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50pseamer:
I am not saying I am a saint, infact when there are issues , I apologize more easily than my wife. I feel very strongly for my child, I do not want him to suffer, she complained earlier that I was not helping with the baby and I started helping more, after a while, she said we need to go to a counsellor, I have agreed and also searched for a Christian one, but she prefers the one with a degree in psychology,
Sometimes when she offends me I can be blunt, and I might says some words, but not extreme words the words are only an interpretation of the attitude I see.
She knows it all, and does not easily take correction, even when I try to play with her she easily takes offence. Mind you all these never happened while we were dating, I noticed a bit of stubbornness and I tried to correct her , and told her that is one of the attribute I hate the most.
I am at point that I am not sure she loves me , and I don't even know if everything happening in my home is normal.

Op when you're serious about your marriage, youlñ visit a counselor not all these shenanigans her on nairaland with sheepdog advise.

It's best you respect yourself and man up. I don't mean get physical and for all the fools suggesting divorce they can't even break up with thier gf.

Something is missing, there's something that attracted her to you and that you have stopped doing, i blame the economy, it's stressful.

You're an over religious man and so is your wife an over religious pretender.

Go back to basis and visit a marriage counselor not all these fake pastors or elders.
There must be someone your wife honors, talk to the person and let that person talk sense into her.

And for the issue of your mum being a witch, your wife knows it's not true and it's only lack and poverty that makes people brand another a witch, I've never seen a big man or woman being called a witch rather they're called wicked.

Recieve sense and treat your family fuckup.

You're the man, be the man. don't ever stop eating her food, infact eat more and laugh more.

Take her on random dates more.

She's tired of the monotonous activity in her life and as immature as she is, she doesn't even know what's her problem.

Of she watches zee world please ban that rubbish in your house.

adecz:



⏩Mr Blissgod , when will you stop
mixing Igbo with monkey tail & coming
up with such nonsense fiction..


You better take your time.. ☹️☹️

Yes i hear. No more Igbo with monkey tail.

I hop you're happy now.

obyrich:
You are a liar. I have heard this story many years ago.

No body is telling you to believe, i have difficulties believing myself.

I only believed it because the guy the thing happened to doesn't believe in things like these at all and as am talking to you, the sis said he has stopped working there.

So whether he told s lie to stop working i don't know.
The sis called the boss and the boss repeated same story, i don't know what the boss will achieve in lying about it.

Your problem Sha not mine.

I told the story as i was told.

I believe things happen in the world.
Anything is possible now.
Just be careful yourself.

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Govocrete:
Heard this same story in 2008 while still in Lagos. I believe it's a story meant to guide us but not a true story.

I don't know about that but the dude doesn't even believe in all this ritual killings.
He came back that night looking like a ghost according to the sister.
They went to church yesterday to do a Thanksgiving.
All i know is things are happening.

Just be careful.

Geemax:
May our Job not lead to our death...where person dey manage no go kill person

Amen o

Geemax:
May our Job not lead to our death...where person dey manage no go kill person

Amin o

chatinent:
How do pastors get money?

As someone who has worked in church, pastors are big time business men and women.

They see profitable business like anything.

They are connected to people and they easily get access and certain leverages for profitable businesses.

So many rich pastorsj go and investigate thier source of wealth, you'll affirm what i told you.

They're not lazy as the media puts it and say that church feeds them.

That's s cheap lie.

NwaAmaikpe:



I am delighted to hear this.

This brings back a glimmer of hope that we still have women today with our mothers' patience.

Being battered, cheated on, neglected or abused is not good enough reason to end a relationship.
The streets are tougher....why leave your own to go struggle for another person's own who will still treat you worse.

Our mothers suffered worse and they overcame.
May God give more women this spirit of tolerance. It's sad that women can endure menstrual cramps but can not bear a single slap.

You and 60people that liked this post need medical help.

Domestic abuser.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
May we not be unfortunate

We will never ever be unfortunate in this life.
AMEN.

The thing that surprised me most is that this guy doesn't believe in ritual's.

