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Dpsychologist:
Are u male or female

Female

Ok

Dpsychologist:
Keys to seduction 2: Get the basics

Several great books have been written teaching men’s dating advice. Models by Mark Manson clarifies the mindset an attractive man has in a visceral, easy-to-understand way. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene uses powerful historical examples to help you understand the psychology of what makes people fall in love. The Game by Neil Strauss is a brilliant work that has introduced millions of men to the idea that they can learn success with women like any other skill (although it is certainly not a useful guide for how to do so). Many other books have also been written both locally and globally on dating that i cannot mention here.

Although these books have offered tremendous value to men across the world, they are all missing something. Something that I believe is necessary for anyone who wants to learn success with women. These books tell you what to do, and even why you should do it. Yet they don’t address the reality that learning the skillset necessary for success with women is a messy process.


Knowing what to do and why it works isn’t enough, there is a wide gap between information and the successful real-life implementation of that information. The principles, values, and strategies in the aforementioned books are useful, but knowing what to do isn’t the same as having the tools to systematically implement that knowledge in your real life.

Everyone knows that they should cut fast food out of their diet to lose weight, yet few people do. We’ve all tried to change our lives for the better, and whether we were aiming to improve our career, relationships, fitness, or anything else; the fact that we knew what we wanted and how to accomplish our goal wasn’t always enough. In fact, most people rarely successfully accomplish their goals.

Why, though?

Can you write about women too?

suaveBrother:
... hehe the comments here are just hilarious ...

I swear! I am shedding tears from laughing so hard.

Temysteve:
see ur life outside, did u even pray today?

I'm shy... I pray everyday. Sunday ain't my prayer day. Everyday is teaching and prayer

Oluwadamilare118:
Smile...
Imagine.

Abi. No sense of date again. If there is anything like that

[quote author=Leafflet post=89134410]200 people is hardly a village.. the Sentinelese tribe is estimated to be 20 people or lesser even.. some say 50 others say 100. So they can’t be brought up here. The gospel is in India [/quotel]

I am lost here, enlighten me please. How my comment is about sentinelese tribe. Never heard of them.

Oh today is sunday!

Plus10:
Jesus said in Matthew 24:14 that the end will come when the gospel has been preached to all nations of the Earth.

My question is "are there nations or places where the gospel has not been preached?

No. As concerning what Jesus was saying matt 24 has been fulfilled.

In matt 24:34 he was referring to a particular generation. Which has been fulfilled in the destruction on Jerusalem in 70 AD.


Nothing to fear it has happened. Just keep preaching.

iykbethany:
Brother I'm here to kill boredom. Check some of the interesting articles I none made front page. I knew this one will be sent to the front page right away for traffic lol

Lol, I get. Congrats

iykbethany:
I have just 3k and I want to cook soup that will last at least one week for a family of 12, that is me, my wife and our 10 children. My wife is 8 months pregnant and I don't want to disturb her. Please recommend the cheapest soup for a family of 12. Thanks

I wanted to offer to send you something to add to the 3k but I checked your profile and realize you can even send me something.

Sad story though.

In times like these, everyone is super security conscious with little or no training, just pure gut feelings and your guts can be wrong at times.

Right now the gut is useful and also dangerous. Won't blame them too much better to be safe than sorry.

crackland:
Your ability to comprehend is spectacular.

Thank you crackland.

rockstarB:
1) I wonder what step mum means tho, except her mum is a baby mama and this woman is the only wife? So yes it is a polygamous family.

2) is there a law in Nigeria that stops women from going back to their fathers house due to one negative reason or the other? Are you the type of person that would rather let his or her sister die in an abusive marriage because she doesnt have the right to her fathers house as much as any legal wife The dad has clearly not complained because he understands.

3) she should rather die in silent because nature has decided to be unfair to her and her husband abi? She poured hot water on an innocent little girl, who knows what she will do tomorrow? You clearly dont know the dynamics of a polygamous family. Even if it is not, she needs to speak up for her child. I do not have an alternative accommodation for her but silent isn't the best answer.

4) clearly she is a devil because a man(tiarababy) dad has been taking her excesses.

She can rake, but she has no prove. See I have heard stories while growing up just to hear a different version now. People always misunderstand each other in situations like this.

Funny enough the lil girl might be saying how she saw it, what if the step mother was trying to prevent the water poring on the baby and the lil girl saw it Luke she poured it.

She should focus her energy on maintaining her lane and leaving the house. God will take care of her.

What kind of nonsense is that, there are ways you can fight, that you won't lift a finger.

