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Do you realize they have a child together? It’s so easy to throw blames when it’s not us involved. The family as a whole did not handle the matter well. The elder sister has a duty to call the guy and have a heart to heart talk with him. If the elder sister was thinking right,she should have been concerned in taking that guy off the street because her sister and her child is involved. Actions have consequences

PerseDew:
Your parents travelled and he took the opportunity to come to your house, you sis has been insulting him steady long before now, pls what was he expecting?? If your parents were at home, would they have welcomed him with open arms? He knew he was not welcomed in that house but went ahead to visit..if this is not looking for trouble then tell me what it is.

Like I said, she may be faulted but you and even him started it.

I understand your point, it’s a lot to deal with for any guy. Unfortunately you are not the guy. She has made a mistake which she has accepted and she has shown remorse. There’s nothing impossible. It’s possible when the guy hears her story he will have a change of heart. Life is not black & white.

OgbeniOja1:
Bro if I'm d guy I won't do again. Who want to come into a family where siblings have such bitterness for each other

@ifyjos, I know how you feel.You made a mistake out of revenge. I know your sister pushed you to the wall before you took the action you took but you have to know that two wrongs don’t make anything right. This matter is quite heavy cos I see you love your guy so much. What you can do is to contact your sisters Ex, together with your guy and explain everything to him and beg him to forgive and see if he can have a change of heart. I believe if he comes back to your sister, everyone would have learnt their lessons.

I pray it works out because I know the kind of guilt you are living with. Take things easy and do not be hasty to make decisions in moments of anger.

If you cannot reach your sisters Ex,then you have to find someone who your sister respects and confide in the person.

And try to ignore all the hateful comments directed towards you here, most of them have pointing accusing fingers have their own baggage, nobody holy pass!!!

I am in

Look towards export. I believe that capital would go a long way. Go through this forum, I’m sure you will see materials and articles on starting a successful export business. Look towards, charcoal, ginger,bitter kola etc.

Kperogi is an Igbo man?

Magicians:
It is now official it is Tinubu that will STOL the Igbo tribe from making it to heaven, no obsession can be this addictive. This matter officially don pass be careful.

Lol!!! I am patiently waiting for when he will sign an executive order against corrupt politicians , but your guess is as good as mine, its not going to happen

donprinyo:
Toilet party, when will u declare state of emergency on power and unemployment

Dubai is the most beautiful place in the world wow!! Imagine if all the northern politicians that stole money from the government had vision to turn the North to Dubai.

I like the way you presented this. This explains a whole lot. Thanks

FreshShavedBalls:
Let me share with you a quote from The Rational Male

"A healthy male produces between 12 to 17 times the amount of testosterone a woman
does. It is a biological impossibility for a woman to want sex as much as, or as often as men. Trust
that when a woman says, “I don’t understand why sex is so important to guys” she’s speaking the
literal truth. No woman will ever experience 17 times the amount of her own testosterone levels
(barring steroids). Amongst it’s many other effects, testosterone is the primary hormone involved with
stimulating human libido. I should also add that, on average, and barring environmental variables, a
mans testosterone only declines 1% per year beyond age 40, so even at age 60 the average, healthy
male is only dealing with an average 20% deficit in testosterone.
Critics of this observation like to argue that, for female sexual response and arousal, testosterone isn’t
the only factor to consider. To which I’ll agree, however it is the primary factor in sexual response.
A woman cannot possibly understand what 12 to 17 times their present amount of testosterone could
feel like without steroid use. In fact the first effect female bodybuilders report when cycling anabolic
steroids is a 100 fold increase in sexual interest and libido. So in terms of natural female hormonal /
biochemical response there is no unaltered way a woman could ever make an accurate comparison to
what a man’s baseline libido is in relation to her own.
Women’s sexual desire is also cyclical. Even at the peak of her ovulatory cycle, when she’s at her
horniest, she’ll never experience what men do 24 hours a day. This is the root of the myth, and the
source of the social convention."