He saw things life with his own eyes.

He is still shaking when I called him this morning. The sister told me he is running an extremely high temperature.

My happiness is that they were spared and not killed. RIP to the dead ones.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
May we not be unfortunate

We never ever be unfortunate in this life.
AMEN.

The thing that surprised me most is that this guy doesn't believe in ritual's.

He saw things life with his own eyes.

He is still shaking when I called him this morning. The sister told me he is running an extremely high temperature.

My happiness is that they were spared and not killed. RIP to the dead ones.

Hello to NAIRALANDERS, what am about to share is 100% real life that just happened yesterday to a friend's brother. It's a long read. Thank you. Happened Nov 25th.

This young man lives and works in Nassarawa as a job man and yesterday according to what happened to them, one big man came to them at their place looking for job men to go do some outside work in Airport road Lugbe.

They were told it's just to fill a pillar and a day job. They agreed. Their oga negotiated price and they entered the car, the five of them entered the car and the man drove them to Abuja, all the remember last was when the car drove past Area1 junction and the man turned on the AC, everyone slept off.

When they woke up, they were at the site. No one knew when they got to that place. They asked them to start work, while they were climbing the ladder, they saw about already 5dead bodies on the ground one of them shouted.

He was shot immediately. They were four gunmen there for each 7tinted tinted SUV and a man dressed in a cleric cloth was standing and telling the gunmen what to do( he's a Pastor)

The remaining four froze and continued work when these guys was about to fill the concrete mix into the pillar, he saw 2 living bodies (2girls) inside the pillars.

Some of them saw a man and a woman tied and dumbed in that pillar (alive), they started filling the pillar with the concrete mix.

Refusal means you'll be shot like the others who have been killed already.

About 5men were killed already and another one of their team was also shot making it a total of six dead bodies in that site.

According to them, they saw carpenters and other people working on that same building. Some of the were busy while some were resting and drinking.

The men were still doing the work till it was around 7pm they told them to enter the car.

Four of them got in and they slept off again. They were dumped at a bush close to sharp corner in the bush. They later woke up and only one thousand was in their pocket, they have to trek almost 45mins to see a car that will transport them back to Maraba.

According to him, that place is either a hotel or a Church.

The man came back to his house around 1pm and he told the story.

I called him again this morning and he told me same story.

The guy was in shock throughout yesterday and even this morning.

He have not been himself.

At their workplace, their oga is suspecting one of the workers to set them up.

NIGERIA IS TURNING INTO SOMETHING ELSE!
PLEASE BE CAREFUL, THIS THING SOUNDS LIKE UNREAL BUT BEFORE MAN AND GOD
THIS THING HAPPENED JUST YESTERDAY.

Am just grateful to God that they didn't kill all of them after doing the work.

Ladies be careful, stop entering free rides, men be careful stop attending unknown interviews.

Please everyone be careful, the days are evil.

Most importantly be prayerful oooooo
Pray and pray for protection the days are evil.

May God protect our family.

ifytrik:
Is that not 04 corolla? Dam! Most naija celebrities are not as rich as we think after all, when I saw the headline I was expecting to see either a range rover sport 2020 version or Lexus Gx470 2020 version but to my greatest surprise, I saw a 04 corolla.
Hmmm I wish him quick recovery anyway

You're a very fake person.

So people that drive spyder Ferrari cannot also own Corolla.

Don't live a simple life and be chasing cheap clout.

Ndimkpurummiri:
Na dem Ndi developer ndi mkpurummiri
no wonder they are clamoring for international airport
they don't want to be caught cheaply again

Ara tapiakwa gị anya ebe ahụ ino.

Nchi taru. Usu.

Wetin concern clamouring for airport with the fraud this fool has engaged, I'll forever stand against drug pushers but to generalise a necessity shows you're a cow.

Ònye nzuzu

I don't know how long you've suspected your wife but us getting more clear that most men in nairaland have a twisted version of relationship, some absorb the things written by children here.

This case between you and your wife is as easy as pie but you decided to complicate matter by posting it on nairaland.

