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I am NOT married, I have a mother and married sisters and yes of cos I know what they go tru, I may not comment much on d family post, I read and learn frm dis session everyday.. You may call me office wife if u wanna but sorry 2 dissapoint u,nothing is going on btw my boss and I,worked wit him 4 5yrs now,i'll neva b a party to home wrecking, I have no reason 2do so.. I hate dirts,people looking unkempt. My boss once mentioned "my room always look untidy"its not abt d woman now,d way a man looks can give a brief idea of how d home looks.. oh Pls some men cheat cos their wife ain't tidy.. my boss travels and gets me gifts wats d biggie in a shirt, we were 2 av an important meeting looking untidy during a presentation to our clients HELLL NO!! Take care of ur husbands and let's see d touch of d wife on him and kudos to guys that endevour to take good care of themselves some men are just nonchalant when it comes to their looks and why do they av a wife at home... *drops mic* quote author=soul_glo]

First of all he is a grown man and if he chooses to go out that way then so be it. Secondly you need to mind your business. Thirdly men will not forever be babies. That is an insult to a grown man. Buying shirts for a man, taking him to the barber etc is over stepping. It's just a bad look for you. You sit at work and criticize how a married man and his wife lives. Office wife. Basically you do not handle the daily responsibilities of a wife yet you are giving her advice. If you are married, does your husband know you are buying shirts and grooming another man.[/quote]

Men will forever b babies and need care. I'm not married,i see some married men leave for work looking unkempt, unshaven beards and co.. it's so pathetic. Using my boss as a case study, he is wealthy buh OMG he comes to work most times looking un cared for and I wonder if his wife saw him leave d house, most times I have to say oga ur beards I Tink u shld shave and I always end up accompanying him 2d salon, some times I hold myself and not talk,den b4 closing hrs i'll ask him 2 shave b4 coming to work 2morrow, d finger nails too long and some times he comes 2 work wit dirty shirt, today I was so disgusted I had to go get him a new shirt and requested he shld change Wat he was wearing cos he'll b having a very important meeting.. on several occasions he even eats out b4 going home to meet his wife and kids,obviously he knows he won't meet food at home and Shez a full time house wife. This is so unfair.. later some women will b. hitting dre heads on d wall saying they have a cheating husband, dis little tins matter.. let ur husband leave d house wit a feeling hez got a wife at home I beggg!!!

I'll choose a cheating partner ova a stingy one, dat stingy one may even b cheating

I see no reason why she should tell him..... it's her past and some things r better untold.. we all have secrets dis is not a complicated secret like not having a womb, especially d guy being d type dat kips using what Shez said against her....

A treat to Dubai and propose on d plane it's more Romantic,lotta people might not b on burj khalifa buh d plane wit lotta people would do

My parents neva hit me while growing. My mum always cut off my hair wit scissors while I am sleeping, that was my punishment, my hair was what I liked most about myself and she always used Dat against me...

eddyland: Mek I no lie o, my mum beats and flogs us like hell as growing up children. Infact sometimes she even use comb or spoon to nak person, for me I will say that my mum enjoys beating. My dads own then were my elder brothers that he always handles, he will tell them to lie down on our palour table, because he has this koboko that he always hang in his room, he will just bring it out and lash the hell out of my brothers buttocks. I learnt that some parents even use broom to nak their kids, share your own flogging experience that you received from your parents as a naughty or mischievous growing up child.

My eyes keep roaming especially when service ends and every1 goes out.... hehe am sure some dudes will have their eyes on my bum [quote author=y-fo]why u staring while in church



and while u staring @ others, some dudes would be checking u from behind ....just saying[/quote]

Like u don't know men, at first sight, they know how far they can go wit a lady [quote author=Mynd_44]Same thing I was wondering[/quote]

Indeed i'll join in saying thank God for Nigeria.. Our men are the most sought after all ova d world, those living abroad can testify to this, so annoying on how they run after our men..And our ladies are the most beautiful in good proportion in Africa.. Ethiopians have beautiful women too but in a Gathering of 20 ladies u'll pick only 2 beautiful ones buh common in a gathering of 20 nigerian women I can beat my chest to 12 beautiful ones.. Worship in christ embassy or Day star u'll get what i'm saying.. I am a lady, my jaw drops open and I stare... quote author=Emmy9ite] This is absolutely hilarious! see stroking! Thank God for Naija o![/quote]

