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BEANSndPLANTAIN:
I wonder who are the people who would vote for him based on his abismal performance as a minister

Raumdeuter and his APC members are the ones propping him , so I guess they are the ones that will vote him.

From freelers I'm seeing on social media the Oyo people resident in the state do not fancy his candidacy at all. Many of them are not impressed by his performance at the national level.

iamoyindamola:

“There’s No Hope For The Common Man In Nigeria. The Justice System Has Failed Us. I Thought I Was Going To Die In The Police Cell. They Denied Me Medication. Their Plan Was To Lock Me Up Until I Do Their Bidding.”~ Ms. Love Dooshima, Who Is Currently Being Sued By The CEO Of Bon… pic.twitter.com/Rnf2qduvBg

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Blueraydick I told you you she knows what she's doing by stylishly showing the bread. She's also intelligent and brave.
We have a corrupt system but she have succeeded in tagging giran freedom fighters, it's no more her battle
I commend her for holding on to the evidence she has

It's just an assumption that the CEO worked with. She won't be able to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the customer defamed the bread's brand in the video. Na the CEO dey jump into conclusion.

Nigeria police is just as useless as they've always been. Anybody with money can lock another person up with the help of the police in naija.

raumdeuter:
Adelabu resigns to chase gubernatorial ambitions in Oyo

Goodluck to him in his governorship ambition. We wont miss him as the minister for darkness one bit!

Akinlot:
It is not as easy as you think. I've seen people change 5, 6 maids till they got tired and stopped hiring.

I've also seen maids invite the security man to the master bedroom when the man and the wife are not home.

Cctv helps but where's the money to install it, the light to power it or even the time to review it daily if you have a busy schedule.

I've seen maids who maltreat kids, steal things from the house or outrightly kidnap kids.

Some people are also not comfortable having a third party permanently live with them in the house. For someone like me who likes to fling my clothes once I come in, I can't do that if the help is female.

And how long does this phase even last? 10-12 years. By that time, your first child is old enough to assist with most chores. And the years run by faster than you can imagine.

Na all those men claiming to be traditional/African men to the core that would sit and cross leg while their spouse gets nearly worn out from chores and taking care of the kids and the home in general.


Me Personally I don't like third party in my space/home, so the idea of maids is not something I really fancy.

It's only normal for someone like me to actively assist madam with chores and some errands which a maid would've done.

semid4lyfe:
It is not the default setting of most men.

Even me, it took quarrels and arguements for me to adapt and start doing these chores.

That's in the past during the time of our fathers. Nowadays guys help out in caring for the kids and the home as a whole.

At least I know about myself and some of my friends we've had discussions around the subject . Me I do it willingly without needing any persuasion required.

raumdeuter:
In Nigeria where domestic help is cheap some get up to 3 to help with chores. 2 drives 3 househelps

Then Oga and Madam can chill all they want. If I was in Nigeria I will definitely have domestic help. Even abroad wey I dey I still employ people to cut my lawn and do deep cleaning like one time a quarter or every 6 months

Until domestic help show u shege by looting ur property or invite robbers to come and steal in Oga's house

raumdeuter:
Many women will endure average and below average sex life if they can conceive, that money na him go dey make dem vex more. Say I bring you come and dey feed you

The moment a man stops making money, the woman will start having issues with almost everything the guy does. Things that she would normally overlook before it will start to irritate her.

AnfieldFan:
Exactly, but maybe it's because I'm putting too much stock into Social Media nonsense and even maybe this thread, the redpill convo feels nauseating at times...Last last, social media no be real life....

No dey follow people's posturing on social media o

AnfieldFan:
Unusual but commendable...

There's actually nothing unusual in a man assisting his wife keep the home running .

This is 2026 and most sensible family men have long departed from those non-chalant attitude of their own traditional African man (especially those that don't have house help/domestic servants to assist the wife )

E no easy make woman dey take care of the kids, run errands, do school runs, do laundry, cook for the family, etc all by herself without the husband lending helping hand or taking ownership of some of the tasks.

Knacking is just one of the issues Roby has, it's really not necessarily the dealbreaker.

Na the money wey Roby no dey make after moving to Lagos and Roby's sperm not fertilizing Mayowa's eggs be the major issues that rocked the foundation of their marriage.

As a guy, for this life no matter what you do no allow money finish for your hand while you have a woman depending on you o.

Welbeck makes it 3-0 😂

Everywhere burst!

