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Few days ago there was a trend as to why ladies in their 30s are still single..It is only in Nigeria we see it as a big deal when a lady is single at 30+, forgetting that there are lots of single men at 30+ and above,we are all humans trying to strive and make it in life and I thank God that gone are the days were ladies solely depend on men for their needs, now we are all working towards being a supportive wife.. I have seen so many married men with happy families in their late 20s. For NLders living abroad you will affirm that most foreign guys at 27,28 have already started their own families. Few days ago a 39yrs old man asked for my hands in marriage, the first thing that came to my mind was why is he still single? It's questionable too.. men keep blaming ladies for being single and calling them all sort of names, why are you also still single at 30+ so many guys younger than you are married. I feel men marry late because at a certain age all they do is waste their energy on ladies, exploring different when they are supposed to build their careers once they are in their late 20s it strikes them they'll need to settle down and that's only when they begin to take their life seriously.. oya why are some men single at 30+

because I have seen few guys foolishly fall in love with Ashewos

Godson201333: AWWW So true but pls how come you know so much about dee ashawos??

Ashewos are even the ones that fall in love the most, they go extra miles in caring for a man, they are the type that when the man wakes he meets his water ready for bath, food, hot sex, even clothe the man and supports him financially, that's there logo ... pls flee because after marriage they'll bring out the animal in them again

Men are babies,ladies use the nagging approach instead of putting up verbal fights, and once the man notice there is a change of attitude that's a caring and sensible one doe, he comes around and tries to find out what's wrong...

That's if it's not even a cooked up story.. dint he realise that before getting engaged and planning to marry her.. rubbish talk

Nomski0: I dont think you should waste precious time advising him, its obvious he's just too young to get married. A sensible man ready for marriage will look beyond outer beauty.......what's her relationship with your parents? Do her kisses set you on fire? Does she have a good heart? Does she make your brains fry in bed? Will she make a good mother? Can she keep your home and keep you happy?
I dont know much about marriage but i know these are some of the things to look for in a wife not if she's prettier than the next girl that passes by you.;
Beauty fades, character sticks.

But if a woman nags to men its not a way of expressing her emotions.... Quote author=masonkz]The last thing I'd ever wanna deal with in a relationship.


I think some people are attracted to nagging BFs/GFs though. In the heat of the nagging, you can just grab him and shut him up with a kiss

It is nagging to you, but to him, it's just a way of voicing out his fears/worries/insecurities. I guess he has to learn how to handle emotions better.[/quote]

The scripture says it's better to sleep on the roof top than share a bed with a nagging wife. Women are known to nag a lot but the rate at which some men nag now adays is so scary. My ex was a professional nag, I had to quit for this reason and I watch so many of my female friends in a relationship with a nagging boyfriend, they are always sad and don't wanna quit. I wanna know if there are ways to deal with a nagging bf and if there are ways to stop them frm nagging

I don't think education has any thing to do with this, there are more ladies in the society when compared to men, a single man can be in a relationship wit 5 ladies,till he drops 4 and marries one, the other 4 starts a new relationship and the time is ticking... where are the single ladies? now most ladies have to snatch some1's bf or share..And it's not advisable to just jump into marriage with anyone because of pressure... My point is men are simply the reasons so many ladies are single!

Da gr8tosyn: To my best of knowledge exposure can make or mar ladies of this generation, issue of environment and family back ground is a strongly influence in the Life of Ladies, making them to end up being Single parent; therefore Single Parent for example could easily make all female children grow up without fatherly love, atmosphere and believing it's interesting, and best to live as a single lady.

More so, it is not common for you to see a single lady at over 30years of age in most good homes where both parent exist. Please how do we correct the insanity of so many overdue (for marriage)single ladies and single parent in this part of the world, I strongly advice young ladies deviate from their mother’s believe( situation and condition) and come out different from the ways they are trained...?

Please what is your take on this topic?

