if she see me with other girls she will turn it into a war...
the deal breaker was the day I came home late I don't know how this girl got my boss number and called him and complained that I don't give her much attention... that night I decided am done, the next morning I woke up with a suicide letter on my bed, I ran to the parlour this babe was piercing her self with a needle, I have to console her I waited till weekend when I know she will go on a visit, I parked all her stuff out of my house and I change the locks to my door.. that was the end of her.. later after some month I discover this babe was suffering from a disorder BPD meaning bipolar personal disorder.. thank God for my life

Thank God oo...but wat u did was know of wrong u should have tried to get her some kind of help.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Powerfly(f): 11:15pm On Oct 17
WrittyWritter:

her ..are u a lesbian..no offence oo
yes! No offense taken. Na wetin i be.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by WrittyWritter(f): 11:17pm On Oct 17
we way we no get story

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by WrittyWritter(f): 11:17pm On Oct 17
Powerfly:


yes! No offense taken. Na wetin i be.

okay

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Blackmoran(m): 12:08am On Oct 18
WrittyWritter:


Thank God oo...but wat u did was know of wrong u should have tried to get her some kind of help.
help?!!!!!!!! are you kidding me? go and make your research about bipolar personal disorder.. and come and tell me to help her!!

majority of guys are dating such kind of girls and thinking they are in love.. until the lady stab him or kill herself then they will now blame it on the guy and call it domestic violence, not knowing the real cause...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by doris4u(f): 12:24am On Oct 18
I saw the signs but love beclouded my judgement, finally he broke up with me.
I trusted him too much that he betrayed me even after confiding in him about pasts which I never opened up to anyone.
I realized some people can be demons in human form.
Later tried to be friendly, just kept to myself for my own peace of mind and sanity.
Unfortunately he was one of the guys I had genuine love and feelings for in a long while.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by SavageResponse(m): 12:26am On Oct 18
N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) She once asked me for permission to sleep with another dude.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished! angry

7 f**king years just dating?! shocked

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Ffolksy: 12:36am On Oct 18
I'm picking up on the red flags right now.

1. He says he will do something as small as calling me back and he doesn't.

2. He says he will never disrespect because I'm different and then does number 1. Also this implies he is a disrespectful person and he will choose to be respectful to me. You either respect people or you don't. You don't pick and choose who you will respect and who you will disrespect. Respect is a state of being and not doing.

3. He won't take no for an answer because I'm not interested due to 1 & 2 and he won't leave me alone. I ignore his calls and he keeps calling. I turn down his dates and he won't stop asking. I have shouted at him to get the message that I am not interested but he says he loves my voice and he wants to hear it for the rest of his life.
I have blocked his number and he uses another number to call me. He either has zero self respect or he is a sociopath either way I won't be his victim. What a psycho.

Hi, you write so well.

By the way, are you in two versions here? there's also a Nobody that comments as a guy.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by LightOnScams: 12:40am On Oct 18
Wow, nice thread.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by LightOnScams: 12:41am On Oct 18
Wow, nice thread.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by LightOnScams: 12:42am On Oct 18
Wow, nice thread.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by djon78(m): 12:44am On Oct 18
angelfallz:


There's nothing to fear from women. It's males like you that have convinced themselves to fear women.
If you're a man with self esteem, with respect for himself, a man that knows what he wants from a woman and this life, you would naturally not fear women, because when you come in contact with a woman that does not respect you, you jump and pass, when you come in contact with a woman that is not showing you the qualities you want from a woman, you jump and pass.
But because you don't have any of the qualities I mentioned and because you don't know what you want from women and life, you're always scared of women.
Did our forefathers fear women?


Exactly
Did our forefathers fear women?
When they married them plenty


Like you said
Many men don't have a respect for themselves
So they take shi.t from women

When a woman knows that you are a no nonsense man that has great regards for himself
They themselves will tow in line

In addition
Many men are very needy
In relationships
So they become suckers

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 12:44am On Oct 18
anochuko01:
I believe it's just courtesy to ask somebody to "come and eat", she never does that.

Gets angry and acts cold when corrected.

Always say she can't kneel down for her hubby.

She's always saying she doesn't share her food.

She makes no effort in understanding my job.

Never spent a dime for me.