Just like the governors have been making good use of the state allocation since the advent of democracy

Patrioticman007:
Hater's will die over this discovery in hausaland, we will show them how to make good use of 13% derivation for good of the Masses.

Is that true? I was thinking it gets the account banned. Then how do you get accounts banned or taken down?

PassingShot:
Report button only hides the particular post from you. Others still see it.

Thought he was saying something new...same old rhetorics!

I sincerely hope so too!! Cheers!!

Prettiepearlz:
Very appalling. I hope the cleaning on this forum starts now.

Wasted pweek

Thank you so much for these your comments. It’s really appalling that young intelligent men and women will spend hours online to spew hate against each other in the name of tribal politics.

Prettiepearlz:
Thank you! It’s high time to call them out. Her comment about the mods made me click on her profile and I went through her comment because I needed to see if she truly despised tribalism and wants the mods called out for it or she is one herself but only feels that she gets punished because of her tribal views and she ya the latter. Before I finally created an account on Nairaland, been reading this forum since 2008 and this forum was the best forum so far, political section was a place to educate yourself. The fights were healthy, back then the fights used to be Nigerians in diaspora and Nigerians in Nigeria and it was a light banter, Family section was where you could get valuable advice without being labelled names, but now Nairaland has gone to the wolves. Kids from secondary school dominates the forum with multiple accounts spewing rubbish and those (the tribalistic Yorubas, Igbos, Hausas) who lives in the outside world pretending to love themselves use Nairaland as an opportunity to spread hate. The hate here is too much! And the silence about it is defeaning. And the most annoying thing is the hatred we interested today, we understand nothing about it and we weren’t there when it happened, now the millennials are about to transfer the hatred and aggression to their offsprings and the cycle continues. Sigh. I bumped I into an old post on politics on Nairaland some days back and I want that Nairaland back.

Nicely done.....let’s watch what happens

Buckubuck:
It is obvious the cabal are now ready to take their pound of flesh from Osinbajo for his political mistake of sacking Daura in 2017. I said it then that if Buhari comes back for a 2nd term, that's when it will be known if Osinbajo had his support for that move. He should have left Daura alone for Buhari to deal with himself when he gets back then, and not seen that period then as an opportunity to cut the cabal to size for whatever embarrassment he might have suffered in their hands, moreso the guy is buhari's kinsman. I fully expect him to get the Atiku treatment as the days progresses.
As for tinubu's online urchins who have made the igbos easy targets for any political move made by the north, newsflash!! The Igbo is not ur stumbling block to 2023 presidency, the north is. I fully expect Buhari to start making moves to take over the party machinery as from 2021 just as OBJ did with PDP. This will start with the removal of Oshiomole. Anyone can bookmark dis. No politician will willingly hand over power to someone politically stronger than him which is why buhari supporting a tinubu presidency is a pipe dream. The most realistic choice is Fashola, but who knows what plans the cabal have for him. He fits the bill being a muslim, good appeal in the north and a very moderate political structure and charm. My fear for him though is the ambode smear might be used against him.
In all, it's obvious that if the SW really want that presidency, they might need a plan B which will push the north out of its comfort zone from where it sees the south as too weak and decimated to mount a resistance should it seek to hold on to power. Tinubu may need to think out of the box Awolowo could not after all.

What you listed here are serious issues but I will urge you to take a little time and use the report button on all posts that insult you or anyone, all posts that use the afonja and IPOB words. That’s what I do. I don’t respond or quote them cos that will be enabling them the more and giving them a voice, I quietly use the report button. There is a report button for insults and bullying. Together we can take back this forum

omenka:
The one I find the most irritating is why Seun has constantly looked the other way when mods push obviously divisive threads lifted from the tweeter pages of ffk and Reno to the fp.

I believe this is allowed because Seun et al believe such threads generate traffic, and the more the traffic on the site, the bigger the profits.

