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daneni1:
Chief, one reason it's difficult to train the female child.

Chaaii.!!
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We will always triumph in the end.
Being too strict on them is not the best either.

daneni1:
I like the perception you are looking at it from, and I have seen it happened just the way you painted it. To buttress further, just as you have said, deep kissing and the likes shouldn't be practiced in the sight of children.

However, how about kids who don't see their parent do it but do watched it via television. At times it's more of societal effect.

You now see why some parents decided to sacrifice their own joy of watching TV??
Such parents chose to stop watching their favourite channels at home, so that their kids won't mistakenly see stuffs that are normal for adults on the TV, and wrongly copy-and-paste them into their own lives.,, and it would begin to affect their childish brains negatively sooner or later.

Fantazy:
So are saying those children haven't seen that many times before now?

I am saying that nothing stops those children from doing it with the other kids at school.
They had been seeing such acts already..
And what would you say about it?

vickyflex:
Who ever think this is wrong are one of the problems we have in Nigeria, this is showing of love and affection. If we’re all raise this way I doubt If there’ll be broken marriages the way it is now. Since all they saw was their father Beating their mom, I guess Why this is wrong to them.

If we were all raised this way, we might all start having sex at the age of 8 or 10 at most, because kissing won't be anything again to all of us.
It means that the tiniest emotions that would begin to spark between two people would definitely lead them to do more than the “ordinary” normal kissing which we are all supposed to be used to.
And boom.. Sex would happen.. And there won't be anything much about the sex though...
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That's not the way we do things in Nigeria at the moment.
We don't see sex as ”Nothing”, thus we live our lives in such a way minimize anything that may lead us to seeing uncontrolled multiple bsexual encounters as a normal way of life.


Let's look at it from this direction.
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Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
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Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
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Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
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Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

Tremple8v:
I do kiss my wife in front of my kids . And at times i do kiss them too , i told them all i love them . And everyone do smile . But if you think its wrong, i cant change your view on the matter, at the end God bless us all.

Let's look at it from this direction.
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..
Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
..
Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
..
Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
..
Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

daneni1:
Truth be told, I grew up watching my parents spending time together, anytime both of them are at home, they spend the time together gisting about a lots of things, at times I even chip in a word or two when I have knowledge of the topic of discourse. Till this day, that attitude of my parent had followed me to adulthood, I always look out for a lady I can share my time with. Quality time have become my love language. If the woman I am into won't share her time with me, that's the end of that relationship as I don't joke with it.

What am I trying to say, the thing is, most times, the way our parents behave toward each other shaped our own relationship lives with our other half.

Let's look at it from this direction.
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..
Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
..
Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
..
Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
..
Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

ShenTeh:
Would it have been right exchanging blows in their presence?

This is another extreme issue, and is away from the topic

shortgun:
Nothing wrong here. Normal levels elsewhere, only in Nigeria and Arab world will this be seen as immoral.
Showing affection by spouses should be encouraged in the family circle.

Let's look at it from this direction.
..
..
Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
..
Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
..
Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
..
Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

spice123:
100% right for me. I show affection to my wife in front of my kids. I educate them on why. They know that daddy and mummy love each other. We tell our kids everyday that we love them.

Let's look at it from this direction.
..
..
Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
..
Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
..
Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
..
Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

Whatever you do in front of your kids, make sure that you won't be bothered to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
In fact, make sure to be very proud to see them doing the same things to themselves, or to some other kids elsewhere..
..
Kids do copy things a lot.
And when reproducing it, they would say that “they are doing like daddy-and-mommy”.
..
Therefore, don't do anything that you wouldn't want them to copy-and-paste into their lives while they are still not matured enough to understand, and then begin to practice them later while you're not there, especially to some other kids in their schools.
..
Hugs are very safe. You feel good watching your kids hugging some other kids and telling them “I Love You.”
Perks on the forehead or on the head is very safe. You feel very proud when one of your elder kids perks the younger ones and tell them “have a nice day”.
Then, if the kids are too young, obviously a perk on the lips will not be considered safe for them because they may misunderstand it.
Deep-kissing is a big No. I mean, just imagine your baby-girl deep-kissing a certain male classmate in their school and she feels so normal about it.

