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[quote author=tpia. link=topic=448811.msg6067975#msg6067975 date=1274383416]99% of the virginity threads on nl are opened by men. So talk to them.

it's a man's world, and if the men say they want virgins to marry, that's that.

if they say it's non-virgins they must marry, that's that.

just find the man who springs for your own, whatever your own is.

and as everyone said, a man will wants to cheat will cheat, regardless.[/quote]True talk

It depends on the kind of person she is.
Does she like gifts like material, jewellery, shoes, handbags, etc?
Does she like u guys spending time together?
Would she just prefer the money?
Its vital u know her preference cos u could get her a gift that she won't value.
My husband bought expensive jewellry and shoes for me.
I would have preferred we go somewhere romantic (just the two of us) or he just gave me the money to spend as i wanted.
You could stylishly drop hints and see which one she is more comfortable with.

Better yet, just ask her. I always prefer to know so i can choose wat i like.

manuch:
she wanted super-perversion

What's dat?

I think its a Yoruba thingy cos:
1. the 'church' is made up of mostly Yorubas.
2. It uses Yoruba as the language in their services.
3. Mainly based in the South West.

So say wateva u like, i am not starting any kind of war.

Dolemite:
This guy is a FRAUD, DO NOT CLICK THE LINK IN HIS SIGNATURE, IT HAS A VIRUS INSIDE AND THERE ARE NO EROTIC PICTURES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you have been warned.

Wetin u go dey find for im signature. Erotic Pics?

Don't know about that.
She was just the only one i knew that was deeply into cele.
Also, i still feel its a Yoruba thingy.

toba:
Individual characters most times have nothing to do with the church Even in the best 'church' we have devils

I use Sophos and Windows Defender.
Its the best combination u can imagine.

Cobhams should look after himself.
His appearance is always kinda unkempt.
He should have PR people or something.
Still, i like the song.

Don't mean to derail this thread or anything or even sound tribalistic but why is it prevalent among Yorubas?
Is it because they naturally are into fetish things that when they join 'church' they go bring such stuff in?
I had a matron in secondary school that was cele.
She had 9 children from 4 different husbands and was highly revered in their church.
However, she was very wicked. Won't go into it as i see no reason to flog dead horses.
Also, all her children had one comma or the other.
The first daughter almost killed her husband and had to be arrested. She said she saw it in a vision and her sherpard told her it was okay.
The son that was my age mate and also my classmate in JS1 kept on repeating to the extent that when i was in SS3, he was in SS1 and was just dull.
The second to the youngest was a dada and he was mentally challenged.
These were the kids we had interactions with so i knew their personal stories.
The other ones, na hear say so i won't repeat them here.
We used to peep and watch when they were having 'prayers' in their house.
Enough candle burning, incense etc.
Later heard that they had to ask her to leave when one of her kids attempted to set fire to the school esp the dormitories.

These are my own experiences.

Sin assembly is not super-perversion.

jay bee:
What did you do that warranted such reaction?
BTW, i ain't condoning her action but your babe def ain't mad and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have insulted you for no apparent reason.
Oya tell us what really went down

Yes, i think we need to know the truth here.

I don't know which tribe ur from but traditional wedding is very important in my tribe.
Ur viewed as not married until the traditional wedding is done.
I am wondering why ur folks don't want u guys to do it in absentia.
I am from the East but i did my traditional wedding in my father's house in Abuja cos of all the kidnappings.
My very good friend is not going home to do her's.
It will be done in absentia.
Make up ur mind and stick to it.

Better still, insist that u guys r not going to do it unless u don't have to return home for it.

Afroprince:
Hi good people, i need constructive suggestions pls, i am married with a son, wifey is a student in 3rd yr. I worked as a tv presenter and later moved on to radio as a presenter/producer/DJ, i did this for 4years of my life and loved every minute of it. Later moved to banking where i stayed for 3yrs but now i am an asst mgr in an IT firm, i take care care of their branding issues. My problem now is that cos of skool i stay far from my young family, i am in Lagos and the are in Enugu, secondly i hate Lagos cos i awake 4:30am everyday and leave my house 5:30am to avoid traffic. I earn close to 250k a month with other incentives but yet i am not satisfied with the job, Lagos, the traffic (the fact that i have to struggle driving to & fro work against heavy traffic) and most especially not being close to my family. I just got an appointment to move back to radio in the east, 1hr drive away from my family for a salary of 90k a month, a flat, health insurance and 6months salary review. What should i do? i love media, its my life but taking a paycut of 150k for job satisfaction is scary? i need your honest contributions, u could be saving a life, waiting for your answers, one love!

It might seem like a big paycut but consider the other factors.
The cost of living in the east is way lower than in in Lagos.
N800,000 p.a will get u a massive house in GRA, Enugu but they are already giving u a flat.
U can live in Enugu and work in Awka (just 45mins drive).
Foodstuffs are cheaper, you're closer to your family, etc.
Also, with 7 yrs experience, u can still get a job in another bank should u decide to do so.

You know what to do just pray and commit everything into God's hands.

Obelomo:
I am 5'8 yes I do love real tall men! Sometimes I have to wear high heel shoe and I would feel funny looking way taller than the guy.

Your right my dear.
I am 5'11 and my husband is 6'7.5. It was what attracted me to him.
As i am tall and wear high heels, if my husband no tall, wetin i for do?

I have a friend who is a lot shorter than i am and her boyfriend is almost as short as she is.
Upon that she is short, she cant wear high heels when she is out with her guy.
I tease her everyday that she go born midget if she marry d guy.

Faher:
meaning?

Meaning, its not easy to break up with a chic if you really love her and to get a better person. its just not that easy.

@ topic. I find it very irritating when i see ladies that dis their guys in front of others.
I personally want to physically shut them up.

[quote author=bk/babe97 link=topic=447159.msg6063349#msg6063349 date=1274314760]@ Hackney, Tosag and the other slowpoke, U EVER HEARD OF SOME1 BEING SARCASTIC? NO? OK, NOW I GET your DRIFT. COCKSUCKAS!!![/quote]Sorry, it didn't appear you were being sarcastic. That was a very strong insult. It hurt.

Everything was going fine until Nothing. Everything is still going fine.


What is super-perversion? Don't think its anal cos it would av been censored as well.

If she ever does it again, tell her TO SHUT UP.

Seriously, some chics don't know when to be quiet.

Definitely PDP.

Wow, banned. Would av thought they would av banned the people harassing him.

Where Odiaero? Abi, e don run.

[quote author=bk/babe97 link=topic=447159.msg6062528#msg6062528 date=1274299294]I feel u Mpele, Nigeria is a freakn nation of crooks! Aint that the country that more than 70% of the country is infected with HIV? And they President's name is Jacob Zuma, right? Freakn retard had unprotected .s*eX with a female with full blown Aids and claimed he couldnt get infected cause he took a niceeee, looong, shower!!! lol. Freakn, Nigerians, if they President could be that retarded what u think of the normal citizens? Oh, and didnt their country get taken ova and enslaved by only 15 white men for almost a billion years? lol. hahahahhahaha[/quote]I don't know if you are trying to be funny, parapraxis or just plain ignorant. Zuma, isnt he the president of South Africa?
I think someone needs to go back to primary school and be a better student.

cpatra:
From Islamic point of view, when a man (Senator Yerima) married 4 wives, his death alone will make 4 women widows, but if one of his wives dies, will u call him a widower?

You dey find trouble.

^^^^^

So what do u think or what was the conclusion?