See better goal na. 🤩

Roland17:
Roby desperately needs the publicity. The Lagos entertainment space is extremely competitive with gate keepers.

You know these things!

He kept on emphasizing on making N2.5m and above per gig now. He's trying to milk the publicity now and if possible reconcile with some people he cut off because of his wife. See how he mentioned how he once hated Yaw, how he resented people like daddy freeze due to what his wife said about them, etc.

As much as he claimed he came to the podcast to speak out and share his own side of the story, I think he just needs that publicity because anywhere I jam his videos on social media most people claimed they don't really know him or what he does. Even me I only used to hear his name, can't really say I know who he is and what he does. I just know he's one of the numerous celebrities/influences we have in naija

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raumdeuter:
The main thing about marriage is living together. Not even the certificate. There were several people in our grandparents generation even currently among the uneducated who dont do the court and certificate but they live together, sleep and wake up together and handle responsibilities jointly. That is marriage

If you can live separate voluntarily from your spouse for 2-3yrs, that is no longer a marriage IMO. or both of them dey deceive themselves at that point

All those my husband dey abroad dey send money for 3yrs 5yrs is tricky cos in your peak, how many healthy women or men no go dey help themselves and check out mentally of the marriage.

One of my friends dad, he did the whole living abroad, wife in Nigeria for long, By the time he brought his Naija wife(my friends mom) to America, he still went back to live with his American GF in the same city cos the American lady has become the de facto wife now which he has been sharing life with

While Roby and Mayowa were both living under same roof she never really trusted him going by how she referenced his chats with "small small girls".

That lack of trust alone was made it easy for her to convince herself she wasn't doing the wrong thing walking away from the marriage. I'm sure the lady too will keep some screenshot of his 4ck ups like he did hers.

izzou:
I am not saying he wasn't stewpid. We might just end up roasting Roby, and dismissing the wickedness of Mayowa.

Just like someone who bought a phone in Ikeja packed with fufu.

You can roast him for falling for the scam, but it doesn't change the fact that the crime in itself was by the seller.

Mayowa's wickedness cannot be overemphasized but the point is Roby enabled her for as long as it lasted.

He was always in position to end his misery but he never did.

raumdeuter:
She was done with the marriage, She was doing everything to further her life, Na Roby dey stuck in his fantasy say he still get marriage

Exactly!

Roby thought he was seeing light at the end she of the tunnel when in fact it was a train that was going to crush him at the end of the tunnel.

izzou:
As at 2017, she was already texting someone that he irritates her, and she's tired of the marriage.

Yet, she still had the guts to initiate arrangeee marriage...No be manipulation be that?

For someone that disgusts you, he sends money, and you cannot tell him it was over. You cannot even return the bride price and call it off.

I agree that Roby was living in self denial, but she did everything to hurt that guy.

You say you no like am, but you chop him money back to back to back.

Why will Roby who saw the kind of bile and bitterness in tha WhatsApp convo ever agree to any arrangee wedding involving that woman and another man in far away America.

Roby himself didn't call it manipulation but stupidity because that was what it was.

izzou:
There's no justification to treat a man that way; Heck, a human that way.

Mayowa already checked out of the relationship as at 2017. Why not tell him it was over and move on?

To be honest, I am not against her getting married or all that stories he told. Why manipulate and deceive him until last week?

Yes, Roby sef need a loud resetting slap, but that lady can poison someone if she could.

Roby saw evidence she has checked out since 2017. She showed him different signs by her actions and inactions yet he played dumb further hurting himself.

I don't the lady did much manipulation sef, I think it was Roby's fear that made him captive inside the so-called marriage.

I am really concerned about the kind of friends Roby keeps sha. I believe ideally some of his friends ought to have tried to talk sense into his head if indeed they really love him sha. If they did and he listened, he would've long freed himself of his fears and walk away from the so called marriage. He had a lot of grounds to move on with his life but he just lacked the balls to do so.

raumdeuter:
blueraydick, emaprince, the answer you are looking for is here and it seems you guys are right.
See this part in the message he screenshoted

"He better go and treat himself and stop lying about not knowing"

Seems they both knew he was firing blanks otherwise why will the talk of adoption be coming up?

