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KINGinVAHALA2:
And divorce keeps happening every hour because the men had later realised they made the greatest mistake of their lives harbouring a nigerian woman as a wife.

Or what better reason do you have to justify the current and rampant cases of divorce?

divorce rate is on the increase all over de world and beside Nigerian ladies are now more open minded not taking all the thrash our men used to put them thru

Yes her first living child is her first fruit you don't expect her to call her dead abi na aborted child her first fruit she didn't even see de child and besides it's her past, so yes her living first child with her hubby is her first fruit. good morning

Houseofglam7:
25 years abi? Who wan old?

she's actually 25 got married on time

pretydiva:
25 years old mom ... is dat her football age or wat

and what's wrong with been 25 and a mum am 25 and am a mum with two kids I also have a friend who's 25 has two kids and pregnant for second one so it's no biggy and it's very possible too

see her looking for boys and me am here asking God for a girl nothing special about having boys you will talk and talk till you tire

is the man still married to his previous wives if yes leave him if no then confront him with your findings and hear what he has to say if he's really remorseful then you have a heart to heart discussion let him come clean and tell you y the previous marriage a didn't work also find out and make sure he's not a wife beater and all then try and forgive him if you can cope then IF you can't move on but am very sure he didn't tell you about his previous marriages cos he knows you won't agree to marry him as for his age it's just but a number. PS : ALL THE AFOREMENTIONED IS ONLY OBTAINABLE IF YOU LOVE HIM TAKE CARE PEACE

chickygirl:
I seriously doubt dt Macos Is d monster child, buh who is locking up Ezekiel's secret room

I believe Eva samaniego is the monster child and not Marcos also she's the one who locked up the secret room so yes am guessing oo

gr8tgg:
@Doremi & blade21, Thanks I appreciate your response, at least this response can help her to know what next. I have bn skeptical about this kind of tradition in this our generation since the lady in question told me this, Because am always very careful when it comes to marital advice, after prayer I like to investigate some fact on my own on behalf whoever, I have bn wondering why a man must not sleep in his father's compound with a lady he want to introduced to his parents.

OK, he said they will sleep somewhere, what is the name of the somewhere? she does not know.
Still investigating for her no one close to me will be a victim of marriage scammers in Jesus name.

he's lying big time infact the guy na scammer hope he doesn't want to use her for rituals she better be careful

gr8tgg:
Is it true that if an Awka man bring a lady to his family (village) just to show his parents the lady he wants to marry, that is highly forbidden for the lady to pass the night in that compound? that their tradition forbids it, that no matter the condition the newly introduced lady must not sleep in the man's father's compound until they are legally married? that they must sleep elsewhere?.

Pls. I need an urgent responses to make sure someone is in a safe hand.

very big fat lie maybe it's the tradition of the family but not for awka people that one is a lie am married to an awka man and am sure i slept over once or twice when I went to see my in laws and nothing happened so na lie Peace

richyblink1:
I don't know how you run your home financially, but there are certain things you shouldn't joke with.

My better half understands when I am a bit down money wise. In fact, we have a monthly budget as well as a yearly target to meet as a family. Once I am paid I will tell her, "Nne, jide nke ghu". Take this one for the running of the house. I have never gone bad with this formula.

Mind you, I run the home without asking for contribution from her. Shop's for her once or twice monthly as well as plan for our tomorrow. Every other thing ranging from attending wedding, and other personal effect are handled by her.

As for her brother calling her unannounced to come over, you are not being a man. Not even my mother in law can call for my wife unannounced. Just as I can't wake up one day telling her that my mum wants to see me.

Curtail Every excesses now before they become a routine

one bottle of wine for you he's so cool y you appealing to her

blesoh:
If she can't understand with you,let her sponsor her trip.

exactly my dear that's what my hubby will do if you don't understand den sponsor yours elf I wonder y he's petting her and she's forming angry Man up biko she's not working and she's walking up and down tell her to sit her ass in a place

slickb:
Congratulations to all d winners...
Salvador was WOW!!

he was my best tonight

Truckpusher:
Wtf is happening to men of nowadays ? You caught your fiancee pants down with a friend in your own very apartment and you're still here seeking for public opinion on what to do ?
Well , the fact that you fainted after witnessing that shiit shows you're a puccy.

Charles deserved a broken head with one eye gone bad forever before leaving for Canada but you chose to faint over a hoe ? smh

am a babe oo but I concur with your post

onatisi:
You maybe right. But that woman worwor oooo. Does pregnancy make women look uglier

yes it does bad bad oo

misspicy:
Some women refuse to take to correction and they think having a MRS to their name is the end of the world



see how black the tommy is,obviously she done turn EFO for the hubby,what kind of pregnancy pigmentation is this one #tueh

tho the lady get bad mouth but it's her pregnancy that cuased the black tummy am naturally light skinned I cream or soap but if you see me with belle you will cry for me i get so dark especially my back and belle so relax it can happen to anybody

if you have that kinda job you will cook more over the weekend infact you cook on Saturdays then refrigerate every other thing you need to cook during the week won't be time consuming like rice , yam Etc on Sundays you dedicate yours elf to the kids checkout their homeworks ask what the have been upto, bond with them, tell them how much you love them despite not been around much, you can also gather money to rent a house not too far from your work place so you don't have to take so long to get home then for the husband part I dunno about others but I have got lots of strength even if you come late I will still play with you a little then the couple may also try and pan so their leave will fall at the same time that way the can spend all the time loving and reloving each other Peace

happy birthday wishing you God's best

Callmemike:
My wife spends 7pm or 8pm- 11p.m. Or 12a.m viewing Zee world series, Monday - Friday. This really pisses me off. Have explained to her in clear terms how this is eroding our marriage, to no avail.