This is 100% true.. Kenyans are so ugly and so un presentable. Other nationalities that have been to Kenya especially nairobi have d same comment, on dre busy road foreigners avoid them like plague,they look like mad people walking on the streets.. Out of 20 kenyan ladies hardly would u see a pretty one even d pretty one would av one disgusting figure. God forgive me, they are just too ugly

You all keep analysing why a woman/man is still single.. it's simple they haven't found d bone of their bone and flesh of dre flesh, all dis damn rule, principles nd analysis is just by d way, when u find d man/woman 4u so many tins won't matter.!!!

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OXCUBA: why are you not sure? Does your husband or boyfriend wear bead on their waist when the pull of their cloth?

My dear u better bliv.. married women also cheat, but d ones wit their husbands far away are more vulnerable. Even d ones with husbands at home have their fantasies that might get fulfilled when they get d chance. A married male friend of mine( was my childhood friend b4 nairlanders tink oda wise) had a female neighbour Whoz husband was away, she kept bringing meals 4 my friend, offered herself freely to d guy,normal he fell but felt remorse after d act, he started avoiding d woman but she kept calling and crying ova anoda woman's husband, nd my friend is d churchie type he felt soo bad he has sinned and cheated on d wife so he told me, few days later we were 2geda d lady called I had to pick d call and warned her to back off and told her how shameless she was, dat was how I saved my friend from d woman..

Babiloko: i dnt biliv it

Guess Ms_Steph just fell in ١٥٧٤ with some1 online.. it cld works or fail like every normal relationship..

Haahaha that's so impossible..

carlos1: Wat about girls that wear one sanitary pad for one week ?

Why hitting on her,she started wit some bad habits peculiar too ladies

joeace2020: abeg tell herl...... ladies wit their low self esteem and over righteous attitudes.

13)Asides wearing dirty stockings,some men have smelly shoes.. OMG when some pull their shoes U'll begin to look 4 d dead rat in d house, and worst is they won't spread those shoes, try correcting d guy they'll feel insulted..

Even our righteousness is a filthy rag before God.. by Grace he forgives us and doesn't count our sins against us.. he paid d highest price by giving up what he loved the most, u do not need to struggle with sin. When D holy spirit is in you he guides u and u find yourself doing tins right. You can't say u wanna consciously avoid sin that's d work of d holy spirit.

Krasid: There are a lot of things that can make one commit sin in our world today.Sometimes, I make up my mind not to commit sin, but end up doing so.This makes me feel that going a day without commiting sin is inevitable, but is it possible not to commit sin for an entire day?

Rob a bank in Kuwait

She has a spiritual problem and needs deliverance

Sex and Food and ure in his heart!!!

I learnt to stay on top of my game, don't love too much or even if u do conceal it cos guys tend to take it 4 granted.. d person dat expresses d love most/ sacrifices more is d most vulnerable to heartbreak

Well 100% real nd at d long run I was blamed 4 not being involved in a sexual relationship wit him...

duffie: Is this for real?




And I thought my case was the worst, my dear I can feel your pain by reading this.
It's all this p.orn these guys watcch that maakes them want to experiment everything..

because a Nigerian lady would probably not do that.. 4my ex screw him nd if u knw kenyans well U'll cuzz dem

Skinni10ne: If kenyan ladies are b's, then what is your ex? Why insult kenyan women cuz of 1 lady, when u should be cussing ur ex?

Why do some women blame the other woman?

Hmmmmm,I passed d nyt in my ex's house,his friends came in frm d club nd brought a kenyan lady 2 d house they all had group sex and my ex also joined them while I was sleeping.. I dint know till I heard frm my friends in Uni.. I was so embarrassed and had to call off d relationship... Kenyan ladies are just bitches!!!

One simple answer, men of dis days are just silly and not trust worthy, we are afraid to start flaunting different men frm time to time and of cos naija's mentality they'll kip counting d men 4 us.. if a man has taken his time to build d confidence of d lady she won't have a problem flaunting her man, it has to do wit how committed d man is