Strange things they say won’t stop happening, so strange that sometimes you wonder if rapture isn’t so close.

Just this morning, someone drew my attention to this unbelievable story on another blog and i quickly checked…Low and behold, what i came across was a true shocker…The young dude who goes by the name Odi Dollars shared pictures of his believed scary shrine, bulk of dollars, several foreign currencies and many more on facebook….To verfiy this story on his facebook page, please keep reading, there’s a link at the end of this post for redirection.

Lets make this brief, below are the pictures that we were able to gather but what we can’t ascertain is if the young man named Odi Dollars is a spiritualist or yahoo boy….It will interest you that Odi Dollars according to his facebook page resides in Ijebu Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria.

If you think its a joke here is the url to his facebook account: https://www.facebook.com/odi.dollars

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/gist/photosmillionaire-youngster-post-pictures-of-his-ritual-shrine-bulk-of-dollars-other-currencies-on-facebook/

Probably she has added some weight ard her belly area, heard d beads help burn fats ard d belly..

No1 is talking abt paid sex here. Lots of men feel sex is dre right in a relationship and somehow so many ladies one wayy or d oda may end up needing d help of dre bf,and once she ask shez termed as being materialistic or term it to paid sex like most of u are.. A matured man anyway shld b able to fix @least little of his woman's problem and not just d man, it's a vice versa tin!!!

scribble: lol. i dont know why most men do it, but a lot of women too love premarital sex. infact my present girlfriend is the reason im always sinning. she doesnt get money in exchange though. infact she's very supportive to me too, like a real relationship we are both giving of ourselves.

this money for sex thing is a nigerian woman and corrupt politician/businessman created construct. Naija girls like sex too, so dont go with the premarital sex argument. it just makes u look silly. naija women just learnt that men will pay for what they enjoy doing anyway, so its a win-win-win for y'all

Cosmass: Is there anything I can do to convince him about the age? That I am willing to work with him. I have tried everything but still to no avail. He said the age difference would always be there. He is 12 years older than I am. It hurts so much because he said he liked me a lot, we connected but the age difference would always be at the back of his mind. I am so hurt. Wish I could do something different.
I already have my degree and if he wants to settle, I am willing but all to no avail.

that boyfriend of urs was neva in love wit u or he had a serious relationship all along,most guys even prefer ladies that are more younger, and since ure done wit uni, he has no excuse...if u had been watchful all along u would av noticed some moves

Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait

scribble: Lol. Remember one Nigerian celeb that said her mother told her to be prostituting herself. The same with Joseph Yobo's wife now. Lol! May God give Nigerian women wisdom. I know some women from afar and I pity the men who will settle down with them. A super story really. Tragic!

This is fair enough

Nomski0: Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex.

Sex nor money doesnt define a good relationship.

Henhen, You want her to LOVE you without MONEY,Can you LOVE her without SEX? Did i hear you say money is not love? please help me ask if sex is love

It means u rush doing that tin, u nid 2 take it slow and spend more time on pre-intimacy :p

Asides d financial factor, single men are also d reason why Single ladies date married men... Nigeria/ African men treat ladies badly, and they have dis annoying ego, they treat ladies badly simply because there are lots of ladies out dre and they forget dis, d same way we ladies are skeptical about men, dre are millions of bad ladies all ova town, and infact majorities of ladies are bad dis days, and d good ones are treated badly, and d worst feeling Eva is rejection and always having to beg some ego headed retarted boy.. then ladies end up screwing married men,cos most times they know exactly how to treat ladies and are always dre emotionally.. men should learn to treat women wit respect, if u love ur woman, show her love and she won't b out chasing a married man... its not always about money..