Verdict: though she's loyal because of her background as a pastors child, she's also arrogant and selfish. My mind's made up anyways, na just natter of time.
grin grin grin grin
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 12:45am On Oct 18
WrittyWritter:
we way we no get story
I need one Abeg
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Chii59(f): 12:49am On Oct 18
A man who lies pass devil
A man who is still in touch with his ex
A man who promises love or marriage within weeks of meeting a girl
A man who's always right in his opinion.
A man who "forgets" to call back.
A man who says he has no friends
A man who is highly suspicious of others ...
Those are the ones I can remember for now
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by jagorinho: 12:51am On Oct 18
czarr:
Women just want the social status that comes with having a boyfriend, but not the loyalty and restrictions that comes with it.

women are backwards and sneaky....a woman wouldn't want to cheat on you if she can't derive the taboo pleasure that comes with sneaky behaviour, that's why they prefer to sleep with your brother or best friend. avoid women that love male attention.

splendid!!! after done and dusted they will emotionally blackmail the unlucky guy, but the attribute of women that scared me greatly is their ability to conjure tears suddenly when they are caught in their games, it seems the gland producing tears in females is perforated at many junctures..... if a man can overcome the manipulations of a crying woman, that man is the real deal.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by LightOnScams: 12:52am On Oct 18
Wow, nice thread.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by LightOnScams: 12:53am On Oct 18
Wow, nice thread.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by N2B2: 1:43am On Oct 18
SavageResponse:


7 f**king years just dating?! shocked

3 of that was long distance. And for the remaining 4, she refused to go beyond anything bf/gf.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by luscioustrish(f): 5:17am On Oct 18
choo:


Had a tear or two run down my face reading this. You must really be a strong woman. It takes a really brave person to call of the wedding. The signs are always there but we always lie to ourselves it would get better in our favour.


It is well jare
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Agbebakun22(m): 5:51am On Oct 18
angelfallz:


There's nothing to fear from women. It's males like you that have convinced themselves to fear women.
If you're a man with self esteem, with respect for himself, a man that knows what he wants from a woman and this life, you would naturally not fear women, because when you come in contact with a woman that does not respect you, you jump and pass, when you come in contact with a woman that is not showing you the qualities you want from a woman, you jump and pass.
But because you don't have any of the qualities I mentioned and because you don't know what you want from women and life, you're always scared of women.
Did our forefathers fear women?



I understand where you are going but I know what I want in life, how will a guy love a girl with his whole heart, no fighting have been dating for a year now, everytime in the relationship I do asked her I hope i'm not doing what you don't like, she will reply no I'm not, normally we are kind of few miles away relationship but we do see once a month or so for the past year, communication is very effective, this is a girl I promise I will do everything possible in nearest future to wife her but recently I found out some negative attitude from her so I decided to ask her bestie I find out she already dating another guy in their hood when I called and I asked her about it she said the true, she say she still love me and don't wanna broke up with me and I so much love this girl... That's the reason why I brought that comment up, pls can u give me tips on what to used and besides we're are still in our youthful age but by few years I should be ready for marriage.. Thanks
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by kokaneprodigy(m): 6:08am On Oct 18
Agbebakun22:




I understand where you are going but I know what I want in life, how will a guy love a girl with his whole heart, no fighting have been dating for a year now, everytime in the relationship I do asked her I hope i'm not doing what you don't like, she will reply no I'm not, normally we are kind of few miles away relationship but we do see once a month or so for the past year, communication is very effective, this is a girl I promise I will do everything possible in nearest future to wife her but recently I found out some negative attitude from her so I decided to ask her bestie I find out she already dating another guy in their hood when I called and I asked her about it she said the true, she say she still love me and don't wanna broke up with me and I so much love this girl... That's the reason why I brought that comment up, pls can u give me tips on what to used and besides we're are still in our youthful age but by few years I should be ready for marriage.. Thanks
You better leave the relationship, I know you won’t take my advice but trust me it will end in tears.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Agbebakun22(m): 6:16am On Oct 18
kokaneprodigy:

You better leave the relationship, I know you won’t take my advice but trust me it will end in tears.


Thank you is already ending in tears, I'm just finding it difficult for now but I will look for ways for me to forget about her totally

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by kokaneprodigy(m): 6:20am On Oct 18
Agbebakun22:



Thank you is already ending in tears, I'm just finding it difficult for now but I will look for ways for me to forget about her totally
The pill is bitter just swallow it, the sooner you do the better for you.

Block her on all social media block and delete her numbers, delete her pictures and conversations from your phone. Go out and hang out, work on your personal development. In weeks you’ll forget about her and look back and see you made a great decision.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Agbebakun22(m): 6:26am On Oct 18
kokaneprodigy:

The pill is bitter just swallow it, the sooner you do the better for you.

Block her on all social media block and delete her numbers, delete her pictures and conversations from your phone. Go out and hang out, work on your personal development. In weeks you’ll forget about her and look back and see you made a great decision.




Thank you bro.. God bless
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by Temmylee01(m): 6:36am On Oct 18
angelfallz:


There's nothing to fear from women. It's males like you that have convinced themselves to fear women.
If you're a man with self esteem, with respect for himself, a man that knows what he wants from a woman and this life, you would naturally not fear women, because when you come in contact with a woman that does not respect you, you jump and pass, when you come in contact with a woman that is not showing you the qualities you want from a woman, you jump and pass.
But because you don't have any of the qualities I mentioned and because you don't know what you want from women and life, you're always scared of women.
Did our forefathers fear women?
if you stay in abuja call this number 09054032403 will like to buy you chilled orijin. Chao you spoke my mind........

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