Monogamy:
Shut that your mouth up, who are you to tell me what topic to comment on or not?

Nonsense

You usually dabble into senseless topics.
Now, a good topic is here, and you're shying away.
#Talking_About_Double_Standards#

Ok Naa..
All Eyes On PDP and Accord now.
APGA had failed Anambra all the while..
Now they just failed themselves too.

This story just hit in the final nail on the Kyari’s coffin

Monogamy:
Behaving exactly like his monikers name

Eish

You usually dabble into senseless topics.
Now, a good topic is here, and you're shying away.
#Talking_About_Double_Standards#

Monogamy:
So those who are seeking my validation/authentication about topics yapa like this for NL.

Interesting

You usually dabble into senseless topics.
Now, a good topic is here, and you're shying away.
#Talking_About_Double_Standards#

sampsonub100:
My dear, I have been observing you here on Nairaland for a long time and the way you make disparaging remarks about men. My question is: do you have anything personal about men?

Depression is doing a strong thing in her life at the moment.
Allow her to heal for now

Monogamy:
Interesting.

Say something naa

Candidlady:
I hope it works


Truth is I have given up on God... Like he never hears me..

I once slept in my car somewhere around finance bridge here in Abuja over night... Was so stoned I couldn't drive..

Even God overslept on Sunday and that was why the devil was able to crawl into heaven

Chaaiii...
Where do we start??
Like, I don't really understand this type of God you once believed in.

Robertgreene1:
my dear u re not alone...I've been there nd back nd I know how it feels like...
I battled severe trams addiction for 5 years...throughout my uni days...it wz js terrible....at a point I wz doing 800mg nd above of trams every single day...infact I stopped attending lectures..I do just hole up in my apartment..do trams nd doze all day...
I was acting weird...always agressive...ghosted everyone both family and friends...infact it was just me nd my darling t.m.
Then during dt great lockdown...my biz wz affected... so I holed up at home..then I said 2 myself.."I've had enough of this drug shit"...why not achieve something during ds frustrating lockdown by conquering this addiction demon?...
so I started fighting the demon nd it was a very painful nd long journey back 2 recovery....4 more than 6 months...I felt like dieing...d withdrawal phase was js terrible...d chills..d muscle spasms..d fever..d body pains...d mood swings (extreme highs and lows)..d anxiety... d Restlessness nd worse of em all...d insomnia(sleeplessness)...
so I used Diazepam(Valium) 4 d 1st 6 months 2 help ease d withdrawal symptoms a bit.
Then when I wanted 2 quit Valium after 6 months..I found out dt my system av gotten dependent on it as well...so it was back 2 square one ...Nd to my worst nightmare I found out soon enough dt d withdrawal symptoms of diazepam (benzodiazepines) is even far worse than that of tramadol (opiods)...it was js terrible..better imagined than experienced..
This time around I felt like I was completely loosing it...But lucky me...I discovered that alcohol can also act as a sedative just like diazepam so I used Alcohol for 3 months 2 ease d withdrawal symptoms of diazepam (pls run away 4rm any drug of d benzodiazepine family)....
2 cut d long story short...today I've been drug free for 8 months nd counting now..nd I ant going back 2 dt shit again...
so my dear u can do it.. just believe in urself.. tell urself dt u re stronger than that addiction...then fight d battle of recovery and remember not 2 rush it...Js take it one step at a time...u get closer 2 recovery wit each passing day as ur brain recalibrates itself back 2 it's pre-addiction state..find other hobbies 2 keep ur mind away from d drug(s)...if I can do it dear...then u can do it as well
Shalom....

Alcohol tends to be addictive too.
So please, don't heavily depend on it.