Kasalx: Personally,i cheat atimes though my conscience blames me after such.However,i have observed that these days a lot of single ladies prefer dating married men than even the single men.I have toasted some ladies which fell in love, and i have never fail to tell them that i am married,yet they will say no problem,that it wont affect my union.They will even guide you on how it will be done so that your wife will not catch or suspect us.laugh!.Another funny thing again about these ladies are that they will even at a point of having fun with them,saying that they are praying to get a good husband.I will ask myself,which kind world are we?,this one is chopping another womans di.ck and still saying that she is praying or that her pastor give her prayer points about getting married.Chop and clean mouth!.There is this one i m moving with and i later found that she had another married man she is dating and from cross examination she has been dating for years.I had gone to some places like clubs,etc and so you will see many young ladies fighting for one married man or the other.Why do most single ladies prefer dating married man to the extent that its now very common these days.

I am a yoruba girl and the most common love/pet names i hear are Ifemi ,Ayomi and Idunumi .Almost every yoruba girl calls dre beau this way. I am wondering if there are any other pet names in yoruba language and would love to learn what other tribes call their beau..

Getting married is a big deal, that is why it is important to follow this list of things to discuss before marriage. Covering these topics will ensure that you and your future husband have an understanding of what each of you want for the future. This list covers everything from children to money to who’s doing the dishes Friday night.

1. CHILDREN:It is natural to think about children as you are planning a wedding. Marriage means starting a family, even if “Family” for you doesn't include having kids. Before you get married you need to discuss if you will have children, how many kids you want, will you adopt, and when you will start growing your family if you are having children. Don’t go into your marriage thinking that you can change each other’s mind. It’s not fair to expect a man to father children he doesn’t want or to deny him children. If this is the case you would both be happier with someone else.

2. MONEY:Life cost money. There is no denying that, which is why money is one thing to discuss before marriage. It’s important that both of you have an understanding on how to handle money. You also need to decide if you will keep separate bank accounts or join together. You should also discuss who is going to pay the bills and how much money you will save each month?


3. FAMILY:Have you met his family yet? Do you like them? Now is the time to figure out how you will handle your families and where you will lay boundaries. It’s insane to enter a marriage and think that his parents or your parents aren’t going to try to interfere at some point.

4. GOALS: Does he know what your future goals are? Do you know his? If you are career minded and plan to put all you have into work for the next 5 years so you can get a certain promotion or make a certain amount of money he needs to know this. You also need to know how his goals of quitting his current job to become a wedding singer are going to affect your life.

5. WHERE ARE YOU LIVING?:What’s the plan after you get married? Maybe you already live together and that takes out some of need to discuss before marriage, but you may still want to know how long do you plan to stay in your current home or if you need to start saving up to buy a house in the near future.

6. RELIGION:Believe it or not but religion is a very important thing to discuss before marriage. Chances are if you guys come from different religious backgrounds the topic has come up more than once. Figure out before you get married how you will celebrate religious holidays and handle any religious differences.

7. SECRETS:Secrets are another thing to let go of. If you think there might be a nude picture of you floating around out there from an ex-boyfriend or a job you held that you aren’t so proud of, tell him. It’s always best to come clean than to live worrying about it slipping out. How horrible would it be for your husband to find out at a party with all his friends that you use to dress as a clown at little kids’ birthday parties?


8. FAITHFULNESS :You would think that taking a vow to love one another unconditionally would sum up each other ideas on faithfulness, but that isn’t always the case. Some people really do believe that if you are different area codes it’s okay to mess around. Know for sure you are on the same page when it comes to faithfulness before taking the walk down the aisle.

9. VALUES:Everyone has their own set of values. While most values don’t differ too much one thing to discuss before marriage is what values are most important to each of you. Then you can decide what values you will share as a family.

10. SHOWING LOVE:We all receive love differently. Some people feel more loved when you give them a compliment or constantly reassure them of your love. Others see love as action. Find out what things you can do for each other to show you love one another.

11. CHORES:Didn’t think chores were a thing to discuss before marriage? Trust me it’s a talk you absolutely want to have. You need to be clear on what your expectations are on keeping the house clean. Decide who is responsible for what chores now, so everyone knows who is at fault when the trash hasn’t been taken out and the toilet is filthy.