She can come to her fathers house but there are limits

crackland:
1. How did you arrive at the conclusion that it is a polygamous family?

2. How can a married daughter whose husband is alive have rights as much as the legal wife of her father in his house?

3. Your solution is that she should fight and invite the whole neighborhood to a house she moved back into because her husband lost his job.
Do you have alternative accommodation for her?

4. The stepmother is a devil's incarnate as far as I can sense...but what do you say about a grown-up lady complaining about not being fed by her step-mum?

I wonder how a married child will have right more than the married wife.

The advice don't bring honor at all.

Just make money and leave the house. She will respect you later maintain maturity.

dawnomike:
The issuance of firearms license was stopped January 2020...

I think its wise

Go to your Neighbor you will get help

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

Madam let me be honest with you.

First, your step mother and father doesn't owe you a meal, you are not their responsibility, whatever they do is a privilege not a right. Its your lil brothers right though. Anytime they do is for kindness. Just pray things turn out well for your husband. I understand that you can't work now just start mentally getting yourself out of that house look for how to make money on your own.

Secondly, since you didn't report initially and have no prove, assume that you accidentally poured water on your baby, the baby will heal fast and most likely won't leave a trace. You father saying you should forget it is not wrong. Stop living like there is a conspiracy, even if there is ignore and take it one day at a time.


You will leave this stage, just make the best out of it. Take care

DominusPrime:
The irony of it all is that ladies didn't drop any real secrets. Only one or two did. Why are women so secretive and yet some girls on that thread are crucifying men for being scum.

That's why its a secret, no matter what it is hard for us to spill.

I'm in a relationship and I don't have one secret(like skeleton in my cupboard, maybe only things that are insignificant like I dance when on one is watching) and to the best of my knowledge he is open too.


I believe being open is important, if I don't like the way you smell I will tell you and we must go shopping for a better smell.


I am certain that women have the ability to keep secrets till they die they won't even tell their shadow. Its a woman's thing we can even marry someone we don't love. We dey pretend.

DominusPrime:
If you read the secrets from women you'd actually throw up

Had to go and eat, going back now.

tchidi066:
Can't believe the kind of comments I'm reading here, it shows that relationships these days are nothing but sham, you men should continue, one-day you would meet your waterloo, what goes around comes around.

I want to throw up, feeling really sick in my stomach, and I plan on reading all secrets. Don't know if I can last till the fifth page.

kingzjay:
I'll just be in my closet hoping to wake up and discover all these things happening were mere dream.


First Easter I'll celebrate without Chicken stew... Nothing nothing.... Chai.


Yet our house of Reps bought themselves Exotic cars in the face of our adversities....

You are not alone

Stephenmoka4:
what ? Corona spoil market otherwise, both of us should zap one fast food. To leave house here, problem no. 2

Abi we have been corolated.

Stephenmoka4:
Hi, happy Easter to you and your family

Thank you Stephen, just me and an imaginary chicken .

Happy easter to you too.

Stephenmoka4:
Men who cheat or wants to; will always find a way of making it seem okay, imagine comparing women to an abstract concept. Gracias and amen

Yea

Oluneutral:
20 states already!


This thing sha want to spread to every state of the country, na wa o, I'm just beginning to be afraid, especially now that the core Northern states are involved. My fear is how will those almajiris observe social distancing, how can they be washing hands regularly and do they even know what's called sanitizer? Who will help tell them, who will they obey? This is seriously serious!

Lord, have mercy

Funny enough I am not more scared of this virus. Yes stay safe but please don't go paranoid.


Stay off nairaland for like two days and just enjoy isolation and stop keeping a tab on the increase.


Then you will be more at peace.

Stephenmoka4:
How does it feel taking just oxygen, try other gas like ammonia or hydrogen sulphide. BTW his dad might not be up for anything, he's just over reacting not uncommon for single or rejected guys to get jealous for any little thing.

You will live long. Love the reply. They are not tired of oxygen o.. ESE oo

godkiller:
Why should a grown up man think with his fingers?

I want a team of volunteers who would teach Nigerian youths solar panel production. We need to start a revolution.

When you get I want to learn

No they shouldnt.

Some people can't handle privileges, they will over do it. If they relax it they shouldnt have arrested funke and her husband, she relaxed the law because of her celebration.

Let them continue.

dejt4u:
3 + 5 × 2(7) = 3 + 5 × 14 = 3 + 70 = 73


Answer is 73

Where is the two from. Please

Bigdaddy234:
73 correct, thanks brother

Far from The answer na

The answer is 32.