Also let me get this, He saw this message, never told the wife, yet supported her to travel abroad and do "arrangee".
Which man will read those messages and still believe he has a marriage to the extent of knowing your wife went abroad to live with another man

As HOW Nowwwww

Gehgeh, AGbaJohndoe, even disstroy etc go use this guy farm impression for months as a bad example

The guy didn't want to acknowledge the fact that he was firing blanks and women hate that thing especially when in-laws start seeing them as one with problem while the man is. The fact that the wife has high libido and Roby is average doesn't negate the fact that Roby may be infertile . The way the lady expressed herself in that screenshot showed how frustrated with his pretense and living in denial.

I was thinking instead of adoption talks he should've been talking about IVF with his wife within the first 4 years of their marriage if all was well with him down there.

The lady did bad by hanging around and cheating while the marriage lasted, but the guy sef na mumu for not being truthful with himself

TemporaryHansel:
Just saw a post from inibehe on x, the owner of that bread brand used police to detain the lady that made a video review about bread. Nigeria no follow mehn.

Weytin concern police with the matter? NPF don't seem to even know the difference between civil and criminal matters.

This is what I talked about the other day here, I don't know what exactly is the problem of the Nigerian police force, is it hunger or just plain illiteracy? As long as you have change to spare you can get them to arrest someone for just staring at you sef.

I saw it too. I don't think Nigeria police really know their work, they just feel once a person with power or money reports another citizen then they must proceed to arrest and detain without any reasonable excuse. They are controlled by money.

Emaprince:
Your second paragraph might be true.

When a man knows that he fires only blank, he wont have no choice than to Mello down and do the womans bidding. But person like me would rather support divorce so I can live a single life and adopt if I want to.

Staying under the same roof and letting the woman ride him was stoopid.

But the again...he is a simp. He already showed it by leaving calabar to move down to lagos

Him moving down to Lagos would not have been an issue if a ready made job was waiting for him here by the time he arrives.

The problem is he just left where he was doing really well to a more expensive city (where his wife is already established with a good job) without having any serious plan about how he will make his own income.

I wonder if the guy even had any serious talk about both of them future plans before jumping into the marriage sef. I believe typical intending couple would sit and plan how their marital life and financial life will be before proceeding to tie the knot.

Instead the guy was busy boasting about how he met and married his wife within 5 months ( I saw an old video in which both of them were interviewed).

The guy just has the habit of majoring in the minor things Sha

Emaprince:
Mr ekpo should connect with David wife..and be humping her. He needed to cause somebody pains too.

Is he ready to take full responsibility of David's 2 kids?

The guy should go and treat himself and take his time to get another woman jare. Afterall, Nnamdi Azikwe was 69 years old when he married his young wife (Aged 26) after the death of his first wife.

Guess what? The younger wife gave him children that were graduates before he died in 1996!

Once Roby sort his fertility issues he should be fine. At least he claims he makes money now unlike the early days of their marriage.

pocohantas:
No, he wasn't celibate. Neither was she.
There are a lot of revelations on TT of their extra marital affairs. A woman posted how Mayowa was party to her divorce and had a longstanding relationship with her exhusband. Babes have also come out to say Roby is far from weak or a simp based on his record with women, before, during, and after Mayowa. So like you said, the guy dey fire, but e no dey score goal.

His fertility issue is what turned him into a simp. That thing fit put man for tight corner if the woman doesn't love you.

The part he cried on the podcast about not having a child to show for his struggles in the marriage and even outside wedlock already tells a discerning mind that he was probably firing blanks and it made him simp for her.

iamoyindamola:
Blueraydick he is back

Na wa o. Can't something be done about those scammers ni ?

This site makes it so easy for people to open multiple accounts.

pocohantas:
Either way, I am convinced Roby knows his manhood is not working. There is no way a woman will constantly quarrel a Nigerian man over his poor stroke game, add it no child in their years ofbmarriege and the man didn't impregnate another woman the second she left or right inside the marriage. He was too evasive of specific questions and he knows more than he is putting out. If Mayowa speaks, the revelation would be more embarrassing than it is. Mayowa only beat him to the game. They are both dangerous people and know specifics we do not know.

This is exactly my thought. The guy dey get erection and he dey cum normally like most men but baba definitely has infertility issues he is not willing to accept. He was even boasting no woman can come out to claim he impregnated her.

He can't tell us with bold face that for almost 6 years she was away he was celibate or was withdrawing from all the women he slept with during that period.