it's eroding your marriage cos you want it to try and be watching with her even if it's not all some of them that way you guys will bond and talk about it for e.g. my bobo loves top gear, extreme engineering Etc I dunno what it's about but I watch with him so we can bond and have what to talk about and he joins me atimes to watch zee world and telemundo so try it

raayah:
My mom loves telemundo. I don't like it myself but when her favourite comes up, and I'm visiting, I join my siblings to watch withe her. We laugh, we scream, we cry, we bond.

After the show, we talk about it a little, and we go to sleep. We wake up the next day, we are still intelligent, we are all excelling at our careers. Our relationships between our partners and friends are still great.

I have been watching telemundo with my mom for over 20 years.

Do you think women are babies that cannot different between movies and real life?

The problem op is describing is simple. Men especially nairaland men cannot stand to see women take joy in anything. We allow you to watch football 90 minutes, play video games, watch 24 and breaking bad.

But God forbid, a woman decides to watch something, Men have a problem with it. Men term the show to be dumb and shitty.

OP maybe you should check yourself, these are signs of internalized misogyny that you are exhibiting. Why don't you want women to be happy and have fun.

Do you feel emasculated because your wife/girlfriend cannot be your slave for one or two hours in a day? Maybe it's time for you to confront the real issue.., your fragile masculinity.

I know you are a babe but oya take kiss

zeeworldfreak1:
..Abeg thank goodess o'jaré...its about time.....watching that show is work yo....at least,we will be done with one regularly scheduled mumulity...remaining the promise...after that one finish...i'm going to zee rehab..its time to cure myself of this addiction ..while I am at it,will try to revive dead brain cells and recover lost I.q points

hahaha my dear oo it's not a small something another annoying one now is Saloni

bebe2:
AY is still in denial,

and i bet thats same thing he did with his wife, denying everything.

note to all guys,

cheating doesnt break your home , is how u handle issues after u ve been caught that

dat determines if ur marraige will survive.

most guys will lie and lie ontop more lies.

if u are really sorry and remorseful then tell her all she WANTS to know.

just breakdown and confess, and show u regret it and u might just scale thru

so so true remeber when my friend caught her hubby cheating de buy didn't deny at all he even confessed some things she didn't know like how se girl was preggy and lost it and all that but long story short he was so remorseful cried for weeks kept on begging and begging till she forgave him

she doesn't have a job that's why she's behaving like this calm down try and get her a job so she works hard and makes money too for herself and stop hiding under the church improve yourself financially and stay blessed

komzyb:
Waoh! DESTINY is coming to an end on the 29th, wonderful, i must say their destiny was rough and tough "they came, they saw and they conquered" good bye in Advance

I can't believe it's finishing before promise arrrrrgggggggghhhhhhh

Yomieluv:
Beat nonsense comot for her body.

story for the gods no be only beat you will just clean her up so she doesn't call donw then keep the butter away from her next time shikena

OP I got married in an Anglican church but before then I was asked to go to registry and give them 21 days notice then I was given 3months to complete my wedding so my wedding certificate is from the federal republic of Nigeria also after my white wedding I was given one of the marriage certificates to take to the registry, if yours didn't go through this process then you need registry.

ronald4lif:
Story. I ain't gonna be any woman wrapper to no woman. I know just how to wow and treat a woman right but I'm not going to discard my mother wit in doing so neither am I going to be a flunky coz I want to be seen as romantic.

Ronald Ronald you never still change na new year be this oo lol good morning

of cos that's the truth becuase when you love your wife and can do anything for her like carry her bag, open the door for her, been sweet and sensitive,defending her in public, correcting her in love Etc people tend to see you as weak thus the woman wrapper phrase

ssoftappless:
OLYMPUS HAS FALLEN

she don breastfeed two kids you want her Olympus to be standing abegi

he doesn't look it at all nice one hbd seal

yes ke who else will i marry if not this wonderful and amazing man God blessed me with he's not perfect neither am I but he's the closest thing to God on earth for me so yes I will marry him over and over again 3years and counting

mizzkweenbee:
I'll try and make this as brief as possible. Have been dating this guy for almost a year now. Things were going smoothly till he travelled(outside the country)early this year, I got to find out he is married but the wife stays outside and he has relocated to go be with her. After he left, his best friend started calling me often, sending me messages, tryna check on me and all that. I didn't really take it serious till few days ago, he called me and was like since we both didn't av a date for val, let him take me out. I obliged. He took me to a fancy restaurant and was telling me how much he has always loved me and had wanted to tell me about his friend but didn't wanna betray him. I was shocked outta ma senses when he brought out a ring and proposed in front of everyone. Now my question is, can u marry ur ex's best friend, can I really trust this guy, isn't he like his friend. He's a nice guy really but I dnt know if i can marry him. Your advice'll really be appreciated.

nothing is wrong with marrying him just get to know him better that's all after no one knows were a person's husband will come from and besides your ex is married so move on I wish you de best