₦airaland Forum

nihilistjnr:

izzou:
[color=royalblue]If na Northern Nigeria, dem go burn the shop join[/color]

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I thank God Raumdeuter no be marriage counsellor.

So many homes go don scatter by now.

Advising on having a happy, long lasting marriage is definitely not his forte [/color]

islamics:
Well, we never can tell, maybe reconciliation from both family might work out if it will be in their best interest.

iamoyindamola:
Where is raumdeuter when we need his advice

liveLongNprospa:
Jarus dey womanize ooo.

I have a friend baba was chasing last year or so😂😂

Sulele04:
Wait his first wife is not a Muslim ba ? Cause all these stuff of visiting a Cele pastor, Tiktok Babalawo, doing fetish juju & her not wanting him to marry a new wife despite knowing that's what Muslim men do.

Isn't she a Muslim I don't get ? Religious Nigerians are just hypocrites lmaoo later them go dey attack Danny they don't even believe what they worship.

Jarus handled it poorly though, at the end of the day she can't control her emotions but going diabolical is crazy the marriage is already dead how can he sleep on the same bed with her again.

Beating her also is pathetic, cause at the end of the day he caused it I am very sure if he had told her before marriage of his intentions all these would have been avoided.

It is a shame though but the marriage is def lights out.

pocohantas:
This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

islamics:
It is why I say the word 'beating' has it's own definition in Islam not the literal definition we are all familiar with, just as you cited. In some textual translation, they use the word 'hit', hit her lightly. The 'beating/hitting' in this case is just symbolic not with the intent of harm or hurt which is also why lighter stuff like chew stick are used as example. If we are being frank, we can't consider hitting one with chew stick as beating. The hitting could even be in form of a play not as if you will say, come and kneel down let me beat you. Nope.
But if we focus on the literal definition of beating only, then there is nothing in the Quran that suggests that a husband is allowed to beat his wife irrespective of the situation. She is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when there is lost of love between them.


As for Brother Jarus, I pray Allah ease his affairs - Ameen

larride:
No be juju be wetin happen today so?

pocohantas:
Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

islamics:
Just to comment on the beating part that people are asking if Islam allowed.

The 'beating' allowed is a very light beating that should not harm her in any way using stuff light siwak (chew stick) and it must not be in the face. Just a simple hitting. The beating is not beating in the real sense of it cos it has it own definition in Islam. You can't use koboko and term it beating , that one na you dey at fault.

larride:
You are right.

Egbon Raumdeuter, evidence don dey say juju dey work.

Jarus actually try to run away from controversy but this one wey him use him own hand type those things, gats be juju

nihilistjnr:
Well. I haven't seen any of those screenshot bleed over to LinkedIn which is where I think the real damage could be done.

From a PR perspective, I'd be advising him to keep it that way and just go dark on twitter for a while till this blows over.

Jarus does not need twitter in my opinion.. he only has about 60k followers there, most of whom are unlikely to have the means to be his potential customers.

It's not like Jarus is primarikly Twitter Commentator on twiiterNG. He's a corporate brand who just happens to tweet. There'd a difference.

Personally, I think if he keeps his dead down for a little bit. He'll be fine. Gen Z pockets are not as deep as their memories are long.

iamoyindamola:
He will have issues
Those gender can come out to fight him for admitting he's a wife beater

RealityKings:
Sometimes we judge people because we are not in their shoes.. Don't judge, just watch and learn

nihilistjnr:
You're talking about social media clout which Jarus imo doesn't even need.

I'm looking more at the corporate brand the man had built - as a published author, a philanthropist, a finance thought leader in the oil and gas sector, a real estate developer, etc.

To me that's where this has the most potential to do him the most damage. Having to deal with twiiter opps is comparatively almost inconsequential.bin my opinion

Amigoss:
Think pieces don dey fly from their end already regarding his admission to beating her ,dem go soon make the 2nd wife lock her account

Theflint1:
Omor, Jarus is toast. I no even see this one before, and to think he could have continued to plead self-defense, like this is one of those things you deny to the very last. This just looks like someone being a victim of his standards...he's probably used to saying the truth in all things and didn't think admitting to domestic violence was one of those things you flat out deny...most likely there was provocation, even assault from his wife's end, but nobody go wan hear dawan when you admit publicly say you dey beat your wife.

nihilistjnr:
Just seen the tweets

I'm not sure that they are as damaging to his brand om twitter as was made out here.

LinkedIn is going to be a huge problem though.

nihilistjnr:
That's a start...

You got anymore of that vawulence sir?

nihilistjnr:
So none of you fückers grabbed the screenshot?

Standards have fallen in this place I swear. Sports board used to be thd home of top notch vawulence. Now we can barely get a morsel of diluted vawulence to take hold body.

Mehn fück all yall.

Especially that sod09 iamoyindamola mofo, and Leyqute.

larride:
At all. Omo I disappointed.

GloriousGbola:
infact i am going to hit the guy up for urgent 10k for weekend

larride:
Beat her ke and he even said it with his full chest.

Eh God o

Amigoss:
Lmao....na the work of highness be this,composure under pressure and stress?

larride:
He has always said he has anger issue.

GloriousGbola:
with all this financial info jarus is posting, the proposed second wife will not be able to sit down comfortably. chicks will be jostling for wife no 3 and 4 position.

Amigoss:
Wetin do jarus today Sef,e too spill....dem say na tiktok babalawo the wife patronize all cos of 2nd wife issue..

afrodoc2:


This your theory get as e be o.

GloriousGbola:
fortunately the post has been deleted
unfortunately the damage may already be done