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tobodex:
What is the meaning of this dream, good response please: At times I have dreams where I see myself in my secondary school, even though I have graduated from there since 1993. I see my self in d hostel environment (cause I went to a boarding school), even the hostel locker I used I will see myself around there. Please I really need to know what this dream mean....whether good or bad ...and if there is a way to stop it if it's has negative effect.

hi dear good evening, hOw are things with you well dreaming about ur skul u left yrs ago is a sign of backwardness physically or spritually it cld also be that u have some unfinished business dere My advice fo. You is dat you give your life to christ if u haven't den use prayer points. And scripture against backwardness nd stagnation. I see you are struggling in life God will help you Peace

Y will u borrow money to get married haaa that's not nice na @ all ladies trynot to over push ur men nd Men nor de over please una ladies. Biko cut ur coat according to ur material

nlfan:
I'm a lady o, and I will not allow her take this attitude near my husband, I actually keep her far from the people in my life, I don't let her in

Better oOo

Get ready oo cos dis is just de beginining she's feeling inssecured like aftter labouring 4 u now u have money u want to start helping others nd she's going to take dis attitude. To ur wife seeing her as a pontential threat u better be careful love ur mum but always. Put her in her place wen she misbehaves God will Help u peace

lxvi8xii:
Thank you onegai, cococandy and trypai. I don't have a schedule for feeding baby, baby eats anytime anywhere. I don't let baby sleep over 4 hours without feeding. My consolations are the over soaked diapers and the hyperactivity.

For those that exclusively breastfed without water what was the longest time that your baby went without pooping.

I made sure I didn't buy feeding bottle set to strengthen my resolve and I am hoping that I won't need to express fortunately I am a work from home mum.

And I am female.

Another observation, in the 7 weeks thanks to God Almighty my baby has no cold, catarrh or congestion even though I had terrible cough and cold in my last two weeks before delivery and 3 weeks postpartum. And I have lost 12 kg without moving an inch.

mybaby. Stayed for two weels without pooing as long as de baby is farting he's alrite eventually he will poo. I did exclusive bf my son is 1yrr 8mnths now nd de highest he ever hbas is headache nd fever that's all so hang in dere its stressful but @ de long run its worth it

Nigga44:
Any guy that cries for a girl is nothing but a weak-minded idiott

I agree but u for nor call de guy idiot lol if a guy cries for me I go over break up with am is he crazy?

Most of our nigerian men need reorientation uhave to know that helping out @ home or with de kids won't reduce ur status as a man if anything it builds love nd trust in a rellationship

sud12:
Y didn't she expose everythin Am wonderin which kind of man will marry her!!!

she's married with a child

Breaking free was my bet unil I read it online dat sugni will marry vikram that's thrash I ttot she will end with adi but de gave her vikram instead, reeva go divorce vikram bla bla de just spoilt it for me Married again will alway remain ma best

The 1st time I met ma hubby I was like who's dis hehehehe he was wearing tims, baggy was cool tho but wasn't love @ 1st site @ all but wen I started loving him I knew. It was him or no one else nd I am proud of ma decision

I dunno abt others but ma dad is de most amazing man ever nd I love him way more dan my mum I always used ma dad as a standard 4 de man I will marry Lol daddies are amazing

lastpage:
but this is a common thing within the household of "big men" where madam sleeps with the driver her husband employs to drive her around or the houseboy he employed to help her with house chores.

No biggy, it goes both ways and l only pity those at the receiving end.

BTW: How come women never complain (and men dont too) when the husband employ "adult house boy"?


Lastpage!

hohoho I dunno Oo

Toks2008:
come to think of it.

A maid washes my cloths and that of the baby

makes my food

runs errands for me

Always at my beck and call

makes the bed
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.will it be out of place if i start admiring her?

Yes and Yes its wrong let's look @ it dis way a man is never around nd de maid is a guy who does all de above mentioned and madam starts admiring him is it justifiable? U are just jusstifying. Cheating any man who can sleep. With his hux help can sleep with hi wifes sister sshikena

hotterthanfire:
Good day nairalanders, I had to hide behind a new moniker to post this for security reasons, pardon me please.

I've been married for five years and blessed with three great kids, 2 boys and a girl. My husband and I believed that our third child will be our last so we can take proper care of them in terms of quality education and other basic things of life. We both work and earn well, to an extent we are comfortable.

I got the shocker of my life two days ago when my PT test came out positive. I do not know how or when it happened, I have been very careful with my body system and DH cooperates very well, we have never had any issues with family planning, all our kids were well spaced, but this came as a very big shock to us.

Since then I've been so depressed and unhappy because this is not what I want or planned for, I have cried and cried and cried, I don't know what to do. Please don't get me wrong, children are blessings from God, I really appreciate that, but the timing for me is wrong. Right now I cannot do otherwise.

My biggest challenge is how to pull thru, how to carry the baby to term. Ever since I had my third child I've been battling severe waist pain, for which I've taken all manner of medication yet no relief. DH has been encouraging me, promising support and all that (though initially he didn't find the news funny), but that is the much he can do. The whole burden still falls on me.

Right now am frustrated, depressed, very unhappy because i know the goals I've set for my self. But with another baby on the way its like taking three steps backward and its really killing me.

Please words of encouragement, support and healing plus prayers is what I need from you my fellow Nlanders.

