₦airaland Forum

luvinhubby:
No other proof of Buhari's insensitive aloofness & irresponsibility than this 2 months old crippling fuel scarcity.

Nigeria welcome to the mega scam called APC's change.

I seriously don't understand why you all keep blaming government when the fault lies with every single Nigerian. For one, you all keep voting the same kind of people into leadership positions and then complain later. The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different outcome. These guys didn't just fall from the moon. You all put them there. Then there is the problem of mentality. You people don't respect structures or have a maintenance culture. Nigeria cannot maintain a university hostel and yet they expect to maintain a flow of fuel supply. Ok. Good luck with that.

Flexherbal:
If not corruption, Jonathan's government would have been very ok.

Are you sure you understand what you wrote? A nation not being corrupt is everything in governance. It is just like saying, "if not for Nigerian Breweries not turning a profit, the company would have been ok". Then what is the point of having the company in the first place? Nigerians and English is like oil and water; they don't mix.

Dsrooftiles:
It appears Davido and Wizkid are up to something. After posing on a private jet yesterday,they also posed on their respective rides...
Good to see them truly getting along..

: http://www.gistmelove..com/2016/04/wizkid-and-davido-stunt-on-their-exotic.html

Do you know what stunt means in the context of your headline?

Benart:
Kudos this is the kind of news we want to hear not how 2 celebrities are busy exposing dem sef, but giving and allowing d world know is uncalled for

This is not the kind of news you should want to hear. Where is the money coming from? You guys never ask the right questions. Poverty is a terrible thing.

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

Yeah right. There is no freaking way I'll forgive a woman who does that.

dayowunmi:
He hardly makes reference to his wife then, meanwhile E-money always show off his own wife. Are you sure kcee is married? Been following him quite a while on instagram and he's hardly ever made any reference to his wife! What a marriage!

It's none of your business.

HerexG:
We all know that they are not all innocent but at least they should all invest the loot sorry resources here instead of taking it to Dubai


A commendable move Mr Atiku

Are phucking kidding me? God. The mentality in Nigeria. I fear for una.

Adamsdelrio:
Nope, they are not my colleagues.

If you say so.

isan:
Fulanis herdmen are stupid coward blood suckers, they can't fight man to man they can only fight children and old women. Mtcheeeeeeeew

You are directing your aggression at the wrong people. People will always get away with anything if they feel they can. The government is the real culprit. Nigeria is really a lawless country.

Naughtysite:
Some artists do not claim they bought anything, but gossip bloggers just frame them up.

I can remember when bloggers said Psquare acquired a private jet.

You are very correct. Even with Linda ikeji's home. People erroneously assume she paid cash for the house meanwhile common sense should tell anyone that the damned thing is mortgaged. No one pays that amount of cash for a house even in the U.S. That would be just stupid. Plus, if Nigeria was normal, it would invite the tax man to pry in your business.

If he runs then my dog will run for the presidency too. I guarantee my dog will win.

Adamsdelrio:
In Nigeria, of course. Our politicians steal and possess all you mentioned above and nobody gives a damn about it. Why should innocent men, trying to earn a living be captured and called thieves?

Two wrongs don't make a right. No matter how you justify it. Now i see. You are fighting for your colleagues. Just lobby the senate and making "stealing" legal and you are good to go.

100Cents:
Fayose, all the sensible Nigerian youth are solidly behind you.

Keep talking sense into old men who cannot reason.

I think it is policy in heaven to drop babies sent to Nigeria, on their heads before their departure. This is the only way I can justify the way Nigerians think. This is the only way i can justify people who support what fayose does.

Emmau0091:
Country seem to be hard this days But why guys.. But why

These days? It's always been like this.

Adamsdelrio:
Since anything you do to earn a living becomes a job....

Maybe in Nigeria. Can you imagine announcing it on channels? "Good evening. Three men were arrested while on their way to their jobs today. They had in their possession 7 million naira, and an AK47" Like i said, maybe in Nigeria. In other normal places it is a crime.

Adamsdelrio:
Stealing is one of the hardest job in the world... 'Don't get caught' is the first rule.

Since when did stealing become a job? Isn't it supposed to be a crime?