You called her she said she wanted to buy water.
15mins later you showed up and asking for her whereabouts

You called severaly on video call no answer
You called voice call and she answered

You decided to assume she's cheating on you.
From my standpoint that's lame.

She told you that she went for some business issues.
No problem.

YOUR MARRIAGE HAVE ABIG HOLE OF TRUST ISSUES.
NAIRALAND AND THE PEOPLE YOU SEEK ADVICE FROM WIDENED THAT GAP.

If you truly have suspected for quite some time, investigate her yourself.
It's simple, follow her without her knowing trace her and try as much as possible to get into her phone not by force but with sense.

When you gather solid information then make your assertations not assumptions before you destroy a marriage of 9years.

May God give you wisdom and please keep this information to yourself and away from your friends before they pour petrol into this small fire.

Use your sense when everything gbese na your head e go land not thiers.

DubaiLandLord1:
The CBN will soon make a law, if you borrow and you don't pay back... Anytime wey money enter any bank account linked to your BVN, them go comot your money with interest sef.

I don't understand why some of una go dey borrow money without paying back.

Bullshit

It's very clear you don't know anything about the banking system.

The impossibility of what you wrote is raised to power 1billlion.

Do you know how much companies loan from banks that whenever money enters thier account, they'll just wipe it off ��, very funny.

The thing it does is to give you a bad credit score.

joetem:
It's still a fault of the university system, someone just got out of injustice without therapy. Police accused him wrongly and locked up. The lecturer was supposed to refer him to school's counsellor/trauma therapist before announcing to him reason he has to take the siwes the following year instead of just telling him outrightly No!! The lecturer isnt well trainned and has no regard for how student feel. I'm a teacher and i know most of those who parade themselves as lecturers have no biz being in school environment. Now they will cast a judgement on the boy that will turn him to thug forever and he may return to hunt the entire school system. They should rehabilitate the boy if they want to be fair

How do you know he was accused unjustly?
Can you prove it or believe the cook and bull story?
What makes you think he might not be under the influence of drugs?
What fairness, his reason was baseless with no proofs backing him?
Do you know his history academically or socially?

Am not defending the lecturer but any human who lacks self-control doom awaits them.

EXLOVER:
Some years back i wanted to beat one of my female lecturer also, she always rude to me. On that very day, i went to her office very high, my mood was very rugged, she really humbled her self and even offered me a lift after


After that day, we banged till i left that school, non of my friends was away

Cheap liar. All the male lectureres that annoyed you, you didn't think of beating them.
All these NL males full of lies.

Abeg stop it. It's not interesting.

Why don't you pray about it, this is a personal question.

You don't need other people's opinions on it.

It's your life and about to make a strong decision.

Take it before good in prayer.

Filter out your thoughts and ask God for divine direction.

Spain007:
I blv it's anger management...first weigh her parents and siblings cohabitation to ascertain if it's heredity or encroached.

There after you shld know d next step.

Anger: hereditary, how?

Like how and when did anger become a genetic issue.

FYI no one inherits anger. The environment plays 99% of that role.

Genetical you can be more aggressive but aggression is not anger.

The genetic aggressiveness of some people are wired back to our early early cave men that needed to guard themselves against physical attacks.

Imagine living in the wild and all animals are 10x your size wiling to eat you.

Your natural instincts is to be on the edge always. But anger is not hereditary please.

That's why you ought to train yourself and have self control.

Social enginering of that person is rooted in his/her upbringing.

***

But the lady in question is a timebomb that's about to blow. And op might never recover.

No one should be with abusive partner. They delay destiny and also destroy lives.

Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks and life and death are in the tongue.

A woman that curses her man has no respect and will never make a good wife.

Kobojunkie:
According to the Op, what she has is instead a foul-mouth. Having a foul-mouth is not in anyway abusive... I have met quite a lot of people like that myself, and though they cause me to cringe from time to time, I remind myself that it is possibly a part of who they are in the end.

When you think you know but don't know.

What do you call verbal abuses to one's partner?

Please enlighten me and differentiate your statement.

