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bilulu:
Please house I want to ask is there a certain amount of cash you need to have before planning to settle down? for instance one need to have up-to 500k in his account before thinking of settling down. please I need you input.

A nairalander opened a thread and shared how he's about to get married on a salary of 30k and how he had smartly broken down the expenses. You don't need millions to get married. I know a guy who at that time was earning 8k as a salary and got married with support of friends and family, the girl was pregnant though so he had to do a wedding. The point is kimbraa already said it, so long you're capable of feeding more than 2 people and you know you're not a lazy guy who will starve and suffer someone's daughter then you're good. A friend waited for years till he got married, he told me that if he had known he would have married on time because there is no big difference with what he used to spend on himself and what he does on his family now. All you have to do is learn management skills and hope your wife isn't the lazy kind that sits home doing nothing

Na Python I will give you on your wedding day. Everyone is getting married now o. My men Toks2008 and tosyne2much must come when my time reach

HtwoOw:
In reality and contrary to what they would have us believe , each one of them was privileged


Even the ones in Nigeria here had some form of privilege


On a throwback thread yesterday , a young girl was shaking hands with someone very important in the country today that little girl is a governor's wife

if you think i am insane , watch this video



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4K5fbQ1-zps

You're right. Being a word leader or attaining that level don't come easy. Most of them were born into powerful families, served in the military or took hold of their country and influenced decisions during a period of crisis or when the nation needed someone to look up to. Only a few worked their way from the bottom to the top

Bonus

Portrait Of Fidel Castro In New York In 1955, During An Interview

Mugshot Of Brazilian President Dilma Rousseff In 1970 When She Was Part Of The Guerrilla Movement That Fought Against The Country’s Military Dictatorship

Young Hillary Clinton Around 1969

#15 Bashar al-Assad As A Kid, Now The President Of Syria

#14 George W. Bush In Baseball Garb At Yale University, Ca, 1964-68

#13 Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu In 1972, Shaking Hands With President Zalman Shazar During His Time In The Israeli Defense Forces

#12 Young Adolf Hitler

#11 Young Margaret Thatcher Aka ‘The Iron Lady’, The Former Prime Minister Of The United Kingdom

#10 Pope Francis As A Young Boy

#9 Kim Jong-il With His Father, Kim Il-sung, And His Mother, Kim Jong-suk In 1945

#8 President Buhari as a young cadet officer

#7 Young Nelson Mandela In 1961

#6 Angela Merkel Prepares A Meal On A Campfire While Camping With Friends In Himmelpfort, German Democratic Republic In July 1973

#5 Young Donald Trump In New York’s Military Academy

#4 Young Barack Obama Smoking A Cigarette

#3 Vladimir Putin As A Young Teenager, 1966

#2 Eighteen-year-old Princess Elizabeth Of England During Her Time In The Auxiliary Territorial Service During WWII Where She Drove And Repaired Heavy Vehicles, 1945

Nobody knows the future, so did these young men and women. Some were on a path and never believed they will have the world at their feet while some were already on the path to conquer the world.

#1Young Bill Clinton Shaking Hands With President John F. Kennedy In The Rose Garden Of The White House. July 24, 1963

CaptJeffry:
Only men in early 30s here will understand you bro.

The time limitations and the confusion that follow can be frustrating.

You don't have to be 30 to be confused again. Now you can't tell who's real and fake

RuthDaniels:
[b]Societal rules are mostly the reasons why people get married these days, Most people in their last thirties are pressured by thoughts of "when will you get married "? "what will people say"? "All my younger ones are married, when will I?". All these thoughts have led people astray.

Left to me, I believe an individual shouldn't be pressured into marriage. Yes you are getting old, people are asking questions but if you think deep, you will realize that these people won't be in the marriage with you. They will also blame you, call you names if you marriage fails, so why listen to them in the first place?

That said, Not everyone we see is a potential spouse, Never base your relationship or marriage on attractions alone! Compatibility and friendship matters a lot. Because there comes a time in marriage mostly after ten years when the test comes. Then only compatibility ,commitment and friendship holds the marriage. Groom your relationship, build your courtship, know yourselves then walk down the aisle. it is better to be late than be late! [/b]

Toks2008 if you like use the world's biggest stethoscope, borrow Superman's X-ray vision, make him/her your best friend it won't still guarantee that the marriage will work and you won't be abused in the marriage. I've seen best friends hate themselves and marriages that in the first 20 years the rest was one battle to another. No matter how careful you are it won't guarantee that the marriage will work. You can't just jump in either. You meet someone that not necessarily fit into what you want but has the same goals settle down with him/her. The mistake most ladies make when they're young and cross part with someone like that is they still want a fairytale wedding and big pocket and so they miss that person while guys turn that lady to a sex object. At the end they marry out of desperation and end up regretting

Josh64:
Na the same civet we dey kill anyhow for here use do peppersoup for one night, and we say we are poor. We are poor indeed, both financially and intellectually.

So true. Our own is to kill and eat. No wonder we've killed and eating our economy and future

Shout-out to Dr. Emmanuel Osawe Akubor.
Barrister Felix Oghi
Dr. Cyrille Ngamenn.
I wouldn't be here without them.

JerryQ:
Chai! The look on the face of the elderly woman behind them on the wedding pics said it all. Just that most times when everyone around us is telling us the simple truth we tend to think they are all foolish and we are the only wise ones. RIP

Look at the striking resemblance. I'm guessing his mom . Maybe she warned him

blesoh:
My dear it's bad, but one can't leave his blood to be shamed, this same dude got a bank job, he told them to hold on cos to him, he doesn't have enough suit for the job lol, who does that.

That's a man who isn't willing to help himself

Collinz2:
Who the heck are these guys?

did you watch the movie at all?

Admin401:
Learn to read then.

What are you talking about? I've read that theory on marvel websites. Moreover I don't see how my post affects you Johnny English

Some ex are good to keep around, some you need to run far away from them

I went to the cinema with a friend and his girl and this girl wanted to buy pizza and take it to see the film which of course she wasn't going to pay for. Next she went to the supermarket and was just buying up and down, my guy paid for it. Last time a girl tried that with me she ended up paying for it. I'm not a maga that one broke girl will eat her breakfast, lunch and dinner from. I work hard for my money. I don't have a problem spending for a girl but some are just inconsiderate. They'll eat a guy hustle for a month and later open their smelling mouth and say guys are broke and selfish when they don't know how to honorably earn 1k than through their bodies. Nonsense

blesoh:
I know a 43yrs old man who's still living with his married brother, he impregnated a girl and brought her home. One of the brothers took the wife, cared for her until she birth the child while the supposed boyfriend was relaxing in his other brother's house.
After she birth the child she moved on with her life cos dude was not ready to work even with his MSC.
It happened five years ago till date he is still living with the brother and still not working.
Some people are like that not only men, even girls follow.

They allowed it. As I'm here and married one stupid relative will impregnate a girl and sit in my house for me to feed him, I'll let him know that so far he can use his prick to impregnate a girl he should use his hands to work for him and his family. As for girls it's understandable. A man is supposed to go out and hustle and it's not wrong for a girl to do same but most females are dependent so it's no biggie. The only problem is when she's refusing to at least help herself out of little things such as her makeup, cream, clothes and the tiny things, then we have a problem.

pweeryambre:
This is why I hate pets, when you get attached to them and they want to die, its always surprisingly emotionally disturbing.
happend with the chickens in my little poultry farm, even though they were being raised for consumption, its always like a house of funeral any day one dies, or is to be butchered by the family.

My sister then named them. For like 4-5 years I don't kill chickens during Christmas time because I feel like I'm killing someone I know

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