This forum is contributing it's unfair share to ruining this country.

In addition Seun, has RULE 9 been suspended? Has the need for traffic overtaken your sense of duty and patriotism as a Nigerian?

What you listed here are serious issues but I will urge you to take a little time and use the report button on all posts that insult you or anyone, all posts that use the afonja and IPOB words. That’s what I do. I don’t respond or quote them cos that will be enabling them the more and giving them a voice, I quietly use the report button. There is a report button for insults and bullying. Together we can take back this forum

Ikinternational:
Guy you're not being sincere. The politics section has turned into a daily tribal war dance. Everything is seen through tribal lense. Hense the insults. You mean you don't see it? You need someone to bring it to your attention? Fire your mods if they are not doing their job. Anybody that has been reading this site for more than 10yrs will tell you this is the worst it has ever been.

Don't let people that are here to push hateful agendas take over this site for the sake of traffic. While you feign ignorance. The buck stops at your desk sir

Seun has asked for links to inappropriate or tribalistic topics that made fp and no one has provided him with that. For me I do my best to report all porn and betting posts and also tribal laced posts. It’s left for the mods to do their jobs.

The total earnings coming into the federal purse is dwindling, while government expenditure is increasing and foreign direct investment is reducing so the only thing they can do is to increase the tax in order to sustain government expenditures. They won’t cut cost of governance and reduce loans , so this is the end result. Very soon fuel price will be increased, cos the naira is getting devalued and NNPC and CBN cannot sustain the current subsidy costs. It’s bleak all around, so tighten your belts everyone

Adecodedstar:
You are absolutely right. What do they plan to use the increase for? This government needs to be answering tons of questions from Nigerians everyday because they've completely lost track of their final destination.

The National Assembly will need to amend the law enabling VAT for it to be effective. But as you and I know, the leadership of both houses are already in PMB’s control so it’s not going to be a problem getting them to pass the amended law!!! Sai baba!!

scaramucci:
Can tax be increased without recourse to the National Assembly? Lawyers and constitutionalists in the house, your opinion is needed.

Very informative. Thanks for this

Waoh! This is a complete makeover! Loving it.

Let me get this straight, so in a supposed civilized country like SA, people just attack anyone who they perceive as a criminal? Is Mbeki saying they don’t have detectives,criminal investigators, drug law enforcement agents? Who will attack the South African drug dealers and criminals? Mbeki don fall hand for this talk!

The thing weak me!! You don’t see the northern governors and their leaders reacting to the wanton killings of their people but rather react to a fake mosque demolition story.

Xisnin:
Bandits are killing your people left and right and all you care about is
fake news about mosque demolition.

A sitting Governor pays a visit to criminals who have killed and kidnapped citizens to strike a deal!! Before they were doing it in secret now they don’t have any need to pretend further!!! There was a country

Wake me up when EFCC actually charges him to court! Nonsense and APC

Twitter is a powerful medium. Take pictures, do interviews then tag handles like budgit,the state governor, find out the federal rep that covers that area and tag him too, continue talking until something is done!!

Dem don open another office for Akpabio to recoup funds he lost in the last elections

Nigerian politicians style once they get into office, they’ll start shouting ‘ole ole ole’ to distract everyone while he perfects his stealing mechanism

Why is EFCC finding it difficult to charge Okorocha to court? Since you have found that he unlawfully diverted public funds and converted government property to private use what’s stopping his prosecution?

I said it months ago on this forum that the Hausa youths are the only ones who will be able to pull off this revolution everyone is yearning for. They don't fear death neither do they have millions in their account. the insecurity and hardship will trigger them very very soon.

Wiifesnatcher:
unfortunately the religion and political division give these politicians liver not to fear Nigeria youths


I swear if Hausa youth are ready for revolution or want a rapid change that's when the Federal govt will sit Right. federal govt fear Hausa youths than any youth in this country because average of them don't give a fvck about consequence as we do here in South