God bless you all.

my love I understand how u feel just endure this may just be the greastest child u ever have and by the way 4kidss nor bad @ all na don't worry abt resources I assure u doors will open for u nd hubby let's toast tto de new angel CHEERSs

zadok60:
sweet?...



shoro niyen?
bross its not o

lol good morning ma dad was like dat too maybe that's y I see nofin wrng with itt

zadok60:
why should a father be bathing his daughter?...small or big its not right.

y is it wrong ? Dads are closr to dere gals I seee nofin wrong wit it abg its sweett

I wonder y people are inssulting the man ma dad did it even washed mma clothss as an adult I remeber when ma ssister was in final year she was sick purging nd menstral pain ma dad bathe her nd cleand her up so dere is absolutelynothng wrong with what the man is doing ass long ass he's not abusing de gal I see dis as been sweet nd amazing for thos of u shouting psychological effect nothing will happen to de gal. She will eveentually grow out of It. God blesss d man as long as no bad intention may he live long

michaelcipher:
I don't wanna take ur response a been funny but if u r saying its a sin, lemme ask you what will you do if after 12yrs with valid medical result of been medical fine ur wife can give u a child. What will you do.

my dear having sex before marriage doesn't change anyfin I had a family friend who was pregnan before marriage lost it due to stress nd tool yrs to concieve while me on de other hand I got married as a virgin nd had ma baby 9mnthss 2days after ma white wedding. So to your question sex b4 marrriage is a very big sin especially if u are a born again christian and all de issues u mentioned above can be checked medically so I believe u don't need to have sex outside wedlock to taste urself plus that's y dree is something called discenment

From 21 upwards as long as u don finish school nd see de rite man

Your mum is ok now even if she stay with you for10 yrs her Bp won't go down cos it comes wit age mosst times you are just been very insensitive adding more work for your wife from dis story u practically live nd die for ur extended family take ur mum back home get her a phone nd call her. Always ur wif needs space

Yes oo even more than the mother sef my dad is de perfect definition

mrborntodoit:
Find out about her google is your friend

naaa I don dee follow up her story since I tot sshe will get better anyway Good orning have a blessed week ahead

mrborntodoit:
Chei!

The level of drug addiction in the US of A is overwhelming, imagine mother and child dying from the same drug related issue . But come to think of it, the adopted Nick Gordon might be a killer knowing fully well that the lady in question wouldn't just want to die like her mom.


If na for 9ija, na village witches dem for dey blame now

she didn't die of a drug overdose coss no drug was found in her sysstem. She was in an abusive relationship read again thee cAse isss been treated as. Murder her adopted brother nd boyfriend is de suspect. WOMEN run from men dat abuse u physically or emotionally. Rip gal

amacastel:
Ya bu na ibu onye igbo buru kwa onye edo chineke wechighara gi ajo ihe nile ibu na obi ebe ndi igbo no . My advice to u on ur topic is mind ur bizness and go and find ur own house though ur story is mere fabrication to stain igbo women

u are an unserious fellow ihe ojo obula. Buna obi so achi kwa gi if u think by insulting m u are dfending ur tribe my dear u are not serious stop quoting me biko take ur troubl to some one that is intrested

amacastel:
U be igbo pass me for where onye asi kwanyere onwe gi ugwu hapu anyi bu ndi igbo aka , how dare u speak ill of the most blessed tribe u deserve to be stone to death or even more. Igbo indeed onye ori obodo

ok anulam chukwu gozie. Gi ka chifo

All d ppl saying NO y ? Are de not human beings hmmmm @ op ben from a seperated home doesn't matter de most important thing is de lady involved nd her ideas about marriage not de home she comes from #peace#

amacastel:
May Amadioha strike that ur uselsess hand with paralysis and ur smelly mouth with dumbness for calling igbos bad name chia we igbos don suffer imagine edo person calling igbo adulterer wonders sha never end edo does not not have any mineral resources except commercial sex work married,single,separated, widow both young and old
@ the op for mentioning igbo , u are a tribal bigot ur story is biggest fabrication of the year and total rubbish must u call igbo make una leave us alone biko

lol weldone as u don curse urself amen to dat prayer for you nd I be ibo pass u try nd be reasonable u for talk wetin de ur mind witout insults good nit

This is my problem with ibos dem nor de forbid bad thing kia na wa oo pleasse tell your uncle since he's an edo man u knw its an abomination for your wife to sleep wit someone else nd still cook for you save your uncles life by telling him de truth #peace#

Hahahahahahahahaha very good

Davidson267 900: Congrats 2 her...btw why is she so dark?

my dear. Na belle de cuase. Am I was very fair weni wass almost due I turned blacky lol.

FOR1234:
I had these issues of my mum in law coming around when I had my first baby...hummmm she was like a thorn in d flesh. Mum would only participate after I had finished bathing my baby...all she did was to shape the baby's head always wonder if that was necessary....a neighbor thought me how to bathe her for 3 days before she came....mum would still be sleeping around 8am just to wake up and start shaping after....i washed clothes (hers) cooked, cleanedp, did everything .....even when d baby cried she will only call me to carry
..she complains a lot and hisses at the cry.....how will a baby not cry?............I hate when there was light cos you will wonder if she was on set with the actors with her endless comments..... Her food had to be at least five times before dusk....to sleep for me na wahala... Cos no time...midnight baby will resume....hubby wud come back very tired and helped with little
............hummmm am expecting my second baby and I don't know how to tell hubby to make her stay back....I tried to make him see reason why she should leave earlier then but you know men and their sentiments when it comes to der mom......in fact I fell serious ill a month after birth cos of the wahala...it was a huge relief when she finally left on her own......I know some mom in law can be angelic.......,.if urs was please share


Pls if u have one like mine.....what is the best way to cope?

so na u born na u still de take care of her? I always say it don't start what you cantfinish this time around if. She. Comes ignore her do de little you can fo you nd your baby nd if she complains tell her politely that in omugwo modas take care of d duagthers nott de other way. Around