Disneylady:
Omo, this is getting really bad and trashy! Ain't wizkid matured at all ni? Leave this lady alone now

It was open season when Linda made comments about him. Not supporting wizkid, but Linda should have used the age old rule of silence. It is always the best answer for a foool. If Linda responds to this current volley, she is only prolonging the issue. We all know he is still a kid. She is supposed to be the matured one.

Tekevwe:
I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.

Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.

The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.

The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.

I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.

There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.

Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40) and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.

He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.

I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.

Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him?

It's normal but i have to say it's started a little too early. Every couple goes through it. This usually starts after 3 to 5 years of marriage. Don't bother him about it if there is no hint of infidelity involved. Just keep being a loving wife. It bothers us when our women don't talk too much but also take care of us. You also need a hobby or a job that will keep you engaged. Whenever he does something nice, be grateful and smile but don't get over excited. Keep the mystery alive. Keep yourself in shape, stay sexy for him to keep reminding him why he fell in love with you. Marriage is always a challenge, but it is all about how you manage it.

Audreah:
you just came back dude, I leave you to your ignorance, tchao

Lol. ..I'm drinking a bud light, reading a rant from a mentally challenged guy.

Audreah:
then what are you waiting for, fly off jare

Your response is too late. I am already out. Been out for over a decade now. Couldn't take being with ignorant people.

Cutehector:
My people will always continue to perish due to lack of knowledge.

One spark and it's KABOOOM!!!

dare2differ:
CIAO

Noooooooooooooo. Don't go. I'm about to crack open a beer. Nothing to do this afternoon.

dare2differ:
You are a joke sir


My regards to the jealous and vindictive women that made you what you are today

Ciao!

Correction again; I am your jiminy cricket. You need to face the truth about yourself.

dare2differ:
You grew up with loads of them

And yes! you are self-serving

Correction again; (you are sounding like a broken record) I played the field with a lot of them in my oat sowing days as a young man, which is why i recognize you as one. It was a good game while it lasted, but i got bored after a while. I can't stand shallow plastic people. My feelings aside, if you are great or do something great, i will always compliment you for it.

dare2differ:
You must have loads of jealous and vindictive women around you

I don't give a crap about what they are


I know better than to believe a self-serving 'fact'

Correction; I don't have loads of jealous and vindictive women around me. I only have one whom i have been with for 15 years. We are not even from the same tribe. Yes, she is fracking beautiful and classy, but she is a tree alone in a forest. An anomaly. Even she agrees with me. I am open minded and give credit to whoever credit is due which is why i hold the opinion i have.

dare2differ:
Nooo, I thought you were blind ni o

Need to settle this. I kinda feel you are a woman. Only women exibit this jealous, vindictive denial when another female is complimented. And if you are a guy, bros, how far na?

dare2differ:
Tell me more about how they are the classiest

keep deceiving yourself

You have eyes don't you?

It is unfortunate the north is the way it is. They have the absolutely classiest women in Nigeria by far.

989900:
That was in response to you asking me a 'senseless' question which you have no way to verify . . . you get the drift?

Actually in some cases there is. Your profession is sometimes the easiest way to do so. You can't be a desk jockey and criticize a soldier. You are not qualified. That is the point.

Ohammadike:
Wike as usual is making rivers state people proud

By doing what is expected of him? Nigerians are too easily dazzled.

mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

You know, there are some questions that need not be asked. It is same as asking "is it ok for a christian to be a corrupt politician"?

989900:
Seriously? The bravest thing I've done? I killed 2 male Bengal tigers with bare hands. And last week, I searched the length and breadth of Sambisa looking for Shekau and his goons, but they went hiding when they heard I was in town (sorry, bush).

Read the links below, it will help you.

https://www.facebook.com/changemovementng/posts/632603186870187

https://www.facebook.com/BacladTvOnlineEntertainment/posts/582169915174069

I wish magazines like "TELL" keep archives online, you would have had a lot to read about how things went down during those periods.

Your write up makes no sense. I have not said that being a coward is a good thing. All i have said is not to call another person a coward especially if you don't do the job he does. It is very easy for people to be computer warriors and criticize others.