Methinks their marriage was faulty right from time and that he has fertility issues. That fertility issue would've been sorted if he was married to his soul mate whom they would've sought medical help together. If they were having a good marriage, they may have opted for IVF within the initial 4 years and nobody would've known anything about him taking concoction or sperm booster,

DissTroy:
Man, you don't understand the nature of women? A grown woman who gets pregnant for you does it consciously. There are hookup girls hopping from bed to bed without getting pregnant. You underestimate how much women know about their bodies and the number of times they talk about the lastest contraceptive measures.

Remember the case of Adam Nuru, the FCMB boss, 5 years ago who fathered kids with his secretary while pushing the kids on to her husband? She knew! She timed her cycle to match with her boss and likely took contraceptives when with her husband. The husband tôok his life when he found out.

Have you forgotten those days when you bed a girl at the beginning and she goes, "I hope you didn't cum?" She goes home to do something about it.
When she's melted into you and has chosen you as hers, she stops asking those questions after you orgasm in her. All of a sudden, she forgets how to calculate her safe periods, outsourcing it to you. She doesn't mind getting pregnant for you.

The ones who became single mothers are partly the ones who gambled, thinking they could hook their men with pregnancies and the men became irresponsible towards the pregnancies.

When your girl stops calculating her safe period, that's her way of proprosing. She chose you as her husband long before you bought the ring. You were playing catch-up, man.

Women know what they are doing but we infantilize them as naive. Very cunning.

I get that women are cunning and that Mayowa used Roby's head over and over again. But I really don't think she set out initially not to have a child with him.

Methinks Roby has some underlining medical issues he's not yet ready to wake up to its reality. She was actively suggesting concoction and different boosters for him until she fell out of love with him.

The guy's mistake of relocating to Lagos without having a job waiting for him put him in a bad place financially and that made it easy for the women easily fall out of love with him.

Shegzdave:
But he said he’s taken three fertility test, does that mean he’s lying or the tests results delivered to him were not genuine

Hmmmm....Just pray not to have to be going for Fertility test as a man after marriage. Some of those tests are not conclusive o.

I've had close family friends who have had to do tests upon tests before confirming the husband was the issue and had to start treatment to boost his sperm count.

Roby sounded too non challant on podcast about issues of child bearing. He was refrencing his pastor that had to wait for years in marraige in marriage to have a child.

That guy is a educated and even claimed he studied Radiography. If he is fertile as he claimed and with his medical background nothing stops him from doing IVF with his wife within that 4 years they were married before she travelled abroad. Instead he was talking about adoption.

If u ask me, something doesn't add up about his fertility matter.

cc: Disstroy

Shegzdave:
I think she has a daughter from her first marriage

If indeed she has a child from a previous marriage then maybe Roby is not fertile but yet to come to terms with the sad reality.

iamoyindamola:
Watching this full video, i am losing it this guy is a proud simp
He deserve all he got and will continue getting

The more you watch the video, the more pissed you will get .

The guy just didn't know when to count his losses and move on. He waited till she used her full mouth to tell him he was useless to her

DissTroy:
You know what? It's like you are stubborn so we will add Vic O to the trade so you guys give us Banky W fully in exchange. Last offer.
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When I post about simping and not letting a woman dictate terms for you as a man, it's labeled overdosing on redpill. These are the issues.

My bro, u have my full permission to overdose on any color of pill going forward . This Roby don too shame men in general abeg!

His simping cannot be explained away no matter how one tries .As at last year he was still holding on to a marriage that should have ended 2017.

I imagine the ex-wife during COVID-19 was in full lockdown with a full grown asss man without going anywhere in the cold American weather. Chai! . The number of time dem don knack his "wife" while he was holding on to the "promises of better life " lasan !

izzou:
Abeg, with Roby saying that his wife did "Arrangee marriage" to get green card, will that not land her in trouble?

Initially I thought he had a rightful claim to mess her life up by reporting her to ICE as per the arrangee marriage; until the weyrey say na traditional marriage they did before she travaled abroad.

From my own personal opinion he may not be able to 4ck her life up since they didn't do a civil/registry wedding that has document backing the marriage up. They had a traditional marriage which may be binding in Nigeria but not necessarily binding in the US.

The girl really used his head.

All that being said, I want to believe if Roby is vengeful enough and wants to take advantage of the anti-immigrant stand of Donald Trump's government, he may stir a serious controversy by sending his traditional wedding picture to US Embassy/ICE and petitioning them to rescind Mayowa's green card because she used fraudulent means to get it.

But that Roby wey I see no get that kind bad mind like that. If Roby is given an option to either spoil Mayowa's life as it is now or reconcile with her; Roby will definitely go with reconciling with Mayowa