DoggoneDogg:
This thread proves how dumb Nigerians are.
Not a single witty reply. All stupid, low IQ & pathetic attempts.

I was disappointed too..
Like, the replies inside the pictures blasted my head to Jupiter.
But when I started reading Nairaland comments, I got teleported back to Nigeria immediately.

Empressgifted:
I ensure poisons are given at the right quantity, at the right time, for the right duration to people that deserve it.

Nice Description..

Activist001:
Iron Bender?

I said that “I see”...
And not “I put”.
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Ok..
Let me make it simpler.
“I play with figures and digits, but it would later lead other people to play with dusts and sands and stones and liquids and woods and metals”.

I only see the iron rods In Houses, No matter how hidden they may be.

ahnie:
We should practice these type of weddings in Nigeria.

A typical Nigerian Woman cannot accept it.

Beanstalk3301:
https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/whatsapp-introduces-view-once-disappearing-095129621.html?guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAADie7NsyNDM7ac6w4YksB0OyVuv_GVQCQSl4CHKIHEV_RZHN5hC3UhqhISZITdGDNAJTtovecvyJsot7bqvQCkm2sE8w54fbSowfSf_zMl7ZdwVT7ckaEUUrE6Ptoj-sDuVdjw6dMWDPltgkA3FfbATJUuncBmXbc2IzB-n2Gmdg

Can it be saved?
Just in case you want to view that one again.

ANSMEDIA:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/08/04/anambra-poll-court-clears-soludo-as-apgas-candidate/

They will still go to Supreme Court.
So, Soludo and INEC will have to wait.

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BluntCrazeMan:
Meanwhile, they want to make us to believe that we have a working system in Nigeria?
INEC had been conducting lots of studies and making some improvements over the time, but the House of Representatives didn't invite the INEC to hear from them.
Rather they called on NCC who had the effrontery to come around with some archaic 2018 faulty data??

Come to think of it.....

NCC legitimately reported and boasted back then in 2018, that the 2G network had covered 90% of the Nigerian Population...
And now in 2021, the same NCC came back to say that “going by the analysis they did in 2018, that the 2G and 3G networks had only covered only 50.3% of the Nigerian Population”..
Like, WHAT THE HELL??!!!
Who are they deceiving??

Posterity will never ever forgive these guys ooo..
All of them..
From Beginning to the end.
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They contradict themselves, and even bring forward fraudulent archaic data from the archives of history to impose on current situations.
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Can We Ever Get It Right At-all??

TheRareGem1:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CSJcHkdgQ2a/?utm_medium=copy_link

Was any serious contract awarded??

Let us first of all bear it in mind that the Electronic-Transmssion of Election Results can also happen over the 2G-GSM Mobile Networks too, even without the use of internet.

Now, back to the main news...
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As at December 2018, The Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) disclosed that the 2G network has remained the most pervasive in Nigeria with 90 percent of the population connected to it.
(Source: https://itpulse.com.ng/2018/12/19/2g-remains-most-pervasive-network-in-nigeria-ncc/)

By June 2021, MTN reported that they have achieved 88.9% nationwide coverage, while their 3G and 4G expansions have attained 80.4% and 60.1% population coverage respectively in 2020.
(Source: https://nairametrics.com/2021/06/18/mtn-achieves-88-9-nationwide-coverage/)

But in July 2021, The Nigeria Communication Commission (NCC) said that only 50.3 percent of the 19,0000 polling units across the Federation are covered by 2G and 3G networks, and also, this information was based on a network coverage analysis conducted in 2018.
(Source: https://thenationonlineng.net/only-50-3-percent-of-polling-units-covered-by-2g-3g-network-says-ncc/)

Meanwhile, they want to make us to believe that we have a working system in Nigeria?
INEC had been conducting lots of studies and making some improvements over the time, but the House of Representatives didn't invite the INEC to hear from them.
Rather they called on NCC who had the effrontery to come around with some archaic 2018 faulty data??

Are they competing for ugliness or what??
Or is it their make-overs??