Foul-mouthed as how? Foul mouthed when there's a disagreement for straight three years.

You lack WISDOM.

As a woman, this is highly preposterous.

If you can tolerate insult and curses for 3years, sorry you might not live long after marriage.

She will upgrade to physical abusive and most likely might kill you.

If she doesn't succeed, you'll be frustrated and might even change into a monster to defend your pride.

Get sense o! God is showing you mercy don't marry there girl.

I say do not marry any woman that disrespects you. She will never never ever honor you as her head.

A broken relationship is better than marriage ooo.

Don't allow sentiment make you regret your entire life.

Marriage was designed to be enjoyed not tolerated.

McSaviour:
I don’t know why I born in to this evil country!

It still baffles me that a full grown adult will graduate from school and still have the guts to call him or herself jobless. It's a disgrace.

Nigeria puts most people on disadvantage but you were sent to school to clearly use your brain and not function in the system. Truth is most of you can't even write a CV nor a letterhead.

You are a human for God sake, leave the comfort of your house and go and learn an apprentice work and start something from there. Imagine two years of wasted time. What kind of laziness is that.

Mr man or woman be useful to yourself and everyone around. Am not going to preach you'll soon find a job to make you feel better that's non.sense.

Get up your damn axx and get something doing. Learn some digital work and find job in Upwork or Fiverr. Please be useful to yourself and stop this pathetic pitiful mentality thats creepy.

Life doesn't feed us rose it gives us thorns and thisles and we discover the rose in it.

Don't even think of doing yahoo or yahoo plus it's an avenue for lazy folks.

In between you didn't even tell us what you studied in school and what you're doing presently to prove to you your mind is lazy.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

May that bitterness you have towards Nigerian girls choke you to death.

FalseProphet1:
This is a wake up call to all those womanizer out there who keep saying they can't eat egusi soup all their lives, this man here ate egusi soup for 17 years and paid money to continue eating the same soup till he dies, he's a real man.

I see their marriage producing cute kids, I see poverty being banished from their home, I see husband snatchers going blind whenever they try to focus their attention on the man.

This I have seen.

You have seen well

chukel:
crass stupidity on display. What will a drug trafficker benefit from falsely stating he is igbo. You think there are no means of identification in these countries? He has no passport abi. Why do you guys feel so entitled to showcase idiocy? Why? Igbos are intentionally targeted abroad. Nonsense. When most drug trafficking are done by us, why won't we be suspected at any slightest chance. Nonsense. Keep decieving yourself.

As idiotic as you are Nigerian passport is one of the easiest to get. I went to Nigerian consulate in another country, i meet s German man requesting for our passport and an ivorian i asked them why they just laughed and said they preferred it.

The useless staff there was busy billing them and one of the idiot was doubting that i was a true Nigerian see the billing she billed me. I kukuma called somebody and the issue was quickly resolved.


Be from whatever country just visit an embassy and you'll get Nigerian passport just like that.

Werey

Ishilove:
My brain is in your anus, since you don't know how to make a comment without insulting. Imbecile_

I'll shit your useless brain out that's what anus are meant for.
Brainless.

thebosstrevor1:
Buhari is right.

When the dollar appreciate against the naira, middlemen increases the price of goods and services of local farm produce.

How does that work?

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Get on your knees and ask God for 1% common sense.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

And also alll these unions way Nigerian people dey form up and down dey affect the proce of commodities

Imagine tomatoes go get unions

Onions go get unions

If you don't know anything about agrobusiness then don't talk.

Actually middle men go extreme extent to make food cheaper. Do you know how many millions we loose and we still pick up.
Sometimes we go as far as Niger and other countries to bring these food to crash the high price in Nigeria.

This Buhari is a failed leader. If government can repair the major roads in Nigeria alone then create road networks to farms and remove these bastard of police or army or thugs on the road i swear food prices will be 50% less.

People lose lives to transport this food. What about the thousands of farms abandoned because of fear of Boko boys when I enter villages to source for goods.

This government is useless.

Omo did i see AK isorite.

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