12. BUDGET:It’s not enough to just discuss your finances. You also need to work out a budget together. This budget should cover all your bills, create a plan to pay off any debt, and save for the future. A good budget will clearly state how much money is left over each month to spend on personal items.

13. QUALITY TIME:Another thing to consider discussing before marriage is how you will spend quality time together. Don’t forget to plan date nights and special ways to appreciate each other.

14. PARENTING:If you have decided to have children you also need to discuss how you will parent. There are many different parenting styles. Some parents are stricter while other parents let things slide. There isn’t a right or wrong it’s just an important thing to know before marriage

15. HOW TO FIGHT:Do you know how to fight fair? Discuss before marriage how you can approach problems without getting ugly. Also figure out what topics are hot buttons that should be avoided in order to fight fair

16. FORGIVENESS:How will you forgive each other after an argument? Do you know what acts he considers unforgivable or may make it extremely hard for him to forgive you wholeheartedly? Find out these sort of things now.

17. TRUST:Can you trust each other? Are there certain things that he doesn’t trust you with right now? How can you get that trust back? Discuss before marriage any trust issues you have with each other.

18.JEALOUSY:Jealousy can be a huge downfall in any relationship. If you are a jealous person let him know that. Tell him the things that make you jealous and how he can avoid those things are help you get through them.

As you can see there are many things to discuss before marriage. Don’t let these topics scar you off about getting married. It’s just important that you and your future husband have a full understanding of one another. What are some other important things to discuss before marriage?

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/relationship/things-to-discuss-with-him-before-marriage/

G.O.O.D Music artiste, D’Banj popularly called Kokomaster is the new ambassador of the Bank of Industry, Nigeria.

The afrobeats singer on Tuesday made the announcement via his Twitter handle, @iam_dbanj.

He shared a picture where he was with the Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of the bank, Ms Evelyn Oputu.

D’banj is a Nigerian entertainer signed to Kanye West’s international G.O.O.D Music label. He is also the CEO of DB Records.


SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/gist/bank-of-industry-signs-dbanj-as-new-ambassador/

Popular musician Asa just survived an accident in Nashville, USA, some hours ago.

She took to the social media platform, twitter, to narrate how she survived the accident.

According to the musician, she was taking a walk and had to cross an intersection when a car, which driver wasn’t looking, hit and sent her flying.
She had padded her butt which eased her landing.

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/celebrity/asa-survives-accident-in-nashville/

It all seemed like a joke when sometime last year American-based Nigerian actress, Judith Opara Mazagwu, popularly known as AfroCandy, called for actors and actresses who could fit into nude roles.

This call got mixed reactions from the public but it did not stop the producers of movies like Room 027 and Bold 5 Babes.

Fans of controversial actress, Tonto Dikeh, showed their disdain when they saw her in two different soft pornography movies. But the actress defended herself in an online interview, where she said, “Only the ignorant and pretentious souls would criticise this lovely movie. It is a film, it’s a job that has to be done. I accepted the script because when I see a good film in the making, I appreciate it.

“What everyone has seen is just a trailer and we all know trailers are supposed to be fun-filled so as to attract viewers. So, it’s allowed to be called a soft porn at this stage. That movie is the deepest story line I’ve ever read. It’s a movie most people can identify with: I love and appreciate all the hype around this movie.”

There has been the noticeable increase in the degree of nudity now accommodated in some of the recently released movies in the country.
In their defense the actors points at globalization and desire to meet international standard as a motivation for concentrating on this feature.

The Film and Video Censors Board have said such films will not be allowed to circulate in the country, unfortunately the producers of these movies are taken advantage of these online platforms and also find a way of getting them into the open market.

The chairman Film Markets Association, Norbert Ajaegbu said movies with these features leave the self like hot cake.

The president of the Association of Movie Producers, Zik Zulu Okafor has said a writer or producer has a right of expression but in Nollywood “we don’t encourage erosion of our core values”.

Speaking on Channels Television News At Ten, Mr Zulu explained that Nollywood as a body is currently working on the council (Motion Picture Practitioner Council of Nigeria) which has not been in place yet.

He said that what is established right now is only the Guild system, “there is no authority behind that” (the content) and therefore they are not able to control it. He left to that is the National Film and Video Censored Board.

He added that the online platform has to be checked and a lot of people are doing “shortcut” in releasing their films and they avoid the censored board.

Mr. Zulu said the censored board is raiding the market looking for producers who release movies without being censored
“A lot of these films come from Ghana because in Nigeria we are sensitive”.

He maintained the fact that “movies that contain nudity did not pass through censored board”.

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/entertainment/nollywood-producer-says-films-with-pornographic-scenes-didnt-pass-through-censors-board/

I bliv in God and signs, but dis looks like something that was written by some1, nothing fascinating about dis

thundey95: Yesterday Morning in Osogbo the capital of Osun State, a weird, sign and wonders of God display itself on a rock called Abesu rock in Osogbo, the place was known to be dirty place where most people used for dumping of refuse and sewages, and where some touts usually smoke indian hemp, it was one boy who want to go and drop the refuse and heard a voice saying he should not dump refuse that the place is a holy place, he rushed home to his parents and when they come back they saw an Arabic written on the rock "ALLAHU" many people were rushed there to view the wonder of God, even Mr. Ogbeni Aregbesola was also there..........................God is great

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Y!Naija boss, Chude Jideonwo on Monday gave props to starboy and ‘Pakurumo’ crooner, Wizkid for reconciling with his label, Empire Mates Entertainment; comparing him to D’banj and stating that he is ‘wiser.’

In the past year, several musicians have created buzz in the music industry with their departure from their record label where they broke through.

D’banj, Wizkid, MayD and Eva top the list of this estranged relationship.

Wizkid caused tongues to wag after removing EME from his Twitter account. He also did not use the EME label name on his video ‘The Matter’.

Eventually he reconciled with label boss, Banky W.

This singular act seems to have won the respect and admiration of many including Chude Jideonwo, who took to twitter to let his thoughts known.

It’s really surprising that (in re-connecting with EME), Wizkid has shown more wisdom than D’banj “ he tweeted, referring to the Wizkid’s return to EME and yet floating his own record label; StarBoy, which is already signing a number of musicians.

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/entertainment/wizkid-is-wiser-than-dbanj-chude-jideonwo/

Fuji musician King Wasiu Ayinde aka Kwam 1 was spotted in Bahamas this week, where else would he have chosen for a perfect holiday!

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/gist/photo-of-the-day-king-wasiu-ayinde-marshal-spotted-in-bahamas/

According to an insider who claims to have lived with the ex couples for years sent a letter to Stella Dimorkus yesterday. Read the email below:

Hello,

I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about.

I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO I CAN TELL YOU FACTS! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.

Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and "insults".

I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.

Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, "Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top". He did everything in his power to put her her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris' films. HE CAN'T. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like ONITEMI and OMO IYA KAN. The marketer named EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her....quote me or ask EPSALUM.

Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband's passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn't want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a STEADY home with a young and successful guy...ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance. That's what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it ALL over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. NEVER!

For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would NEVER hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!

One thing that the world never know was how much both families NEVER wanted them to get married. Doris' parents didn't like Daniel and Daniel's mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.

Now, the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do.

He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did.

I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very "Oyinbo-ish" because that's who he has always been.

At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn't mind.

The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn't do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he was about his wife but really....is lack of sex enough to ruin a marriage?

Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend ALEX EFFIONG who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of Nollywood View and 'LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA the singer. That's how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that's why he took drastic steps to talk to people.

I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.

What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn't even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left!

While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of "What people would say".
Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work.

Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon's home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.

When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic....I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all.

There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything...they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!

Look for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl BLESSING that DORIS brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER WANTED THE GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel's son DAVID! WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT

If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris...find out and ASK HER TOO!

All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was BITTER and SOUR! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because STELLA DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS' MARRIAGE. Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I'm lying, let them challenge me.

I am ... JMK.

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/gist/daniel-ademinokan-dumps-ex-wife-doris-simeon-for-stella-damasus-over-boring-sex-life-insider-reveals/

Dont mind her, shameless

emilyone: hmmm... ride on Madam husband snatcher! Pason taa fi nan iyale, o nbe loke aja.

“I Am Not As silly As You Think” STELLA DAMASUS Replies Bloggers And Journalist

Unedited memo from Stella Damasus:

I have been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled with gossip, scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday and I will not allow other human beings steal my joy regardless.

I choose to enjoy my life because I know I deserve it. Nobody went through my own trying times with me and I did not go through any with others.

When God decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.

Truth is, I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has gist on everybody.

I realized that when I write blogs and articles about important information, encouragement, education and positive things, only twenty percent out of a hundred actually read it and leave comments. The other eighty percent jump at the gossip and scandals and then start to ask me stupid questions. These are people who have not communicated with me in ages but all of a sudden they feel the need to profess undying friendship and a listening ear. The fact that they believe I have the time or energy to respond to the most trivial issues baffles me.

Let me repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as you think”

source:http://abidemionline.com/gist/i-am-not-as-stupid-as-you-think-stella-damasus-replies-bloggers-and-journalists/

During the week,I was forced to talk with Jim Iyke who called me from Ghana and couldn't confirm nor deny that both him (Jim Iyke) and Keturah Hamilton are still together. Officially,I can confirm from Ms Hamilton that their six years relationship has finally hit the rock! Sad as it is,this is the undeniable truth!

She gave him six good years of her life,calls him 'My Husband',as a super model,she worshipped him like a god. In my yet to be published interview with Jim,he called her 'My soul mate' and showered praises on her. He was planning to move to New York to live with her in January and now,the highly publicized relationship between Keturah Hamilton and Jim Iyke is over.
For Keturah Hamilton,she felt used,duped,framed up and dumped.
According to the soft spoken Keturah Hamilton,their relationship has been on the brink of collapse since the beginning of the year,what shocked her most was the fact that Jim framed her up in his latest reality show.
I had spoken with Keturah when she drew my attention to the Youtube video now making waves online. When I asked her to explain the role she played,l she said Jim asked her to play that role. When I confronted Jim on this allegation,he made it categorically clear he never asked her to do so.
Keturah felt,Jim framed her up in other to give her a bad name. This I also ask Jim who denied she was framed up. I shall bring you a video response of my interview with Keturah on Loud in USA this weekend.
Remain tuned.

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/gist/jim-ikye-part-ways-with-long-term-girlfriendketurah-hamilton/

R&B singer Banky W is among the elected distinguished speakers at this year’s edition of the Oxford University Pan Africa.

He will be representing Nigeria once again at the annual Pan African Conference which will hold on Saturday, May 4, 2013 at the Oxford Union in Oxford, London.

Others included to speak at the conference are former US Presidents, The Dalai Lama, David Cameron, Senator John McCain among others.

The Oxford University Pan African Conference since its inception has been the foremost gathering of African students in the United Kingdom. In partnership with the Oxford Union, The conference brings together hundreds of dynamic scholars, entrepreneurs, activists, and political leaders from around the world.

Mr Wellington will be speaking on the importance of current cultural shifts and changes in artistic expression. He will also discuss the rise of a vibrant media industry and how these changes are shaping the continent’s self-perception and its image abroad.

source:http://abidemionline.com/celebrity/banky-w-former-us-presidents-to-speak-at-oxford-university-conference/